Losing my attraction to my GF after 35

We've been together over 12 years. She was a perfect GF but now that she is hitting middle age I am losing attraction to her. NGL a lot of 20-25 year old pussy is taking an interest in me that is accelerating my loss of interest. Would it be evil as shit to dump her for younger girls?

One thing I am thinking about is opening up the idea that she lets me have a mistress on the side to get it out my system with younger women, but to stay loyal to her as my main GF.

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If she's 35 she should be rearing your children. The transition into motherhood is the natural evolution that makes the waning youth not only palatable but pleasant

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Oh yeah we have a 2 year old although I have no real connection to him. My parents mainly do all the parental stuff.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >we have a 2 year old
        then obviously, no, you should not be seeking contact with other women

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          This is the truth.

          Your child is your top priority, not your dick.
          Plus, how are you not attracted to the mother of your child, she's literally given you the greatest thing a woman can.

          Why aren't you already married, if she's 35?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            We don't believe in it due to how many divorces there are.

            I mean I am not really parent material nor is she. The kid knows I Am his dad but it is my parents who take care of it while my GF works as a hair dresser.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You sound like a loser

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            My thoughts exactly, how you have a child , don't really claim it, parents take care of your responsibility, and u want your mother of your child to allow you to have sex with younger women .
            What a pathetic man you are

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >We don't believe in it due to how many divorces there are
            In other words, you have the mindset that you're going to split up and you want to make it easy
            Gee, wonder why the relationship isn't doing great

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            If this is not bait, please consider the possibility of being a total loser. You made the decision to bring a kid into this world, and don't even want to raise him. That makes you no different than a Black person dad who goes for cigarettes and never comes back, on a personal level. If you really are this kind of selfish and irresponsible parent, then you should reflect on it and change it like a real man would, an adult. Instead of thrusting over young girls like a teenager. You have a wife that loves you and a son, a fricking son of your own, and still think about banging pussy left to right like a horny 15 year old porn addict? It wouldn't surprise me if you are a porn addict either, throwing terms like "mistress". Media consumption has rotten your brain to the point you can't even appreciate the miracle of love or children. If you keep on like this, you will get to be an impotent 60 year old, alone and hated by his son, having lived a superficial, trival and selfish life. Check yourself.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You're talking as if you know first hand anon. Wanna share with the class?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >she's literally given you the greatest thing a woman can.
            This is bullshit. Stop putting women on a pedestal. You literally gave her life. You put life inside her body and gave her the privilege carrying that life for 9 months. She be thanking you daily and offering your mistress. You gave her life meaning and purpose.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >you made her go through a 9 month period of complications that resulted in a painful childbirth
            >she should thank you for this
            Lmao

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            t. Childless woman that has never had life put inside her by a man to give her life meaning and propose.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            A woman's life can have a meaning and purpose without a kid. Women are not breeding machines.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            False. You whole biology is designed to foster life, what other meaning or purpose could you have? Please, humor me with your empty ambitions.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Something like 95% my long-time female friends went from this:

            To: "fertility treatments are such a pain, they are so expensive and they might not even work ;_;"

            All in a matter of 5-10 years. It is all so tiresome.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Like what? Larping as a man? Being alone with no real purpose? Or is it being aggressive to the point no man wants to put a baby in you to begin with? You don't see many single powerful women, and if you wanna use that celebrity shit, most of these c**ts have money which is an instant problem solver and even then they have boy toys. I'm talking about the late 20's KFC worker who thinks she can still finish art school and become a painter.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >A woman's life can have a meaning and purpose without a kid
            like what?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >You literally gave her life.
            It takes two. She chose OP, for some incomprehensible reason, when she could have chosen any other guy.
            Neither of them can or should lord over "I gave you this" to the other (although they should each appreciate the other), but if it comes to that, she unironically has the stronger position as the woman. Women are the selectors. They're the ones who bear the main burden of reproduction.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >for some incomprehensible reason
            OP probably makes up for his awful skills as a provider by supplying relatively good genes.
            Women are masters when it comes to measuring trade-offs like this. It's an innate skill that they, have just like some birds have a 360 field of view or some blood hounds can track a prey from 30 miles away.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        We don't believe in it due to how many divorces there are.

        I mean I am not really parent material nor is she. The kid knows I Am his dad but it is my parents who take care of it while my GF works as a hair dresser.

