Is there any way to date women that doesnt involve dumbing down and having to pretend that dogs, eating in restaurants, the top 40 hits of that week, ...

Is there any way to date women that doesnt involve dumbing down and having to pretend that dogs, eating in restaurants, the top 40 hits of that week, a superficial understand of zodiac signs, gossip, her day do day life at a corporate job and travels to tourist traps are actually fascinating conversation topics?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    how many women have you had actual conversations with anon, real life ones not ones you saw on tv or in your imagination

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      How is that an argument anon, in any way?
      Ive talked with dozens of them, and its safe enough to say that they download their personalities from yheir indta feeds and 70% of them have nothing to talk about other yhan what I said in yhe OP

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >its safe enough to say that they download their personalities from yheir indta feeds
        Be the update to their firmware.

        Is there a way to date women when you can't be bothered to even pretend to reciprocate interest? Sure. For a little while.

        If you want more than a fling and/or a woman with baggage and attachment issues, you're going to have to bring something of substance to the table so she doesn't realize she'd end up miserable with you. There are plenty of well adjusted people who would make her feel validated and it wouldn't take more than a conversation with said person for her to be tempted to make the switch.

        >Is there a way to date women when you can't be bothered to even pretend to reciprocate interest?
        No pretending necessary if you simply have her be interested in you (your love, your attraction) while you are also interested in her.
        The problem is not that you lack shared interest. It's that you lack shared initiative.
        >it wouldn't take more than a conversation with said person for her to be tempted to make the switch.
        If she decides who she's attracted to, she won't compulsively chase validation.
        If she doesn't decide who she's attracted to, then being a domineering butthole overrides the chase for validation.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >No pretending necessary if you simply have her be interested in you (your love, your attraction)
          Consider for just a moment how realistically you can sustain that notion in dialogue form (as that's what we're talking about doing away with).
          >If she decides who she's attracted to, she won't compulsively chase validation.
          It's not abnormal to seek and receive validation, especially in the form of transactional conversation, in a relationship. You might be okay with having a warm hole as your partner, but women tend to want more than that.
          On top of all that, what are you providing in this engagement that another man can't? Because out the gate you're talking about doing away with a pretty important function of the relationship that she's likely to value above most things.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah, in reality the only thing women talk about is social media trends and what their friends who they never see in person are doing on social media and also celebrity gossip

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Sure, there are plenty of women who will have different interests, but for many of them its exactly as you described

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Is there a way to date women when you can't be bothered to even pretend to reciprocate interest? Sure. For a little while.

    If you want more than a fling and/or a woman with baggage and attachment issues, you're going to have to bring something of substance to the table so she doesn't realize she'd end up miserable with you. There are plenty of well adjusted people who would make her feel validated and it wouldn't take more than a conversation with said person for her to be tempted to make the switch.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Wtf are you even talking about homie

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Unless you're partnering with someone raised in the same household as you, you're going to have to learn to interact with others and their interests. When you do manage to snag a girl at a low enough point in her life that she's okay with a shallow and unengaging relationship, it will only last as long as it takes her to find a guy that gets it.

        The exceptions being:
        • finding a girl with a shattered sense of self-worth that will take long enough to recover that she then becomes hostage to the sunk cost fallacy
        • having enough money to essentially pay a woman to shut her mouth and open her legs

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Yes, it's called cramming you dick in her whenever she starts talking about boring things.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Yes, and your success in dating will be very limited if you do not.
    You simply discuss what you want to do with her, and how she should feel about you, and what you will do to spark these feelings.

    In your OP, you do not aim to get the girl. You aim to passively exist in her presence. Your goal is to be ignored. Does it satisfy you?

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    There's only one woman I know who talks about this stuff. And she has a single digit IQ. Speaks volumes about what kind of people you surround yourself OP, but birds of a feather I guess?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah Im sure all the women you know are rocket sciences and all the men only talk about grooming themselves, women and gossip

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      clever women are reserved for the global top 10% of males. OP needs to stick to his dating league.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        How does a 10pcter ends up with a clever woman?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          by being top 10% dumbass.
          stop answering your own question.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Me and my bf talk about video games 99% of the time, and actually useful topis like philosophy or literature perhaps 1% of the time. I feel like dating loser women like me won't be any better lol. Most people aren't particularly fascinating.

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Sounds like you should try dating an older woman.

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