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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    guaranteed to find a girl who will settle with you after being used by men who are the opposite of that, yeah

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Yes

      [emotionally immature, not nice to hang out with]

      Brought to you by federal bureau of copeism and suifuel prevention.

      [mentally unhealthy]

      the problem with people saying this is that it implies that if you can't get a girlfriend you're emotionally immature and mentally unhealthy, it's just ridiculous advice

      [emotionally immature]

      Never forget: when these people say "guys", they mean "chads". YOU are not even recognized as a male by these women. You're background noise, and if you get to loud it gives them the ick. That's all you can do.

      [emotionally immature, mentally unhealthy]

      >emotionally mature
      =willing to do emotional labor for the woman, but is stoic and silent about his struggles himself and would never show his weakness, pain, or struggles to his gf
      >mentally healthy
      =no neurodivergence or mental illness, tolerance and acceptance for those things is only for women, not men! equality is a one way street
      >and generally nice to hang out with
      =extroverted, kinda dark triad, misanthropic, kinda shitty to everyone but a bit nicer to her so she feels special (but mean enough to keep her on her feet wondering if he really likes her)

      [emotionally immature, mentally unhealthy, not nice to be around]

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        [massive homosexual]
        oreganolly

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This. And all the emotionally mature guys wish they could have been immature and raped her but that was Chad's job

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      deal. Where do I sign for a girl to settle for me?
      I'm so lonely I'll take anything

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      That's what happened to me, but I'm currently single once again

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      guaranteed that you only option will be a girl who will settle with you after being used by men who are the opposite of that, yeah.*
      FTFY

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Pretty much yes
    I know I'm not emotionally mature in the sense that I'd be a burden for a gf
    Most people here from what I read shoot themselves in the foot larping about being mentally ill to find an excuse.

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Nothing is guaranteed in life. Nothing at all.

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Brought to you by federal bureau of copeism and suifuel prevention.

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Stormy

    no. this is fluff some people say to cope. hit the gym

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You don't need to be ripped for women to like you. I'm skinny as frick and totally unfit but my girlfriend doesn't care. If the only reason women want you is because you are jacked, you are bound to get used or cheated on

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      this would true if the gym made you taller and more handsome

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    the problem with people saying this is that it implies that if you can't get a girlfriend you're emotionally immature and mentally unhealthy, it's just ridiculous advice

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      it also implies therapy is a magical cure that'll fix all of those problems somehow.
      I'm stuck like this for life. I'm emotionally immature, mentally unstable, and either boring as frick to be around or absurdly creepy depending on how much I'm holding back.
      I've been in therapy my whole life, I've been diagnosed with everything under the sun, I've been given a plethora of medications, and yet I'm still like this.
      some people are just destined to be alone.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      thats literally me tho

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Never forget: when these people say "guys", they mean "chads". YOU are not even recognized as a male by these women. You're background noise, and if you get to loud it gives them the ick. That's all you can do.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Most men dont even talk to sub8 women. They are invisible to men

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        bullshit. Just asked out this girl that I would rate a six (even though I still found her cute in her own ways, mostly personality-based) and she just rejected rapidly and cleanly. What you're saying is not a real thing in real life.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Its funny that all the cute, big breasted women magically have a good personality but if you are sub8 then you are just invisible to men

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            this girl I asked out had no ass, no breasts, a pretty noticeable gap tooth and deep black eye bags. She had two good qualities physically: beautiful hair and skinny. She's completely closed off from anyone else, I haven't seen anyone talk to her in four months and she hides her lunch break away in her car. She really did not dress well at all either. Does that sound like a stacey? It didn't matter, I still had a massive crush on her.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Also she was trans, not sure if that matters in this fake story

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            it's not a fake story at all. Why would I just make something up like that? This is reality, sub-8 women get attention. Maybe not from the guys they'd want attention from though.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >sub8 women get attention
            Blue pilled cope

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            that one got attention from me. What's your counterpoint to that?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            ugly guys get girls all the time

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            that's not a counter point to a sub-8 girl getting my attention disproving that no sub-8 girl ever gets attention

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Its funny that all the cute, big breasted women magically have a good personality
            Thanks for proving you've never even talked to a girl like that.
            About 20% of them are insufferable b***hes and another 15% re fricking insane

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >pic
            Man this is such an ancient meme. I remember it had a girl with brown hair in a short-shorts soccer uniform in front of a goal in some field. Anybody got the OG on hand?

        • 3 weeks ago
          sage

          >muh personality
          lol the irony of saying this is incredible

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >emotionally mature
    =willing to do emotional labor for the woman, but is stoic and silent about his struggles himself and would never show his weakness, pain, or struggles to his gf
    >mentally healthy
    =no neurodivergence or mental illness, tolerance and acceptance for those things is only for women, not men! equality is a one way street
    >and generally nice to hang out with
    =extroverted, kinda dark triad, misanthropic, kinda shitty to everyone but a bit nicer to her so she feels special (but mean enough to keep her on her feet wondering if he really likes her)

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I may as well talk about it here. I asked out a girl for the first time in my life around a week ago and I got rejected. I noticed her looking at me all the time among other things, after around 4 days I finally mustered the courage to talk to her. I asked her if she was interested in me, and she said I was imagining it and asked me why I thought that, I told her that I noticed her looking at me a bunch. Then she said "oh yeah, I was, but it's because I wanted to ask you math questions (we're classmates)", and yet she never did. I'm obviously very disappointed, by above all I'm just confused. There's no reason why she would be looking at me (and no one else for the record) for simple math help she could get from the teacher, and she never once talked to me. I can accept that she's not interested, but I don't feel like I have any closure. I can't really believe a girl would look at me like that, shyly and sneaking glances when she thinks I'm not looking, just for some help with dumb math questions.

    This is the first girl I've felt anything for in 12 years, so I kind of saw it as my only shot. I think I'll be alone forever.

    Any ideas?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You are a creep and should consider yourself lucky she did not report your ass

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Report my ass for what exactly?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Stalking, Harassment, Sexual Harassment, Etc.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            you're unhinged. I asked her if she was interested, she said no, I said all right and left and didn't try to talk to her again. She also didn't even deny that she was sending me signals, she just basically said she was doing it without realizing it. That's it. She didn't even seem perturbed at all by the whole thing.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Dang, you must be lucky, because anyone else this dumb would have a case on their hands by now

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            go outside moron
            no one catches a case for simply talking to a girl

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            pretty obvious you're just trying to get me bothered, not working to be frank

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Lmao, I am not the one posting on NSFFW about girls reject me

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Stalking, Harassment, Sexual Harassment, Etc.

          you're unhinged. I asked her if she was interested, she said no, I said all right and left and didn't try to talk to her again. She also didn't even deny that she was sending me signals, she just basically said she was doing it without realizing it. That's it. She didn't even seem perturbed at all by the whole thing.

          pretty obvious you're just trying to get me bothered, not working to be frank

          You're getting trolled you amateur, dumbdumb, newc**t.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      She's shy and embarrassed you noticed

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        That sounds nice, but it's hard to believe honestly. She didn't seem very flustered when she rejected me. I find it hard to believe that she has no interest in me, but it seems to be true. She knows I'm leaving in around a week s and hasn't tried to talk to me at all, so, she can't be very interested at all logically, especially after I showed my interest in her and she put me down.

