Is asexuality a meme

Is a girl who claims to be “asexual” or demisexual but trying to “overcome” it worth pursuing? She has said shes very into me, Im the first guy she met with off tinder. So far we seem very compatible. We’ve cuddled but she wouldnt let me kiss her but we’ve only been on 2 dates.
Shes also Christian with strict parents so Im thinking that mightve led to her aversion to sex. What do you think adv bros ?

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yes it's a meme

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Is asexuality a meme
    Yes it is.
    >Is a girl who claims to be “asexual” or demisexual but trying to “overcome” it worth pursuing?
    No she's not.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      why not

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        She's either mentally ill or mentally disabled but either way highly susceptible to israeli propaganda. You don't need that shit in your life man.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I really dont think shes either in this case. I think shes just not a prostitute and psyopped herself

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Then you're mentally moronic or mentally disabled yourself. Why are you asking for advice if you think you've got it all figured out anyway?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I really dont think
            You're wrong.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >okay but I actually think
            Stop wasting peoples time then

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Asexual = Chad only
    demi sexual isn't even a thing

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Asexuality is a rare symptom of autism that makes people not understand sex attraction and have a low libido to match, the stereotype of the man who opts to look at the train instead of the hot chick in a bikini
    Most of the young girls claiming it as a trendy sexual identity are just jumping on the self-diagnosis with autism or other mental illness train, especially if they are still dating
    Some of them use it as a way to try to signal that they are chaste and do not want to sleep with you before they get to know you

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Christian with strict parents
    Seems like a exciting conquest journey anon.
    The price could be fabulous.
    Hope you are up to the task.

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Is a girl who claims to be “asexual” worth pursuing?
    No
    >Is a girl who claims to be "demisexual" worth pursuing
    Yeah? That means she's not a prostitute. She's 10x more worth pursuing than other women.

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >can someone whos never drank alcohol enjoy drinking after trying it and having fun
    Possibly OP. If its only been 2 dates and she already seems even a little bit open to the idea youll probably be clapping cheeks within a couple months

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    For a vast majority of the time, it is just a meme. Only in extremely rare cases involving physical abuse or improper medication (Usually both) will you actually get someone who genuinely never feels attraction. Those people tend not to even use the term "Asexual" because it has been pre-polluted by the Tumblr crowd.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Tumblr corrupted a lot of meaningful words. They literally romanticize people's illnesses

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yes, anyone who claims to not get horny, enjoy sex, or seek out romantic partners is either mental ill or some larping homosexual trying to be quirky. Attraction is a neuron activation, it isn't some shit you can turn down like a dial. Even if you are strict with your standards, there's still atleast one human that gives you the tingles right away.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Well she said multiple times shes trying to put herself out more and she felt up my arm and got visibly flustered. Thats gotta mean shes a little bit horny

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I'd say yes, but don't buy into her bullshit of holding off sex if you don't want to wait. Every b***h wants this courtship shit, when in reality she can tell by day 1 if she atleast wants to frick you.

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Depends on what is exactly meant by asexual. For some of them it seems to be pretty absolute for others more or less just a low chance that they are ever in the mood for sex. It’s a tricky game but it ultimately boils down to a difference in libido that you might have to admit amounts to incompatibility. There’s nothing wrong with needing sex in a relationship but I think it would be wrong to coerce a partner with a lower libido into matching your own. The main advice here is one almost always inevitable for relationship stuff and it’s to talk to her about it openly and honestly.

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    its really not, sexuality is unironically a spectrum with a gay/straight axis and a hyper/asexual axis
    everyone will fall on the graph somewhere, and very few will be all the way in one direction or the other
    so being asexual in the sense theyre a completely sexless sea creature or some shit doesnt exist, but having nearly non existent sexual desire is, although Id be willing to bet most people labelling themselves asexual are just doing so to avoid having anything actually interesting about themselves

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You didnt answer the question at all is the girl worth pursuing ?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >is asexuality a meme
        I responded to this question dipshit

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Stop being facetious. You only answered the title and ignored the rest of the context around it

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >facetious
            no anon, I was answering your question
            is it worth waiting around to see if she'll realize she isnt ace? I cant tell you that shit, decide yourself b***h
            this inability to think for yourself will ruin the relationship either way though

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Ive never met an asexual demisexual girl before. I figured you guys might know the method. If your advice is just “figure it out yourself” then why are you in the thread

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >method
            oh my bad why didnt you just ask for the demi hoe manual
            its a human being dumbass, we dont know her and we dont know you, why are you asking us to tell you how to make these types of decisions for you? they dont translate to random strangers looking in from the outside

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    No, asexuality is not a meme, it would be weird to think it is. Is it really so crazy to think that some people really don't care for sex? There are weirder things that you believe in.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      There's a difference between saying you don't like to have constant sex or even a very low libido, but to claim its non existent and making someone Excalibur that shit is purely moronic and often times "asexual" ppl will usually frick the first person to meet their fancy rather quickly, so that quirky shit is stupid. I've never seen a confident man say he's asexual, either he gets no pussy to begin with or is too b***h made to make a proper move and friendzones himself.

  13. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Is asexuality a meme
    You mean celibacy? It's a quite old practice, present in many cultures, usually for clergymen.

    You mean the modern liberal sense? Meme

  14. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm a woman with a very low libido and while I don't call myself asexual I am very close to it.
    I'm willing to have sex in the context of a relationship whenever my bf wants it. But I almost never initiate and almost never have a much desire to have sex. Also, I'm not adventurous or particularly enthusiastic/passionate during sex. I try my best but it's not something that comes naturally to me and I don't feel comfortable forcing it.
    So it might be worth it but idk

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      i feel bad for your bf

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      God you must be a thrill to frick...
      Also you proved OP's point. You'll frick someone on the regular, you just need the caveat of a relationship and you're also lazy. You're not asexual, you have a low libido with extra steps.

  15. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    i have a low libido but i do not consider myself asexual because i still find men hot/cute. i still experience attraction, just whatever arousal that happens is very dull and i don't often want to do anything about it. i just do not care about sex or masturbation. i first started jerking off at age 20 and then only really do it if i'm stressed out since the feeling afterwards is like a flush of calming emotion. i have never hugged, kissed, or romantically touched or romantically spoken to a man. i have never been assaulted and i do not take medicine, and i do not have autism (i'm pretty sure). i enjoy a pleasant social life with girl friends (they have boyfriends). i do not consider myself pretty or ugly but i have been talked to three times in my life by stranger men before in a way that i assume was because they thought i looked nice. two of them i found attractive then i immediately remembered i would be disappointing since y'know, normal people have sex, so i politely declined giving a number or made up an excuse to leave.
    i am sure there is a fix for this, but the thought of going to therapy to start caring about sex is weird to me since i don't actually WANT to have sex or date.
    oh yeah to answer your question OP you should really just ask her or what about a kiss on the cheek? she seems like a shy girl with religious hangups/possible religious paranoia (thinking god will punish her or her parents will find out, i had a christian friend before)

  16. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Girls who claim they are asexual are too choosy to match with the guys that are available to her. Guys who claim they are asexual are coping incels.

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