Is it true that girls will take on your hobbies/personality in a relationship?

Like if you go to the gym she will also start going to the gym or if you read history books she will also start getting into history or if you like tennis she will also start playing tennis with you or if you are politically conservative she will also become a conservative etc.

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yes, all 4 billion women on the planet act exactly alike.

    moron.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I agree. But don't sign your posts.

      I've always been puzzled by this behavior. My old school dudes and me all have pretty different hobbies and interests, and all of us sort of try to get the others into their thing with various success (sometimes stuff catches on). But women seem to do a flat ctrl+c ctrl+v with hobbies when they meet a guy. Can some woman here maybe shed some light into this?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        (I'm female)I'm scared of rejection, being made fun of, having no true thing to connect on. I like Shoujo manga(I like Shounen/seinen too but I really love Shoujo), fashion, different video games than the guy, different books than what the guy reads (maybe he doesn't even read), music that I think is cringe to most people(metalcore, trance, eurobeat, reggaeton, Japanese music etc), and yes there sre other things too but to me they are cringe things and man/boy things aren't cringe, they are worthwhile pursuits. I guess in a way I just like being secret and in a way don't like myself, but it is what it is. I'm scared of failure and being told that x or y is pathetic, laughable or bad.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I'm a guy and I relate to everything you said here. I have all these interests that I kinda hide because I'm ashamed, or rather I'm scared people will judge me or laugh at me.
          My gf knows I like video games, particularly JRPG's, but I prefer to play them on my switch or playstation portal instead of the living room tv because I don't want her to see the anime characters or hear the music or voice acting. In case she thinks it's too weird, or sexualized, or cringe. Same with my love for Japanese music.

          I'd love to be totally open about my likes and interests but I've always been this petrified of being judged, now even by the person I'll spend the rest of my life with.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Yes we do that, to show support aka love.
        I'd say though that you should not oc**t on that interest or view being sincere. Some things may stick naturally, but some she will ditch immediately if the need to pander to you disappears.
        There is also an aspect of having more reason to do stuff together and no woman can count on a man to show interest in her hobbies so it is obvious who has to take a step back here. If a woman would be as stubborn as men in her own tastes, she would simply not have any pasttime to bond over with, with any man.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >be girl/woman
        >everyone derided all your interests all the time and treat you like you don't matter
        >mock you whenever you display any sort of personality that isn't cheery and submissive
        >usually the guys women date are disrespectful towards her interests and goals too
        >whole childhood feels like it's pushing you to focus on developing yourself into being some guy's perfect wife some day
        basically, most girls are highly discouraged in various ways from developing their own life and are praised for subsuming themselves into their male partner. most girls want to be loved and they're taught that's part of what will land them a long and happy relationship.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Yes, all 4 billion women on the planet act exactly alike
      This but unironically. Women are the closest thing you'll find to a living monolith.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        [weininger's henid intensifies]

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          You only have to browse social media to see women are all sheep who mindlessly follow the same trends. They will also sleep with the same frickbois because of social proof.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You are currently in this very post regurgitating talking points of a specific type of person based on shit you read on the internet and your own confirmation biases.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Nope, just realistic. Women have very little variation compared to men. Men have a broad range of interests and likes, many of them are niche. Women on the other hand all pretty much follow the pack. You might find the odd outlier here and there but they are mainly homogenous.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I have never felt the touch of a woman
            FTFY

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Says the simp.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Quick! An insult will make me feel like I wasn't assblasted!
            FTFY

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I hope the irony isn't lost on you there.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Nope, just realistic. Women have very little variation compared to men.
            Correct, MAGA midwestern women, California art hoes, and Japanese women are all the sa- oh wait what... they aren't?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >All women are on social media and all women on social media do the same thing
            Frick, you ARE moronic. Check out the MAGAette/Feminist war, you loser

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            how about real femcels?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Real femcels don't exist, or they're so extraordinarily rare as to be insignificant to the argument.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Why are you calling him a moron after agreeing with him? Women, I swear...

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Women are all clones of maybe 3 different women

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yes, but some of them will also go too far and mirror your personality, in which case you must abandon because there is NOTHING more annoying than being stuck talking with a crude facsimile of yourself.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You rub off on each other in some ways. Not every way. More than anything you end up talking alike.

