It is difficult to understate just how much psychological damage occurs in the young mind in never experiencing love when it was supposed to.

It is difficult to understate just how much psychological damage occurs in the young mind in never experiencing love when it was supposed to. It creates invisible but ever present and outwardly manifesting psychological wounds that may heal over time, but never disappear. It is a lifelong crippling of the mind, affecting things like confidence, self-esteem, healthy thought processes, and inability to cope with the difficulties in life in a healthy way. It breeds attitudes of perpetual envy and anger and depression. Especially when said individuals are constantly bombarded by images and media of people having lived their best life while they missed out and can never experience, ever. Because time is only linearly forward.

A means to try and "heal the mind" which has already happened for many who have resigned themselves to apathy and quiet resentment, but it doesn't remove the scar. The scar is always there. Always present. And it will always serve as a reminder, and always influence future thoughts and decisions and actions.

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    you're ignoring the fact that your first relationship usually ends terribly due to your lack of emotional intelligence, which leads to just as much psychological damage as having no relationship at all. in the end we're all fricked here and there is no peace in samsara

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I had my first girlfriend at 14 and I'm still a psychologically mess. Some relationships are more damaging than never having them at all. Imagine what a truly nasty person can put a weak willed man through. They can completely alter that persons values, confidence, hopes. They can crush you, and lead you down a path towards hell. At least being solo you get to develop on your own without being manipulated to all hell.

      >> doomer shit
      >> doomer shit
      >> I'm a victim
      >> doomer shit
      >> doomer shit

      Why are you alive? Genuine question, tell me why you continue to live and get out of bed every day?

      Teenagers that never develop the ability to connect romantically, define or explore boundaries, regulate disagreements and rejection, and who never receive peer feedback on their social and emotional development will almost certainly not come out un-stunted.
      Human relationships are considered essential to psychosocial development anyway. This isn't disputed in academia.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You didn't answer my question...

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Nta but your "question" is pointless
          >muh stop playing victim you're the one to blame start doing shit
          Like what? like what Black person? what could you possibly do that would undo the psychological damage of decades of loneliness and lack of intimacy?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I asked why you are still alive. Answer the question or I will know you are larping.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            presumably because he eats and drinks

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            We are biologically compelled to avoid Death.
            Those that self delete are a vanishing minority. Many times they just get lucky in thier incompetent attempt.

            Implying he should kill himself reinforces your framing of his victimhood.

            Don't play coy you ass

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        All of the abilities you listed except for the first one can be acquired without the need for a romantic partner. What’s more, the first one is very context-dependent because you need a stable partner to foster its development, which is all the more reason to be patient when it comes to romance.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >> Teenagers that never develop the ability to connect

        Autists are not people. Trying to fit them into the rules of people is moronic. Autists are born damaged and incomplete, they don't become that later.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Teenagers that never develop the ability to connect romantically
        You mean wither people with Reactive Attachment Disorder, caused by a lack of human interaction as an infant/very young child, or Autism.
        All the rest of that you get within your family.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        That might actually mean something if academia had any credibility whatsoever. The so called experts can't agree that mutilating children is harmful to their "development". Into the trash it goes.

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I had my first girlfriend at 14 and I'm still a psychologically mess. Some relationships are more damaging than never having them at all. Imagine what a truly nasty person can put a weak willed man through. They can completely alter that persons values, confidence, hopes. They can crush you, and lead you down a path towards hell. At least being solo you get to develop on your own without being manipulated to all hell.

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >> doomer shit
    >> doomer shit
    >> I'm a victim
    >> doomer shit
    >> doomer shit

    Why are you alive? Genuine question, tell me why you continue to live and get out of bed every day?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >tell me why you continue to live and get out of bed every day
      Parents are still alive so I can't just exit this shitworld yet.

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    So you had no love or affection from your parents?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Its a Doomer post. There is a guy that spams /adv/ and /NSFFW/ with doomer posts along the lines of "if you didn't have a GF in HS you are doooooooooooooomed to be "stunted" for life.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Nut that's moronic. There are subcultures, even entire cultures, that forbid/avoid teenage dating and such yet they tend to have more *stable* adults.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Doomer = moronic, yes

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You sound like a turbo queer bro.

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >lived their best life
    Don't say moronic Black personism shit like this it's not helping your situation.

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Wow, OP. That really sucks, I’m glad I’m not you and I experienced young love. Suck it.

  8. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Love doesn't exist, this is all just bluepill mental gymnastics to feel like a victim

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This is a cope for people who were rejected I think.