        You're a fricking failure, man the frick up homosexual
        Fricking Black person, still stuck in high school

        I hate men.

        I would never, we are not all bad.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          The things guys will do for a crumb of pussy.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          we hate homosexuals like OP too

          Yeah man you sound like a loser. If you're not dad material, you should start trying to figure that out asap. Whether you like it or not you're a dad, and that's the most important thing you're going to do with your life so you better just step up and do it well.

          Good news is if you're feeling bored and aimless (which if you're looking for other women you are, whether you recognize it or not) throwing yourself into enthusiastic parenthood will give you purpose, drive and over all make you a better person.

          Heard a piece of advice a few years back that really stuck with me because of how true it usually proves to be: if you do what's best for your child, that's also usually what's best for you.

          I'm not saying tear the kid away from his grandparents and neglect him if you don't think you're capable, but you should be aiming to become a good provider, marry his mother, create a stable home and start showing some interest in this incredible person you've brought into the world... So that he doesn't end up like you are now.

          Dads kill people like OP for doing this to their daughters

          kek OP is a tremendous homosexual and a failure as a man. Please don't group us all in with him.

          >i-i would never do this to you milady I would dedicate my life to you princess you are my EVERYTHING
          kek homosexuals

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        homie I guarantee you'll eventually invent a time travel machine just to have a nice day by the balls if you do anything here. This is ENTIRELY your fault for entering such a shallow and pointless relationship, I want you to know that, think about the kid, is it worth potentially ruining his life for the sake of a quick frick? You're beyond saving but at least you can save another human being.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >we have a 2 year old although I have no real connection to him
        Raise your fricking kid properly you sociopathic moron

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >offloading all the work on your poor parents
        dear God, please let this thread be bait. Amen.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        What the frick?
        Your kid is going to fricking hate you when he grows up and it will be 100 percent justified

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Kid may decide to hate you at random anyway, let OP live his life.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Frick off Black person. I'm sorry your dad wasn't there for you but that doesn't mean everyone has to have a shitty childhood.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You're fricking naive. These days kids are raised by social media algorithms more than their parents. Enough exposure to tiktok and your child will Troon out and hate you. It's inevitable. Take a kids phone away and they will be made an outcast by their peers at school. Op dindu nuffin wrong

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Peers?
            School?
            Why would you expose a child to these things?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Oh yeah
        I love how you say that as if it isn't a big deal

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You are mentally ill, this right here proves it. It is now an empirical fact that you have something deeply wrong with you. Only the worst of parents are incapable of loving their children. Everything you have said thus far in this thread indicates that you have major severe character flaws and don't deserve him. I don't think any advice can make you internalize why you should love your child, it seems you just innately cannot, which is abnormal for most parents. Disgusting.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Not only that but here he is pretending that he's trying to do the right thing. Should I love my kid? Should I marry the mother of my child? Idk lol I got a lot on my mind, like should I split up my family or ask my gf to moisturize and stop vaping? Hmm can't decide.

      • 4 weeks ago
        sage

        https://i.imgur.com/LIfZ3Xs.jpg

        We've been together over 12 years. She was a perfect GF but now that she is hitting middle age I am losing attraction to her. NGL a lot of 20-25 year old pussy is taking an interest in me that is accelerating my loss of interest. Would it be evil as shit to dump her for younger girls?

        One thing I am thinking about is opening up the idea that she lets me have a mistress on the side to get it out my system with younger women, but to stay loyal to her as my main GF.

        >Talks about losing attraction to GF
        >We have a 2 year old although I have no real connection to him
        >No real connection to him
        >to him
        How is no-one else picking up on his shitty bait? OP can't even keep their story straight.

        You know what goes in all fields

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          to the 2 year old, you doofus
          stop posting

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Your GF was ugly as shit and is still ugly as shit, brownskin.
    Shitskin muttallo problems are not my problem.

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Would it be evil as shit to dump her for younger girls?
    No. You don't owe her anything in the empowered future of 2024.

