long distance gf is trying to break up with me

she says that her life is too miserable and she doesn't want to drag me into it. I've tried making her happy but she just doubled down. Her being miserable at all makes me borderline suicidal, recently I've been getting nightmares about it. All I want to do is give her a life worth living but that's almost impossible when we're so far apart. I'm not really sure what to do anymore, I legitimately feel like dying whenever the thought of her suffering gets in my head
any advice

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Assuming you don't break up, when do you get back together physically?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      In a couple of months but she keeps saying she doesn't want to see me

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        She may be trying to dump you in a way that makes her look bad.

        Otherwise you can also keep doubling down. If it's only a couple of months and you guys have a plan to get back together you can try your best.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You will have my time

        >ldr
        Never ever works. Right now in this moment she NEEDS everything that comes with a relationship, and she's not getting it. Meanwhile, she is getting approached in the street, bars, public places, social networks, male friends and coworkers. She is like a hungry kid in a supermarket now

        >says that her life is too miserable
        Women dont lie, men dont listen. She is done

        >doesn't want to drag me into it
        Polite rationalization of her feelings in the moment

        >I've tried making her happy
        >ldr

        No. You would reunite asap to make her happy. Also you posting pepes as self insert tells me that you are clueless

        >makes me borderline suicidal, recently I've been getting nightmares about it
        Thats female behaviour, pity begging and self victimising. You are having nightmare due to situation you as a man cant deal with? Thats ultra weak, dont do that, women hate that, makes them feel unsafe and scared

        >All I want to do is give her a life worth living
        No, you just have no options and scared to lose her. If you really gave a shit, you would let her go to get a proper man and be happy. Dont lie to yourself, thats female behaviour

        >I'm not really sure what to do anymore
        Let her go, work on yourself, stop being dependable weak child, find a woman nearby

        >legitimately feel like dying whenever the thought of her suffering gets in my head
        Take a step back and think how pathetic that is. Like crying for months over a dead cat. You are too emotional, neurotic and dependable

        >she keeps saying she doesn't want to see me
        Yeah, her romantic feelings are done and it wont change because you are too feminine. Ldr is not that much of an issue really, just a lucky pretense to drop you

        different countries, incredibly long distance. I dunno why I'm so attached to her, but she is my first girlfriend. The plan was to move to her country, but now that future feels like it's out the window.

        >why I'm so attached to her
        Because you have no idea what are you doing, no experience, only fear

        >plan was to move to her country
        So as a man you want to change your life to enter hers. Women hate that, bad

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    how long distance are we talking here?

    in any case, you do not have a girlfriend. you may as well be talking with a chatbot. go outside and realize that your life has nothing, not even the same general locality, as hers. meanwhile, she's sucking you dry like a vampire without any consideration for your own feelings or what effect her behavior will have on your "relationship".

    you cannot be so desperate for female attention that you will acquire it even if suicidal thoughts are part of the deal.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I second this. Long distance girlfriends are not worth it. You'll be infinitely happier with someone you can touch.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      different countries, incredibly long distance. I dunno why I'm so attached to her, but she is my first girlfriend. The plan was to move to her country, but now that future feels like it's out the window.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >different countries
        Dude, just break up. It'll be better for the both of you.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I got out of an LDR halfway through. Originally my gf wanted to study abroad and then come back here to get married, but eventually she fell in love with the country so much that she chose it over me. It was rough but after a time it gets better. I was physically sick for 3 days and couldn't eat without forcefeeding myself lmao.

        Honestly if she's trying to break up with you it's probably not a good idea to move to her country.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        dude. please re-evaluate what you are doing. you should have a very strong gut feeling right now that your present course of life is fricking stupid. it makes no sense to chat online with a "girlfriend" (who sounds like she has a personality disorder) who insists on never wanting to meet you... and you then plan on marrying her.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          https://i.imgur.com/qvmW9jj.png

          she says that her life is too miserable and she doesn't want to drag me into it. I've tried making her happy but she just doubled down. Her being miserable at all makes me borderline suicidal, recently I've been getting nightmares about it. All I want to do is give her a life worth living but that's almost impossible when we're so far apart. I'm not really sure what to do anymore, I legitimately feel like dying whenever the thought of her suffering gets in my head
          any advice

          Wait have you never met each other

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            We met once but that’s it
            We’ve been at it for 4 months

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Bro get out of there

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >LDR
        >first girlfriend
        >move to her country
        No no no no no no no no. NO. You can be desperate but don't be stupid.

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Dude you should break it off yourself as fast as possible. You cannot recover it. Holding on will only make it worse. Give yourself closure and control by putting it out of its misery.

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Bro send me a kik bruhh_gg
    I'll give you some real advice

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >she says that her life is too miserable and she doesn't want to drag me into it.
    Yep she's fricking someone.

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Why don’t you live in the same area?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      We met once in person and thats how thongs started, but she had to go back cause she was just on vacation

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >thats how thongs started,

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Eh, I wouldn't take the posts mocking your LDR too seriously, however considering what you wrote you have to realize that she's not worth the effort it would require to make it work out

        >she says that her life is too miserable and she doesn't want to drag me into it.
        Yep she's fricking someone.

        I wouldn't go that far but that is the type of excuse used by people who just want to start seeing other people. If you stay with this girl it will probably head in that direction though

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Nevermind, I wasted my time, this guy is a crazy mommy issues clingy weirdo. Its not about relationships or women at all

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    She's an absolute fruitcake. RUN TIMMY, RUN!

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