Is dating in your 30s really as miserable as everyone says it is?

Is dating in your 30s really as miserable as everyone says it is?

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's even worse in your 40s.

    • 4 weeks ago
      NPNW - No Pussy No Work - removes the jew

      Yes.
      Whether it was how we were raised, the ideologies we were exposed to, something in the environment, etc. SINKs are not meant to be a thing in your 30s/40s. Something has gone disastrously wrong.

      this society is fricked

      • 4 weeks ago
        NPNW - No Pussy No Work - removes the jew

        it's all rigged

        • 4 weeks ago
          NPNW - No Pussy No Work - removes the jew

          must free ourselves

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Couldn't the cia butthole that made this have used a better frog to make AI art with? Did your debrief say pol users like frogs but you didn't Google pepe?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Eveen worse in your 50ies

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Even worse in your 60s

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Even worse in your 20's

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Eveen worse in your 50ies

          I'm only in my mid 40s. It's like talking to other blue collar working men that are older than myself that talk about aches and pains.... It only gets worse.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          just wait til you're 70!! even worse

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I'm in a OAP home, it's wall to wall pussy.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Hit the gym, tons of zoomer women who wants a real man. Have you seen the androgynous soiboys who asks for consent and permission and constantly seeks approval from women? This goes against a womans instincts of attraction. Zoomer men gets no pussy because millenial men are busy laying pipe.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        My last long term gf left me to be a rich guys side piece because apparently i didn't make enough money (keep in mind I have a decent paying job). After he treated her like shit, she came running back, and I basically told her to frick off. I am only a 5'8" manlet, but out of the 6/6/6/ I am a 5/6/6/ guy. It still wasn't good enough. Now I just frick prostitutes with no hope of a meaningful relationship with a woman.
        ***NEWSFLASH***
        Women are prostitutes!!!!!
        t. a manlet that can actually get laid but chooses not to deal with woman nonsense.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        gym advice is just hanging out with a bunch of divorced, narcists, BPD men and women

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Kek. I'm not talking shit on exercise in even the slightest, but... some men's fascination with their physical appearance has sometimes struck me as borderline body image issues... like if they were women, they'd be bulimic.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      only if you date your age, go for 16 year olds and no girls older than 27

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It's not true I am 40+ and date actively, its actually easier and better than back in the day since there isn't much competition in this bracket.

      I exclusively date women in their 20s, oldest was 28.

      I don't have a single thing from the 666

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Yes.
      Whether it was how we were raised, the ideologies we were exposed to, something in the environment, etc. SINKs are not meant to be a thing in your 30s/40s. Something has gone disastrously wrong.

      HOLY FRICKING DAMMIT
      STOP IT
      JUST FRICKING STOP IT
      CAN YOU NOT FRICKING READ!?!?
      THIS IS A POLITICS BOARD! IT IS FOR TALKING POLITICS, NOT A CATCH ALL BOARD FOR WHATEVER BULLSHIT YOU WANT
      INCEL SHIT IS NOT POLITICS
      YOUR PERSONAL GRIEVANCES
      ARE NOT FRICKING POLITICS
      THERE ARE OTHER BOARDS ON THIS WEBSITE FOR YOU TO DISCUSS YOUR SHIT
      POL IS NOT ONE OF THEM

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      STOP IT WITH ALL THE FRICKING OFF TOPIC THREADS
      JUST
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      STOP IT!!!!!!!

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Dating is political you moron.

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yes.
    Whether it was how we were raised, the ideologies we were exposed to, something in the environment, etc. SINKs are not meant to be a thing in your 30s/40s. Something has gone disastrously wrong.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      what's a SINK?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Single
        Income
        No
        Kids

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      What the frick is a SINK?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Single
        Income
        No
        Kids

        It comes from DINK (dual-income no kids), which was peak liberal: people bragging about being parasites on society.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          How is that their fault though?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            It might not be their fault, but it's still not a good thing to have in society. Like many other groups. I'm not saying the guy with cancer is bad, I'm saying the cancer is bad.

            I'm open to hearing detailed explanations behind why SINKs are on the rise. Obviously ~~*they*~~ are involved, but I want details.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Liberals are evil and they serve the devil. Never feel sorry or pity for them

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >people bragging about being parasites on society.
          Maybe it's society's fault that raising kids is economically unfeasible for many couples. My wife and I don't plan on having any; not just for that reason but it's definitely one of them. But hey, I'm glad billionaires can buy a fleet of yachts or whatever.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Billionaires who buy a fleet of yatchs aren't really the problem, it's the ones who hoard all their money away in the matress that are.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            The problem is a society that idolizes greed and provides enormous incentives for the concentration of personal wealth. It's the idea that we're all in the game whether we want to play it or not. Because you're in the game (they've forced you to play), they can rip you off and manipulate you and cheat you unabashedly as if you're a poor player instead of a functional bystander. We've a seriously ill society and no one gives a shit... because everyone who can do something about it was selected for their position of power by virtue of their aptitude within that very system. Shit's fricked and it'll probably never change. But don't try to talk shit about DINKs because it's a very rational and justifiable position to take.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >raising kids is economically unfeasible for many couples
            People in African shitholes living on almost nothing manage to have 6+ kids each.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I'm not necessarily looking to Africa for inspiration on how to live my life, anon.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            The point is that you don't need a shitload of money in order to have kids. You've probably been culturally conditioned into thinking that you're morally obligated to spend 100k+ each in order to send them to some pretentious college and feel like you need to shower them in material possessions.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >dude just be miserable and financially insecure for the rest of your life so you can create another human life on a planet with no shortage of them
            No thanks!

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >miserable
            Subjective. Logic simply says you're already miserable and defeatist, kids or not
            >financial insecure
            Buy less Funkos and cope with less.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >cope with less
            "Why?"

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Because worldly possessions don't match the value that a good tradwife and healthy children can bring you. On another point, there is beauty in simplicity.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            The joy of quietly living in comfort with the woman you love (without kids) is just as supremely comfy. Plus, you know, no kids... it's quieter, and more mellow. Some people shouldn't be parents. I'm one of them. My need for quiet and personal space is completely incompatible with parenting. Sorry, but these two white adults just aren't going to have kids!