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I hate men.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      we hate homosexuals like OP too

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Sorry Chad dumped you roastie

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        you will never have a gf

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Dads kill people like OP for doing this to their daughters

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I would blast some homosexual right away if he ever tried to step up because of his daughter. Ill let the mom shit talk me before the father. Understand your daughter is a grown b***h that has to navigate her own path, if you feel like you need to defend her for everything then chances are you'll probably get your ass kicked or worse he'll just shoot you since the father is attacking unprovoked on someone else's behalf and thats clearly in defense. The time that shit flies is if the father kills a pedo.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      kek OP is a tremendous homosexual and a failure as a man. Please don't group us all in with him.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah but you're still gonna get fricked by us in one way or another. Create barbieland if you want a woman's world.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      We're not all like that. OP is a fricking loser. Don't let an anecdote ruin us all for you

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    That's just how life works anon, fresh puss is always better, but she should know how to get you off, and if you love her you can look past it. My gf was a cute little thing at 19, but she's pretty fricking busted these days, still love her tho.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >My gf was a cute little thing at 19, but she's pretty fricking busted these days, still love her tho

      Man that's a fricking feel right there and I feel like that's gonna frick up my pair bonding. Yes I know ppl age, but holy frick western women are on a steep decline and a good little thing now can look like Bigfoot on a bender 2 yrs later. It's crazy. I would absolutely hate to age like women do.
      >Inb4 love
      Attraction is still a strong connection to love. You can love the frick outta someone, but if that physical attraction wanes then no amount of other good qualities will fill that hole. Honestly women are smart for settling past their prime years. Can you imagine marrying the prom queen and then you watch her turn into Hillary Clinton...

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    blackest person on NSFFW award

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yeah man you sound like a loser. If you're not dad material, you should start trying to figure that out asap. Whether you like it or not you're a dad, and that's the most important thing you're going to do with your life so you better just step up and do it well.

    Good news is if you're feeling bored and aimless (which if you're looking for other women you are, whether you recognize it or not) throwing yourself into enthusiastic parenthood will give you purpose, drive and over all make you a better person.

    Heard a piece of advice a few years back that really stuck with me because of how true it usually proves to be: if you do what's best for your child, that's also usually what's best for you.

    I'm not saying tear the kid away from his grandparents and neglect him if you don't think you're capable, but you should be aiming to become a good provider, marry his mother, create a stable home and start showing some interest in this incredible person you've brought into the world... So that he doesn't end up like you are now.

  8. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    On the one hand, you're a subhuman, but on the other, she really should have seen this coming if she squandered her entire youth on a guy who never committed. She could have avoided you by not having sex until marriage.

  9. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Would it be evil as shit to dump her for younger girls?
    Not it wouldn't.. it would just be you following your natural instincts.
    Now its your choice, will you repress your masculine nature to satisfy and keep your GF happy, or will you become a real man and start fricking young pussy back to back!?

  10. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Skill issue. When I look at my gf (who's turning 30 this May) I still see the half moronic 19yo qt who listened to Slipknot on a beat-up iPod and failed high-school level calculus classes. Maybe you just don't love her anymore.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >I still see the half moronic 19yo qt who listened to Slipknot on a beat-up iPod and failed high-school level calculus classes

      No shit you still love her, you're both losers.

  11. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    dump that bawd or cheat on her. Or be a homosexual and stay with that woman even tho you dont love her nor lust her

  12. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Would it be evil as shit to dump her for younger girls?
    nope. she'd do the same in your shoes.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      She wouldn't. You know how hard is it to find someone else as a single mom?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        in your shoes, autist. are you a single mom?

  13. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    She looks pretty even if she's mid average
    She should braid her hair nicely

  14. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You’re actually a moron piece of shit. Raise your kid you low life scum frick. How do you have a kid and think about other women? Your fatherhood license (balls) should be revoked.

  15. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Do what Chris Watts did but don't be moronic about it and go talking to the police at all without a lawyer

  16. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Putting aside that this is bait for a second, the people seething that OP would be a loser are pretty funny.

    If this were true, OP would have procreated and would have a good chance of repeating that with another women after ditching the GF, thus passing on his genes and making him a success as a living being.

    Meanwhile childless incels and femcels seethe ITT. Sad!

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It's pretty funny how simp incels who think having a mid nagging wife is paradise on earth and 4/10 roasties who remember when they were dumped by males far too good for them are seething in every threads of males deciding to live as they want.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Once you have a kid you CANNOT live as you want

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          He probably never wanted a kid, he just softly agreed to to not get nagged. His wife knew deep down but didn't care. He doesn't even care about the child. Somehow he realized he can't live that way, he'd better leave and she would be better with someone who loves her and care about the child.

