Male pussy. Is there any hope

22 years old male. Long story short someone was mouthing off at me outside, saying all sorts of disrespectful shit and I didn't reply anything and just kept on walking. Tried to avoid a fight at all costs. Any self respecting man, even a woman, would have decked him in the mouth but I shat myself and avoided a confrontation at all costs
This isn't the first time I acted like this, I have much more embarrassing memories from highschool
I feel like a castrated male. Is there anything I can do to be assertive? Can lifting influence my character? Will increasing test make me less hesitant and fearful?

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    getting into fights is miserable. you made a smart choice.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I got publicly humiliated and just took it

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        your fault if you felt humiliated by some douche spewing hate

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        No, you rose above it, "winning" by reducing him in everyone else's eyes to ignorable and not worth your (or their) attention

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I clicked on this thread for MALE PUSSY and I am disappointed.

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >hit someone
    >they press charges
    >go to jail
    >can't land a decent job because you were in jail
    >live in mediocrity for the rest of your life
    you did the right thing. even if you lifted everyday and was jacked, avoiding physical altercations is usually the best move

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Boo hoo, you didn't get to ape out. Getting into fights with stupid people is idiotic. Good on you that you didn't do it. Too bad you have no appreciation for it.

      So if someone starts insulting and humiliating you in public you're not going to do shit because fighting is le dangerous?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        NTA, but no. Such people are beneath me. I don't pay attention to any wienerroach that walks by me on the street. I can't even be bothered to get mad about such people. And that's how you come on top in situations like that, by not giving them what they want, which is getting angry and reducing yourself to their level.
        The reality is that they can't do anything but talk.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >humiliating you
        whether or not you're humiliated is up to you, not them. why would I engage with some random mouth breather where I might put my career, quality of life, or family at risk? this is ape-brain mentality and not something that successful / civilized people even consider

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          not having a spine is bad. crippling passivity is bad

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        WAAAAAHHHHH SOME DRUNK moron CALLED ME A MEAN NAME WAAAAHHHH

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    honestly it's not worth it nowadays. anyone could have a knife or a gun, and especially someone who's going around picking fights is probably doing so because they're secretly armed. you made the right choice in ignoring them.

    however, it's one thing to avoid fights because you're scared, and another to avoid fights because you're secure in your ability to fight/defend yourself and don't need to go around proving it. most pacifists or "pussies" fall into the first category. ideally, you'd be in the second.

    the way to become the second type of person is to learn how to fight, first and foremost. it will do wonders for your confidence and will change how you move through the world, how you carry yourself. find your nearest boxing gym. boxing is great fun, you'll be whipped into shape fast, and you'll have serious hands in 3-4 months easily. alternatively, do muay thai, which is also great fun and will turn you into a beast. get a lot of sparring time in, in any case.

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Boo hoo, you didn't get to ape out. Getting into fights with stupid people is idiotic. Good on you that you didn't do it. Too bad you have no appreciation for it.

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Train in a combat gym so you can learn to handle the pressure.

  7. 4 weeks ago
    dnvr

    Yes, there is something you can do to be more assertive. And that's to talk to people more, or say daring things around people, then with people.
    Less hesitant and fearful---test will make you significantly less hesitant and fearful. Lifting does influence your character, because with strength you know you can handle people in a fight when you get your hits in or you grapple them.

    Try actually doing brave and risky things to get your fears off of you...and your hesitance off of you too.
    Go shoplift some items without getting caught.
    Go get in trouble with the police. Talk to them when they talk to you.
    My once favorite: tip forward from a standing position, fall forward, and land on your palms in push-up position, then do push-ups. Do this everyday, regardless of whos around.
    Sing in your car with the windows down, where people are likely to pass by. Get good at singing good songs, but kys if you sing Black person songs.
    Finally, when you've exercised adequately, understood fear adequately, start a fight with someone.