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            To each their own, i agree. The heart of the mission for all people is diagnosing and chasing a pursuit of happiness, and for most people that is fulfilled by procreation and family building. Childless marriages type are extremely rare and not what I typically shill for in a symbolic, platonic ideal.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            And that's fine. My only point is that you should never advocate for things unequivocally. Sometimes it's a rational choice to be childless. There exist a good amount of people who are probably unfit for the responsibility of bringing another life into the world who will someday experience reality in all the depth and nuance you do. Every parent has a moral obligation to provide that. I'm self-selecting out of that pool of people. I know I'm unfit. That comes not from a place of self-loathing or from lack of confidence but instead from a well of reflection and genuine self-knowledge (and acceptance).

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Ignore him, he's a israelite with a vested interest in people shitting out babies.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Why would anyone marry and then not have children? I don't want any but if I wanted to I probably would do it only for that

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You can get married for tax benefits, israelite

            israelites have the opposite agenda, dumbass slav orc

            OYY VEYYY!, the goiym know we've gotta shut him down with shaming.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            The benefit worth risking half my shit needs to be invented

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Get a solid prenup and find a woman who earns as much as you do. In that case the judge won't give her much since she earns as much as you do and you have 0 kids.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            When she makes the same as you then she doesn’t respect you as much either.

            Just don’t get married thru the govt.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Let her cheat on you and you cheat on her too In fact you don't need t have any sex or see each other, ever. Just marry to get good tax rates, I've know people who do this type of shit. The ebil gobbernmint is not going to know that you don't live as a married couple. Just keep your mouth shut about your whole affair.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Terrible idea if she makes far less and divorce rapes you.

            Chasing dollars is a goytrap. Not having to worry about divorce rape is better.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            That's why she needs to earn as much as you do and you get a solid prenup. You need to audit the shit out of her before getting married. I might go into such an arrangement myself if I find a willing woman. I want to pay as little tax as possible.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            israelites have the opposite agenda, dumbass slav orc

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            To be fair, the entire economic game is completely contingent upon infinite growth. If there's no more growth to be had, capitalist economies start to break down. Growth is impossible without actual, human population growth. In that sense, it's in the israelites' best interest (being hypercapitalists, theoretically) that population growth continues forever... because it's inextricably tied to economic growth.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            It's not based on infinite growth, that whole concept is based on corporatism and cronyism. The ruling that companies must maximize profits and growth at all costs is the biggest Black person ruling in history. Capitalism would work optimally if companies worked towards homeostasis rather than forcing 3% growth year over year indefinitely.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            The current implementation absolutely requires infinite growth. It's the basic presumption of this state of late capitalism. I'm not interested in arguing theoreticals -- I prefer to deal with things as they are.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I'm gonna have to see some nasal pics, sensor out the rest if you may.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I pay $60k annually for my 2 kids to go to private elementary school lmao.
            I'm sorry, but not everybody works at taco bell.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Don't compare me to subhuman Black folk, I'm different!! Unlike some dumb shitskin, I am CHOSEN PERSON with special skin color, ancestry, brain, height, intelligence, dick, etc and it's absolutely FORBIDDEN to me to have kids unless they have all the house footage, clothes, electronics, toys, food, vehicles, boats, travel tickets that was the standard on muh heckin' 1980s sitcom!!! THERE IS NO POINT IN KIDS IF CANT AFFORD BEING ABLE TO ZOGWASH THEM, DUHHHHH!!! That is why I must either delay my own family making or deny one entirely, such is the white mans burden.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        It's where you wash your balls, homie!

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      As opposed to the government mandated artificial and anti natural socialization cult that is the nuclear family. Family structure was way different thousands of years ago.

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    There is no reason to date when you are over 30. Dating is for 14 year olds anyway.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Is that you Jimmy Saville?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        He's right, u just pretend you've been with the person for 10 years, no fake bullshit, immediately know what's up

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Hey Bruce, y'all wanna go to the prom with me?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      this
      once you're in your 30s
      you'll have realized
      that you can literally just TAKE what you want
      no need to ask, no need to talk
      that 12 year old caucasian child bride?
      just TAKE her
      after 1 year of keeping her inside your room, stockholm syndrome will kick in
      at which point you can start showing her around in public

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >once you're in your 30s you'll have become a psychopathic pedophile
        Speak for yourself...

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      fact. when youre an adult you dont date you offer marriage and she says yes or no. skip the dating, picrel

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Black KKK member commits a hate crime

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    i don't want to date women. I want to find young genetically fit men to live with, maybe. I could teach them everything I know. I was also thinking of paying them to donate sperm to women to breed a master race. Then when I die I can distribute my money to them, I'd also help them out so they could build wealth and have generational wealth. basically i would be increasing their reproductive success with my money. I'm not gay I'm just not interested in being around women or giving them my money. Giving women money is like dumping it down a bottomless hole of nothingness.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >I'm not gay
      gay boy

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Not gay women just suck. A woman is useless and will just spend all my money. I don't want kids because my genes are shit so what use is a woman?

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          You can do that through a church or men's club.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          That's fine dude, so don't date and don't have kids. But wanting to live in a house full of fit young men and pay them to cum in broads is like a gay bathouse meets a cuckold fantasy. If you want to mentor people, teach a summer camp program or something.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I'm simply explaining how society functions in an explicit way. Like, when an employer hires a man, the implication is that he is giving him money to increase his chances of cooming in a woman and producing offspring.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous
    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      the world is shit. everything discussed on /misc/ is just symptoms downstream for that. israelites usurped the west after world war 2, now we are finally at the point where they have undone everything our ancestors spent millenia building. Yes dating in your 30s is generally shit. Dating in your 20s is shit. Our food is shit, our immigration policy is shit, our housing market is shit, our inflation is shit, our health status is shit, our drug problems are shit, global diplomacy is shit... everything is shit anon.

      the world was truly better off when anglo-saxons ran everything. we are natural leaders with a perfect balance of brains and brawns that surpasses any other ethnic group in the world in terms of having both.

      Based

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      that's called having sons you incel moron

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This is the sickest most pathetic thing i read this year
      Bravo

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Dude you're such a gay

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      didn't you have a nice day, mr. Epstein?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Probably a bot, this place is infested with them and it's getting increasingly hard to sniff them out.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          OP is literally a bot post. I am not a bot, however.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Just impregnate random girl in the club, jesus christ you are more pathetic than i'm and that is really concering my friend.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        My genes are no good. father was dyslexic and mom is psychotic. But by some lucky chance I came out ok and inherited a trust fund and invested wisely, so I got money.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Nice gay fantasy

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If you're dating in your 30s and it's not with the young new interns or some fresh graduates that you've been introduced to, you should probably just have a nice day. None of the attractive women on Tinder are swiping right for some 30 year old grandpa.