      This. Dated one or these. Biggest red flag I ever missed.

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    My friend paraglides, and now his wife paraglides.
    She got him into fly fishing.

    I think it's more that when you love someone, you're more likely to give their hobbies and outlook on life a chance. I see a lot of women becoming more conservative because of their husbands than vice versa though.

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous
    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      He would ramrod that fertile elf in the dungeon mines in a heartbeat, let's be real.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        A true dwarf would never stoop so low as to have sex with a stinky elf wench

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          This anon has read his Dragonlance.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Aw now I gotta revisit this series, thanks a million!

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            No problem anon!

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yes it's true. I told a girl that I smoked weed and she was repelled at first but she liked me so she immediately stopped caring, it took about 5-10 seconds for her to accept it.

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Humans are social creatures. Evolutionary, its more beneficial for social creatures to "adapt with the group" and follow the group, its why we have "trends". Men get away with doing their own thing because realistically, we could survive on our own (cavemen era, etc etc), while women would always need to be protected, therefore its evolutionary more beneficial for them to adapt.
    Also people in general tend to take after their social circles, the closer the connection, the bigger the pull, women are more emotional, therefore in genuine relationships they are "pulled along" better. Ofc if the guy has 0 personality thats hard, thats why personality is such a big thing for women.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This is a way over explanation and the answer is still no. They don't just become you, which is what OPs asking. Just like despite all you said you don't become your friends.
      There is an exchange of interests, maybe some slang, some inside jokes, you may talk alike, but you don't all become a hive mind and adopt all each other beliefs behaviors and hobbies. Everyone maintains their own identity more or less.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >but you don't all become a hive mind and adopt all each other beliefs behaviors and hobbies. Everyone maintains their own identity more or less.
        Anon I don't think you quite understand what identity is. It's not absolute, it's more of a localization of the totality of experience. We delimit identity at the individual level because we have separate brains and bodies and for most purposes can treat these as distinct from other brains and bodies. But having one's "own" identity, objectively, makes no sense, because everybody exists against the same contemporary background of society, culture, etc.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Actually I take this post back, it didn't need to be made. My bad.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I'm glad.
            Because the point still stands.. no, if you date a woman she isn't just going to adopt all your beliefs hobbies and interests. If she does that's a huge red flag.
            There's no philosophy here. You're overhanging ops question.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah, that is true. In most cases you'll probably just end up with someone who wants to explore your hobbies and is sympathetic to your beliefs, which is perfectly fine and healthy.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Speaking from experience here.
            First high-school girlfriend, more of an "explore each other's interests, take and leave" experience.

            My young adult Ltr (6 years) was a "copy everything I do" person, thought I found my soul mate. Basically one day she tired of the charade she made up and transformed overnight and suddenly hated everything I had been lead to believe she liked. It was bizarre to say the least.

            And my wife now, we're almost nothing alike. We share a sense of humor and we like a few things, enough to have stuff to do together, we, as I've said in several posts, have adopted each other's speech patterns slang and inside jokes more or less.. other than that she's all RuPauls drag race marvel and boxing, and I'm all fun facts, sci fi and side projects.

            It is a most peaceful life. I'd actually tour schools giving talks about "date someone not much like you" at this point. It just works. Never run out of things to talk about and always have things to admire about each other.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Damn, nice. I could definitely take a page from your book.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        uhh, no

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        While I did overexplain, yea, never did I say people lose their identity and we're comparable to worker ants. I simply just stated that, yes, women infact tend to take after their partners and provided a reason. There are many studies that delve into this subject and if you have a close-knit friend group, than if 6/7 people start a habit, the 7th person will eventually follow out of passive social pressure. In my experience women tend to be very easily "convinced" to follow and do things they don't really enjoy, purely because of external pressures.

        The guys that get the hottest women are 0 personality chads though

        Lol where tf do you live?
        I mean, could be, since I don't know what you mean, but don't you simply mean they are shallow/stupid? People can still have notable personalities with such traits. Chads that get the hottest girls usually did something, most of the time its just confidence/charisma game and also being the right man in the right place. Spergs don't get the hottest women bevause they don't frick around in places where the hottest women are.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      The guys that get the hottest women are 0 personality chads though

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's normal for people in general to get into each other's hobbies when they're dating, at least to some degree.

