Is it really impossible for girls and guys to be friends without one or the other to get attached romantically?

Is it really impossible for girls and guys to be friends without one or the other to get attached romantically? One of guys I was friends with confessed he had romantic feelings for me. I don't feel the same way. He has not spoken to me in a week despite me trying to talk to him. Is our friendship really ruined?

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  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Just think "Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs".

    If this guy is deeply deprived of human contact, then you rejecting his advances is like dumping out a bottle of water in-front of someone who hasn't drank for days.

    Just sayan'. It's not your fault, nobody is demanding anything out of you. But it just feels like shit, when someone has something to give, and you're not worthy of it.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      He has a few friends he hangs around and talks to regularly with since they share a hobby (mostly gaming.) I don't think it has anything to do with being deprived contact. Is it because he does not have any other contact with women?

      I dunno, I've tried being just friends with a number of girls, they all deliberately create sexual tension well pretending they don't mean to and the usually get butthurt when I leave.
      If it's possible, it doesn't seem worth it.

      I'm sorry to hear that. It's why I mentioned both. I know another bunch in which the girl did develop romantic feelings for the guy. She did act horribly to it but eventually found a guy she liked and he liked back. I do believe women take it worse though.

      It's definitely possible, but I think there needs to be a strong intrinsic reason you wouldn't date him that he can accept, and you need to establish that you're not into him right away. For example I'm friends with this girl 7 years older than me, and she very quickly said something that made it clear she wasn't into me and I'm fine with that because her wanting a guy her own age isn't a huge blow to my ego.
      In contrast, when a classmate told me she just didn't feel the same way about me, I just stopped talking to her and it hurt a lot more because she just didn't like me as much as I like her instead of having something concrete I could accept.

      I thought it is obvious when we are not into each other romantically from the beginning. I'm talking about him developing those romantic feelings for me later on.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        He was into you romantically from the beginning. He's just managed to restrain himself until now. His feelings might have gotten worse over time, but they were definitely there from the beginning.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Please not let this be true. He was such a great friend. I wish he would at least call me back so we can talk about it. I'm sorry to him if he was like that from the beginning. I just want to be able to talk to one of my friends that I enjoy talking to so much.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            He was such a great friend because he was in love with you dummy.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            most of the time it's not done to spite you into changing your mind, it's just genuinely painful to hang around someone that told you you're not good enough, especially if (when) you do start seeing someone shortly after rejecting them, the latter is something a lot of guys are not going to sit around and watch, i could believe you're baiting but i've seen too many people at least pretend not to understand basic lessons in empathy like this, you didn't do anything wrong until you insisted on pulling him back in rather than letting him leave

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            There goes the lying. I did not pull him back in. He went on to lie about me the moment I rejected his unrequited love. He hurt my reputation. Why are you justifying this? He had no right to do so. He could have just left things as they are and moved on. He didn't. He instead spread lies about me. He acted like a spoiled manchild who did not get his way.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            hes not replying to you you stupid frick

            now put the rope around my neck and sit on my face.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Imagine being this mad that you think his reply to someone else was a reply to you. You can admit that you loved him and was obsessed with him.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Yes I am mad. I did get blindly mad. However, my reply still applies.

            hes not replying to you you stupid frick

            now put the rope around my neck and sit on my face.

            Go away.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >Go away.
            why should i? what did i do to deserve you even acknowledging my existence?

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            You acknowledged mine by replying to me. You are sick. Go away.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            no i didnt. (You) dont even exist to me. You're just a vague idea, like every other anonymous poster on this shit website

            now get on my face and suffocate me while calling me names

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I dunno, I've tried being just friends with a number of girls, they all deliberately create sexual tension well pretending they don't mean to and the usually get butthurt when I leave.
    If it's possible, it doesn't seem worth it.

