I'm sick of approaching girls and finding out they have boyfriends.

I'm sick of approaching girls and finding out they have boyfriends. Is there a way to ask this upon meeting someone without coming across as weird?

Like bringing it up in the middle of a conversation without flat out asking "do you have a boyfriend'?

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  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Keep probing with normal questions until you find out, you know they can smell desperation right? Find an outlet to let out this frustration before you talk to a girl man. You need to literally "not care" but also "care", it's a balance. Too far into not caring, you're just going to attract clingy women. Too much into caring then you're just going to be either weird or become some kind of emotional shrink (which is not a bad outcome to get to know women and make female friends).

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >which is not a bad outcome to get to know women and make female friends
      That's part of the problem. I approach some of the women I do with the old 'be her friend first' tactic. Mostly because it's an easier and faster way to get to know her. Then eventually I get the boyfriend bomb dropped and it burns extra hard when it turns out we have a lot of stuff in common.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >I approach some of the women I do with the old 'be her friend first' tactic

        You are capable of speaking to women. Nice.
        Be direct instead of friendly.
        Women like direct men and are icked by machiavellian men. Simply as.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        moron, you don't befriend women. You let them know you're interested in a nuanced way. If the b***h has a bf or cares then she'll usually drop some comment about him or stop you dead before you start trying to push flirting onto her. I know plenty of women who bring up their bf right away because ill throw out some shit like going out or commenting on how/why I haven't seen them in awhile. Some women are legit clueless, but the majority pick up on your intent very quickly and usually they just want you to own up to it so they can either accept or deny you

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    If only there were some way to meet girls that you know are available and looking to date, maybe even an app or something.
    I guess you'll just have to keep approaching strangers until someone thinks of some way to filter them.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Those only work for those who are high tier attractive; not too useful for mids

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        This is cope. I have seen firsthand mid or ugly guys finding a gf online.
        Let's say you're right though. It would still be your fault for not making yourself more attractive to begin with. I doubt you're deformed, there's things here you could do.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          This is a cope. Not a single man ever got to meet any gf this way because there is no way to ever do it. Mathematically speaking there's only 1 real woman using app per ever 1 000 000 men at any given time, it is never possible for any men to meet them despite having done everything a human can ever do to be attractive and even though they are far more attractive than every woman on apps they cannot ever be around them because apps are fundamentally designed to just steal money from men and keep them employed, celibate, miserable.

          He already is attractive and no woman will ever know it through online since he has no option to be ever around them. He is perfectly attractive and there's nothing more anyone can do than he did, he's far more attractive than majority of people in relationships and none of it matters since women cannot ever know it.

          There's only 1 thing he can ever do to show women how attractive he is and it's by quitting his job, going to uni again and speaking to them in person there.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Not a single man ever got to
            Schooler detected. Don't even have to read past this to confirm that.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      stop shilling your broken dating apps, homosexual.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      You just use your mutual social circle to learn about it
      If you're meeting them at a party you can just ask them around to tell you about people you see around
      IN uni it's a bit harder but you can use girls you talk to there to set you up with girls they know by getting them to invite you to their parties

      Approaching girls outside of school/friends cannot ever result in relationship so they're lying about boyfriend because their autism prevents them from ever bonding with someone outside of 2 social settings they can speak in. They cannot talk and there's no way for them to interact with you in other places.

      If you're "approaching" them out of school/friends then you're not at all approaching them you're harassing them and there is no possible combination of words you can ever use to go out with them at all.

      dating apps literelly do not ever work for men because women do not use them whatsoever and the rare 1 in 100000000000 ones that do never let non-supermodels to send them messeges much less meet them

      it is a fact that past 25, 90% of women are already taken
      if you're didn't get one at that age you're doomed
      only roasted single moms and landwhales are available
      that's the tragedy of the dating market for single middle aged men

      that's not true, you can meet tons of single women through friends and if they failed you then you can meet them in school if you quit your job to come back there.

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >I'm sick of approaching girls and finding out they have boyfriends.
    I'm not, lol
    > Is there a way to ask this upon meeting someone without coming across as weird?
    No.
    Tell them they're attractive and ask if they want to chat with you, that's normal.

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yeah I hate that (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AqDbb7-dn9A)

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    they just say they have a boyfriend because they're not interested

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    they only have a boyfriend if you're not attractive

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You ask about their activity, hobbies, what you do on weekends etc.
    If she never speaks about her bf, she is free.

    You really could not figure this alone anon?

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    it is a fact that past 25, 90% of women are already taken
    if you're didn't get one at that age you're doomed
    only roasted single moms and landwhales are available
    that's the tragedy of the dating market for single middle aged men

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      You just use your mutual social circle to learn about it
      If you're meeting them at a party you can just ask them around to tell you about people you see around
      IN uni it's a bit harder but you can use girls you talk to there to set you up with girls they know by getting them to invite you to their parties

      Approaching girls outside of school/friends cannot ever result in relationship so they're lying about boyfriend because their autism prevents them from ever bonding with someone outside of 2 social settings they can speak in. They cannot talk and there's no way for them to interact with you in other places.

      If you're "approaching" them out of school/friends then you're not at all approaching them you're harassing them and there is no possible combination of words you can ever use to go out with them at all.

      dating apps literelly do not ever work for men because women do not use them whatsoever and the rare 1 in 100000000000 ones that do never let non-supermodels to send them messeges much less meet them

      [...]
      that's not true, you can meet tons of single women through friends and if they failed you then you can meet them in school if you quit your job to come back there.

      All the good looking women who would make good wives and mothers are taken in high school and college the latest. Whatever remains is taken shortly after they enter the workforce. There exist very few good looking (6 and above) women that are single and have a good heart, are modest, raised in a decent family, soft spoken and pretty. The window of opportunity when they are single is very very narrow. If you don't frequent their circles or the events they attend you have no chance of meeting them. Women also don't go anywhere alone, so whatever hobbies women have or events they attend it is done with their husband or boyfriend and if they are single with their groups of friends.
      Boomers and gen-x are throwing money at young pussy like never before, we are talking boat trips, exotic trips, paying their rent and bills, buying them clothes, trips to beauty salons, etc. Many of them have net worths in the millions. Just look at all those modelling agencies and realize how many pretty girls are being baited to frick the rich and upper class.
      Then there are chad millennials and chad zoomers who get their first pick at all the young pussy.
      Then at the end of the line there is you anon, the average nobody with no money, no charisma, no looks, no social circle, no experiences and no toys.

      tldr; single good looking young women don't really exist except in very niche places where men without social circles (loners) can't get in to

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >modest, soft spoken, and pretty
        Holy shit anon, you are a colossal homosexual. I can tell you’ve never put your penis into a vegana. Btw my girlfriend just blew me. Shit was SO cash.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        doomposters and spammers like you should not be allowed on /adv/

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        correct and blackpilled

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Eh this is kinda true. It's really just a needle in a haystack past 25. Most GOOD women are taken by then, but you can definitely find single women past 25. It's just the chance of them having a highly negative trait is increased.

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