        I think my biggest problem with the whole thing is I can't reach an answer that explains everything to me. I can't really take what she said at face value, but it also doesn't seem like she was lying, so I'm in limbo.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      and this right here is why you foids can take your "signals" and shove em up your fat asses

      if it was chad she'd make it real damn obvious

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      what do you mean?
      >I asked her if she was interested in me
      did you open with that? You opened with a question like "are you interested in me?" ???
      thats a b***h move, you are basically asking her permission to ask her out, you are suppose to just ask her out. Dont beat around the bush, its awkward and makes people feel awkward.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >thats a b***h move
        I guess? I've never had any delusions of being a chad, so it tracks. I was really so nervous that I'm surprised I managed to talk to her at all. I think my approach was still more ballsy, but less effective, than what my friends and family were telling me of just looking for some excuse to talk to her and then hope something develops from there.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I would wager a guess based on the extremely limited info provided that she's either trying to get you to chase or she was interested but isn't anymore. It happens, ignore her.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >she was interested but isn't anymore
        My approached killed it? I kind of realized that on my own.
        >she's either trying to get you to chase
        Doubt it. I haven't paid attention to her in a over a week and she hasn't done anything to get me back in. I think it's true she doesn't have any interest, even if it leaves a lot of things unexplained.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >My approached killed it? I kind of realized that on my own.
          It could be 100 things my man, she could have just not felt a "vibe", or met a chad online, who knows, women move fast. She'd have to be pretty far on the spectrum to be telling the truth about the math thing though, and if she's is lying then she's playing games simple as. Eitherway just avoid her, forcing things would only make it worse at this point.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I honestly got the feeling a good few times that she's actually a little autistic. Speech mannerisms mostly. If I can't do it with an autistic girl, it really is over lol.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >I would wager a guess based on the extremely limited info provided that she's either trying to get you to chase or she was interested but isn't anymore
        Sounds like she's prolly just a plain ol c**t to me

        >thats a b***h move
        I guess? I've never had any delusions of being a chad, so it tracks. I was really so nervous that I'm surprised I managed to talk to her at all. I think my approach was still more ballsy, but less effective, than what my friends and family were telling me of just looking for some excuse to talk to her and then hope something develops from there.

        a b***h move
        >I guess?
        No dude, don't listen to morons like this, he's just jealous that you actually had the balls to come out and say what was on your mind instead of playing games like a homosexual like he would do

        >she was interested but isn't anymore
        My approached killed it? I kind of realized that on my own.
        >she's either trying to get you to chase
        Doubt it. I haven't paid attention to her in a over a week and she hasn't done anything to get me back in. I think it's true she doesn't have any interest, even if it leaves a lot of things unexplained.

        Alright, describe this girl, anon. What's she like? Who does she hang out with? What's she look like? Is she just your typical c**t, part of a c**t squad, etc..?

        Either way, you're prolly right that she was into you. You either caught her off guard and she was too scared to admit it, so she went with the math question shit, orrr she is a c**t and she thinks she's too good for such a straightforward approach

        Why didn't you ask her what math problems she needed help with?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Alright, describe this girl, anon. What's she like?
          She's incredibly cut off from others. I've been at this school for four months and I haven't seen her talk to a single student, not even one. Only talks to teachers. Through hearing her talk to one, she said she broke down and started crying during and exam. She sneaks out of class early to heat up her lunch when no one is around then spends the whole lunch break hiding in her car. Extremely reclusive girl, and one that was really, really hard to approach. Had to actually burst her bubble because she comes to class, sits down, works 3 hours without taking breaks and leaves.

          >What's she look like?
          I won't go into too many details cause I'm gonna hit the character cap, but I'd say she's 6/10 on a bad day and 7/10 when she actually puts in effort in her appearance. She has a gap tooth, deep eye bags, no butt or boobs but she's skinny, has really nice hair and I find her facial shape very cute.

          >Who does she hang out with?
          No one.
          > Is she just your typical c**t
          She's really not. I'm not the bitter type, so I'll still say that I think she's really nice even though she rejected me (she did it nicely too, apologizing and stuff).

          >Why didn't you ask her what math problems she needed help with?
          Gut punch of being rejected when I thought it was a sure thing, I just wanted to leave and leave her alone at that point.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah dude, I don't think she rejected you, I think you just took it that way. I think she got scared and vomited out the math questions bullshit. I mean like, that is probably what she has been thinking to herself for a while would be her opening line to you, you know? Just never been brave enough to do it

            >Gut punch of being rejected when I thought it was a sure thing, I just wanted to leave and leave her alone at that point.
            Shoulda done it over text lol. Text is almost always better than in person for shit like that

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I can't understand how it's not a rejection. Unless she thought I was some sort of cartoonishly mean guy that was going to ask her if she's interested then laugh in her face if she says yes. Obviously me asking her that is also revealing my own interests, at least it's obvious to me. If she was interested, she would have went for it even if she needed a second to process, no?

            [...]
            Oh and btw, ask her which math questions she had for you. Trust me, it'll work out fine

            No, it's late now, been a week and a half and she hasn't given me any reason to think she'd want me to talk to her again.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I can't understand how it's not a rejection. Unless she thought I was some sort of cartoonishly mean guy that was going to ask her if she's interested then laugh in her face if she says yes. Obviously me asking her that is also revealing my own interests, at least it's obvious to me. If she was interested, she would have went for it even if she needed a second to process, no?
            You know all that time you needed to muster up the courage to go talk to her? Well she didn't get any of that, she just had the shit dropped in her lap and had to respond on the spot

            Maybe the math questions shit was her way of buying time to process? If nothing else, the poor girl needs help with her math, god damn, what are you gonna do, let her fail?

            >she hasn't given me any reason to think she'd want me to talk to her again.
            So? How about do it just to humor me then lol

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I don't know man, I'm on the way out anyway. I'm done there in a week (which she knows, by the way). If she asked, I'd be glad to help still despite everything, but she's going to have to take her turn now because where I'm standing now, it truly feels like the feelings I had were not reciprocated at all.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I mean like, that is probably what she has been thinking to herself for a while would be her opening line to you, you know?
            That's actually truly hilarious if true, because I was thinking about approaching her through that since I saw she was struggling, until I went frick it no games and approached her the way I did

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah dude, I don't think she rejected you, I think you just took it that way. I think she got scared and vomited out the math questions bullshit. I mean like, that is probably what she has been thinking to herself for a while would be her opening line to you, you know? Just never been brave enough to do it

            >Gut punch of being rejected when I thought it was a sure thing, I just wanted to leave and leave her alone at that point.
            Shoulda done it over text lol. Text is almost always better than in person for shit like that

            Oh and btw, ask her which math questions she had for you. Trust me, it'll work out fine

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            To answer OP yes emotional maturity is important so is mental health but it has to be reciprocated, some people are on different wave lengths I think emotional maturity is more important than mental health. I'm not speaking of the extreme side of a boyfriend acting psychotic or a girlfriend being a BPDemon, if you've been through a lot and have symptoms of a mental illness it's not a deal breaker. This generation has the worst mental health decline in history. I reiterate, having the emotional maturity to maintain a relationship is far more valuable than some one with serious depression or GAD, I'll also conclude with the reciprocation of the partner on emotional maturity, they need be there too and understand people have baggage you won't get that understanding from vapid vain immature club/party goer too norman young adults.

            Also, don't crash and burn with this bro she obviously sounds reclusive and skittish, she could as well be asexual or no intent for dating because of it being a daunting commitment but was genuinely checking you out because she found you cute. Just take the L

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I guess it's nice to think she was checking me out even if she didn't want anything further. I've done that, so I get it, but it's pretty rare for me to get looks so I'll just try to find the good in it.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Pursue her man, don't fail the first shit test.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        How? I'm just going to bother her again. We don't get moments where we interact out of necessity, so I'd have to disturb her again like the first time.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I already have given it a shot though. That's what me approaching her was. I told myself I would just go for it since I'm leaving soon anyway.

