I've heard a couple of chicks reject me because they say I'm boring and I have no personality.

I've heard a couple of chicks reject me because they say I'm boring and I have no personality. What does this mean and will working out at the gym help remedy this?

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  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It means your boring and have no personality. And no it won’t

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Then what an I supposed to do here?

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Then what an I supposed to do here
        Join an improv class and start getting hobbies and talking about them and your passions

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Get a fricking hobby, you tard. Climb Everest, pick up blacksmithing, buy a pet alligator. Gym will help you only because being NSFFW makes you more attractive and more women will notice you, but it's not everything. Pick a thing you like or a thing that makes a lot of money if you really have no interest in anything whatsoever. If you can't be interesting, you can at least be rich and NSFFW.

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It means they don’t enjoy being around you
    >what does this mean
    You don’t provide stimulation
    >what stimulates women
    Figure it out moron. Unironically go watch pickup artist videos until you get a clue. 99% of the content is made to fleece morons like you out of money but the ideas are all based in truth.

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Sounds like their attention span is awful. They're probably so used to tik tok that they don't know what the frick to do when someone has a meaningful conversation. Your best bet is to go with older chicks. They weren't raised on tik tok and youtube.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      OP is more likely to be the problem than the girls. He's here for a reason.

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    learn to make subtly demeaning anecdotal remarks about people they don't like. girls love it when you do the heavy lifting of judging people for them, and all they have to do is laugh at the losers.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      i said SUBTLE

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      i do that all the time.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      i do that all the time.

      So to get a woman, you have to be a covert bully.

      Good thing to know.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        but i never had a woman, anon.

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It means you don't say funny stuff and are probably too conservative with what you say over fear of saying the wrong stuff. You need to act as if you were hanging out with friends. Most guys get anxiety around girls because they don't want to say the wrong stuff and lose them so they tighten up and act like a robot.

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Girls say I'm boring
    90% of the time this is a projection when a girl feels that she cannot keep up with your hobbies. I code, engineer shit, told a girl that I was building a rocket in my backyard and she said that.

    Note: When I asked her first what she likes to do, she said watch movies.

    Don't take it personally.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      i fell for the trap of cutting out media/social to be a better, smarter person. turns out you need that stuff to fall in with society, especially if you have nothing to replace it with, now i am boring and literally incompatible with most of the rest of the human race and think everything is a conspiracy and everything's so fake. too broke to do anything. i dont want to live in this world but i dont want to die, and i dont even have the other losers online to shoot the shit with anymore since normies and commies took that over too. I enjoy what i do but its no way to connect with anyone else.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        The problem is if you tell a girl you watch anime or TV or movies, her pussy dries up. If you tell her a hobby beyond her depth, she dries up. I've learned that it's best to just pick a popular sport, read on a bit about it, and go along with saying it's your hobby if you want a woman to like you based on interestingness.

        Note: They only consider trendy things that generic Chad does truly "interesting". Even if they have peculiar hobbies themselves.

        This isn't the case with most guys though. Being boring doesn't mean talking about your hobbies that don't interest them, although it can be boring to them. It usually means the guy doesn't say much at all or treats women like a job interview: only asking questions and never going beyond that to actual conversation.

        > Job interview
        What is a conversation but a back-and-forth barrage of questions, answers, and similies? Women are the ones who have more of a problem of dry conversation skills as they expect one-sided entertainment and validating from the other party and more often than not bring nothing to the table when talking to others but gossip about what Nancy or Joe did at work.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >What is a conversation but a back-and-forth barrage of questions, answers, and similies?
          this is fine at the beginning when getting to know someone but eventually you need to transition into actual stuff outside of that, which a lot of men have trouble doing. You can blame women all you want for their lack of social skills but they are the gatekeepers ultimately, so its up to you to entertain them.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            >its up to you to entertain them.
            Lol no it's not. They can kill themselves for all I care.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            OK, have fun being single and posting on NSFFW on how you can't date and how you hate women then.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            > Have fun being single
            ok

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >you tell a girl you watch anime or TV or movies

          the whole reason i pointed out

          >Girls say I'm boring
          90% of the time this is a projection when a girl feels that she cannot keep up with your hobbies. I code, engineer shit, told a girl that I was building a rocket in my backyard and she said that.

          Note: When I asked her first what she likes to do, she said watch movies.

          Don't take it personally.

          was because of the watching part. girls love to watch shit. its 2024 too, even hot girls watch anime and everyone just talks about it openly without the bullying that would've come when i was growing up. a total babe i worked for recently was waxing on to me about demon slayer and AoT (as i understand these are the new mainstream animes) but i couldnt relate because i dont watch it and it seems dumb to me to get back into now. And whenever I go out to try to meet people, among the first topics is 'so what do you think of' (insert current netflix show here)
          And no i won't get into mindless sports for this.
          This is another problem for me, even when i had gfs (even anime ones) they'd complain about my lack of passion. I have interests and hobbies, I dont talk about them all the time, they're fun to me, if you're not into it you won't get it.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            > Lack of passion
            Women are indirect creatures so she probably was actually saying that she finds someone else more attractive who has the same hobby as you.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      This isn't the case with most guys though. Being boring doesn't mean talking about your hobbies that don't interest them, although it can be boring to them. It usually means the guy doesn't say much at all or treats women like a job interview: only asking questions and never going beyond that to actual conversation.

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    It means you’re unattractive. I and my friends experimented with this before. Basically the same exact social media pics will be called “no personality” depending on who’se profile it’s in. We take a poc, tag us all in it, and then ask girls. Depending on who is asking we get a different answer. We did water boarding, skiing, lifting, beach, travel, museums, reading books by a fire, etc. Our chad friend got called interesting, normies nothing megative or positive, and the one ugly incle in our group got called “no personality”, lel

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      This as well.

      tldr; When a woman calls you boring, she is saying she's not physically attracted to you or beneath the intellectual depth of your hobbies (I've experimented this with anonymous conversations with numerous women).

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >they say I'm boring and I have no personality
    What makes them feel like you have no personality? Do you have opinions on topics? Do you have hobbies? Do you have favorite foods?

    Maybe you just don't share much about your life and that gave them the impression. I can be like that too at times, I tend to believe that my ideas and interests are uninteresting so I keep them to myself and am more of a listener, but it can make me seem very dull so I need to become more comfortable sharing opinions and interests.

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Is a default answer when they don't have an actual reason.

    Females have no point of reference for ir personality to begin with, and are notorious for having no ability to determine any of the criteria they profess.

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    here's something OP you moronic fat homosexual
    learn to play an instrument
    my advice is you learn to play guitar and get good at it

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >guitar
      already sounds boring.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      You have no personality. Playing a guitar is not a personality.

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    even the picture you posted has no personality, impressive

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    means you're unattractive

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      This.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        it's over. c'est fini. het is voorbij. owari da. es ist vorbei. вce кoнчeнo

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Read books and stop caring

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You're boring = you're not attractive
    Working out and getting fit could help remedy this but it's not a miracle drug

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