I'm a sex pest

I'm only interested in talking to girls. When in a social settings, I have no interested in talking in group settings, I just want to talk to a girl alone. When I have to talk to men, all I really want to talk about is the women, like 'what's her name', 'does she have a boyfriend', 'I want to talk about something with that girl from last night, but I forgot to ask for her number, can you give me it?". Obviously though I avoid this behaviour because I might come across as a creep and create resentment from jealous men.

How do I overcome this or, preferably, how do I embrace this more perfectly so I can get more women while avoiding negative consequences?

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Sounds like just the kind of question you should be exploring with your psychologist

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Do you mean a therapist, or is owning your own personal psychologist the new rung on the ladder of staying in the shrinking middle-class that no one told me about?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        A therapist is a generic term for counsellors, psychologists and psychiatrists. Counsellors, which include psychotherapists, aren't qualified for shit and should be avoided. A psychiatrist is overkill, no medication necessary here. A psychologist is the right professional for this situation.

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >sex pest

    No, you mean you’re a normal Man.

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    just find your girls outside your social settings.
    I do daygame aka cold approach.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      it's incredibly cringy that these things have names, and especially that they're "game-ified" for the average nerd lmao

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Id say just become the man that gets the girls numbers and talks to them one on one. That way you dont have to ask other guys anything about the girls youre interested in. So maybe a little more confidence so you can just ask the girls straight up for yourself. Cut the men out of the equation completely.

      >I have no interested in talking in group settings
      Then you're not a sex pest, you're a gay. Imagine not flirting with a group of girls.
      >does she have a boyfriend
      That's a loser move, it's irrelevant if a girl has a bf or not. Show her (or tell her if your body language skills suck) that she should be showing sexual interest. Maybe she does, maybe she doesn't, boyfriend is irrelevant.
      >how do I embrace this more perfectly so I can get more women while avoiding negative consequences?
      Anyone who wishes to avoid negative consequences is a failure who's not going to make it.
      Try instead "How do I increase my odds of success?" or "How do I best create and grab opportunities?" or something that suggest the goal to get stuff instead of the fear of failure.

      Why are you encouraging this behaviour? Are you all mental ill?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Seething ugly foid

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Sounds like you need to get laid and just chill out and stop making how horny you are your entire personality

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Why is it that most of my male friends are in this phase though. Most of them literally have just getting a girlfriend as their sole and main life goal ATM. It's all they talk about. Like fair enough if you wanna, that's normal, but it can't be the only fricking thing you aspire to achieve in your life? Surely? It should be like a sidequest. Im 21 for the record

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I agree it should be a sidequest.
        But honestly after being 10 years with my husband, he's the most important person in my life, and will only be 2nd to our kids. So I don't really blame people for putting the search for the right partner as their main priority

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >I have no interested in talking in group settings
    Then you're not a sex pest, you're a gay. Imagine not flirting with a group of girls.
    >does she have a boyfriend
    That's a loser move, it's irrelevant if a girl has a bf or not. Show her (or tell her if your body language skills suck) that she should be showing sexual interest. Maybe she does, maybe she doesn't, boyfriend is irrelevant.
    >how do I embrace this more perfectly so I can get more women while avoiding negative consequences?
    Anyone who wishes to avoid negative consequences is a failure who's not going to make it.
    Try instead "How do I increase my odds of success?" or "How do I best create and grab opportunities?" or something that suggest the goal to get stuff instead of the fear of failure.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      If making a pass at every woman that crosses my path makes me not gay then I guess I'm the gayest mf on the earth, despite me exclusively liking pussy

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Id say just become the man that gets the girls numbers and talks to them one on one. That way you dont have to ask other guys anything about the girls youre interested in. So maybe a little more confidence so you can just ask the girls straight up for yourself. Cut the men out of the equation completely.

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Maybe first jerk off and realize that having sex with a woman 95% of the time won't feel any better than what you just did. Then get a life

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Damn. I'd never tell on myself this bad

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Ok incel, keep living your life putting sex and by extension women on a pedestal even though the actual value from sex comes from the bonding and physical connection that you experience with the woman you love, rather than the actual frick. But you do you.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Nah. I just meant about getting pussy feeling the same as jerking off.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Well for most men it feels worse since they jerk off to porn (bad enough) with gradual pushing of the red line (moving into stuff like anal, abuse etc...) and death grip on top of all of that. It's like a person who's only ate McDonald's and Twinkies all their lives sitting down for a home cooked, organic homegrown meal. They won't be in the place to appreciate it since they're fricked up

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Well for most men
            Yeah you have a source for that or are you trying to apply your anecdotal experience on the majority of the entire male gender?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I'm a woman

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Then why are you speaking on behalf of pp havers? Unless you're a "woman".

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