Is it weird that as a 32 year old virgin I still expect my first girlfriend to be in her mid 20s at least?

Is it weird that as a 32 year old virgin I still expect my first girlfriend to be in her mid 20s at least? I don't want a past her prime traumatized used up woman with baggage.

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    no, what's weird is you think you have anything to offer her

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >no, what's weird is you think you have anything to offer her
      And what exactly do you have to offer anyone?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Gesus Krist anon, gotta bring out the big guns xD

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah, I’m an alpha male, and l am like the Ancient Greek philosopher Diogenes. Why wouldn’t she want me? Money is finite, and property isn’t kept after you die.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        L M A O

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    yea kinda just because you didnt advance in dating doesnt mean others didnt, youll only be able to find used hags unless you groom a minor (risky and illegal)

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's not weird because your delusional garbage it's quite common on this site.
    > I don't want a past her prime traumatized used up woman with baggage.
    That's the only type of woman you will attract with your current mindset and condition.

    • 4 weeks ago
      ;)

      These guys think they are above everyone. This loser should be happy to date just about anyone. They really need to drop their egos.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I don't think I'm above anyone, I just have preferences and need to look out for my own best interest. It would be foolish to get with a past her prime woman.

        • 4 weeks ago
          ;)

          Then why ask? Everything is a preference. Would personally focus more on her personality than her age to decide.

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Your post would come off infinitely better if you only said "I don't want a woman with a ton of baggage".

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah but I'm just being brutally honest. I hate how women get away with listing their physical preferences like height but its a problem when we say we prefer younger women with healthy eggs.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Lmfao what do you mean "get away with"
        There are older women who get ith younger all the time I don't see the big deal your making an ant hill into a mountain

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      A first relationship is supposed to be a mutual learning experience free of baggage. It never works out when one partner has baggage and the other is new to this.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Motherfricker, everyone has emotional baggage in one way or another, childhood trauma exists for frick sake. The majority of teenage highschool relationships fail catastrophically because they are immature people with lots of emotional baggage.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Relationship baggage is different

          One is new to this and in love with the other person, but the person they're in love is cynical and jaded from past relationships

          The former ends up heartbroken because of this and becomes cynical and jaded too

          You completely miss the experience of doing things for the first time together and experimenting, because the other person has already done them

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >The former ends up heartbroken because of this and becomes cynical and jaded too
            This only happens because of victim mentality, one can learn that the way others are don't necessarily define who you are. So a b***h breaks your heart and you are gonna let that suck out your enjoyment of life and love for the rest od your life? Frick that shit dude, if you fall for it then you are too emotionally dependant on others.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I'm looking for a mutual learning experience, not to be someone else's therapist.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Relationship baggage is different

        One is new to this and in love with the other person, but the person they're in love is cynical and jaded from past relationships

        The former ends up heartbroken because of this and becomes cynical and jaded too

        You completely miss the experience of doing things for the first time together and experimenting, because the other person has already done them

        very well explained.

        no, what's weird is you think you have anything to offer her

        its not weird at all. its actually much better this way. theres no stupid games to put up with

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >A first relationship is supposed to be a mutual learning experience free of baggage.
        Yeah, in your teens you fricking loser.

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I did just that. 29 dating a 22 year old.

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    What's she playing?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Ocarina of Time

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If I get to that point I will seriously consider suicide. I would not want to date a 30 something woman because they would likely have disabled kids. If that's my future, just kill me.

  8. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    As a Diaspora. This is easily done by going back home and dating/getting a match.

    Most American women will have gone through multiple relationships before they hit 30.

  9. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's perfectly alright, nothing "weird" about it and ignore fools who say otherwise - they're usually just envious people.

    In my experience, older women are totally worthless, bitter hags. Avoid them.

  10. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Where do l go to find NEET women? If it’s not possible where do l find prostitutes? I’m tired of being a virgin

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Discord probably

  11. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yeah, you're a traumatized used up man past your prime with baggage so I don't know what you expect lol

  12. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >I don't want a past her prime traumatized used up woman with baggage
    And you aren't past your prime traumatized with baggage?

