My 18 year old discord gf of nine days (I'm 26) told me to not talk about us meeting irl because she thinks it's probably never going to hap...

My 18 year old discord gf of nine days (I'm 26) told me to not talk about us meeting irl because she thinks it's probably never going to happen and it just makes her sad/nervous to talk about it. She said she'd like to but her parents won't let that happen. Then she said pic related (she's blue, I'm red) and we finished the conversation with her begging me to drop it after I got super upset and she said thinking about the future just makes her want to die.

My read on this is that she's not serious about me yet and wants to use her parents and her fear of the future as an excuse so she doesn't have to say that, although she basically did anyway. She was very nice about it but I feel like she doesn't understand or care how much it hurts me to hear her say stuff like we may never meet irl. If she really loved me she wouldn't be so pessimistic. Of course, she says she's just being "realistic" and doesn't want to hurt me but come on.

Should I just wait for her to come around or what? I feel like I was just rejected and it's really frustrating because I can't even say anything about it without making her "suicidal" again. She even banned us discussing the topic again. Ugh.

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  1. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    you are so fricking autistic and literally delusional

    • 1 week ago
      OP

      What the heck is that supposed to mean?

      She may also be using it as an excuse, but this is disorganized (fearful-avoidant) attachment disorder.

      There's no cure. She's broken.

      I don't believe that she's broken but I guess that's better than her not loving me. She said she has diagnosed BPD and autism. Is that related you think?

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        You are fricking delusional and autistic to think that
        >an ONLINE RELATIONSHIP
        >with an EIGHTEEN YEAR OLD GIRL
        >with self diagnosed Bpd and autism
        >who has no interest in meeting you
        >who gets suicidal at the thought of meeting you
        Is viable.

        How are you this lacking in braincells. How.

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          >responding to this 0/10 bait with such fiery anger
          Anon, get ahold of yourself. Responding to this shit in earnest is total folly.

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            sorry dude, you’re right i was being a stupid homosexual. im a bit whacked out on painkillers (broked my bone) so i need to stop taking the rage bait. but unfortunately it seems op may not be lying from the autism in replies

          • 1 week ago
            OP

            I'm NOT lying -_-

            I have the same shit, man. Fear of attaching to anything: jobs, people, places. It makes it impossible to love properly, both receiving and giving.

            You can proceed at your peril, but she will make you miserable.

            Sometimes I feel like I can't love either if I'm being honest so maybe we're perfect for each other?

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        I have the same shit, man. Fear of attaching to anything: jobs, people, places. It makes it impossible to love properly, both receiving and giving.

        You can proceed at your peril, but she will make you miserable.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        >She said she has diagnosed BPD and autism
        Why do guys keep doing this to themselves?

        • 1 week ago
          OP

          You don't know how sweet and cute and fun she is. Don't be BPD-phobic bro.

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            >BPD-phobic bro
            Not him but I really hope you're shitposting right now.
            The girl may be awesome but it'll be _despite_ BPD. Autism - depends how it shows, sometimes it's alright and may make some girls less willing to do mind games and other such common bullshit which is cool, but BPD is almost always a red flag. Doesn't mean it will frick you up, but the other anon is not wrong in being wary and since your "discord gf of nine days" is practically a stranger, you're not really in position to judge well yet.

  2. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    >My 18 year old discord gf of nine days (I'm 26)
    Top kek

  3. 1 week ago
    OP

    Also, am I being a bad bf rn? I feel bad for making her upset but I didn't really see any way around that and I had to have this conversation after she basically told me she doesn't really love me! That's how I saw it anyway. I'm still kind of upset at her but I don't want to be 🙁

    • 1 week ago
      Anonymous

      No you’re being based. Start talking dirty to her about how much you want to touch her and frick her and taste her and I promise she’ll come around.

      • 1 week ago
        OP

        We already talk about sex almost every day.

        You are fricking delusional and autistic to think that
        >an ONLINE RELATIONSHIP
        >with an EIGHTEEN YEAR OLD GIRL
        >with self diagnosed Bpd and autism
        >who has no interest in meeting you
        >who gets suicidal at the thought of meeting you
        Is viable.

        How are you this lacking in braincells. How.

        a) not self diagnosed
        b) she said she wants to but can't
        c) she's suicidal about the future in general, not meeting me

        >responding to this 0/10 bait with such fiery anger
        Anon, get ahold of yourself. Responding to this shit in earnest is total folly.

        It's not bait frickface. My super cute discord gf is REAL!

        • 1 week ago
          Anonymous

          >We already talk about sex almost every day.
          Based. Post those convos.

          • 1 week ago
            OP

            It's just normal sex stuff that everyone talks about. I'm sure you can imagine anon...

          • 1 week ago
            Anonymous

            I can’t, for you see, I was born without an imagination and need to see the posts in order to understand.

  4. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    She may also be using it as an excuse, but this is disorganized (fearful-avoidant) attachment disorder.

    There's no cure. She's broken.

  5. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    >online gf
    >9 days

    have a nice day pleeeeaaase it'd make me happy

  6. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    Internet relationships aren't real relationships.
    If you were 14 I might understand you doing that shit, but you are fricking 26, time to grow up and find someone in real life.

    • 1 week ago
      OP

      Rude. What would you say if we get married, huh? It happens.

  7. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    >Should I just wait for her to come around or what? >31558251

    no

    • 1 week ago
      OP

      But we just started dating. Is it any surprise she's not ready to move in with me and be my wife?

  8. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    that's a man

    • 1 week ago
      OP

      You morons who say this about every girl on the internet have to be senile boomers who think the only interaction people can have online is through text. Do you really think a man would or indeed even could spend hours and hours on the phone with me speaking with an unmistakably feminine voice? It's not just the voice, it's what she says and how she's says it and she's sent me countless pictures and videos of herself in her girly bedroom. The simplest explanation is probably true here, like it usually is.

      • 1 week ago
        Anonymous

        >on the phone

        • 1 week ago
          OP

          No idea what you're implying.

  9. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    If she really liked you she would want to see you. Parents dont matter

  10. 1 week ago
    Anonymous

    >26
    >online relationship where girl doesn't even want to meet
    what the frick are you doing with your life moron?

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