Is it just a coincidence that everyone in my friend circle goes for slightly older women (2-3 yrs older)?

Is it just a coincidence that everyone in my friend circle goes for slightly older women (2-3 yrs older)? Even my sister has a 3 yrs younger boyfriend. Are there more dudes out there than is commonly expected that go for older women? What would be the appeal for that? I heard women live longer than men by a few years, could it be they're trying to even that out lol?

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  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It’s very common now compared to a few years ago. What are the ages involved?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      yeah I forgot to mention, we're all in our late 20s - early 30s

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        From my experience, most (8 to 9 out of 10) girls who dates younger guys doesn't want children.
        And that's also logical from guys pov: you instinctual know the younger the girl is, the higher the chance to get a baby you have. If you don't want children, older (=less crazy) gf is a good deal

        I see it a lot in the teens and early 20s age range, but it’s not surprising it’s spread to older age groups. Implications are probably different for different age groups.

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    From my experience, most (8 to 9 out of 10) girls who dates younger guys doesn't want children.
    And that's also logical from guys pov: you instinctual know the younger the girl is, the higher the chance to get a baby you have. If you don't want children, older (=less crazy) gf is a good deal

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I think it's a combination of things. Mainly that due to hoeflation there's a lot younger guys on the dating market than ever before and because of divorce rates a lot of older women too. Also I personally find that guys around my age have a lot of emotional baggage and family drama. Younger guys are more laid back and open minded and I don't mind thier immaturity cause I have kids of my own so I'm used to it.

      You couldn't be further from the truth, they want children just don't need a provider (use you for your money)

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        What ages are you usually involved with?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I don't really have any set ages, I just like who I like the youngest of whom was 19

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Down the rabbit hole. Maybe for bigger age gaps but 2-3 years is still kinda same generation, mentality the same, and you can't tell look wise unless they've really abused themselves.

        And when you meet and date, age isn't the first thing you're going to filter by unless visibly noticeable or shown (online dating - but even then it can be diregarded when there are common interests, conversation goes well, etc)

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    2-3 years is not that older..with 5 it starts to show.
    I guess because looks wise and less regulated idea about hierarchy lead to this trend.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      It depends on the ages. Three years is a lot 14-22 and not so much 25-32.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Do people 14-22 go for older girl younger guy much?

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Older women prey on younger men's naivety and complete lack of experience. It is a lot easier for women to deal with a young guy who is just happy he is getting any attention from a chick. Most young dudes are unaware and completely BLUEPILLED. It's insane, actually. Women will use you, your time, money, love, etc. without giving anything back. She will cheat on you, gaslight, manipulate you into doing shit that will BENEFIT HER but not benefit you. Older women will put strict rules on you and double standards (I can have sex with many guys, but you can only be with me) stupid shit like that. Or they want YOU to ignore their sexual history (I've been FRICKED by a hundred black guys, but you have to accept me for who I am, simp!) That's fricking insane. Always go for younger women. The prime of females is between 18-24 for beauty and child bearing. Anything below or above that is off limits if you want a good woman.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Could be the case in general, but these guys I know 3 of them have proposed and are looking forward to kids in the next 5 years at most (and so are the girls). And 2 guys were the obsessed chasers (one of them got fat in the meantime and hangs on to his girl who is model tier hot and he knows she's settling, they keep arguing and making up etc. while the other is mad in love after years of no relationship bc he had been cheated on in the past, so it looks like he finally found the one even at that age and is holding on tight). Idk about the others' dating plans, some keeping changing the girls but keep going for slightly older for some reason

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        It probably depends on the ages. Late 20s and early 30s have different motivations even if the trend started with younger age groups and spread.

        Probably it has to do with sex. My GF is 2 years older than me. It really gives me a boner knowing that a girl who is older is sucking my dick.

        21 and 23.

        Early 20s and teens probably is only about the sex. Younger guys getting off on being with older girls and older girls getting off on being with younger guys.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          That's right. My older GF likes to be in charge when we have sex. I like this too. We both like it. I think we will get married.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            I think it's exciting because usually only older men marry younger women. I literally get a boner because my GF is older than me, knowing that we are different than average people. I do feel more sexual pleasure because bof this than what I had with girls of my age.

            That kind of excitement seems common for both the younger guy and older girl due to the taboo nature of it. It’s probably increased when you start crossing life boundaries, like splitting between adult and college, or college and high school, or high school senior and freshman.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I think it's exciting because usually only older men marry younger women. I literally get a boner because my GF is older than me, knowing that we are different than average people. I do feel more sexual pleasure because bof this than what I had with girls of my age.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yes. Most women are like men. They are jaded and want a young, naive partner they can control, because of their disgusting, promiscuos past.

      I had a dog that loved me unconditionally, without knowing if I'm a good or bad person. I think the feeling is the same with younger, naive partners.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        That is very cynical.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Women don't want partners who they can control, it's the opposite. But they'll push their buttons to test the firm will of their partner

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          But you just said the opposite

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Probably it has to do with sex. My GF is 2 years older than me. It really gives me a boner knowing that a girl who is older is sucking my dick.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      What are your and her ages?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        21 and 23.

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You sound moronic anon.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Don’t be rude

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's because step mom became the most popular porn category with zoomers

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >What would be the appeal for that?
    I'm 24 and have no interest in dating college broads or females with little to none life experience. Older is better, younger is boring.

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm from the midwest and this is unusual. I've never dated an older woman, most of the guys I know I haven't, and most of the girls I know were sleeping with adults at 14 and at 22 are with 28 to 40 year olds.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      It's mostly a zoomer thing

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        That’s what I’ve seen, you don’t see it much above 25 or so

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