      >love girl
      >she friendzones you/rejects you
      >don't know how to process this
      >decide you were crazy, driven by lust, and that the love wasn't real

      but the love was real, it was just one-sided

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I've been in relationships dude. There is no such thing as love, both on a biological level and actually interacting with women.
        The actual cope here is that you want to believe women are different than what they actually are

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Just because you cant love doesnt mean love isnt real you solipsist. How did you feel when someone you liked broke up with you. Did you grieve? Did you cry? Did your stomach feel like it was in knots?

  9. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I agree, and improoving to the point of getting laid past college doesn't fix anything. You get stuck in one failed settling relationship after another. You're stunted and damaged, she's weathered and resents you for what she let other men do to her. Neither of you like or value each other, but you both know you're the best you'll get. So you stay in a failing partnership out of desperation. Or you die alone. I've resigned myself to hoarding money to spend on hobbies and trips. I will never have love, a family or a legacy beyond a life unfulfilled. This is my life.

  10. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Meanwhile, in Catholic, Mormon, Evangelical, Orthodox, Orthodox, & Orthodox israeli religious communities and Traditional nations no one dates before they are prepared for marriage in their 20's and yet everyone is happier, healthier, and less mentally ill than you morons.
    Go outside.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You've never been in any of these communities. The girls are putting out for the chads as soon as they can. The whole system dupes betas into believing sex is bad because they'd burn it all down if they knew the truth about their heckin based tradwife.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >You've never been in any of these communities.
      Total failure. I am a member of a TLM parish.
      >The girls are putting out for the chads as soon as they can
      The homeschooled girls that are never away from chaperones and never, ever allowed to be alone with any man, ever? Them?
      HOW?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        When did you join? Having grown up in a small catholic community I know what I saw in youth. Are you new or just naive?

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I was born into this parish
          >I grew up in a small catholic community
          1) not all Catholics are Traditional
          2) You just gave every clue that you stopped being Catholic young
          3) Did all those Catholic girls you never talked to you tell you their sexual history in writing, or did you read their minds?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >no true catholics!
            Lmao
            >stopped
            Well yeah it's a scam for non-Chads
            >Did all those Catholic girls you never talked to you tell you their sexual history in writing
            Did your wife?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >no true catholics
            So you went to a Latin Mass Parish where all the families homeschooled, all the women wore chapel veils, and so forth?
            Yes or no.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Did your wife?
            My wife was a virgin on her wedding night and had spent her entire life within sight of chaperones or family until then.
            Like her sisters and friends.
            Now what?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You

            >>no true catholics!
            Also you

            When did you join? Having grown up in a small catholic community I know what I saw in youth. Are you new or just naive?

            >Are you new or just naive?

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          NTA
          I notice you didn't answer his question.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        The Mythical Chad of incel fantasies is a being of great contradictions.
        He is everywhere at all times. He is powerful rich, popular, and beloved BUT ALSO a dumb, violent, lying thug.
        The Mythical Chad can sleep with any women he wants to and the top 20% of women wil; frick ONLY Chad, yet somehow Chad also fricks fat women, ugly women, autistic women, and so on (ignoring the gorgeous women available to him) just so incels have no one to frick.
        Every woman of every level of education from every race and every background in every culture and subculture wants only Chad. And Chad can sense this and teleport into her bedroom whenever she has 2-3 minutes alone, usually when she is 13, magically making her incapable of enjoying sex with anyone but Chad.
        Truly, Chad is magical

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          You can't dismiss them when they publicly celebrate the things you are trying to imply are a third party fantasy.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Chad also fricks fat women, ugly women, autistic women, and so on (ignoring the gorgeous women available to him) just so incels have no one to frick.
          Those are handled by other normies. Your larp is stupid and you sound like a dumb woman.

  11. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous
    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Did not read. Only a dumb woman would post some moronic drivel like that.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >I did not read it
        >it is dumb
        Which is it, moron?

  12. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >if your autistic traditions weren't exactly like mine than they don't count!
    >my wife would NEVER have done such things!
    >he believes all of this from the bottom of his heart
    Unfixable.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      NTA
      YOU are the one insisting that all Catholics are exactly like you, not him.
      YOU are the one saying his experience has to be false

  13. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm a 33 yo KHHV and I'm fine with it. You people obsess about sex too much. Masturbation is quicker and easier.

  14. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I got into my first real relationship at 30.
    While life was far from perfect before that - it still isn't, for that matter - I have never felt genuinely unhappy.

    Resigning yourself to damnation, no matter your age, experience, or lack thereof, is a loser's attitude and the easy way out.

  15. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You have miss diagnosed the clause of your problem.

    Prolonged regular exposure to online spaces and video games are linked with ever increasing evidence of psychological trauma.

    Get off the computer anon. Forever.

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