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It's definitely possible, but I think there needs to be a strong intrinsic reason you wouldn't date him that he can accept, and you need to establish that you're not into him right away. For example I'm friends with this girl 7 years older than me, and she very quickly said something that made it clear she wasn't into me and I'm fine with that because her wanting a guy her own age isn't a huge blow to my ego.
    In contrast, when a classmate told me she just didn't feel the same way about me, I just stopped talking to her and it hurt a lot more because she just didn't like me as much as I like her instead of having something concrete I could accept.

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Only normie guys that get plenty of pussy and have large friend groups can have female friends. For the average loser, if they only have one woman in their life, they will probably catch feelings for her because they have nothing else.

    Also I don't understand how women can continue being friends with a guy knowing they have feelings for them. Like it's not awkward at all knowing your friend wants to frick you? It is also pretty painful for the guy to just push down and ignore his feelings just to maintain the friendship

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      > Like it is not awkward at all knowing your friend wants to frick you? It is also pretty painful for the guy to just push down and ignore his feelings just to maintain the friendship
      They all secretly like it a little.
      And it really is not that weird for women. They function differently in society and they also (should) know all men want to frick them on some small level, from their boss to their dads married friends, to everyone else they meet, if the cards were shuffled out a little differently.

      He was such a great friend because he was in love with you dummy.

      This.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Like it's not awkward at all knowing your friend wants to frick you?
      I mean, one of my friends is gay and wants to frick me. It's not that weird cause I know I'm reasonably attractive and he knows I'm not gay.

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Well lets think, every single man has said this in human history and has an example to prove it. So idk, what the duck do you think? Every man ever is wrong about their own species; Or that stupid american western women are moronic and ignore uncomfortable truths?

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Is it really impossible for girls and guys to be friends without one or the other to get attached romantically?
    If the guy is single yes or if he is gay

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    it is possible for girls to be friends with guys in relationships yes
    single guys no

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Goes against the natural order. Women are are either completely ignorant or masterminds of tormenting men through psychological warfare and will still do it.

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    We have segregated the sexes since the dawn of civilization up until about a half a century ago. I'm starting to think that the enlightenment was nonsense.

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    another day of "NOOO MY HECKIN MOID FRIEND IS IN LOVE WITH ME? EVEN THOUGH I KNOW EVERY GUY LIVING HAS WANTED TO FRICK ME THE MINUTE IN GREW BOOBS).

    it's so tiresome

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      If you don't like this thread, why are you responding? Just ignore my thread.

      He was such a great friend because he was in love with you dummy.

      How could I been so dense? It's all making sense now. Thank you, /NSFFW/. I think I'm going to have to let the guy go. I don't want to torture him anymore if that is how he feels and the way it was from the beginning. I just wish he would contact me back just to let me know.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        OK genuinely curious, what difference would it make if he didn't feel this way for the beginning?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I don't know, Anon. If what you said is true, he grinned and beared it thinking something would come of it. It's obvious to me now that he did so in hopes it would pan out. Since it did not, he's disappointed that he wasted so much time on me. He would not have wasted that time at all if he was not romantically attracted to me.

          I'm sorry to all the guys who are doing this. It's impossible for guys and girls to be strict friends. Thank you for helping me realize this.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Like I said, it is possible, I just don't think it's possible in your particular case.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Again, thank you for making me realize this. I still want to talk to him and at least reconcile so things are not bad between us. I just wish he would contact me back. Text. Call. I don't care. Just let me hear him to let me know he is okay and talk about it. I care about him. I want to know that he is at least okay. I'm just not romantically attracted to him.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            You could try helping him get some other girl to be his gf maybe. That'd change the situation from "you're not getting a gf because I don't want to date you" to "I'll hook you up with a gf since I'm not available in that way."