  8. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Sit down, little man, I'll explain.
    When and a man and woman like each other very much they want to spend time together. Since they like each other they don't expect the other to give up their own interests so both of them share activities.
    If the woman really likes live music the guy will go to concerts with her. If the man really likes skeet shooting the woman will go along and join in.
    No go out and play some more, OK?

  9. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Different people different interests. But when you start dating it's a lot easier to get into hobbies and shit you'd never think you'd enjoy because of your partner

  10. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Any woman who respects you will try to emulate you (but without competing with you). It's just how they are.

  11. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    my wife is a prim and proper cityc**t and im a redneck and unironic juggalo but she's down with the clown and bumping the wicked shit daily now despite thinking redneck culture is moronic or something. she even tries to remember cool facts about cars and trucks which is cute even if shes still moronic about them.
    if your wife/gf doesnt totally embrace every moronic interest you have she aint the one sorry

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      sure, sure. absolutely. thanks for sharing something real. mustve taken all your courage to be so vulnerable.

  12. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It’s usually more common that a girl will take on the interests and hobbies of a man she’s interested in dating in order to get their attention and get them to talk to her, though often times they’ll just be pretending to be interested in those things.
    It can happen in relationships too, though it’s more likely that women will be more open minded and tolerant of their man’s interests, not necessarily take interest in them as well.

  13. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Wow she walled in 3 years.

  14. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    No they may take a slight interest at first more than likely they will get sick of how you spend your time and money on your hobbies.

  15. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yes it is. My girlfriend and I brew beer/wine/moonshine together, and I've gotten her to start working out again. Occasionally she'll celebrity at the gym with me. Shits cash

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >my girlfriend does 2 things I do
      Mind the nuance.
      OP seems to think they just become carbon copies of you, and other incels in the thread are discussing this. Not the case and you know it.
      Don't confuse the autists.

      Also brewing together sounds sick af. I used to do beer. Wonder if my wife would get into wine with me.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Brother, I see your point. I'll be sure to clarify things like "I introduced her to the practice of a hobby that she was previously contemplating"

        Also, you can get whatever brew kit you'd like right off amazon. If you guys are gamers, there are plenty of recipes out of the lores of several games. Personally my lady and I love making the skyrim mead. The one ralof talks about right in the beginning of the game (the mead with juniper berries mixed into it) its tons of fun to make, and even better to drink, as you know.

  16. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Only to a point.

  17. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Given this new fascinating revelation, I could mold a girl into becoming just like me, a hero. Perfect.

  18. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    My girlfriend adopted all of my political beliefs, broke up with most of her old friend group and also follows me into the gym every time I train. Her routine takes much less time than mine, so she just hangs around near me, while I do mine. I would say it can be true.

  19. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Never noticed his T-shirt. I like MK2. Maybe in another life he and I could be friends

  20. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >take on your hobbies/personality
    this is called mirroring
    if you're in an actual decent relationship you can still maintain different hobbies/interests

  21. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yeah being in a relationship is like getting Estrogen pills cause all your testosterone is drained by such brain dead tactics by your SO. See the men who are in a LTR. They are not men anymore. They need to take permission to meet friends. To have drinks. They get their clothes picked by their SOs. They are constantly monitored for cheating. You become a eunuch.

    They lose drive ambition. All is just surrounded by their SO. Don't be in a LTR if you would like to remain a man. Just be in Fwb or casual. Never go full relationship.

  22. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Were they actually a couple?

  23. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    While women definitely tend to mirror their loved ones more, relationships are also about sharing things you like and opening each other's minds to new ideas (while also deciding what you don't like). My mom got my dad into reading and he got her into cooking, but there are also things they each do that the other has no interest in.

    Also, part of it probably has to do with the way we are generally ok with women acting in a masculine manner but not ok with a man acting in a feminine manner. I.e. if a girl is into cars or sports, she's cool, but if a dude is into knitting, he's a homosexual.

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