im an 18 year old virgin cis girl, my only serious relationship where i wasnt being groomed and taken advantage of has been online with my (now ex) bo...

im an 18 year old virgin cis girl, my only serious relationship where i wasnt being groomed and taken advantage of has been online with my (now ex) boyfriend of 3 years who just broke up with me,i barely graduated high school this month with the lowest grades possible in most classes and all i do is play video games and work my minimum wage job in retail. am i doomed? i have no desire to go to school, and i dont have the money for it either. im not very talented in any viable fields, and im definitely not the smartest. i want to move away from my family, they are suffocating to live with but its just impossible. sometimes i wish i was as delusional as the other girls around me whose biggest worry is something really stupid and shallow. im sure you all will be no help but im curious about the response ill get

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    And what’s stopping you from pimping out your own c**t on onlyfans or with a sugar daddy? Pride?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      the only thing worse than being an internet bawd is being a failed internet bawd

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I’d say the only thing worse is starvation and listlessness, but yeah, don’t actually become a prostitute. Idk dude you got a lot of time and you’re a woman. If you eat somewhat right and exercise, and also maybe cloak your autism, you’ll have scores of dudes who want to pay your way.

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    could you get a trade of some sort? take the initiative and do some research, make a plan and talk to your parents. I'd think they'd view it as responsible and help you or point you in the right direction. As for the bf thing I can't help you there... I don't know what you look like but I'm sure you don't look all that bad and can fix yourself if you need fixing. if not thin it's a matter of fixing your attitude or whatever else

    (talking outta my ass here. I turn 19 on Friday and I've never held hands romantically)
    Anyway like I said I don't know you so all this advice may be useless

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      i have a backup plan in case i lose my current job, but if this doesnt work i dont know what ill do. i dont have troubles with appearance, and im not fat either. i guess it boils down to the fact i have no motivation to do anything and i only ever wanted to do things for my boyfriend. im extremely unstable and borderline, its just difficult to be in a relationship with me in general until i can afford medication. as pathetic as it sounds i feel lost without him even though he didnt really do much for me

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >'Traditional woman or the absolute woman, in giving herself, in her living for another, in wanting to be only for another being with simplicity and purity fulfilled herself, belonged to herself, displayed her own heroism, and even became superior to ordinary men. Modern woman in wanting to be for herself has destroyed herself. The “personality” she so much yearned for is killing all semblance of female personality in her.' - Evola

        https://i.imgur.com/kl6bb93.png

        im an 18 year old virgin cis girl, my only serious relationship where i wasnt being groomed and taken advantage of has been online with my (now ex) boyfriend of 3 years who just broke up with me,i barely graduated high school this month with the lowest grades possible in most classes and all i do is play video games and work my minimum wage job in retail. am i doomed? i have no desire to go to school, and i dont have the money for it either. im not very talented in any viable fields, and im definitely not the smartest. i want to move away from my family, they are suffocating to live with but its just impossible. sometimes i wish i was as delusional as the other girls around me whose biggest worry is something really stupid and shallow. im sure you all will be no help but im curious about the response ill get

        I'd chalk up your aimlessness to being dumped. School is a scam, especially for men, but you might benefit from it, though again I don't fault anyone who can't learn under that structure. The best thing you could do is eat healthy, exercise, learn to manage money, reinvest the energy you put in games to something tangible (cooking, gardening, knitting, music, writing), and find a quality man.

        And what’s stopping you from pimping out your own c**t on onlyfans or with a sugar daddy? Pride?

        You're a pathetic little worm.

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Do volunteer work for an animal shelter/animal rescue group.

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    learn to code or do a trade, retail is shit. even waitressing at a high end restaurant would give you more money

    the poster above me had some really good advice

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Become a preschool assistant, optometrist assistant and or bakery assistant. Retail/grocery jobs are hell, if it's not the associates, it's the customers. Figure out a way to move towards your goals

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Finding a rich guy to take care of you sounds like the easy answer, have you excluded that option?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      As a guy with little motivation, I would do this if I was a woman, shit sounds cash. I would use dating apps and try to find guys who actually like me and I would never frick until like a month in.

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Sorry, but how were you groomed?
    To answer your question, I think you lack self esteem and this in turn leads you into being unable to advance on your own.

  8. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I like your profile picture OP. I think living with your family may be a mistake but it could be something that could help you if you learn to deal with them more easily. School is good up until a certain point. You may have difficulties, but a real difficulty if you are to be independent could be to be able to find what could be more or less tolerable for you, there. Taking a work inventory or test through a community college could be free and easy. You seem like you're sure of yourself, jaded, and in a fugue with the world all in one. I don't know if this will be solved easily by anything but time but there's always a chance, a pathway in the rough that can be found amidst all of the unmoving grey. I wish I still had all of the meme 4koma's from iichan

  9. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    There's got to be *something" you get fired up about. I used to know someone who was similarly hopeless about her future prospects at age 18. She eventually decided that because she liked animals so much, she would have a go at being a vet's assistant. She ended up enjoying that so much that she actually became a qualified veterinary nurse.

    I'm not saying that's the right career path for you, but there has to be *something* you enjoy or feel enthusiastic about. Have a think about what it is, and then think about what sort of job might involve it.

    As for your love life, you have plenty of time. Another woman I used to know went on her first ever date at the age of 40 and is now happily married. I doubt you'll have to wait that long(!) but even if you did, it still wouldn't be too late.

  10. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    why do you think youre so fricking special. youre not the only girlfailure.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      girlfailures feel free to hit me up

  11. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Aim to become proper wife material, and look for proper husband material.

  12. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    18 is way to young to be worried about it. Mfs on here are in their 30s. That’s when it’s over.

  13. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Get fit, dye your hair blonde, get surgery as needed, go on Ozempic, and then find a high value male. Really not that hard.

  14. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >cis girl
    1. You are a woman
    2. Stop using their words

  15. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >18
    >Am i doomed
    No, so long as you have a functional body and mind you literally cannot be doomed

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