        Stop trying to give this dude a sexual harrassment charge homosexuals holy shit lmao

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Stop trying to give this dude a sexual harrassment charge homosexuals holy shit lmao
          Ahhh jealousy..

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            If you're picking someone to live vicariously through maybe you should pick someone that didn't already get rejected, moron.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            There's a reason envy is considered on of the seven deadly sins, anon

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        stop buying into and encouraging manipulative behavior you fricking homosexual

        shit tests? how about frick off you manipulative c**t

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Lay off the esteogen trooncel.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            what the frick are you blathering about you absolute moron

            'shit tests' are not fun games, they are manipulation tactics by and for sociopaths, and im not going to put up with any woman who will do that shit to me.

            if i want to play games i have a gaming pc and a ps2

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >asked out a girl for the first time in my life
      You should "ask out" any girl that interests you, don't make a big deal out of it, it should be casual for you. Imagine if someone said "I cooked eggs for the first time in my life and I overcooked them" lol.

      Also you started with stupid question instead of just starting a normal conversation. If she was actually interested and just shy about it, you just shoot down every anchor point.
      >Why do you think I am interested in you?
      Could've said any shit about intuition.
      >I wanted to ask you math questions
      Could've start conversation about these math questions.

      Talk to her casually next time.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I understand I'm no good at it, I don't have any delusions otherwise. I felt a ton of pressure because what you say, about asking out every girl that interests me, she was the only one I felt something for since I was 14. Happened out of nowhere for no real reason.

        >Talk to her casually next time.
        For sure, if there is a next time.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Start asking out casually random girls just to get used to this. There will be no pressure, because you won't care about the outcome. You will learn how easy and insignificant rejection can be. Maybe you will start to feel something to one of these girls, maybe not. It won't hurt you anyway and if same situation appear in next 12 years you will handle it better.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      She was testing to see if her I.O.I's worked on you. Betcha she won't pull those looks on you again, and test it on someone else instead.

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >you need to hit the therapist
    Based. Therapy is holding us back

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >you need to hit the therapist
      That's the kind of therapy I can get behind. Getting some steam off.

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Am I really guaranteed a girlfriend if I check those boxes?
    No. Finding a partner is mostly a function of extraversion. Numerous statistical studies have borne this out. If you are mentally healthy but stay inside all day, you are likely staying single, because of simple logistics.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I have tried to be friends with people from a very young age. I've only ever successfully befriended guys who can't get women. I've had 3 separate friend groups like this. The issue is this groups eventually grow stale and fall apart.

      Once I hung out with the younger sister of one of my friends. She wasn't interested and got knocked up by some thug who died from an overdose.

      It's not only extraversion, but neurotypical and threshold surpassing looks that matter.

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >generally nice to hang out with
    Pretty much my problem. Therapy won't magically make me likable. I add nothing to conversations. People talk to me but I have nothing to say. I ask questions and can keep the conversation going briefly. But eventually input from the other side is required. Nobody wants to be questioned for hours on end

  13. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    why not do therapy and the gym?

  14. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    All men face hardships, nancy.
    You sound like a 16 year old boy that cries to get out of taking the trash to the curb

  15. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Listening to women about what they say they want is a surefire way to never get women.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >t. 31 year old virgin that can't look women in the eye

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        even if i wanted to look women in the eye it would be with one eye while the other does its own thing you fricking homosexual

  16. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    No, women don't find those qualities attractive. They like men who don't care about women and what they think. That's it. Just set up a moral system for yourself and never break it for pussy. Oh yeah and be attractive of course.

  17. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    No. This is virtue signaling + a shit test.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Nah, it's just a jab at some abusechad that is plapping her

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >I think shit PUAs made up to sell ebooks to morons is real
      FTFY

  18. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >90%+ of men are broken and need Dr. Goldshekel's services, trust me chud

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >2% of men get 40% of the likes

      absolutely brooootal beyond any incel dream

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >90%+ of men are broken and need Dr. Goldshekel's services, trust me chud

        >I think dating apps are real life
        do you think Thor is real, too?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >dating apps are a conspiracy to make women look hypergamic

          Is this the best cope you have

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >"I am using 20 year old talking point copes."

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I am using a chart from a study that was discarded and can't read it.
            Try the accurate one, you fricking fool.
            Among people aged 18-29 about 21% meet ONLINE. Of them no more than 2% meet on dating apps.
            Read a book

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Among people aged 18-29 about 21% meet ONLINE. Of them no more than 2% meet on dating apps.
            NTA but where online are they all meeting then? NSFFW and World of Warcraft?

            Therapy only works if you are a gay.
            And no, every butthole I've ever met was getting laid to a reliably ridiculous degree, but anytime you walk into a church it's full of virgins, curious.

            That being said, you can be nice guygay type and get laid, but it's harder and you will be more likely to get cucked. It's better in general to treat women like objects even if you don't want to, women have a caricatures of masculinity in their heads and if you don't match it they WILL find you less attractive, unless they are secret lesbians, which is its own can of worms.

            >but anytime you walk into a church it's full of virgins, curious.
            To be fair, I haven't been to church in ~20 years but even back then, I don't remember seeing any young people there (18-40ish?). I also don't know anyone around my age or younger that goes to church at all. I would be fricking stunned if I met someone who actually goes to church, honestly

            lol people with a good heart would not be on a degen social media platform like this. We are stuck with the types of girls who want to be treated like objects, we cant do any better

            >lol people with a good heart would not be on a degen social media platform like this
            Speak for yourself, homosexual

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >NTA but where online are they all meeting then? NSFFW and World of Warcraft?

            You'd be suprised, plenty of young normies meet partners through games like Valorant and you can find real married couples that met through roblox and WoW, it's really bizarre. No way only 2% meet through dating apps though

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Oh no, I wasn't joking when I said that, I was being serious lol. My best friend got married to someone he met on WoW. The only time we've ever met in person was at his wedding, and we've been friends since 2004. It's not really a bizarre thing to me, but what would be bizarre is if more people met on video games than on dating apps, eh?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >6% meet at bar/restaurant/elsewhere
            The "touch grass" method is revealed to be fricking nonsense.
            >56% meet through friends/family/school
            The meeting through a place of worship should also be grouped here. If you're over 22, effectively 60% of your chances to meet your partner are effectively GONE!
            >13% met through work
            Get ready to sexually harass your coworkers boys.
            >21% meet online
            3.5 times as likely as meeting someone at a bar/restaurant or elsewhere... combined. If you aren't getting matches on dating apps, spam instagram accounts. If you aren't getting matches on there then you're fricked.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Read the full study - sating apps = LESS THAN 2% of couples, meaning bars/restaurants/etc is 3 times more likely than dating apps.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I didn't claim dating apps were more than 2%. I specifically suggested hitting up instagram.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I joined a dating site for men dating internationally and had actual conversations with women. I haven't had a conversation on tinder in years.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >over 22 means no friends or family
            Your autism is showing
            The way normies meet each other is that they have large circles of friends that they met every which way (school, work, hobbies, family, friends of friends they met in the above ways), and they often overlap them when they get the chance, so that their school friends meet their coworkers, for example. Eventually they meet a friend of a friend at someone else's wedding or party or event and hit it off.
            The further you depart from this model the less successful you will be