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            If that was what he wanted, I could help him with one of my friends since one of my friends has a hard time with getting with guys, but has a common interest. However, he won't contact me back.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            It's possible he didn't realize that was an option and is already locked into just being sad and not responding instead.
            But if he does eventually contact you in the future then yeah, just getting him a gf would help. Guys like that usually can't get gfs easily the way girls can get bfs easily.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            This is a reasonable option btw that might actually work.
            The single way to get over a woman even slightly is to have another one care about you and make the pain go away. Still a reasonable chance that down the line when you do frick someone else that it'll cause difficulties though if it's within like the next 1-2 years, if its like 5 years after they've been together it'll not cause any issues whatsoever though

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    The problem is, for men and women, "friendship" means whole different things.
    What do girls do with their best friends? Its a whole lot touchy feely, cuddling, crying, talking about emotions etc.
    Whereas if a couple of blokes were doing that, you would think they were a fruity. Because that sort of behaviour is OBVIOUSLY romantic to men. Way beyond the bounds of regular friendship.

    So what do you think is going to happen when you put a man and woman together with two completely different ideas of what is friendly and what is romantic?
    The obvious, of course. This is why men and women can't be besties.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I wish I had a best femanon friend to be touchy feely with

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        That's called a GIRLFRIEND

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    we are designed to frick and to reproduce you stupid brainwashed moron

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >without one or the other to get attached romantically?
    You got it wrong. It's completely possible for guys and girls to be friends without anything romantic.
    Now, it might be harder, assuming both are single, to be friends without falling into the friends-with-benefits. And I don't see what's wrong with that. You're just both helping each others as friends with something that can be done between a man and a woman.

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'm guessing you're young.
    If you're with some nerd who thinks a combo of (a) you can treat your lady friends like your guy friends and/or (b) you have to be friends with a woman before dating then yeah. It's not going to happen. Probably picked it up from anime or something.

    That bridge is burned, you know. If you're going to be friends with men you really only want to bother knowing the one's who're already in relationships or not treat them like a brother or whatever or else they think they have a chance. That's just the nature of men and women.

  15. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I wonder what most maleanons here would feel if the situations were reversed.
    i.e. You like this girl (or multiple) as a friend only (you are not attracted to them) but then they confess their feelings for you and you realize you must end the friendship.
    However this sucks for you since you have a hard time making friends with people of the same sex...

    I am sure that is impossible to imagine for most maleanons.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >liking a girl as a friend but not being sexually attracted to her
      Yes, that is impossible.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Is it really impossible for men?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Yes. You're overestimating the bar for men being OK with dating women.
          For a guy to not be willing to frick a girl she would need to be so extremely horrific to look at or be around that he would never want to be her friend either.
          Unlike with women where it's not enough for a guy to not be hideous and he has to actively be your perfect fantasy man for you to be down to date him.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          If a physically attractive (i.e. not ugly) girl is fun to be around, I would be happy to date her. Now granted she has to be either exceptionally fun or exceptionally attractive for me to be willing to risk our friendship and ask her out, but if she's willing to do that part for me then the bar is pretty low.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          I don't understand your point here.
          Or do you seriously think that a woman who is friend with an extremely hot guy for example would be against a one night stand?
          Why is it so hard for you to accept that sexual attraction doesn't necessarily negate friendship?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >if the situations were reversed.
      The fact that you don't even see what's wrong with that statement shows how far you're gone.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Not a single women on the planet shares my interests until I train her. I would never put up with a women friend in the first place if there was no intention of benis in bagina on my part

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      The only reason I would be friends with a girl but unwilling to date her is if she was physically unattractive. So I'd understand if she was hurt by my rejection because I'd essentially be calling her ugly.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      99% of the time yes, unless both of you have partners or at bare minimum the guy has a partner, it's generally not possible. usually not even then cause if the guy has a partner and the girl doesn't the average girl will try to shit stir and get jealous even if she doesn't want him for herself.
      it's up to you if you actually value him enough to try and salvage it, which will take a long time, not just a week but months maybe even a year+, and you will have to handle his anger and frustration and variety of feelings that he has to work through and somehow try to find a way to handle.
      if you can't do that then it's probably ruined yes. if you can do that, then there's a 1% chance it is salvageable depending on the kind of person you are and the kind of person he is, if you're normies its 0%, if you're actually open and good at communicating and empathising then you have the chance.