    Either you hunt at work (needs to be a megacorp) or use relationships or suicide.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Linda from HR wants to talk with you.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        That shit only happens if you're doing it blatantly and if you look like a fricking loser.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Or just go to Asia where age-gap relationships aren't a problem and the women aren't complete monsters.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I will go to Greece and Turkey.

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    the world is shit. everything discussed on /misc/ is just symptoms downstream for that. israelites usurped the west after world war 2, now we are finally at the point where they have undone everything our ancestors spent millenia building. Yes dating in your 30s is generally shit. Dating in your 20s is shit. Our food is shit, our immigration policy is shit, our housing market is shit, our inflation is shit, our health status is shit, our drug problems are shit, global diplomacy is shit... everything is shit anon.

    the world was truly better off when anglo-saxons ran everything. we are natural leaders with a perfect balance of brains and brawns that surpasses any other ethnic group in the world in terms of having both.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >we are
      kek

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        cope

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          An american full of bullshit, who would of thunk?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            okay RamDeep

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            It's funny because Indians are more likely to have Anglo dna than an american.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            i knew you were a poo lmfao. I am anglo saxon, i can trace my roots

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            To the Angels or the Saxons?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            dalit?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Cornovii

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Sir. You are the fricking. Barst! Fricking b***h lasagne.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            hey now, thats an out of date slur. the current slur for indians is "visajeet". get with the times, gramps.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Holy fricking cringe
          >inb4 you're a poojeet
          No Black person. I just don't like cringe.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            It's funny because Indians are more likely to have Anglo dna than an american.

            Poo

            >the world was truly better off when anglo-saxons ran everything. we are natural leaders with a perfect balance of brains and brawns that surpasses any other ethnic group in the world in terms of having both.
            I think we need space tech to reawaken. We stopped running the world because we had conquered it. We had been to the highest peaks, the N/S poles, discovered and invented just about everything ... we had done it all here on Earth. If we still have the spirit within us, then space conquest I think is the thing to awaken it again.

            Anglo Saxon Chad

            >know the difference, it could save your life

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You're still mad about this 250 years later?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >the world was truly better off when anglo-saxons ran everything. we are natural leaders with a perfect balance of brains and brawns that surpasses any other ethnic group in the world in terms of having both.
      I think we need space tech to reawaken. We stopped running the world because we had conquered it. We had been to the highest peaks, the N/S poles, discovered and invented just about everything ... we had done it all here on Earth. If we still have the spirit within us, then space conquest I think is the thing to awaken it again.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >the world was truly better off when anglo-saxons ran everything
      The world we live in is the end result of anglo-saxons running everything for decades.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Normans

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Dating just seems miserable in general now from the man’s perspective
    All the gay stuff of modern standards with the hardships of old standards

  8. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    My dude here has an alpine phenotype, so he doesn't look very manly despites the clear signs of high testosterone.
    He would probably look much better with shaved head and Roman nose

  9. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    OP pic looks like 45-54 year old, though

  10. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    For women yes

  11. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Are mail order Russian brides still a thing?

  12. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Nah man. You just don't do it. It's a breeze.

  13. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I’m 35 and not attracted to my wife. Never have been. She’s not ugly, simply not my type in any way. It makes me want to die.

    I think being forever a bachelor is ultimately less sad and regretful than my position.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Why did you marry her?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      it's just sad haha.
      either you're 10/10 chad and women just want to have sex with you , well, wherever you can work her in.
      or you're 9/10 or less and well that's where you're at sir.
      like you're married to someone you find unattractive.
      yea, it's things are only going to get worse.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I could have settled down with women i'm not attracted to but I already knew that nobody would win in that scenario

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Same. Now in my 40s though I regret not settling for a few of them in my 30s because the pickings keep getting slimmer. But then again maybe that was a smart move to avoid

        I’m 35 and not attracted to my wife. Never have been. She’s not ugly, simply not my type in any way. It makes me want to die.

        I think being forever a bachelor is ultimately less sad and regretful than my position.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I bet you let society bully you in marrying her, I cut off such people from my life. I'm not going to be with someone I'm not attracted to.

  14. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    idk Im 30 and get fricked around by pretty 21 year old girls but hey at least I get their attention and bodies for a while
    I am only able to pull this off because I went back to school at 26 btw
    Otherwise I would basically have no access to them
    I haven't spoken romantically speaking, to a woman over 25 in years

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I'll be going back to do 1 semester and graduate
      I'm 31 . Is that based ?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        idk, you won't have much time to meet people in 1 semester
        I started at 25 and hooked up a bit in my first semester or two
        but things didn't really get amazing till my 3rd year when the girls I'd been with through all the hard classes were turning 20 and we'd known each other for a while

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah I'm not even going to bother to do anything tbh. Lol. I don't drink anymore so not going to go out to bars. Guess I'll give the online dating a try since I will be in a city with more women. Don't see myself doing much besides school. Maybe I'll meet a woman out and about somewhere
          I'm not ugly

  15. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Don't even bother with hags, you don't want them and they probably don't want you either.

    Find an excuse to be around a university.
    Take up a PhD course, become an IT guy, mow the fricking lawn, anything.

  16. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    Lol you’re crazy.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      sounds more sane then you.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      this coming from the guy who married to some b***h he doesnt love lol

  17. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    lmao

    [...]
    Lol you’re crazy.

    he's right though, except for the murder part
    good luck

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >he's right though, except for the murder part
      That is the part that’s crazy I know the rest.

  18. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I am 40 and I get no matches on apps, I have no woman, I have no children, I have no house, I have no friends, I have no money and live paycheck to paycheck. When will my real life begin bros? I'm tired of the grind, I'm tired of this life, just very very tired that's all.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      dude. seriously. you're 40. never. it's never fricking happening. it's just completely OVER.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      dont use apps to get dates go outside plenty of women looking for dates right in front of your face

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I really hate to be that guy...but
      Look im only 10 years behind you
      I have a house, I have some friends and I do get women
      but it's all empty still
      Women who are worth dating all have 'next thing' syndrome
      They treat you as a nice little snack, you show them the things you have devoted your life to
      then they get bored and find a new guy who has a new thing
      >omg hunting is so cool
      >omg Sailing is so cool
      >omg ice climbing is so cool
      I genuinely don't know how to deal with women ADHD
      I can't do everything and provide high level novel experiences forever, which is basically what a pretty woman has access to in the modern era

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Don't take them with you, they will stick around longer trying to make you take them.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          no, they literally just go to the next guy with a cool hobby
          they have limitless options

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Your hobbies are shit though.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            they're not, and they have gotten me laid and short to medium term GFs quite a bit
            I'm a high level skier, downhill and uphill
            I'm an EMT and SAR guy
            Trail runner, and more

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You just have a small penis.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            just under 6' with elite girth, sex is not a problem at all

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Women don't leave me until I get bored of them and start sticking it up their arse.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            you probably date low quality women, as you are in the UK and there is nothing but slags
            I live in a pretty elite part of the USA where athleticism is a given, the women are tall and blonde and drinking isn't the primary culture
            You could only compete here short term due to your accent
            but they would all leave you quickly when they got bored and found a guy to take them on their next cool adventure

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Nobody in the usa has any class, some people have more money that is all. You all came from the dregs of the world.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Your hobbies are shit though.