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Your autism is showing
            You're not wrong. People in society literally never befriend me. Never have, never will.
            At college I would chat with people in class and watch the other people chatting end up being friends... but not me. Here is another example of normies immediately sniffing out my minor idiosyncrasies with amazing speed.
            >Worked at a summer camp as a counselor at age 19. Everyone working was 18-25, most on break from college. First 2 days counselors came in and we trained, did group activities. After 1 day, literally everyone other than me and a 5'3" African transfer student had paired off with a female counselor. These situationships lasted for the few weeks of the summer camp.
            They an sniff out my odd mannerisms but are completely oblivious to an abusive guy openly acting maliciously. It boggles my mind.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            What % of people who "Met through school" actually saw each other at school and friended each other on fb/insta and actually met there?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            considering that 35% of unmarried women aged 18-29 have zero social media presence? Not many

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Why aren't they real life? Anyone can join.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Top 1% gets 17%
        96-99% gets 5% each
        90-95% gets 3% each
        51-89% gets 1% each
        bottom 50% gets virtually 0% each.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          No, there are two points on 17%

          So top 2% gets 34% of all likes

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            No wait, you are right, I guess this is supposed to be like a column graph

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >top half gets 17+5+3+1 = 26%
          >bottom half gets virtually nothing (the remaining 74% spread among them)
          If you're going to post pills make sure you know how to count first

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            It's 17+20+15, or 52% for the top 10% of men,, then the last 48% or so is about evenly spread between 51-89% and the bottom 50% get just about nothing. If you knew how to read what I posted rather than being an 80-something IQ common-core "educated" mutt you would also know how to read that graph.

  19. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    How can i find a girlfriend if i can't even find friends you guy huh? How can i find friends if i don't go outside huh? All this shit doesn't apply to us here

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >I am mentally unwell. How does saying mentally unwell men can't get a GF so they should get therapy help men?
      FTFY
      I hope you understand how stupid you are

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I don't think everyone that lives in isolation is mentally unwell

  20. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >partner
    no, you'll be a "nice guy" orbiter who gets to feel her tears on your shoulder the morning after Chad fricks her butt and throws her on the street again

  21. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Therapy works great for people who have no problems but they are completely useless if you aren't 100% normalgay. This is just be yourself take a hundred showers a day drink water tier advice. It works for people who can get gfs but it does nothing for people who can't.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      cbt is literally scientifically proven to help those with mental illnesd

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I can't argue with The Science.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        No it hasn't. The whole reason mental illness is a problem is because nothing helps it. You can't talk to a fish and it eventually develops the ability to walk and breathe on land. Meme depression where, you're sad for a couple weeks therapy helps because they would get over it in a short while with or without help. Something like assburgers you can bruteforce all the algorithms, decision trees, and scripting formats you, want and at best it gives you a 1% boost and a 10% debuffs because of the uncanny valley effect.

  22. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    every time they go to the therapist they ask me what i want to fix, like i'm not there to be told what my problems are. it's funny because they can probably tell most of your personality after the first session anyway. total waste of time.

  23. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I've seen 3 therapists and it didn't do shit.

  24. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Therapy only works if you are a gay.
    And no, every butthole I've ever met was getting laid to a reliably ridiculous degree, but anytime you walk into a church it's full of virgins, curious.

    That being said, you can be nice guygay type and get laid, but it's harder and you will be more likely to get cucked. It's better in general to treat women like objects even if you don't want to, women have a caricatures of masculinity in their heads and if you don't match it they WILL find you less attractive, unless they are secret lesbians, which is its own can of worms.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >It's better in general to treat women like objects even if you don't want to
      I realized that early, but I decided I didn't want to shape my personality around what women respond to. I'm someone with a good heart, and whenever I've tried to do what you're saying, I just felt like I was losing a part of my soul, of my authentic self, and I realized that I really am happy being an altruist, so I'm simply going to keep being myself without a care as to what women think of it.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        lol people with a good heart would not be on a degen social media platform like this. We are stuck with the types of girls who want to be treated like objects, we cant do any better

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >lol people with a good heart would not be on a degen social media platform like this
          I'm not going to pretend that I'm a saint or that I've never done anything reprehensible, but I feel a lot of compassion for my fellow man and adhere to a moral understanding as best as I'm able. I don't like meaningless conflict and I prefer mending a relationship and I'm almost always open to burying the hatchet.
          >We are stuck with the types of girls who want to be treated like objects, we cant do any better
          I'm not getting any regardless, so it's no difference for me.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Trust me, I feel you brother. I got my heart shattered by my oneitis when I was a teen and turned into a complete butthole redpilled frick after, and it is extremely demoralizing how much being a careless butthole works, I was virtually a virgin who didn't even know how to initiate sex before that.

        If you're not an actual psycho it probably is better to just refrain altogether, it's not really like most of these hoes are worth the trouble anyways, or the child support.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >it is extremely demoralizing how much being a careless butthole works,
          made me blackpilled honestly, until I came out the other end and realized that's just how things are, no point getting depressed about it and if I'm not desired for who I am, then that's just life. I'd rather be authentic to myself.

  25. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Women always fall for guys that yell and beat the shit out of them.

  26. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >create vacuous terminology
    >assign anyone who disagrees with you to one of these terms
    >refuse to establish any of what you say in empirical reality so no one can falsify your claims
    I hate this type of stupid person

  27. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    "Emotional maturity and mentally healthy" can't be more nebulous or, most likely, are just other words for "follow the herd".

    These things are just as imalible as height and race for people who are not NPCs.

    If it's one moto that always should ring true within you it is: "there is no winning, everything is hard"
    Otherwise, why are you even here?

  28. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    This is just as bad as the "go outside bro" meme

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It's worse, going to therapy is a dramatically shittier idea than going outside

  29. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I went to a therapist who essentially told me to "just be yourself" and to "go to meetup groups".
    I'm not sure why people think therapy would help.

  30. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Therapy is for people with actual problems OR homosexuals and women. if you dont have an actualproblem and go to thetherapist, youre a gay

  31. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    IDK man I have a gf and I'm emotionally immature, incredibly mentally ill, and miserable to hang out with if we're doing anything but fricking so I'm not sure if I buy it

  32. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I did therapy for 2 years. All I got was a diagnosis of generalized anxiety and felt like my problems weren't taken seriously because penis. Purity culture? Get fondled? Christian fundamentalism? Bullied by girls? Haha I'm sure that was hard, take a deep breath and imagine a forest.
    My boss who everyone agrees is a douchebag is currently on his fourth baby mama so maybe I should follow his lead, pop benzos and act like a used car salesman. It clearly works better than whatever I'm doing.
    I'm currently letting myself fall down the sissy rabbit hole and hoping I psyop myself into liking dick.

  33. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    you need a therapist, but its so you can discuss radical acceptance with them and cope with the fact that you will die a genetic dead end.

  34. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I dont think there is much therapy can do aside from provide drugs if you have been raped as a kid and basically exposed to some of the worst this shithole of a planet has to offer since you were little.
    t. me

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      If anything, that ought to put you a step ahead of the average frickhead

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        It might, but it also basically guarantees you to be an antisocial misanthropic hermit. I should know :^) I have known about blackpill shit so many talk about since I was a kid, the odds of any sort of therapy doing anything about any of that are borderline nonexistent. Been debating poking around some to get some lithium or adderall or whatever though.

  35. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >woman gaslighting

    it's always been genetics lol. no amount of simping and placating will make a woman attracted to you.

    they are chadsexual b***hes nothing more. they want to pretend the game is fair so that men collectively won't wake up and revoke their rights again.

    truly the israelites of the gender

  36. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Males primary duties are to provide ressources and protection. This is like saying water is wet.

    There is an expectation for you to be the provider.