      you do not understand men. they would almost never hang out with your hypothetical women if they didn't like her enough to potentially date her. if they don't find her attractive, either in looks or in aspects of her personality, why would they be hanging out with her at all to begin with? they wouldn't because all you're doing is describing someone who is annoying and not good company to be around for them then.
      it is impossible to imagine because you think men and women are similar because you've been told this endlessly by society, the reality is men and women are so different in their brains and feelings that it's shocking, so a man would essentially never feel what you describe or be in the situation you describe.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I dated a woman and she was cute and had a nice personality, but she told me that she run from home when she was a teen and was a sex worker for a while. She was like kind of poor overall, but cute and good person. We had sex many times but I never said I love you or showed loved explicitly. At some point she realized that I was not interested in her and got sad, so I decided to avoid contact to let her heal. Because more empathy from me would have broke more her heart.

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yes. You just need to find men who aren't desperate for female attention. And yes your friendship with that guy is over.

  17. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I thought about fricking every single female friend I had. If I had the chance I would do it with every one of them or at least almost all of them. I'm not desperate or anything I don't understand why you wouldn't do it. Thats one thing I never understood about women is this extreme pickyness some of the foids have. Sex isn't that deep after all and you live only once on this forsaken planet why not just have a little fun ey??

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      > Sex isnt that deep after all and you live only once on this forsaken planet why not just have a little fun ey??
      Because it is messy and guys catch feelings and start getting possessive and moody when they date other BFs etc etc

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Sex isn't that deep after all
      It is for me. To me, being able to give my virginity to my future husband shows how much I'm willing to love and trust him. I could have had as much as much sex as the next bawd, but I choose not to since I want to make it not only sexual, but emotional and show my future husband that I truly do love him enough to save myself. That is what makes it deep.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        How would you feel if the man you were attracted to told you he didn't consider you wife material?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Devastated, but I would move on. I know because it happened. We dated for a year, and we tried to make it work but he did not see a future with me as his wife.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Girls rate 80% of men as unattractive so they will only sleep around with the top 20% of men. If you were chad all your female freinds would want to frick you lol.

  18. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

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  19. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    ive literally never had this issue with male friends catching feeling for me because im really unattractive and autistic acting
    i havent had many friends in general but i can definitely tell none of the guys ive been friends with wanted to frick me ever

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      > but i can definitely tell none of the guys ive been friends with wanted to frick me ever
      Yes they did.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        no, they definitely didnt. you have no idea what i look like, most people automatically assume im asexual for some reason which clearly means they cant comprehend me being sexual in any way.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Jesus fricking christ the state of this thread

          >most people automatically assume im asexual
          Nobody fricking assume shit like this, except one set of individuals. You need to go back.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            ive had 4 different male friends be insanely shocked to find out im not asexual, might not be the exact words they used to describe it each time but they definitely assumed i had no interest in sex whatsoever. ive ask why they assumed that and they wouldnt really explain it other than saying its my personality

            Are you my 500 pound life fat?
            No?
            Then they wanted to frick you.
            I dont need to know what you look like, guys want to frick everything, sad but true.
            If they emotional access to you as a friend that goes up by a factor of ten,
            I am not saying they would date you or treat you well as a gf, but they wanted, no, needed to p, have sex with you

            > most people automatically assume im asexual
            You think that means we dont want to cum with you?
            Lol
            Lmao

            there is no possible way this is true at all

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            > there is no possible way this is true at all
            Whatever helps you sleep at night.
            Honestly though it is better if you keep your innocent delusion, I won't push the truth on you any more, that would be cruel.
            Btw even if you ask them, they will deny it.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >might not be the exact words they used to describe it
            Then it's not it. Maybe they assumed that you're not interested in sex with men, or them, probably because of your attitude towards them. But that's another topic.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Are you my 500 pound life fat?
          No?
          Then they wanted to frick you.
          I dont need to know what you look like, guys want to frick everything, sad but true.
          If they emotional access to you as a friend that goes up by a factor of ten,
          I am not saying they would date you or treat you well as a gf, but they wanted, no, needed to p, have sex with you

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          > most people automatically assume im asexual
          You think that means we dont want to cum with you?
          Lol
          Lmao

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Anon I hate to be the bearer of this news, but unless you look like a butch lesbian, they have in fact thought about fricking you and at least some of them would have been down to do it
      Based on their level of desperation for female contact and sex, even looking like a butch lesbian some still would have thought about it especially in some drunken one night stand or fwb slampig context at absolute minimum

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        i have pretty bad skin and a deformed looking body caused by scoliosis, i dont really think anyone can sexualize those things and i have nothing nice looking about me to make up for them either.