            What’s your fricking problem?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        how do you hit 50 and never realize all you had to do was lift and do drugs and women would have fulfilling relationships with you.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          im 30 not 50

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Find the old witch in your town that controls all the women and get on her good side.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            10 years behind 40 is... 30. naw that makes no sense.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Doing drugs is degen and attracts degen women. Not being ugly is important
          Why don't you go overdose and die? You're a drug user

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            all women are degenerate, moron.
            the idealistic traditional familial structure depicted in most pictures is the invention of man.
            women don't want families.
            gestating a baby means no more drugs/sex for 9 months and then permanently fricking up their body. pregnancy is also the period men are most likely to cheat on their spouse.
            but yea.
            just lift + do drugs and 99% of women will be down. it's quite sad.
            but you gonna just be sad about it or you gonna be the man in their memories.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It won't happen ever. That ship has long since sailed.
      Hell it's sailed for me and I'm only 23.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Hell it's sailed for me and I'm only 23.
        dood don't give up at 23 lol.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I'll ask you what I asked the other anon. Where do you meet women after college? I mean women worth marrying, not tinder bawds.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Where do you meet women after college
            seriously a good quesstion, sorry not to answer before
            I just graduated at 30 because I was a navy gay
            and I have no idea, good luck.
            I have some friends who are couples, they are willing to set me up often, just so far I haven't liked any of the girls

            You need a friend network, with women in it. Period
            Make females friends who you are NOT trying to frick, they will introduce you to their friends
            This is the only way

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah I'm good friends with a couple and the girl just doesn't introduce me to her friends. She says that I either won't like them or they won't like me. She might be right because a lot of her friends are bar hopping bawds and the others are fat and ugly. The others are far from where I live.
            There was one Christian girl she set me up with that gave me a glimmer of hope. But it turns out that despite being 26 and despite being a 5/10 herself she wanted an extroverted gigachad. Which I am not.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >There was one Christian girl she set me up with that gave me a glimmer of hope. But it turns out that despite being 26 and despite being a 5/10 herself she wanted an extroverted gigachad. Which I am not.

            very similar situation right now, found a really amazing christian girl
            we've been dating all year, she's 21
            but she's so extroverted, and starting to see all her options in life
            >moving to norway
            >going to med school
            its jover

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah it's bad to the point where even the couple I'm friends with were like "Ok, this b***h has some delusional standards."
            It's funny how she has these standards when she's a massive nerd who is very into nerd hobbies. She runs a DND campaign ffs.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            They see this whole world of possibilities on social media. They will never achieve any of these possibilities and will die alone and sad or with some alcoholic drug dealer, but they will absolutely leave you forever to go pursue them.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah it's funny, if she achieves her idealized Christian gigachad that's gonna sweep her off her feet then I'll probably win the lottery at some point.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            And you know whats even funnier, I got her to open up about this last weekend, she just went on a one hour rant about the negative traits of the guys she dated in the past and how they can't compare to her idealized gigachad (the only guy she would actually marry). One of said negative traits was that he was too introverted. Well, what do you expect when your primary hobbies involve nerds?
            I'd love to ask her why she thinks she deserves a guy like that.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Christian b***hes are some of the most delusional in society

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >we've been dating all year, she's 21
            have you had sex with her?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >
            You need a friend network, with women in it. Period
            Make females friends who you are NOT trying to frick, they will introduce you to their friends
            this
            I got a lot of pussy as a result of befriending the hottest chick I knew and NOT trying to frick her. Many of her hot friends ended up in my bed, and the hot chick I kept at arm's distance ended up wanting to sleep with me eventually, but I wouldn't do it with her simply because I knew she (not only became a close friend) but because she was my meal ticket to sleeping with all of the hot chicks she hung out with.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >It's over at 23
        No it's not lad. Maybe if you were 28 but 23 is still young. Shit, I had my first kiss and lost my virginity at 24. It's a little fricking weird to be a virgin in your mid 20s but it's not ridiculously weird like some people here will make it out to be. Unironically what you have to do is quit / reduce your vices, work out and diet consistently until you look athletic, get a job if you don't have one and then go out into the world and frick a fat b***h or two. You have done wrong to end up in your position so you must suffer the consequences of your actions. Then you shall be redeemed.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I mean I did frick a hooker last year so I'm not a virgin (does that even count?).
          I have a degree and a job. I need to start working out though.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Hookers do count because at the end of the day all women frick for resource acquisition and all men pay something for every sexual encounter they have. Once you embrace that you will stop being offended by women's standards and frick more and enjoy sex more. Even Chad pays in terms of time spent in the gym and managing his social circle. If you self improve as the other anons have told you, you will frick more either because you are more attractive or have more money to blow on women, but most likely a combo of the two unless you have Chad genetics. If you improve your looks, you will definitely pay less money , but that will take up more of your time working out and looking after your appearance so you'll pay that way. Every man must choose how he will pay. Cucks and incels are what they are because they can't swallow that all relations with women are transactional.When you do swallow that pill, you're set to maximize your potential so that you can get the most bang for your buck. That's really all there is to it.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            or you can just not do any of this. moronic ass men who can't stop thinking about sex make women like they are

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >It's over at 23
        No it's not lad. Maybe if you were 28 but 23 is still young. Shit, I had my first kiss and lost my virginity at 24. It's a little fricking weird to be a virgin in your mid 20s but it's not ridiculously weird like some people here will make it out to be. Unironically what you have to do is quit / reduce your vices, work out and diet consistently until you look athletic, get a job if you don't have one and then go out into the world and frick a fat b***h or two. You have done wrong to end up in your position so you must suffer the consequences of your actions. Then you shall be redeemed.