    If you make good money then yes what she mentions is true. But she leaves out the part where you should be making 6 figures and be 6 foot tall (or very close) in adjacent to the things she mentions.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Males primary duties are to provide ressources and protection. This is like saying water is wet.
      >There is an expectation for you to be the provider.
      Where's this shit come from? I never heard any of this shit or felt this way when I was growing up (or now) and I'm only 30 so.. Or is it just non-Americans who think this way?

      I don't know man, I'm on the way out anyway. I'm done there in a week (which she knows, by the way). If she asked, I'd be glad to help still despite everything, but she's going to have to take her turn now because where I'm standing now, it truly feels like the feelings I had were not reciprocated at all.

      >I'm done there in a week
      All the more reason to give it a shot

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I already have given it a shot though. That's what me approaching her was. I told myself I would just go for it since I'm leaving soon anyway.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Dude, if you don't at least talk to her some more then you'll be stuck with that "what if" thought for the rest of your life. It doesn't even matter if anything comes of it, you could just help her with her math you know? What the frick else you got to do, talk to us?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I understand that you're right. I just don't want to annoy her more if she truly isn't interested. She seems kind of fragile.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Anon, I'm pretty sure we have all committed too much of our energy for you to just give up now. It would be like the world sharing their energy with Goku for the spirit bomb, then he's like "nah, nevermind you guys, I think I'm going going to give up.."

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I'm not goku. I'm 26 and never approached a girl before. You picked the wrong guy to put your hopes on, I'm sorry. I just wanted to talk about it and see what people's thoughts were. She's clearly a very shy and reclusive girl, but here's the thing I'm the same but male. I'm not the outgoing guy that can get her out of that, as much as I'd like too. I don't think things work very well for two very shy people.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I'm not goku
            What an awful mentality to have

            ?si=coqzBDr_Ar-82yPd&t=42

            >but here's the thing I'm the same but male
            No shit, Sherlock, which is again, all the more reason you should be going for this shit. You're going to find out real fast that after school is over, you're not going to come across the shy type of girl very often anymore

            >I'm not the outgoing guy that can get her out of that, as much as I'd like too
            Why the frick would you want to?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Obviously I want to because I wanted to spend time with her. Don't misunderstand, I didn't want to change her, I just wanted to spend time with her.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I just wanted to spend time with her.
            And by that you mean you want to bury your tongue so deep up her butthole that you can check her pancreas, right?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Not the guy you were talking to but I also say to go for another try. Maybe invite her to coffee or something. Keep us updated with a tripcode or whatever if you can, you have a crowd cheering for you.

            Don't become like me, pondering over what-ifs or lost chances.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Have you tried buying her expensive israeliteelry and cute clothes she could wear oh and you could kiss her toes, if that doesn't work you could cry and throw a tantrum shitstorm in the middle of class until she is forced to date you.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >>I'm not the outgoing guy that can get her out of that, as much as I'd like too
            >Why the frick would you want to?
            she would want him to. introverted girls only ever want an extroverted social chad to open them up.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >she would want him to. introverted girls only ever want an extroverted social chad to open them up.
            And I suppose introverted guys only ever want an extroverted social Stacy to open them up?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >No u
            Why is this the best retort that foids and their sycophants can come up with?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Why is this the best retort that foids and their sycophants can come up with?
            Why can't you answer the foockin question?

            ?si=mLpXRXlufK5oQizV&t=30

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Because its obvious what the answer is. Men are not as picky as women and to pretend otherwise sheer insanity at best and an outright lie at worst.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            That's not what we were talking about. You implied that all "introverted" women really just want an extroverted guy to "open them up," aka help them become extroverts too

            I'm asking you if you think the same is true for introverted guys? Do they all secretly wish they could become extroverted?

            Basically the question is: do you believe ANYONE is actually introverted? Or are "introverts" just failed extroverts?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            > Or are "introverts" just failed extroverts?
            I dunno, why not go ask some of them? No really, please do this and become a statistic.

            >Men are not as picky as women
            If this were the case how do you explain femcels and the rising epidemic of lonely women?

            >No WE'RE the incels
            Well its not a "no u" technically so props for that.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I think by "open them up" he meant let extrovert-chad turn them inside out, autism-kun.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Let me correct myself, I'm the guy who had the experience with the girl (had to step away). I don't want to transform her into an extroverted girl at all, in fact, her introverted nature is a big thing that attracted me to her. I just meant that I wanted to be the guy she'd be more extroverted with.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Hey bro,

            > Or are "introverts" just failed extroverts?
            I dunno, why not go ask some of them? No really, please do this and become a statistic.

            [...]
            >No WE'RE the incels
            Well its not a "no u" technically so props for that.

            here. Just wondering why you haven't been brave enough to go publlc with your views? Could it be you' re too much of a pussy? 🙂

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Men are not as picky as women
            If this were the case how do you explain femcels and the rising epidemic of lonely women?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Do you have a job? I'm curious what with your pathetic posting frequency.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            NTA but c'mon, we all know there's no such thing as a "femcel"

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            NTA but c'mon, we all know there's no such thing as a "femcel"

            > Or are "introverts" just failed extroverts?
            I dunno, why not go ask some of them? No really, please do this and become a statistic.

            [...]
            >No WE'RE the incels
            Well its not a "no u" technically so props for that.

            Samegays or morons

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Lower your standards and be yourself sweaty I'm sure you'll meet a nice guy who loves you for who you are any day now. Just not me, I'm fricking abusestacy and I'm going to tell you how miserable she makes me but never leave

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >If this were the case how do you explain femcels and the rising epidemic of lonely women?

            Maybe these women should be better and "nice to be around" 🙂

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >You're going to find out real fast that after school is over, you're not going to come across the shy type of girl very often anymore
            You're right, I realize that already, which is part of the reason I feel so disappointed. I know it's rare. I talked about it with a friend around 2 weeks ago and I said something like "it's too good to be true that the cute, shy girl I have a crush on also likes me back" and sure enough I was right, or at least it really seems so.

            Not the guy you were talking to but I also say to go for another try. Maybe invite her to coffee or something. Keep us updated with a tripcode or whatever if you can, you have a crowd cheering for you.

            Don't become like me, pondering over what-ifs or lost chances.

            I won't lie, you guys are making me actually consider it, but, it's been a week and a half since I talked to her. I think I missed my moment and it's been too late.

            Besides, if she truly is not interested, she will probably get upset if I try myself again on her.
            >trip
            too much pressure, but thank you for caring. I doubt I'll do it though, I'm sorry. I'm already proud of myself for talking to her at all. Talking to her like that was actually a once-in a lifetime (so far) thing for me, I'm 26 and this was the first time I ever tried to pursue a girl at all. It's too bad it didn't work.

            Have you tried buying her expensive israeliteelry and cute clothes she could wear oh and you could kiss her toes, if that doesn't work you could cry and throw a tantrum shitstorm in the middle of class until she is forced to date you.

            these sound like reasonable options.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >and I said something like "it's too good to be true that the cute, shy girl I have a crush on also likes me back" and sure enough I was right, or at least it really seems so.
            This officially has to be fricking bait now, right?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            No? Why? I'm a very pessimistic person, and sadly I don't get proven wrong often.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I dunno, to still be saying

            >and I said something like "it's too good to be true that the cute, shy girl I have a crush on also likes me back" and sure enough I was right, or at least it really seems so.
            This officially has to be fricking bait now, right?