        >might not be the exact words they used to describe it
        Then it's not it. Maybe they assumed that you're not interested in sex with men, or them, probably because of your attitude towards them. But that's another topic.

        my interpretation of it has always been something like "you are so bad looking i cant comprehend you even think about having sex because nobody would ever want to" but they didnt want to be mean about it

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          many men don't care anon. when i was like 13 i met a girl through my aunt, a daughter of her friend, who was like 15. had burn scars all on her neck and one side of her face from an accident as a child.
          still had a huge crush on her, still thought she was pretty.
          so especially if they are already friends with you and that means they enjoy your company or personality enough to spend time with you, what you actually look like generally is not a big deal.
          and that's just for relationships, for fwb or random sex the bar is even lower. i recall years ago i met a friend of a friend, she was objectively ugly, looked like she was 40+ in her 20s, her face and body were saggy even though she was only a bit chubby, she was dumb, boring, hard to carry a conversation with her at all, i still thought about fricking her because she was easy and everyone knew it. i would never have dated that girl, but there is a chance i would have fricked her when i was horny if my self control was that of a normie
          so a deformed girl with bad skin who you actually enjoy spending time with, very reasonable to want to hang out, play games and whatever and end the night by nutting in her every week

  20. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Why do you think I constantly posted my threads mocking it? He did the same thing except he kept spreading false bullshit on me. Luckily, people caught on, realized it was a lie, and started admonishing him for it. Too bad the damage was done and I got a bunch of abuse for it. Thankfully, most of those people apologized for believing him.

    I've come to that realization. Men and women can never be friends because the men automatically think we're in love with them if we treat them lime a human being by being nice, friendly and kind to them. Unfortunately, they cannot react in a proper way when they find out their love for us is unrequited.

    I now understand all the moid hate, along with the b***hes who blindly go along with it. I hate men so much now over this. He could have just said his say and broke it off. I would have understood. Instead, he acted lime a manchild out for revenge.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Because you're a moron and don't understand that men and women are different.
      >abloobloo should have just broke it off and it'd be fine
      For YOU. Because the average woman is an unfeeling c**t, she can cry for an hour and then her life is back to normal and she doesn't care anymore. It does not work that way for men, depending on how much they actually cared about you men will feel like shit and wish they would die in their sleep for like 6 months minimum unless they happen to magically immediately get someone else who throws themselves at them. Often much longer.
      I can think about my exes and see that it has taken me a year on average to 'get over' most of them, a couple much shorter, one substantially longer, and when I say 'get over' it does not mean what it means to a woman. It means you simply become accustomed to that way of feeling as your new normal, not that you just bounce back and it all disappears which is what it means for women.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >tl;dr: Wah wah wah.
        Seethe more, moid. If he was in the right, he would not have acted the way he did. He has no right to go lie to everyone about me and damage my reputation with it. He deserves everything he is getting. I'm glad people are cutting off their friendships with him. He could have taken the responsible way, but no, you just reinforce it. Get over it and move on. If it takes you 6 months to get over it, you are a whiny b***h and should have a nice day.

        You are fricking unbearable and should have a nice day for making all those threads. You can admit you are obsessed with him and just cannot admit that you wanted to frick him.