        At 23 it will take you a year to improve your life, two if your life is completely fricked. There's plenty of nice girls with a similar level of dating / sex experience in their early 20s who would be happy to be with a 23-25 year old guy like you. If you're trying to get your life together as a 30 year old virgin it's a completely different story. Don't use apps. You have to assume all girls on apps are prostitutes. Friends of friends or through work is your best bet.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >There's plenty of nice girls with a similar level of dating / sex experience in their early 20s
          But act fast because these women are a unicorn once they hit 25.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah it's true that it's much rarer to find sexually inexperienced women the older they get compared with men, but he can always date a few years younger. Key word here being few. The whole men peaking at 35-40 thing you see here is absolute cope. Young women don't want old, fat, balding blokes as their boyfriends. Of course there are weird bawds with daddy issues who will frick these guys but they're more often than not riddled with STIs and mental health problems. Fellas, don't waste your youth.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >If you're trying to get your life together as a 30 year old virgin it's a completely different story.

          Why? I started college at 30 and got my license at the same time.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Did you find yourself a nice girlfriend or did you end up with a single mother of two children by two different men? It's much harder to improve your life as you get older. If you did it I'm glad for you but it doesn't change the fact it's harder to change your ways if you've been doing it for longer, it's harder to work out and diet when your testosterone and metabolism start to drop and it's harder to find a good woman to be your life partner.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I was in poor health but I fixed myself by 30 - 31, couldn't drive or go to the gym before.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      its all downhill from there now on!

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >When will my real life begin bros?
      Your life has been happening for several decades. You have missed it. Now you should man up and warn younger men not to waste their lives as you have.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I did warn those in their 20's and even those in their early 30's.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I'm 34 and have a 6 figure job and am over 6 ft but am invisible on dating apps. I've actually never had a girlfriend and only once had someone express interest in me when I was in 7th grade.

      The reality is you can work on yourself all you want but you'll never find love with a ugly mug. I've never had a dating app match and I'm on the big 4 apps for two years now

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Post face and body. There is a chance it's over. But then again you can always just lie to women if you just want to get laid.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I already did on soc and rate me rebbit. Got a 3.5/10 on soc and reddit just said I look like an evil twin of mark Cuban

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Have you considered dedicating your life to Christ?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            post it, I will give you an accurate, realistic, honest, rating on where you stand anon.
            probably isn't your looks because you use reddit formatting and therefore are a homosexual.
            but let me see what you look like. if you're really 6' and not "6' " (5'10" manlet), dating women really is easy.
            bet you just have no game.

  19. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    IF YOURE 30 AND THE DATE IS 19 ITS COOLNESS BUT IF YOURE 30 AND THE DATE IS 25 THATS FUKKEN DISGUSTING

  20. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's over after 22 to be honest.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      nah 24-28 was amazing for me

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Where do you meet women after being done with college? Besides I don't want to do hookups with bawds. I want a wife.

  21. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's even more miserable than you think

  22. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    No.

  23. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If you're ugly it's miserable.
    If you're good looking and have money, it's heaven.

  24. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    No one dates you after 35.

  25. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm fully bald in my early 20s and look significantly older than him. People don't even believe I'm younger than 30. I am a subhuman and never had a youth.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      And you're a liar posting with a meme flag
      You're going to hell, sorry bro but it's over and you should have a nice day

  26. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >35
    >go on Tinder/Badoo/whatever
    >single moms/tattoos/escorts/arthoes/travelprostitutes/daddy issues

    This is girls ages 18-27, I'm not even going to mention 28+.

    >just go outside bro
    It's the same thing.

  27. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's so bad that even women know society is going to collapse soon

  28. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    im actually having an easier time in my 30s than in my 20s.
    my 20s was a miserable experience. had no girls talking to me.
    in my mid 30s now and had several hookups off tinder this year and seeing a chick from my office job.
    it gets better.

  29. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    He's not getting matches because he's fat. He would do much better losing 60 pounds.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Exactly. He has an average or even below average face and looks kind of fat. Can't do much about the face but he could at least lose weight.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Dude took the dad bad thing so seriously he turned into a 48 year old divorce.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          dad bod*

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah the suit and it looks like he just used his LinkedIn profile pic. He looks like 48 year old working in some boring middle-management job

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >James "Jim" Garrison
            >Assistant regional manager Hengfeld Housewares

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        It's always a combination of two things: the guy is fat and he only swipes on the skinny girls. The skinny girls are busy matching with Chad, sadly his match without losing weight is a fat girl fatter than him. Unless he attempts to source girls locally at a social activity or something.

  30. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    The biggest frustration of trying to date in your thirties is that while you're better equipped for a relationship than you've ever been, you simply don't have many opportunities to meet eligible women in the real world. Work becomes your primary social circle in your thirties, and the vast majority of women in the professional world are either married or in a committed relationship. The few that aren't are usually divorced or between relationships, which makes them high-risk propositions at best.

    And don't get me started on the horror show known as online dating. Women close to your age are post-wall catastrophes. It's true that there are younger women who dig older men, but they like them when they meet in person and then rationalize away the age difference after the fact. On a dating app, they just see your age as a number and get the ick.

    When you reach your thirties, it's entirely possible to go years without ever meeting a woman who's a legitimate marriage prospect.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >rationalize away the age difference after the fact. On a dating app, they just see your age as a number and get the ick.
      This is exactly true
      I've been dating girls 6-10 years younger than me, but only because we met in university and it was natural
      You can't just walk up to young girls cold or swipe them as easily

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      this. people in their 30s, and especially women, are statistically the lowest % of single people on the planet

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You're shooting fish in a barrel with roasties hitting the wall and since many of them have jobs and money you can mooch off them too and not pay for everything.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        COPE
        O
        P
        E

        These roasties jack up their prices and expect you to pay sticker price for a 100,000 mile merc that is one engine rev away from blowing a gasket. Go onto israeliteder and you'd be amazed at how many walled women yap on how they expect men to take them out on expensive all inclusive dinner dates and how the man should always pay because of gender equality. INB4 sandBlack person: sue me, american degeneracy reaches far and wide.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Have you tried not being fat and grooming yourself? Does wonders.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Hey man, I haven't had a haircut in like ten years. I've got a pot-belly and a three-year beard. I guarantee you that as long as you're being true to who you are and what you value, there's a woman out there who will love you for it.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            No, everyone is superficial, including women. I like to have less barriers, not more. I like doing the least amount of work possible.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I like doing the least amount of work possible
            Not exactly setting yourself up for success there, my man.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You can cold sell if your fatass body if you want. I'll warm sell by having a fit body.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I guess the difference is that I'm not selling myself to the highest bidder. I have a hard time imagining human connection as a meat market, but you do what you want.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >bro I actually don't care if the girl I meet is high quality, is beautiful and has a good personality, I'm above the whole "being a good person to attract other good people thing." And that's why you won't have results.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >being a good person to attract other good people thing
            having a good body and a good job is not being a good person, anon...