            >>and I said something like "it's too good to be true that the cute, shy girl I have a crush on also likes me back" and sure enough I was right, or at least it really seems so.

            shit like that after I've told you a million times that it didn't even sound like she rejected you.. just seems like it has to be bait at this point. Honestly, I'm about to reach through the screen and snatch your phone so I can text her and ask her about her math problems for you. The hell you waiting for anyway? Hurry up, now I want to know the ending to this fricking shit

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You didn't miss your moment yet, but you said that you have about a week before leaving, so that's (maybe) your last chance. Try getting her number at least.

            If she's not interested, you might make her a little upset, so what? Will you keep that doubt for the rest of your life? Like the other anon said, this might be one of the last good chances you may ever get. Hell I'm a little older than you but already a wageslave, it's been over 5 years since I last had a crush on somebody, nowadays I don't even know what makes one day different to another.

            Also in the case that you are not joking, do not buy her gifts for now, or throw tantrums around. That was a terrible joke but I know some might take it seriously, especially the gift part. Leave it after you get a stable relationship.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Like the other anon said, this might be one of the last good chances you may ever get. Hell I'm a little older than you but already a wageslave, it's been over 5 years since I last had a crush on somebody, nowadays I don't even know what makes one day different to another.
            Frickin A. Something tells me his idea of a 6/10 is prolly a full blown 9-10/10 once you're into the "real world" full time

            >Alright, describe this girl, anon. What's she like?
            She's incredibly cut off from others. I've been at this school for four months and I haven't seen her talk to a single student, not even one. Only talks to teachers. Through hearing her talk to one, she said she broke down and started crying during and exam. She sneaks out of class early to heat up her lunch when no one is around then spends the whole lunch break hiding in her car. Extremely reclusive girl, and one that was really, really hard to approach. Had to actually burst her bubble because she comes to class, sits down, works 3 hours without taking breaks and leaves.

            >What's she look like?
            I won't go into too many details cause I'm gonna hit the character cap, but I'd say she's 6/10 on a bad day and 7/10 when she actually puts in effort in her appearance. She has a gap tooth, deep eye bags, no butt or boobs but she's skinny, has really nice hair and I find her facial shape very cute.

            >Who does she hang out with?
            No one.
            > Is she just your typical c**t
            She's really not. I'm not the bitter type, so I'll still say that I think she's really nice even though she rejected me (she did it nicely too, apologizing and stuff).

            >Why didn't you ask her what math problems she needed help with?
            Gut punch of being rejected when I thought it was a sure thing, I just wanted to leave and leave her alone at that point.

            >I won't go into too many details cause I'm gonna hit the character cap, but I'd say she's 6/10 on a bad day and 7/10 when she actually puts in effort in her appearance. She has a gap tooth, deep eye bags, no butt or boobs but she's skinny, has really nice hair and I find her facial shape very cute.
            Hnngh, no breasts, no ass and skinny? I'd drag my balls across a mile of broken glass just to hear her fart over the telephone. And the bad days sound hotter than the days she puts in effort too..

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >is prolly a full blown 9-10/10 once you're into the "real world" full time
            I think it's a question of definition. If I'm measuring her against all, then she's at least an 8 and 9 on a good day, but I rate her against what I consider to be objective metrics that aren't altered by how women portray themselves at a period in time (sorry if this makes no sense, but it makes sense to me). I weigh her positives and negatives and it comes out to around a 6 or 7 to me. She's skinny and has truly beautiful hair (never paid much attention to a girl's hair until hers, I was mesmerized by it), and her face has a pleasant shape, however she has a big gap in her front teeth, she has deep, black lines under her eyes that make-up barely hide. She also has tattoos, which clashes a lot with the idea I have of her as this reserved girl frankly. It was something I had to get over, because I don't like tattoos. At first I saw a little bird on her hand, fine, but once her sleeve came down and she had ink all along her forearm. That was kind of a test of how much do I want it. Not to be mean to her, but she really lacks in the sex-appeal area. Like I said, she doesn't have any curves. I was only attracted to her insofar as I had these thoughts in my head that she liked me back. I don't fantasize about her or anything, I was just inexplicably drawn to her despite the fact that she ticks none of my boxes other than being skinny.

            I'll just say this, she's the one I wanted, but there are a lot of better looking girls, in terms of both beauty and sex appeal in my class. As in, I don't think many guys are taking a second look at her with the other girls in the class (that all seem really loose).

            [...]
            [...]
            [...]
            stop samegayging up the thread moron

            go post your blog on reddit or kys already

            you sound upset at something

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I dunno, sounds hot to me lol

            Anyway, you've paid way too much attention to this b***h to not at least rub your dick on her. Seriously, I've spent years in relationships with girls and if I had to give a description to a sketch artist, I wouldn't even know where to fricking start. I know the last one's eye color only because I looked at a Facebook pic one day in case she quizzed me or something. I don't have a clue what my first gf's eye color was, and she lived with me for 2 years, and we dated off and on from 8th grade til I was 20 lol

            >Ehh I assume you know her name, so you could just add her on Facebook, if you haven't already
            I don't have a facebook. I don't even know how that shit works honestly. You just friend random people you spoke to once?
            >Didn't she say that she wanted to ask you some math questions? That's not a fricking rejection, that's an invitation
            I guess it depends how you read it. It was after she told me I was imagining her interested in me and asked me why. I told her I noticed her looks, and that's when she said the thing about the math questions. Contextually to me anyway, it's an explanation of mere platonic interest at best, and seeking to simply gain from my smarts at worst. (ironically, I already ended up helping her second hand, the teacher had to come to me for an explanation on something to be able to explain it to her, and she was there, so she's aware).
            >Yeah, so? You should show her all your cards, why not? Unless you're trying to take advantage of her, I guess
            No, no way. I genuinely liked that girl for unclear reasons. I felt so much pity for her the day I realized she sneaks out early to warm up her meal while no one is there then hides away in her car for an hour during lunch, it kind of broke my heart. Of course, that's always stacked up against the fact that she might genuinely prefer being alone all the time, which is fine, but it kind of goes against the general impression I get of her of being open to being social. For example, I've never seen her wear headphones in class like everyone else does (don't worry about the details, it's a strange setup for these courses). She looked my way quite a few times... sat near me when the room was empty, said thanks the few times I held the door open for her (I thought it was basic decency but I realized it isn't) that kind of stuff.
            >You should show her all your cards, why not?
            Haven't I already? Is there a single girl alive that wouldn't take what I did as a show of interest?

            >I don't have a facebook
            Everyone has Facebook

            >You just friend random people you spoke to once?
            How else are you going to help her with her math?

            >I felt so much pity for her the day I realized she sneaks out early to warm up her meal while no one is there then hides away in her car for an hour during lunch, it kind of broke my heart
            Aww maybe you should write a love letter, or just start with helping her with her math

            >Haven't I already? Is there a single girl alive that wouldn't take what I did as a show of interest?
            Perhaps you should slow down and just try talking to her for a while?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Anyway, you've paid way too much attention to this b***h to not at least rub your dick on her.
            you mean rub one out to her... right?
            >if I had to give a description to a sketch artist, I wouldn't even know where to fricking start.
            I don't know, I guess I notice these things.
            >Everyone has Facebook
            Not me, I used to have one for like 2 weeks 8 years ago until I deleted cause I didn't get it.
            >How else are you going to help her with her math?
            If I really wanted to do that, I'd talk to her in person. Don't get me wrong, I do genuinely want to, but now that I've done what I've done, she's clearly going to think I'm just doing it to get into her pants and she'll push me away, which would make me feel extra bad.
            >just start with helping her with her math
            That was actually the plan to get to know her initially, but I just ended up going all or nothing when I finally got the courage to talk to her.
            >Perhaps you should slow down and just try talking to her for a while?
            Yeah, but I struggled with making that happen at all. The one time I got to talk to her, I did what I did, so. Probably just wasn't meant to be.