        Projection at its finest. have a nice day, moid.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          sit on my face and tell me to kys please

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >If it takes you 6 months to get over it, you are a whiny b***h and should have a nice day.
          And this is why you are a moron, you don't want to understand men because women are unironically too stupid to even understand themselves the majority of the time. Entirely empathyless beings on average.
          Nor did I ever say he was correct to spread lies (if they are actually lies which i can't know because your word is not worth anything tehe), I simply explained one of the million ways in which men are entirely different to women.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      You are fricking unbearable and should have a nice day for making all those threads. You can admit you are obsessed with him and just cannot admit that you wanted to frick him.

  21. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

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  22. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Is it really impossible for girls and guys to be friends without one or the other to get attached romantically?
    Only if both are already in relationship, or at least one of them and the other party is level headed enough to not get hopes up in such situation.
    >Is our friendship really ruined?
    Might be. Would you want to be reminded on every interaction about something you desire so much but can't have it? It's no longer fun but frustrating. How are you supposed to forget, mellow out and live happily without cutting source of reminder out?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >be reminded on every interaction about something you desire so much but can't have it
      I've been doing this for over half a year now, the way you put it really made me think, it's just stupid and masochistic.

  23. 2 months ago
    Anonymuos

    It is impossible bec guys treat women like shit bec they weren't raised right by their mothers. Men call women prostitutes and b***hes because they were raised by one.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Men call women prostitutes and b***hes because they were raised by one.
      Men call women prostitutes and b***hes exclusively because of WOMENS BEHAVIOUR that they have directly seen and experienced you moron. One womans behaviour is not enough to do this, it is consistent and regular behaviour of women that make them call them this, because they come to understand your true nature. Keep trying to dodge accountability forever though

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Translated:
        >wahhh women are b***hes and prostitutes because they frick people they like instead of me
        You can admit you are a pathetic loser.

  24. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I tried. Ended up doing this weird cuddling stuff because I was nervous about making a move but I knew it was too late kek. Later on, at her place in bed after a few days of fugging she asked me if I wanted to elope with her. I thought it was a joke but now I'm starting to realise it may have been legitimate and my autist brain completely misread the situation. Anyway we are no longer on speaking terms. Dodged a bullet but at the same time... Frick man.

  25. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    There seems to be some looks factor, superior looking Chad can totally be true friends with no romantic feelings and most male friends that declare themselves over time mostly look like a beta cuck Redditor.

  26. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Is it really impossible for girls and guys to be friends without one or the other to get attached romantically?
    Yes. It's impossible. Unless both parties are already dating someone else but that already has some risk for cheating. A teacher of mine used to say to the girls that the only thing boys want is sex. I didn't really believed him until I had a close friend that was a girl. We promised to keep it platonic but like the horny teenager I was I started to get into her pants, after several years of dating we broke it off. After I finally realized that my teacher was right, guys only want sex.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >After I finally realized that my teacher was right, guys only want sex.
      Your teacher and you are both wrong. Men do not want sex, it's like you've taken the cherry off the top of a cake and are walking around declaring the cake is infact a cherry.
      Men want a girlfriend or a wife. Sex is part of that, but it not the only goal.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Men want a girlfriend or a wife. Sex is part of that, but it not the only goal.
        Yeah maybe you are right, maybe there was more to it, just looking back on it, it felt like my penis was doing most of the thinking.

  27. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Late to the thread but yes it is. Men and women can not be friends except if the guy is gay or something. I am not saying all men around you wantnto frick you all the time (they could have gf's for example) but because of the very possibility that is could happen the entire dynamic is fundamentally different.

    I am a straight guy and do not wanna frick my male friends under any circumstances.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      There's a difference between wanting to have sex with someone and having a romantic attraction to them.

      Of course it's possible. I'm basically straight and have "rejected" a few friends because I wasn't romantically attached to them.

  28. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yes your friendship is over.
    No men and women cannot be friends. Friendship is not really even a real thing for developed adults. Its more something that is used for children to learn and protect themselves by finding a group.

  29. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    The dynamic between two same sex friends and two different sex friends is different, but it's not impossible.
    /thread

  30. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    it's hard to say
    I'd say yes since I know I am able to not get romantically attached but then when I thought we were just friends, my female friend got feelings for me
    So idk :/

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