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Actually yes it is anon, but thanks for trying. Good body = high self image. Good job = not socially stunted. If you're in your 30s and don't have either you're a massive red flag to women. Just by not being an anti-social butthole you should have decent paying job by 35, unironically. Since you're incel posting on /misc/ it's guaranteed you're anti-social, and an butthole.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            i'm married, anon... i'm not "on the market." do you not consider being kind or considerate or thoughtful or emotionally available/strong components of being a good person? your model of a "good person" seems pretty shallow to me, fren. it leaves out pretty much everything i would personally consider the mark of an (actual) good person.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Wow thanks for posting today moron, even worse.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            consider the possibility that we all die ugly and whatever you manage to accumulate in this life, you can't take any of it with you when you go. i hope you don't wake up in twenty years and wonder why you've been chasing after all these inconsequential tchotchkes and sexual conquests. seems like you might be one of those guys on a collision course with a midlife crisis.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You just don't want to admit that women's standards are nuts these days. All I hear is do better anon, work harder anon, do this anon, do that anon. I rarely see people do the same thing to women though. So much for gender equality and male privilege. The juice ain't work the squeeze dude.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            The women you get look the same as you, tho.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I'm actually physically fit, play sports, have less than $15,000 in mortgage debt and have a decent paying job. I go to the barber once every 3 weeks to get a decent haircut and everyone complements my hairstyle. The problem is that I'm only average height (on our island) and a bang average face. Women's standards are insane. I used to drive a flashy car and worked out int he gym for 2 years, all I got is landwhales waving their flabby arms at me. I sold off the car at a huge loss and ditched the gym, I'm now invisible to women.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Isn't Malta a rich man's place? I'm sure competing with billionaires doesn't help.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            lmao just made up bullshit
            incels always lie about themselves
            or they walk around with a massive stick up their ass
            so it's always two things: incel brained anti-social school shooter or massive ungroomed fatass, or both.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Sure thing buddy, whatever makes you sleep at night.

            Isn't Malta a rich man's place? I'm sure competing with billionaires doesn't help.

            Nah those are just EU passport buyers who never spent a single day on this island.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This.

      It's really hard to find single people with no kids. Even the ugliest of girls around me has someone, or multiple people in some cases. Meanwhile, most men have nobody so they end up going to Asia, where you will get more dates in a single day than you will in a whole year here.

      There's not a lot of options or time to meet people when you work. On a normal day, you get up, shower, eat and work. Most people who work one job are bringing work home as well. Then you eat dinner and you have a few spare hours to do whatever before you do it again. Who wants to spend 2-3 hours on essentially a job interview with a woman that will likely go nowhere and be expensive when you could just do something fun instead?

      Online dating sucks. I'm not striking out at the plate. I'm never even getting to the plate. I've had tinder for years. Probably liked hundreds to thousands of girls and got like 5 responses back, and two of them were trying to get me to sign up for their onlyfans.

      And let's be honest, by the time you are in your 30's, you are putting on weight and losing lots of hair, becoming even more unattractive to the average girl anyway.

      You just stop bothering after a while. It's not worth it. And that's not even going into what happens if you do find someone and get married - if things don't work, you lose half your income and mostly lose your kids anyway.

      the world is shit. everything discussed on /misc/ is just symptoms downstream for that. israelites usurped the west after world war 2, now we are finally at the point where they have undone everything our ancestors spent millenia building. Yes dating in your 30s is generally shit. Dating in your 20s is shit. Our food is shit, our immigration policy is shit, our housing market is shit, our inflation is shit, our health status is shit, our drug problems are shit, global diplomacy is shit... everything is shit anon.

      the world was truly better off when anglo-saxons ran everything. we are natural leaders with a perfect balance of brains and brawns that surpasses any other ethnic group in the world in terms of having both.

      And all of this too. Feminism, LBGT, divorce, Metoo, diversity and immigration, gentrification and suburbs all completely destroyed civilization, the community trust and the trust between men and women. It's so bad that you almost hope Muslims take over so women are put on a leash again and maybe things turn around.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Women close to your age are post-wall catastrophes. It's true that there are younger women who dig older men, but they like them when they meet in person and then rationalize away the age difference after the fact. On a dating app, they just see your age as a number and get the ick.
      this is true. you need to be around young women in person to date them. online dating also doesn't work if you're an average guy even if you are the same age

  31. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Leave America you dumb fricks. QED.

    Are you hungry? Too tired to make dinner? Try eating 30-40 olives. From a can. With your hand. Just 30-40 olives. What a great dinner 30-40 olives.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      honestly im black pilled enough right now that im considering just giving up and finding an asian girl

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I have a similar cop out, which is my moms friends daughter that she offered to set me up with but I don't find her attractive at all and figured it's better to find a girl who I'm actually attracted to.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          long term it is better to be alone than with a woman you don't want
          our other option of course is to embrace stoicism and let what comes come
          Life ends eventually either way

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            It's difficult for me to embrace stoicism when I see other people in fulfilling relationships though. I wonder why I can't have this and that there is something wrong with me.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I share your feelings friend
            that being said im going to leave the house because 100% we will never find what we need being on our computers
            good luck

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            good luck

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            it's a bell curve, like anything else. not everyone will get relationships while others will always be in one. does it suck? yeah sure. but so what? once you've been in one and seen the "other side", you realize being single isn't that bad.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I would go for a hispanic if she's white and there's a pathway to citizenship in another country. The u.s. is fricked. I'd rather live in south America than this shithole

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          LATAM is nice. I've spent a lot of time there. That said, the white-passing girls tend to also have some entitlement since they're used to being top dogs.

          Get yourself an indígena and pop out some mestizo children. She'll love you for it.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            No, it has to be Greece or Turkey.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      t. A patrician laxative enjoyer.

  32. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    > Is dating in your 30s really as miserable as everyone says it is?

