Is the virgin gf/wife thing overrated?

I'm in a fundie religious movement where the girls marry late teens to early twenties as virgins, but I find the idea of one lifetime sexual partner unappealing and would rather sleep around until my 30s. Am I making a mistake? I could probably get a virgin even after doing this, but it may ruin my reputation among the "good" families.

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You actually fell for that meme? lmao, it's literally /misc/ copers thinking virgin women are somehow special. They're the exact same as other women.

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >> Is the virgin gf/wife thing overrated

    Yes. This meme is dumb af. It's just used as a cope for cowardly doomers who want to justify why they can't ask a girl out.

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I don't care about her being a virgin or not, but I do want to know about her past.

    I don't want anything with a girl who had casual sex with many guys.

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Only men who are terrified of competition care about virginity. It's like "no woman will ever want me unless she simply doesn't realise how much better she can do". It's pathetic.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I don't care about her being a virgin or not, but I do want to know about her past.

      I don't want anything with a girl who had casual sex with many guys.

      You actually fell for that meme? lmao, it's literally /misc/ copers thinking virgin women are somehow special. They're the exact same as other women.

      I'm a woman and I'd want my husband to have ideally not have had sex with another woman since that would mean we'd experience it together for the first time. What does that make me?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        It makes you a worthy match.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Appeal murder laws and then we'll talk.

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Am I making a mistake?
    Yes. Waiting until marriage to have sex has been shown time and time again to help form long-lasting marriages.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >longer prison sentences are good

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Family
        >A prison
        homie get yo priorities straight

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          If you want a family more power to you
          Don't delude yourself in thinking that you aren't trading your freedom and autonomy for that and that you have more than a single man. You just don't.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Arbeit mach frei.
            By their works shall you know them.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You have less free time and autonomy as a married man with a family than one without. You don't need to think I'm somehow a israelite for pointing basic math out.
            If anything you should be cheering me on, I'm not reproducing and cutting into your demographics.

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Virginity for a man is worthless.
    Virginity for a woman is worth in gold.

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    No, there is consistent research finding higher partner count correlates to higher chance of divorce, infidelity, and lower relationship satisfaction, even when controlling for relevant variables like religiosity.

    If anyone is giving you a mainstream opinion, in this case Americans in this thread saying it is overrated which is mainstream US opinion, just look up the fertility rate and divorce rate of mainstream US culture and keep that in mind before following their advice.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      The issue is when tradcucks like to obsess over virginity in a woman as if it fundamentally changes what women are. That they're somehow special when they're still just fricking women, not worthy of praise or the worship they get.
      Women are the exact same regardless of whether or not they've lost their virginity or not. They're not magical innocent loving creatures that are only tarnished by the fact that other men have cummed in them.
      Obviously if you want a marriage or ltr a lower body count predicts greater stability. But virgin women aren't fricking unicorns that will allow you to exist in your Leave it to Beaver 1950s tradcon fantasy.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        This saith satan.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          If you want to go ahead with your fantasies more power to you. Don't come back crying down the line when you're in jail because you can't pay alimony, you have no custody of children, and your wife that you worked so hard for doesn't even look you in the eyes.

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Is the virgin gf/wife thing overrated?
    Yes. If you get your life advice from teenage virgin autists and meme graphs on the internet you're really, really not in a good place.

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    From a religious standpoint, you want a chaste, but not necessarily virgin, wife. In this case that means a woman who's committed themselves to chastity, repenting of their past if need be.

    I have nothing against the yunguns getting married if they are ready, but I distrust religious sects that push young marriage.

    I highly discourage being a manprostitute. Can't tell you what to do, but I can say waiting til marriage is proper, and its better to wait now and find a good wife instead of spending your 20s screwing yourself... literally... over and over again.

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's literally the most important thing to do when screening for a long term partner. Women cannot properly pair bond after 1 - 3 dicks. That's why the divorce rate shoots up for non-virgins. And just to add on the whole mental thing, why would you want to think about dicks in her pussy/mouth, other men abusing her sexually, and how you'll never measure up to other guys? In most cases if your gf is not a virgin you are a cuck or settling, simple as

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  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    The whole entire gf/wife/sex and especially relationship thing is extremely overrated. That's just your sex drive and natural instinct to reproduce tricking you. None of it is worth the trouble.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Wise man.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Word

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's worse than overrated. It's a dumb meme invented by losers.

  13. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It is easier to teach good habits than it is to unlearn bad habits.
    Get your virgin wife. Happy wife, happy life.
    What religion?

  14. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    After dating women with baggage, I am beginning to change my romantic ideal to someone who no experience. I think I can treat her well if she is well adjusted. But I cannot overcome nonvirgins and their history of cheating, or being cheated on and so on
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