            even if i wanted to look women in the eye it would be with one eye while the other does its own thing you fricking homosexual

            Sorry to hear that man, that's an actual terrible problem. Normal people with slight imperfections should really shut the frick up (including myself, I've whined way too much about only being five foot eight in the past)

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Not me, I used to have one for like 2 weeks 8 years ago until I deleted cause I didn't get it.
            Facebook is so your friends and family can get ahold of you anytime they want, even if it's a friend from 20 years ago. It's also a good way of getting ahold of someone whose phone number you don't have. Course I literally have my phone number on my Facebook but whatever. Pretty sure I made my Facebook in like 2006 and have never once considered deleting it. Why would anyone delete their Facebook? Pointless. Plus, everyone has a Facebook

            >you mean rub one out to her... right?
            No, I meant rub your dick against her. Doesn't really matter where

            >Yeah, but I struggled with making that happen at all. The one time I got to talk to her, I did what I did, so. Probably just wasn't meant to be.
            Just add her on Facebook dude lol

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I guess facebook is like a requirement to get girls or something? Uncharted territory for me.
            >No, I meant rub your dick against her. Doesn't really matter where
            sounds like a good way to get myself thrown in prison for a long time.

            Anyway, if she ever seems like she's trying to open up before I leave, I'll go for it. If not, then it just wasn't mean to be, me and her.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I guess facebook is like a requirement to get girls or something?
            Nope.
            I've never had any social media.
            I've never opened a dating app.
            I have had plenty of success with women

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Ok this will be my last advice. Don't try to overthink too much about her or failing, you are creating a image of her that simply does not have any basis in reality.

            There is no way of knowing until you talk with her, which the easiest way is to invite her out to a simple place. Try using the same lines you used talking to her the first time, but now just say "hey want to go have a coffee/snack/walk/anything with me?". Don't say that you love/got a crush on her, maybe just mention that you want to get to know her more. Maybe she is not that good of a person but you won't know and never will if you don't try.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I guess facebook is like a requirement to get girls or something? Uncharted territory for me.
            Doesn't seem all that important for getting girls, it's just just kinda moronic not to have fricking Facebook at this point. All you're doing is making your life slightly less convenient for no reason other than to say "I don't have a Facebook, myah" like the rest of the zoomer homosexuals

            >sounds like a good way to get myself thrown in prison for a long time.
            You could wait until she's asleep..

            Hey bro, [...] here. Just wondering why you haven't been brave enough to go publlc with your views? Could it be you' re too much of a pussy? 🙂

            What views? Go public how? Honestly, everyone that knows me probably knows most of my views already but whatever, I wouldn't care if the whole world knew my thoughts

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >What views? Go public how? Honestly, everyone that knows me probably knows most of my views already but whatever, I wouldn't care if the whole world knew my thoughts
            Go tell some introverts that they're inferior and deserve to die. Do it PUSSY.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Go tell some introverts that they're inferior and deserve to die. Do it PUSSY.
            Why? That's more like the opposite of what I think lol. I already spent most of middle and high school talking shit about extroverts and the such, soooo

            Facebook is really dangerous and for no benefit whatsoever. You have to go berserk on people just to prevent them from being creepy buttholes who upload pictures of you. Politely asking doesn't work, I had to actually yell and curse just to get it through their thick normie moron skulls. It does nothing you can't already do with a phone. Most people are even using the site from their phone.

            Just let grandma have her fun, jesus christ man

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Facebook is really dangerous and for no benefit whatsoever. You have to go berserk on people just to prevent them from being creepy buttholes who upload pictures of you. Politely asking doesn't work, I had to actually yell and curse just to get it through their thick normie moron skulls. It does nothing you can't already do with a phone. Most people are even using the site from their phone.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I don't really know how to actually do it to be honest. Like I said, she's a complete recluse so to talk to her in the first place, I went to her desk and I told her "hey, let's talk after class ok?", she actually jumped in surprise, because no one ever talks to her, she smiled and then said "sure, I'll talk to you after class if you want". Then we spent another 50 minutes in class until we exited together and I asked her then. I honestly can't understand how she wasn't expecting something like this, like I said, I think she might actually be autistic or something. I don't know what she thought I was going to tell her, but she seemed really surprised when I told her what I did.

            Don't forget that I'm probably on the spectrum also. Never got it confirmed, but I'd be surprised if I wasn't.

            >Also in the case that you are not joking, do not buy her gifts for now, or throw tantrums around. That was a terrible joke but I know some might take it seriously, especially the gift part. Leave it after you get a stable relationship
            Lol, yeah, I was joking along. I get that it might not be obvious considering the board though.

            I dunno, to still be saying

            [...]
            >>and I said something like "it's too good to be true that the cute, shy girl I have a crush on also likes me back" and sure enough I was right, or at least it really seems so.

            shit like that after I've told you a million times that it didn't even sound like she rejected you.. just seems like it has to be bait at this point. Honestly, I'm about to reach through the screen and snatch your phone so I can text her and ask her about her math problems for you. The hell you waiting for anyway? Hurry up, now I want to know the ending to this fricking shit

            Why do you think I'd ever have her phone number? I spoke to her once, it was the interaction and that's it. I'm sorry to disappoint you, and I appreciate you talking to me. I guess we can't see eye to eye on it. You think it wasn't a rejection, but I can't see how it can't be a rejection. What is she supposed to think? Yeah, a lot of people, including friends and family have criticized the actual words I said, fair enough, it was a spur of the moment thing because I didn't want to worry about it anymore and besides, I just said what felt natural to me. Regardless, me approaching her like that and asking her if she seems interested in me, that's showing my hand as well even if I don't reveal the cards. There's 0% chance that she would say yes and then I'd just go "huh, wow. that's odd" and walk away.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Why do you think I'd ever have her phone number?
            Ehh I assume you know her name, so you could just add her on Facebook, if you haven't already

            >You think it wasn't a rejection, but I can't see how it can't be a rejection
            Didn't she say that she wanted to ask you some math questions? That's not a fricking rejection, that's an invitation

            >Regardless, me approaching her like that and asking her if she seems interested in me, that's showing my hand as well even if I don't reveal the cards
            Yeah, so? You should show her all your cards, why not? Unless you're trying to take advantage of her, I guess

            [...]
            [...]
            [...]
            stop samegayging up the thread moron

            go post your blog on reddit or kys already

            picrel

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Ehh I assume you know her name, so you could just add her on Facebook, if you haven't already
            I don't have a facebook. I don't even know how that shit works honestly. You just friend random people you spoke to once?
            >Didn't she say that she wanted to ask you some math questions? That's not a fricking rejection, that's an invitation
            I guess it depends how you read it. It was after she told me I was imagining her interested in me and asked me why. I told her I noticed her looks, and that's when she said the thing about the math questions. Contextually to me anyway, it's an explanation of mere platonic interest at best, and seeking to simply gain from my smarts at worst. (ironically, I already ended up helping her second hand, the teacher had to come to me for an explanation on something to be able to explain it to her, and she was there, so she's aware).
            >Yeah, so? You should show her all your cards, why not? Unless you're trying to take advantage of her, I guess
            No, no way. I genuinely liked that girl for unclear reasons. I felt so much pity for her the day I realized she sneaks out early to warm up her meal while no one is there then hides away in her car for an hour during lunch, it kind of broke my heart. Of course, that's always stacked up against the fact that she might genuinely prefer being alone all the time, which is fine, but it kind of goes against the general impression I get of her of being open to being social. For example, I've never seen her wear headphones in class like everyone else does (don't worry about the details, it's a strange setup for these courses). She looked my way quite a few times... sat near me when the room was empty, said thanks the few times I held the door open for her (I thought it was basic decency but I realized it isn't) that kind of stuff.
            >You should show her all your cards, why not?
            Haven't I already? Is there a single girl alive that wouldn't take what I did as a show of interest?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I dunno, to still be saying