    No, if anything, I get more dates/pussy now than ever. You just need to put *some* effort into looking good and keeping up with fashion. It really isn't hard to hit the gym 3 hours a week and to have a trim haircut and beard.

  33. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    In my experience yes. It becomes a lot more difficult to meet someone and when you do, they’re either post-wall with a ton of baggage or still living it up in their “hoe phase”.

  34. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Depends on perspective. Women at their choosiest up to their mid-30s, but younger women are more attracted to stable men. Realistically it's a little easier for men cause they have options, whereas women are fricked by their own hubris.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Women at their choosiest up to their mid-30s
      yes
      >but younger women are more attracted to stable men
      ehhhhh
      >Realistically it's a little easier for men cause they have options,
      ehhhhh
      women you want to date will always have more options than you, unless you are LARPing as a 1% chad
      Im pretty good, and its fricking hard out there to find one who
      >you actually like
      >isn't a slag
      >can be stable long enough to actually settle down
      >isn't an alcoholic
      >isn't insane
      In my experiance, pick 2

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Depends on perspective. Women at their choosiest up to their mid-30s, but younger women are more attracted to stable men. Realistically it's a little easier for men cause they have options, whereas women are fricked by their own hubris.

        >women you want to date will always have more options than you
        Men that are actually looking to marry have more options that women

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Try dating younger, you'll be surprised. It's easier for men cause dating younger is an option whereas for women you'll only get rare fetishist. International dating is also easier, not that i am for it but WMAF is very common as an alternative.

        Women have it hard during that age cause of their own moronation. Their expectations are unrealistic and they don't get real till after menopause. A sane women would have it easier but most single women that age are not sane. Just date younger or go Asian, even if one 30ish gives you attention it's likely she's insane.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It's complicated. If you're setting your standards high, and want a woman with no mental issues, no tats, no kids, virgin, not fat, etc., you're going to have a bad time. Pretty much all of those women are long off the dating market. If you're willing to expand your boundaries, however, it's not a total shitshow. I'm not saying get rid of your standards entirely, but reassess what you view as truly necessary for a relationship. The last girl I was with was one that a lot of people wouldn't even so much as give a second thought, and despite her bevy of issues, she was still a fantastic person at her core, and I'm honestly not sure I could pursue a relationship with anyone else at this point. Had she not lived far away, we'd likely still be together.

      >Women at their choosiest up to their mid-30s
      At least in terms of online stuff, this is 100% correct. Once a woman passes the mid-30s, they seem to be more receptive to being messaged. There are exceptions on both sides, naturally, but this is the case more often than not.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I'm 34 and the single women in my age bracket are trainwrecks. They are emotionally, physically and financially busted and now expect some simp to save their fat asses

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        These used up single mom hags expect men to take them out on expensive dinner dates and buy them some pricey bottle of wine that you can get for a third of the price at the local supermarket.

  35. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Balding
    >Brown eyes
    Sorry buts it's over

  36. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You gotta marry in your early to mid 20s. My wife is beautiful, sweet, modest, was a virgin, is Christian, etc. Roasties who are single into their 30s are so for a reason, and that's almost certainly because they have the exact opposite traits I just mentioned. If you're a moron and don't lock in a qt in your 20s, you deserve dealing with mentally ill, used up roasties.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >If you're a moron and don't lock in a qt in your 20s, you deserve dealing with mentally ill, used up roasties
      Did someone advise you to do that when you were young or did you realize that on your own? My parents never gave me any advice about anything

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Not directly, but they gave me the expectation that dating is for marriage. I found my wife at 22, she was everything I was looking for, so I put a ring on it at 23, and married her when we turned 24. Literally the best decision I have ever made in my life. I love my wife. Virtually every single woman I know my age now (early 30s) are gross roasties. I can't imagine having to deal with some prostitute on a slew of psych pills with a tally of a dozen dicks sucked, or some zoomette who worships Black folk and trannies.

  37. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    yes it is. settle down by 28 with anyone but just do it, its hell after 30

  38. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >men peak at 30-35. zoomer girls prefer men over 30. I'm 35 and they still check my ID

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This. If you work out, you'll be getting zoomers check you out even in your late 40s.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This. If you work out, you'll be getting zoomers check you out even in your late 40s.

      this is nothing new and has always been the case

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I work at a place we have to id people if they look under 40, there's this guy that looks like he's in his 50s, balding, gray beard etc. he always shoves his id at me even though I never ask lmao

  39. 4 weeks ago
    Annoymous

    Its over for this guy. Holy shit, how can he not know how goofy he looks?

  40. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Only if you date women your age

  41. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Once some clueless stupid c**t told me life gets better after 30.
    My life is worse after 30 with each passing day.

  42. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Bot thread repeated endlessly.
    Nobody says this.
    And jannies need to do their jobs, the idea of this bot crap is to make the site boring.

  43. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Truth is 99.9% of men don't want to hit the gym. Or if they do it's a shitty, uneducated half-arsed effort to lessen their self insecurities. We're hunter-gatherers and should be using our bodies daily. It's instinct to choose a healthier partner by default, even if they're significantly older.

  44. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If you want a serious relationship yh, if your a womanizer who just pumps and dumps no

  45. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    At 35 I’m fatter and uglier than I ever was, yet somehow teenage b***hes want to frick me even more than in my 20s. I guess I am better at the mind games, I dunno. Or maybe, they just want to frick married men, like a forbidden fruit. Anyway, not going to ruin my family for some hot pussy, but it’s a nice fantasy.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      you're probably good looking but you got face blindness on yourself

  46. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    a fat, ugly, balding man who looks like he is in his 50s can't find a date
    this is surprising to you? lol

  47. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Considering I look like a mexican boxer, not really. Just be yourself and don't show fear or reluctance around women. Play with boundaries without being creepy like offering drinks and have a john wayne smile.

  48. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    That’s a rough 30

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Its not the age, it's that he is hideous to begin with. The weight doesn't help his face at all, and his hairstyle hasn't changed since his mom sent him to school first day. He looks like a man who never gained independence from his mother, he looks like a b***h. My testosterone levels raised just looking at him, it's the kind of face that oozes victimhood. No wonder women aren't interested, the only interest in that face is from men wanting to punch it. It's almost primordial feeling.

  49. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Why not date younger women instead?

  50. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I should touch on the fact that people spend too much time indoors and/or looking at apps. Stop doing that. Meet up with others and socialize when you can. Dating apps are there to milk your pocket dry and not to give you a date.

  51. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    No just go to a wine bar. Don’t use online dating services and apps.

