Is asking out random girls even reasonable advice to give to single virgins?

Is asking out random girls even reasonable advice to give to single virgins? My friend was going over his lays over the years with me and I noticed none of them were cold approaches. It was always girls he knew from school or work, and through daily interaction escalating towards dating and sex just came easy. Is the real problem just guys not knowing any girls to socialize with? I'm starting to think the whole cold approach hundreds of women thing is just advice given by people who never had to apply it.

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  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Cold approaching is just something incel redditors circulate as advice around each other while none of them do it.
    It has tremendous social risk and is entirely based on looks. If you can win entirely based on your looks you get more impact and less risk on a dating app.
    Only literal autists who don't realize the incels aren't serious end up actually attempting this.

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    When you aren't in school, don't have a plethora of single women in your social circle and aren't good-looking enough to clean up on dating apps, there aren't many other options besides cold approach. It doesn't have the best success rate, but what else are you gonna do?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I get that its mostly a desperation tactic, but people throw the advice around like its normal to ask random women for sex.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      your actual "cold approach" should be after a martial arts class or yoga club that you've been going to for at least month, and where you've already had a couple of "hi, my name is" and "what got you into martial arts?" conversations.

      so it's not even really a "cold" approach at all. It's just making small talk with the people you're already hanging out with at these club events during the water breaks or after a workout.

      If you haven't been staring at their ass all class, it tends to go over better, because yes, they notice. But more importantly, their friends who you're not looking at see it first.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        *Furiously scribbles*
        Join every yoga club in my area, got it

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        That's basically how my friend described his situations. Just being in regular contact with the same girls enough to where interaction was inevitable, not forced, and you pick up on vibes, know who is single, etc.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          yeah, you should do it too, you should copy him. I've done it, and it works. It's actually really easy that way. Just pick a physical group activity that you're interested in, and that girls go to. Boom, done.

          It accomplishes a few things right away:
          1) everyone who goes to those things is both "social enough" to go, and invested in their health enough to go, so they're usally healthy, attractive, and likeable
          2) you're already both doing something you're interested in, so you know you have at least 1 common real thing to talk about
          3) by engaging in small talk over ~about a month during water breaks or after class, you get to scope out who's interested and who's weird without really investing or risking anything. At the same time, you're staying fit.
          4) if it's a total strike-out, you can just go to a different group without anyone thinking it's all that weird. People do that all the time.

          so yeah, it's a great really low-stakes way to meet someone, because even when you're not meeting someone, you're still meeting SOMEONE (a new friend, perhaps), spending time out-of-doors, and getting fit at the same time. Even when you lose, you win.

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    cold approaches are a pretty bad idea, if you mean girls in public when they’re doing something. I’ve been open to guys walking up to me in my college library, although none have. It has to be a comfortable situation, and you have to actually connect with me over what I’m currently doing. Pickups are for the incels on here and are always extremely uncomfortable. If you’re not in college, go to local clubs that you have a passion for and try to make conversation about it. Not every girl is going to want you, but making friends and understanding how to easily socially communicate your interests will help until then, as I’m sure some girl is doing the same.

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Is approaching on bars, pubs, shared activities also considered cold approaching? Like for example the gym or a class.
    The "street game" thing is something only dating coach grifters do.

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Cold approaching works if you're white and in Japan lmaooooo

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Why would anyone waking the street eating a hamburger? Street vendor?

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Cold approach is a PUA meme. Like any convoluted idea there's probably some circumstances where it works.

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    https://www.girlschase.com/article/cold-approaching-women-how-hard-it-really

  9. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    you have to have disguise the fact that's what you're doing, try to fake a chance romantic encounter like in those movies chicks like

  10. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Is asking out random girls even reasonable advice to give to single virgins?

    If you don't have friends, don't socialize a lot or at all and get frick-all on dating apps, it's pretty much the only advice you CAN be given. Fact of the matter is that despite how PUA morons crow on about how "girls love to be approached" and so on, in reality they only want to be approached by a top-tier man, same as when men fantasize about meeting a woman, they ain't thinking about plain old Becky that works down at the local supermarket, they are thinking about models and incredibly beautiful girls. Doesn't mean they wouldn't date an average guy but you have a shitload of factors working against you in cold approach.

    >she is nervous same as you and may react by being closed off
    >a bit uncomfortable and scared at meeting a stranger especially nowadays where social skills among men and women are heavily degraded
    >which means that the only thing she can immediately judge you on is your appearance and how you carry yourself, it's not like a social circle or a club/event where she can see a lot of other qualities in you she may like
    >which means you have to be a level 100 rizz god or whatever other stupid shit zoomers say nowadays in order to showcase your attractive qualities and put her at ease so she's comfortable around you
    >and even then it's not guaranteed because there could be a million other factors working against you like she's in a hurry, she's stressed out about personal issues, she's waiting for friends, etc
    >and to top it all off, the older you are, the harder it gets, a 30 year old inexperienced guy trying this is gonna have a much harder time and be given far less leeway than a 20 year old guy trying the same

    It CAN work but it is so much more difficult that simply being social and trying to get girls that way. It's a tempting option because it seems so easy "just go out and ask a bunch of girls and a few will say yes" but it really isn't.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >hey ain't thinking about plain old Becky that works down at the local supermarket, they are thinking about models and incredibly beautiful girls.
      Bullshit. Women really need to stop projecting their standards onto us. I've fantasized about so many mid cashier girls that were slightly nice to me.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Unlikely they were mid, they were probably 7-8 level cuties that looked approachable. Girls also fantasise about 7-8 level guys that are in shape.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          What you consider "mid" is probably in the top 5% of attractive women.

          Nope, if I had pictures you'd believe me. I'm talking 4-6. Of course we like the more attractive women, but women have no idea how much men appreciate a average woman who simply is not fat. If we ever don't like a girl, 9 times out of 10 its because she's fat, which instantly makes her a 1-3 unless the fat is distributed well, which only bumps them up to the 4-6 range anyway.

          Kek
          It really do be like that
          You could replace most women's advice about being hot with be nice to him one time

          I think girls focus too much on the e thots we drool over online. Every sensible man knows a mid chick with a good personality is worth her weight in gold.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        What you consider "mid" is probably in the top 5% of attractive women.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Kek
        It really do be like that
        You could replace most women's advice about being hot with be nice to him one time

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >when men fantasize about meeting a woman, they ain't thinking about plain old Becky that works down at the local supermarket, they are thinking about models and incredibly beautiful girls
      a lot of those extremely hot women are straight up misandrists or just very high maintenance. having some "plain ass becky" who isn't an butthole like a lot of these beautiful women are even give clear signals that she's attracted to you would be a fricking dream for a lot of us

  11. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    i've seen cold work. but it's not normal.
    my friend did it to some random gas station chick that was cute.

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