    Get real.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I don't think it matters because men and women desire different things. Women don't have to be tall to want tall men, or rich to want wealthy men, or thin to want fit men.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I don't know what that has to do with my post. It takes two to tango. You have to be self-aware. Why do these younger women have to get with you? What do you offer? Why would you not be past your prime with baggage in their eyes? Specially considering you are a 32YO virgin. There is baggage.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Why do these younger women have to get with you?
          They don't have to do anything. If they don't see me as a viable mate that's fine, but pairing up with a past her prime woman with no good years left seems ridiculous.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >pairing up with a past her prime woman with no good years left seems ridiculous.
            So is pairing up with a man past his prime with no good years left.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Then you are not gonna make it.

  13. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    That feeling never goes away. I pretended to be a normie for years and had "normal" relationships with women with baggage and "exes". i cared about some of them, but it always had a limit and they would always inadvertently remind me why I could never trust or invest in them fully by comparing me in little way to their exes (so and so used to buy me stuff all the time, this other guy had more friends, etc), or having unreasonable expectations based on the best qualities of a man they used to date (he took me to venice once why don't you ever spend tens of thousands of dollars on me after only 4 months of dating?), and at the end of it all I knew none of them would ever make a good wife, and I feel in my bones that I could only ever marry and truly love a virginal woman with no baggage and who actually wants to be a mother and wants a big family instead of being some career woman who has multiple exes, impossible expectations and will only give me zero to one potentially defective child in her mid 30s.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >I pretended to be a normie for years and had "normal" relationships with women with baggage and "exes"
      That's exactly what I'm talking about. Its like when dudes come back from war and never talk about the shit they did, but you know they saw some fricked up shit. Girls go through so much in even one relationship, like crazy rough degrading sex, physical abuse, being spoiled with gifts and money. Relationships between people are age are basically farces where both parties are burned out from over a decade or romance and sexcapades. Nothing is new, nothing is fresh, they are just settling.

      I know this one girl, only 21, but her ex had good money and spoiled her, but also beat her and was abusive. If I were to date her there would be some guy walking around in our city who used all her holes and beat her up like it was a ufc match, she's fricking traumatized and I'd be piking up the pieces of what he fricked and broke. No imagine what a 30 year old woman would have experienced, my god.

  14. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Almost every man that age prefers women in their 20s dude, it's normal. Younger women are more attractive and have a longer fertility window. Not getting your dick wet before isn't going to change that.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      almost every man at literally every age prefers young fertile women. even in the early years of internet dating one of the first things they learned was that they had to restrict older men from messaging 18-22 year olds because otherwise they never messaged anyone else.

  15. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    When you say "at least" do you mean "at most"?

  16. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You posted this same thread in /NSFFW/. Anyways it's not that weird, but the chances of an awkward 32 year old incel getting with a virgin in her prime is slim. And even if you do get a virgin, she'll probably get weirded out and leave the moment you say something about how you like her because she's not a "used up woman with baggage."

  17. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It is weird that you are 32 an incel and still want a girlfriend and yet haven't killed yourself. That's some wishful thinking if I've seen any; I was voluntarily celibate when I was half your age homie

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I'm actually a Volcel, I had chances in the past but they were all fat, men, cheaters, or studs.

  18. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    if you have this mindset ain't no woman at any age gonna want you anon. you could lie about thinking this way to get laid, but that will make developing real love impossible.
    work on your attitude then find a hottie in your actual peer group to rock you in bed

  19. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Anyone who hates on that doesn't matter, before the Lord Jesus Christ? Do you understand that? They don't matter. Hate, ah.

  20. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Reminder: if a woman posted this, you would cry about "hypergamy" and "hoeflation".

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Not at all. I'm a mate selection realist. Unfortunately feelings get hurt when men and women are coldly honest about what we prefer.

  21. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    man the glowies are really active pushing longhouse narratives on this board.

  22. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Expectations are fine but what are you doing to get these 20s girls anon? 30 and 20 pairings are not uncommon and being a virgin is nothing to be ashamed of but they ain’t gonna drop in your lap.

  23. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I've known guys in their 30s that get young virgins but they were all normalgays that lost their virginity at 14.

  24. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's not weird and perfectly reasonable.

  25. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Why would that be weird? You should be going for early 20s to mid 20s anyway. Even 18-24 is fine

  26. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    so i lost my v card at 30 to a 23 year old who i stayed in a relationship for 4 years with and it turns out she's a cheating prostitute

    it doesn't really bring me any comfort that she's a lot younger than me, just a bit of momentary validation which evaporated once the relationship was over

  27. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Pull your head out of your cavernous butthole.

  28. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    No, it's actually pretty normal to fantasize, no matter how idealistic the fantasy. What's dumb is letting these dreams set your expectations of what reality has to offer.

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