  52. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Dude, It's miserable where I'm at in my late 20's. Shit's only going to get worse from here.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      the only hope is to survive ww3 and then find a teen girl and never give her rights she didnt earn

  53. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Listen autists, just go for latin women.
    If she seems to have trouble speaking, smiles for a second and stops and looks down, she is both attracted to you and thinking she isn't attractive enough to be with you.
    You can literally take her home, tell her she is your property, put a dog collar on her and then pop her cherry while telling her she was born to have your babies. You can get her to bring in her friends and sisters/cousins too. I have no idea why white guys are putting up with white girls playing disney princess when you can actually play high nobility and have a luxury weighted blanket of 4-5 thing latin teens clinging to you as you fall asleep.

  54. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    No.

  55. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    wtf is picrel? This guy is simply not goodlooking. Hasn't been with 18-30 and isn't beyond 30. And it is not just the hair.

  56. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >have shit genes
    >be weak and in poor health
    >why don't women believe I can frick their brains out and satisfy their primal fantasies?

    Imagine not understanding women, the most simplest of creatures.

  57. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    dude is ugly end of

  58. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    zero reason to WANT to date as a 30+ man even if you are decently attractive. all you will get are ran-through hoes or single moms unless you happen to be rich and/or very attractive.

  59. 4 weeks ago
    niggerfaggot

    You must maintain your sexual capital in some way. I am early 30s but I act and dress as if I’m a mix of 40s and 20s. One vital thing is that you can’t have fricking face fat. Your angular face becomes more important than ever. This means your only options are shredded or skinny. You can no longer be “chubby” or even average, otherwise people will notice your age. The point is that you need sexual capital. If you’re on this website I’m going to assume you’re too far gone to understand what that means, and so I’ll give you a short route to it. You need to act like a lizard. A lizard has no personality, but lizards do seek out things and do .. ah screw it. Be honest with yourself and the rest will follow.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Believe it or not, this kind of shallowness is repulsive to high value women. It's like you're an overgrown teenager. Social media has ruined you.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Woman are more shallow then men. I had hambeasts shame me and call me shallow because I only wanted fit women, without realizing they were doing the same thing since I was and still am a fit guy. Their mental gymnastics were insane.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Let me guess... dating apps.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            yeah, I used israeliteder

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            That's the problem. You're mistaking the simulacrum for reality. Dating apps are fake and gay and not representative of anything except themselves. Be careful of drawing broader conclusions.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Actually the women I've met in real life were sometimes worse. You get fat obese women shame you for rejecting them without realizing that by chasing a fit guy they too are being shallow. Everyone is shallow, it's human nature.

  60. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Imagine if you went out and collected NPCs, autists, prostitutes, betas, manipulator, cheater, liar, and otherwise any degenerate then put them all in a room to comingle. That's what dating, esp online dating, is as an adult. Dating as an adult is a compounding punishment for all the time you squandered yourself since your own youth, and only morons don't see past the insanity that is participating in such a flawed, unnatural method of meeting partners

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      tfw weirdo

  61. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    bro this guy looking like he is on job hunt, there is no way this is his dating pic.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >satisfying 666 rule
      Ah yes, the self reported 6 that's actually a 5. He's not 30.

      Looks like he's running for election to be councilman in a small town.

  62. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    i would imagine. boomers gaslit younger generations that they have to struggle and waste their time working in their youth.
    you're supposed to find your partner between 20-28, like every other generation did

  63. 4 weeks ago
    Sage

    >1pbtid
    >not even remotely board related
    sage
    frick all you morons bumping this bullshit

  64. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Not really. The biggest issue is that very few woman are worth the trouble. Specially if you have something worthwhile in your life.
    But if you just want to have sex is easy. Specially with younger girls

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      and then you make these younger girls horrible wives in the future, and the cycle continues

      casual sex is the problem

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >casual sex is the problem
        This. People blame women entirely instead of men and women. It's a small group of STD ridden promiscuous men who are equally to blame. Instead, we YAAS KANG them and just feel jealous. It's moronic.

  65. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    you're a man you can start a family in your 50's don't worry just acquire wealth a career and a house. For women past 30 its over if you're not married with kids

  66. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Pride an Prejudice was written over 200 years ago but the lesson still stands to this day
    people will not actually find "love" they eventually settle and out of practicality or futility when the ego gives in

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Not really the point of the story, but OK.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It's different in the case of anons here: israelites told white women their sons weren't human and they just nodded and agreed.
      No amount of 'standing up for white people' is going to change this. These are the same people who enthusiastically took the jab and laughed at anyone who told them not to. They are never going to accept you. They may show up later begging you for resources, but that is them once again viewing you as less than human and seeing you as an atm.
      Just go latin. Even if you are getting several girls pregnant, as long as you help their dads put tile flooring in and rebuild and boost their cars they'll think you are the best person ever.
      We have already had our revenge: white women and israelites are in the process of LOSING EVERYTHING. Like god himself planned for their fall. White men still begging white women to love them end up going metro and being permanently friendzoned or trooning out and then being despised even more. They chose satan, accept it.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >people will not actually find "love" they eventually settle and out of practicality

      That was the norm for most of human history. People married for pragmatic reasons - often arranged or semi-arranged like a father would pick out two or three suitors for his daughter and let her choose between them but no other guys - and they just learned to live with each other and get on with life.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Sounds awful, I rather remain independent doing what I want

  67. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    That guy suffers from terminal FatFace.
    Even if he lost every ounce of fat on the rest of his body, he'd still look like a hound dog.
    >Many such cases.

  68. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    No idea I am not into it. I am 30 but never dated, it just seems annoying to me and I also don't want to have a family anyway

  69. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Dating got easier in my 30's
    But Im an outlier

  70. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Also, he should just grow a beard. Beards make everyone look more masculine.

  71. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    That guy is ugly though
    just goes to show you that the whole
    >lmao manlets, when will they learn?
    Was just cope by ugly tall people
    being more handsome will always win agains a tall dude unless you're like midget sized

  72. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I will be able to report in a month, I am only going for younger women though.

    t. 30yo

  73. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yes

  74. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    date 18-23 year olds and it won't be so miserable

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      That is the plan, combined with going to a poorer country in a weakened economic state.

  75. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Early 30s here. I've basically given up on it. Ever since me and my ex fiance split up 5 years ago I've tried to get back into the dating life but it's just a hellish nightmare. Going on a date with the average woman these days is a job interview that you pay for at best, and a shit show that could result in you getting falsely accused at worst.

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