Is there any reason I shouldn't continue fricking escorts if. >I'm not poor and can budget

Is there any reason I shouldn't continue fricking escorts if
>I'm not poor and can budget
>I'm single
>I've had relationships and one night stands, all ended up being negative or forgettable experiences
>I get attention from women but I don't want a girlfriend or wife
>Not against casual sex but believe it's not worth the drama or effort
>I live in a country where it is legal

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Honestly not really. Just don't be a degenerate about it

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Just don't be a degenerate about it
      what do you mean? I'm not asking for anything weird when it comes to kinks, very vanilla.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Having a relationship is a type of investment in your future: kids, spouse. (people you usually trust more)
    Fricking hoes is a replacement to that and you might get complacent, never aspiring to said family.
    Whatever you desire now might not be the same with what your future self desires.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >Having a relationship is a type of investment in your future: kids, spouse. (people you usually trust more)
      Makes sense, but to be honest I don't know if I'll ever want children. I definitely do not want to get married in the current legal climate.
      >Fricking hoes is a replacement to that and you might get complacent, never aspiring to said family.
      Is there still a risk of complacency after what I wrote above?
      >Whatever you desire now might not be the same with what your future self desires.
      yes, this is true...

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    bamp

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i don’t fully understand the psychology behind men who claim they have no desire to have children or a wife. it makes no sense to me on a personal basis but i can somewhat understand from men who have had trauma from past relationships or the way they were raised. OP why don’t you want to have children or a wife?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I (not OP) want to have children and a wife, but I was in an abusive relationship a while back, and haven’t mustered the courage to re-enter that world

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >OP why don’t you want to have children or a wife?
      You've answered it yourself
      >men who have had trauma from past relationships

      idk you could focus on being virtuous and having discipline but maybe that's expecting too much from the average joe

      It's hard to find women with the same values. I am disciplined, which is why I am able to budget or think about stopping this altogether.

      Sex isn’t that fun. Honestly most of the time I’d rather jerk off than have sex, even sex with hot women. Maybe that’s just me though.

      I don't feel the same.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >you answered it yourself
        i know i did i was asking more specifically what happened?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          physical, verbal abuse, cheating. I don't want to go into detail, but it was different things from different girls.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            sounds like you had and still have options. why don’t you just suck it up and keep finding girls. i had to date about 30 women before i found my wife. she’s literally perfect and we have kids together. i get it i got cheated on and shit early on but it just made me stronger and more encouraged to find a woman who is worthy of me.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >i had to date about 30 women before i found my wife
            That sounds very time consuming and boring. It can be draining emotionally to deal with that many dates if I am taking them seriously.
            I also hate the apps and I am in the same dating position as most men when it comes to approaching girls etc.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Not OP, I have a girlfriend (soon to be fiancé) and we don't want children. We're both getting older (me early 30s/her late 20s) and aren't financially stable enough right now to support a child. By the time we are, the risk of complications due to age will be very high. Plus we both grew up in abusive families and until we got the ghosts of the past sorted out we risk passing on the abuse.
      We talked and would both be okay with adopting. We have plenty of love to give, but stability is also dependant on finances and a degree of in-the-moment emotional maturity that we can't provide right now.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >not financially stable enough to have kids
        sorry but this is just psyoped garbage to get you to think you shouldn’t have kids. they don’t really cost that much dude. i have 3 planning on more. they are time consuming and eat a lot but the feeling that you get when each child comes into the world.. it’s inexplicable. i love them so much.

        >i had to date about 30 women before i found my wife
        That sounds very time consuming and boring. It can be draining emotionally to deal with that many dates if I am taking them seriously.
        I also hate the apps and I am in the same dating position as most men when it comes to approaching girls etc.

        >time consuming and boring
        dating women? no it was pretty fun and excited. i dated most girls for 1-3 months. once that introductory spark goes away you start seeing the real them. it was great every time no matter how it ended. it ultimately led me to my wife. even all the downfalls and messy stuff it was all worth it and i have no regrets about any of it. and i got sex regularly so it was all good.

        overall, rethink this because there will be a day when you’re old and you’ll say “why ft didn’t i have kids” many such cases nowadays as we’re seeing with some boomers.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          was this before or after the apps?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            after. i never got on the apps because i got rid of any social media i had so i couldn’t even make an account. women always loved it when i told they found out i had no social media. idk if it was actually attractive or if it was just my confidence and conviction in hating apps and social media. i’d imagine if i was a pussy about it and got awkward about not having any of that they wouldn’t have thought i was attractive.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            how did you meet her?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            i picked her up in college.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            that explains it, dating and socializing is very different after college

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            not really. dating is what you make of it. if you’re a homosexual and afraid of social interaction then you’re just going to go on the apps and either strike out or get some low quality prostitute. it’s really all about age of the women. if you can get them in the college age then you’ll be ok.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    idk you could focus on being virtuous and having discipline but maybe that's expecting too much from the average joe

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Sex isn’t that fun. Honestly most of the time I’d rather jerk off than have sex, even sex with hot women. Maybe that’s just me though.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Jerking off on stims is better than having sex almost 9/10 times. You eventually get used to the rugburn and picking the flaking skin off is more fun than it should be.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    No

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    No reason at all. Just be careful not to fall in love.

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    No. You do you.

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Because it reduces your desire to find a mate and have children.

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