            [...]
            >>and I said something like "it's too good to be true that the cute, shy girl I have a crush on also likes me back" and sure enough I was right, or at least it really seems so.

            shit like that after I've told you a million times that it didn't even sound like she rejected you.. just seems like it has to be bait at this point. Honestly, I'm about to reach through the screen and snatch your phone so I can text her and ask her about her math problems for you. The hell you waiting for anyway? Hurry up, now I want to know the ending to this fricking shit

            >Like the other anon said, this might be one of the last good chances you may ever get. Hell I'm a little older than you but already a wageslave, it's been over 5 years since I last had a crush on somebody, nowadays I don't even know what makes one day different to another.
            Frickin A. Something tells me his idea of a 6/10 is prolly a full blown 9-10/10 once you're into the "real world" full time

            [...]
            >I won't go into too many details cause I'm gonna hit the character cap, but I'd say she's 6/10 on a bad day and 7/10 when she actually puts in effort in her appearance. She has a gap tooth, deep eye bags, no butt or boobs but she's skinny, has really nice hair and I find her facial shape very cute.
            Hnngh, no breasts, no ass and skinny? I'd drag my balls across a mile of broken glass just to hear her fart over the telephone. And the bad days sound hotter than the days she puts in effort too..

            I don't really know how to actually do it to be honest. Like I said, she's a complete recluse so to talk to her in the first place, I went to her desk and I told her "hey, let's talk after class ok?", she actually jumped in surprise, because no one ever talks to her, she smiled and then said "sure, I'll talk to you after class if you want". Then we spent another 50 minutes in class until we exited together and I asked her then. I honestly can't understand how she wasn't expecting something like this, like I said, I think she might actually be autistic or something. I don't know what she thought I was going to tell her, but she seemed really surprised when I told her what I did.

            Don't forget that I'm probably on the spectrum also. Never got it confirmed, but I'd be surprised if I wasn't.

            >Also in the case that you are not joking, do not buy her gifts for now, or throw tantrums around. That was a terrible joke but I know some might take it seriously, especially the gift part. Leave it after you get a stable relationship
            Lol, yeah, I was joking along. I get that it might not be obvious considering the board though.

            [...]
            Why do you think I'd ever have her phone number? I spoke to her once, it was the interaction and that's it. I'm sorry to disappoint you, and I appreciate you talking to me. I guess we can't see eye to eye on it. You think it wasn't a rejection, but I can't see how it can't be a rejection. What is she supposed to think? Yeah, a lot of people, including friends and family have criticized the actual words I said, fair enough, it was a spur of the moment thing because I didn't want to worry about it anymore and besides, I just said what felt natural to me. Regardless, me approaching her like that and asking her if she seems interested in me, that's showing my hand as well even if I don't reveal the cards. There's 0% chance that she would say yes and then I'd just go "huh, wow. that's odd" and walk away.

            stop samegayging up the thread moron

            go post your blog on reddit or kys already

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Pursue her man, don't fail the first shit test.

            >I can't understand how it's not a rejection. Unless she thought I was some sort of cartoonishly mean guy that was going to ask her if she's interested then laugh in her face if she says yes. Obviously me asking her that is also revealing my own interests, at least it's obvious to me. If she was interested, she would have went for it even if she needed a second to process, no?
            You know all that time you needed to muster up the courage to go talk to her? Well she didn't get any of that, she just had the shit dropped in her lap and had to respond on the spot

            Maybe the math questions shit was her way of buying time to process? If nothing else, the poor girl needs help with her math, god damn, what are you gonna do, let her fail?

            >she hasn't given me any reason to think she'd want me to talk to her again.
            So? How about do it just to humor me then lol

            least desperate simp

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >men have to provide, that is your role
      >also we are going to indoctrinate women that they have to work and make them think relying on a man to provide is horribly outdated, plus we will pass laws that guarantee women always have the upper hand over you in higher education and hiring/promotions while keeping women riled up about le pay gap
      >btw women are no longer expected to live up to their gender roles and will hate you if you want them to cook or clean or be a stay at home mom, good luck jumping through the impossibly small hoop for the gender role you are still expected to fulfill
      Frick off

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Yes why do you think inceldom is rampant nowadays?

        Because most men, especially younger ones are no longer financially attractive for women.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Yes why do you think inceldom is rampant nowadays?
          NTA but I didn't realize it was rampant? Who says?

          It might, but it also basically guarantees you to be an antisocial misanthropic hermit. I should know :^) I have known about blackpill shit so many talk about since I was a kid, the odds of any sort of therapy doing anything about any of that are borderline nonexistent. Been debating poking around some to get some lithium or adderall or whatever though.

          >I have known about blackpill shit so many talk about since I was a kid
          Spoilers: blackpill, redpill, and all the other gay ass pills are all bullshit

          Oh, and therapy is bullshit too

  37. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Women say this. But then look at their current or previous boyfriends who are the complete opposite. The lie reveals itself.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      my sister said she wishes she could find a man like me who plays video games instead of going out clubbing and coming home at 2am to drunkenly beat her like her ex boyfriend. I don't believe her.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Women are all the same everywhere. Literally the Black folk of gender.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >She was right all along

  38. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Sure. Just don't expect to attract a bombshell.
    Ugly turds get with ugly turds all the time by checking those boxes.

  39. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    The reason she thinks this is because women literally DO have it that easy. Of course a fat woman doesn't need to go to the gym to get a guy lmao - she doesn't need to do *anything* and will still have her pick of the litter.

  40. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Therapy isn't going to make my Asperger's (a.k.a. the source of the social difficulties that make it really hard to charm a woman) go away, you lying moron. I swear to God, there's gotta be some kind of concerted effort to shill therapy to the masses because this genre of social media post blew up one day outta nowhere.

  41. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I always find it funny how women will simultaneously confirm that masculinity is performative while telling you to go the therapy - one of the most female coded things around

  42. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >yet women always go for the emotionally stunted bad boys
    perpetually gaslit by twitter morons

  43. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Isn't the therapy meme just a convoluted way of telling you to man up?
    It supposes there's a correct way to be a man and you're lacking that essence. By going to therapy whatever problem exists within you will be fixed and then you'll embody the form of masculinity women see as correct.

  44. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    kek you know when the samegay starts pulling out NSFFWx/css edited screenshots hes desperate

  45. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Doesn't seem to be the case. I am happy to have a very healthy friend circle, and am not ostracized loner, but none of them knows even one single woman. Been struggling, let alone "finding a great partner in no time". Soon even going as low as to hit a singles event.

  46. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I tried this, i was nice to people and kind to everyone and thus i was kicked out of the groups i liked, people hated me and gossiped badly about me behind my back. Trying to fit in with normies is literally a pointless exercise, you will never fit in, you will never be a normie. For your own sanity, please accept this.

  47. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Wow, look at that fat greasy slob, it's so hot when he goes to therapy
    Said no woman ever.

    Hit the gym you fat pasty frick.

  48. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Having high social status and a pleasing appearance helps you a lot more than being "nice to be around."

  49. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If people are indifferent towards you, you will be forever lonely.

    Anything else means you have to try in life lol.

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