Ive been dating my boyfriend for like almost a year online.

Ive been dating my boyfriend for like almost a year online. I really love him, and I know he loves me too, but like I feel like he doesnt want to be together as much as I do. Its a really shitty thing to think, but its hard not to. Im the one working a job trying to afford a place for us to move into together, but like he wont quit playing a game with his friends, and the schedule he keeps with them (ending his play times up to 4 am 4 times a week on weekdays) makes it so he cant quit his current job which pays an unlivable wage. The only reason he gets by is because he lives with people who cover him.

I dont want him to quit spending time with his friends, I think its good for him to have that time. But I dont want to continue feeling like im the only one taking moving in together seriously. I have zero social life. We get tot talk maybe like at most 3 hours a day together. Idk if thats a normal amount of time, but it feels like nothing. And with time zones it would be unfair to hold that against him, but he is up later than when I have to go to bed so I can wake up for work anyways. I know he loves me and he really does want to live together, but with his actions it feels like he isnt ready.

I dont want like all his time, I think he should be able to spend time with his friends cause thats really important. And when I get home he does make the effort to spend as much time as possible with me which I really do appreciate. But at the same time Im just annoyed he will commit to having a schedule that prevents him from having an adult paying job but says he wishes he could contribute to us getting a place together.

I respect him and his friends, and I push him to spend more time more time with them even if its during the few hours a day we can spend together. Hes not a bad or neglectful person at all. Atleast when it comes to positive emotions. But if I ever told him that I think he doesnt care to work hard enough to live together-

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    -it would destroy him and I dont want to do that. I love him so much and I know he loves me too. I worry that maybe online stuff just isnt for me but ive never had someone care for me as much as he has. I know a lot of this emotional stuff could just be me internalizing stuff so I havent really brought any of it up with him.

    I really dont want to make him feel bad, but like I just want him to be more committed. To at least put in like half the effort I am to making this work. Lovey feelings can only go so far when we both talk about wanting to be together irl but im the only one making sacrifices with my own personal life to make it happen. Also idk if NSFFW is even the place to post something like this but I figured if anyone were to give real advice it would be you guys.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >WAHHHHHH CHAD IS NOT PAYING ENOUGH ATTENTION TO MEEEEEE
      >SAVE ME INCELS OF LULZ!!
      many such threads. KYS, OP.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Its not even close to that. He pays a ton of attention to me. Thats why I feel so bad about my feelings. Im not asking for a reason to break up with him. I love him. Im just stressed out and feel like im the only one working towards being together irl. And maybe im missing something with him being ready for it. Im just confused. I know he wants to be together but hes not making the same moves and sacrifices I am to try and make it happen. I was kind of hoping to have response correcting me on stuff so I know that I am the issue, cause I do think I am. Your little meme shit doesnt help.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >words words words
          Holy fricking shit OP keep it shorter you fricking c**t. All that shit you just typed is literally just
          >WAHHHH CHAD WON'T CUT HIS ARMS AND SACRIFICE HIMSELF FOR ME MORE
          >I'M THE HECKING ISSUE!
          >I MAKE SOOOO MANY SACRIFICES FOR CHAD
          >YOUR MEME SHIT DOESN'T HELP IN*EL

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I'm not reading all that
      sorry that it happened to you
      or
      I'm happy for you

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    try asking reddit dot com

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    God you guys all hate yourselves so much that all you can do is try and drag others down. I was hoping to maybe get some kind of advice from people who are also feeling lost, but all you care about is hate.

    In a world where you can be anything, maybe try and be kind. Atleast to yourselves. Youre not completely lost, stop trying to throw away the map and blaming someone else.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      best advice you'll get prostitute!

      try asking reddit dot com

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      b***h you don't want help you just want to b***h and whine with walls of text and have the men here give you free attention and simp. Women are so predictable holy shit.
      We aren't buying it. You want genuine advice, then keep your posts short and to the point.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Im a fricking guy you homosexual. I dont want your attention. I just want advice.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          DID YOU HEAR THAT GUYS?? OP IS A MASSIVE BOTTOM homosexual! HE TAKES FAT wienerS UP HIS ASS EVERY NIGHT REMORSELESSLY

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >posts long womanly texts about his boyfriend
          >calls others homosexuals
          Now that's funny

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            yeah cause youre being one lol

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            OP, is it true that you fart out cum?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          LOL! HOMO! CHEEK-SQUEEZER! BOOTY SNIFFER! TROUSER BROWSER!