  17. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Why do people post their gfs/wives when they make threads like this?

  18. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's your job as the man to make your woman feel desired and to raise your child into a strong and competent man. Attraction ebbs and flows and its your job to make it flow

  19. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >a lot of 20-25 year old pussy is taking an interest in me
    Honestly if this is how you think of people, I don't really think you or her have anything to lose or gain from the continuation of your relationship. It's doubtful that you can actually connect with anyone in a meaningful way, anyway.

  20. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    you
    cmon

  21. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >all these morons seething
    Historically, it was pretty normal for a man to have concubines. It's not that weird. Most women don't even care that much if you can promise them you won't fall in love with the side hoes.

    That said, the only thing really cringe about OP is he isn't raising his child properly. That does indeed make you a homosexual, OP.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      For powerful and successful men yes, but OP gives the impression of an aimless drifter who nonetheless is unfortunately attractive to a certain type of silly women. He will scar a load of young, stupid women & pump out a load of morons who'll generally be a huge drain on productive society. Unfortunately, for a certain perspective, this is simply peak performance in current society.

  22. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    So your gf has been loving and a good relationsship partner the last 12years? And now you want to dump her, AFTER having a kid with her? Because she's not attractive anymore?

    Yea, great success man. Good job being a human being

    >but muh conccubines, haremlifestyle!!!!
    lol all the anons seething here would make a 180 as soon as any of their loved ones would betray them like that, suddenly saying how all women are cheating prostitutes fricking lmao

    Stuff like this reminds me how most people here are psychopaths and think its cool to be one

    theres more to life than being a bottom of the barrel follower of your primal instincts

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Stuff like this reminds me how most people here are psychopaths and think its cool to be one

      No, they're actually epic good moral people who act offended when someone asking for advice on this anime forum is actually is in a way clueless/moronic/scummy. The truth is OP should rather leave as there's no way he can keep living this farce of an existence for 40 years with a woman he doesn't love and a kid he doesn't care about, it's good for nobody.

  23. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Putting aside the kid, funny how people think OP isn’t doing a 10/10 job, in the end OP has no reason to stay with his gf when he can spread his seed more which is the end goal of humans

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      What he wants to do is exactly what males did for ever until 2000 or something. Strangely now that men and women are supposed to be mirroring each other in every way, relationships have never been so weak.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Also he wouldn't have to leave his mid middle aged wife in a normal civilization, he'd just have to frick an easy bawd behind a bar alley once every other month to be able to love his family. But no, it's very le bad and he should simply ruin half of his life because morals and sheit.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        relationships have been weak because woman don't have value like they did back then. No point in staying with a girl when if you have yourself established as a man you can frick young college bawds.
        if yo b***h don't cook, clean, and act submissive to you then she isn't worth staying with

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      What he wants to do is exactly what males did for ever until 2000 or something. Strangely now that men and women are supposed to be mirroring each other in every way, relationships have never been so weak.

      If you want to be polygamous and "spread your seed" go join one of the native tribes in the Amazon rainforest and leave the rest of the world for us civilized homosexual sapiens sapiens.

  24. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    i don't understand why men on here want the perfect virgin girl and then when she grows up, they do this shit to her.

    you're really just a loser lmao. can't even raise your child so you make your parents do it for you. why even have one? you're for the streets.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      They are clearly not the same men doing those things. OP came out and said he doesn't even believe in marriage, so how could he be like the men who wait until marriage for sex?

  25. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    anon thinks with his dick while he has a child with his girlfriend

    why do you think she'd approve you having a "mistress"?

  26. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Idiot. Grass is always greener somewhere else.

  27. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You're subhuman trash and an evolutionary dead end.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >has a kid
      >evolutionary dead end
      cope incel

  28. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Is OP a nig? Sounds like one, worthless drifter.

  29. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    why are these npcs replying to bait? starting to think no one here really exists

  30. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    suicide would benefit all parties more than cheating would

  31. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Unless you make a lot of money that pussy will dry up almost immediately after you break it off with her. Girls only want you because you seem like a good dad and loyal to your gf. Once you become a deadbeat any girl you try to court will find out and eventually ghost you. Meanwhile any friends you have will probably disown you because leaving in this scenario is generally considered a scumbag move. Proceed at your own risk.

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