    I did almost all of the above, just not lifting and certainly not singing Black person songs. I started a fight in a jail cell recently, because I had an excuse to start it, I was wanting to test myself, I was so confident that I wouldn't lose against the person, because I'm smart enough about people through psychological study and observation to know their bodily capacities in an intuitive way. I fought well, I've learned to tolerate pain so I didn't instinctively lower my head like this idiot did who ended up simultaneously swinging like a moron. I headlocked him at the end of it, his first hit was on my jaw and it didn't do much to stop me. I could predict how the fight would end, how tired he was, how much energy I had. He was still aggressive but less willing to swing again, and that felt like a warm up to me.

    You know that there is a way. And you know that I'm confirming it. You see the other posts here. Your choice.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      holy shit this will be me in the future lmao
      I went to a football game recently and just blended in with the hooligans and threw a rock at some policegay they didnt know who did it and just dispersed the crowd was so high on adrenaline I started laughing uncontrollably while running to my dorm.

      • 4 weeks ago
        dnvr

        People can be fun. I have a lot of serious stuff to do, unfortunate for me, or I would be having a lot more fun.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >People can be fun.
          Yeah they can and have been talking and hanging out with lots of them, but I am growing a bit socially tired though and probably going to go back home soon to chill out and rejuvenate for a couple days.

  8. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You guys are all stupid. The correct move here is to mouth off back. Match the guys energy and get just as disrespectful back. Not only does this preserve your honor in public but most bullies are pussies and when you actually reply back they wont do shit
    YEA KEEP WALKING homosexual I FRICKED YOUR SISTER

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >preserve your honour
      This really depends on what the argument is about. If it's just some moron screaming calling you a homosexual in the street then by returning fire, you just stoop to their level and now you're also a moron screaming in the street. However, if it's something like a mate ripping the piss out of you in front of people then yeah rip into them back. Most of the time though the best option is just to have a quick laugh and walk off. Nobody is going to respect you more if you bump into someone and they say watch where you're going dickhead and you shout uh how about you watch where you're going c**t.

  9. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Walking away is always the best thing to do, escalating nothing situations has ruined so many lives. Better to be humiliated in public than injured, dead or in jail because you wanted to 1up some sub human IQ nobody.

    Unless you’re defending your own life or the life of a loved one there’s 0 reasons

  10. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    The more you learn how to fight, the less inclined you are to fight, because
    >you dont need to prove anything
    >getting charged or going to jail/prison sucks
    >if they have a weapon or a bunch of buddies in the immediate area you're not aware of, you might just end up dead

    That being said, i understand the plight of being a "male pussy" and the desire to want to be able to protect yourself.

    tl;dr, learn to fight so you dont have to. u fricking pussy

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Also, if you're strong and old enough, you can unironically accidentally kill someone or seriously hospitalize them, whether or not you meant to.
      I remember the last time I hit someone they KTFO in one hit and fell to the ground like a potato sack, they could have easily busted their head open and gotten absolutely fricked up. Luckily that didn't happen (also I did that because him and his buddies jumped my friend so i was defending him)
      Literally just last month one of my acquantences got knocked out, fell to the ground and suffered a concussion and fractured his skull and was found in a pool of his own blood, the fricking guy just left him there like that. He's in jail now.
      I know another guy who also broke someones jaw and hospitalized the frick out of the aggressor he's also in jail.
      These are all just random acts of shit talking, normal boys being boys street fight incidents.

      At that point, it wouldn't even matter if they press charges, your ass is going to jail/prison

  11. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    keked
    Go look up 'Black person moment' from the boondocks on youtube.
    It's a virtue to have a level head and not get into extraneous altercations. Your sense of masculinity has been dictated by blacks or whiggers. Watch the clip, you'll get it or you won't.

  12. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Can lifting influence my character?
    you weren't already lifting?
    >Is there anything I can do to be assertive?
    it helps to over surmount yourself from previous defeats.
    stop jerking off to pornography
    learn about boundaries
    communication and confidence
    internally fortified with a coping mechanism, know the analyze the enemy know their way of operating
    argue

  13. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Quit PSYing morons he did the superior thing by walking away

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