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Truly blessed trips of truth.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Truly blessed trips of truth.

            True, ill see myself out.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            WE NEED TO KNOW YOU homosexual

            DO YOU FART CUM??

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            No lol I dont. Like I said were long distance. I dont frick around.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            That makes this even better cum farter. Long distance relationships are gay and superficial in and of themselves. Does your bf fart cum too?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Why are you so interested in cum farting. Idk if thats even a thing. And im sure he doesnt.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You both get your asses fricked and someone cums in them, therefore every time you fart there's an explosion of cum from your ass

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Neither of us are getting our asses fricked, Hes not even in to that. Wtf is this board for anyways. I was always told it was for lonely people. Thought yall might level me but all you care about is wanting others to be sad and talking about butt cum. Neither of us frick around like that.

            It sounds like adv is the board for you but I'm sure it's just a hit idk about

            I think youre probably right. Im just not even gonna bother and just figure it out on my own. This has been very unhelpful.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            So it's you who will fart cum after you meet, then? Also, yes, I want you to be sad. Will you also cry semen too? Don't deceive me when you're both butt buddies

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Well I guess nothing can be as bad as being as sad as how you must feel. I do genuinely hope you find someone anon who loves you as much as you deserve. But you do have to love yourself first. You deserve to be loved, cum farting and all.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            OP, I'm not a homosexual like you, but just for that shit I'm gonna find your bottom boyfriend and make him fart my cum on your face. Seriously, frick off with that bullshit because you're starting to sound female again.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Im not female. Im very much a biological male. I just am who I am. The sooner you accept who you are, the sooner you can love yourself. You dont have to be an butthole you know. Even if you hate me, you can still learn to love yourself.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Yes OP, you're a biological male and you're such a fruity homosexual you actually manage to sound like a woman. I already accept who I am, and what I am, is a misanthropist who enjoys and wanks off to the thought of ruining someone else's day. Women are preferrable, though, because there is no such thing as a noble woman, especially here of all places.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You really shouldnt hate anyone anon. No one is to blame for your current condition but yourself. Wether its hating some homosexual like me, or some woman who doesnt look at you. You have to take responsibility for yourself. You are worth love, stop running from it.

            My advice: Find a normie on tinder who has a job and doesn't spend all night gaming.

            He deserves to to spend time gaming with his friends because that is how he talks to his friends. I dont want to take that from him. Im stuck between being a b***h and asking him to take irl more seriously and making sure he has his own time.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            No, I think everyone deserves hate. There's a whole bunch of different players who organized to frick things up for me. The way I see it, there's nothing with with being cruel to them too. To hell with love, that's a gay thing that only exists in fairy tales and stories. I'd rather hate, and continue hating, until I die. This is the only was it could be with me.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Im sorry you feel that way :/ im sure if you had real friends that wouldnt be the case. I can be your friend if you want. I cannot empathize with your hate, but I can sympathize with the feeling that the feeling that the world hates you.

            Love isnt a fairy tale friend, its just something that you have to learn to do give yourself. Youve actually really helped me with what I was struggling with. Thank you. Im willing to talk to you if you want.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Honest advice, talk to him, directly and explain your feelings.

            But you should stop being a b***h and hide these things, you don't seem like a good person and i wonder how often you did this shit

            But yeah, be open about it and talk to him and make concrete steps towards the solution you both agree on

            You either got BPD or Autism in any case, you're not capable of love lol

            Delude yourself enough and try to act like it at the least

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I don't care. If women won't give me happiness, I'd be far more happy to just take it from them and do it with a smile. Hate is better than anything else, kindness is for homosexuals and women to worship chad. The map can suck my dick, and it's 100% the fault of every woman for my suffering. Frick off and get out of my board disgusting prostitute.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      My advice: Find a normie on tinder who has a job and doesn't spend all night gaming.

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Not reading that. You're getting cheated on kek

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It sounds like adv is the board for you but I'm sure it's just a hit idk about

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    who falls for these larps? are zoomers literally braindamaged?

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    this isn't a friends thing or gay thing its a guy that is lazy and plays all day and mooches off people. Other words a leach.

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