My bf always smells bad

It’s literally his breath, but also something else cause even after he brushes his teeth he smells like farts/crap sometimes. In addition his mouth always smells even after brushing and tongue scraping and mouthwash.

He vehemently denies farting (he isn’t shy about this kind of stuff) so the only thing I can think of is maybe he is farting without knowing it.

Also he is overweight if it matters.

Also his underwear doesn’t fit properly and his pants and underwear keep falling and revealing his bare ass, not sure if that has anything to do with it.

I told him to at least buy new properly fitting underwear (he isn’t poor, and his underwear is all stretched out and old) and he refuses to because he claims “these fit him”.

Anyways does anyone have advice? The only other thing I can think of is that maybe he smells because he eats red meat 24/7 and doesn’t eat healthy but he doesn’t care about that either and I can’t convince him unless a man tells him he won’t listen to me. Advice please.

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  1. 2 months ago
    sage

    >It’s literally his breath
    He probably hasn't seen a dentist in awhile. Plaque can do that.
    >he smells like farts/crap sometimes.
    He probably isn't wiping properly. A lot of men leave literal shit on their asses. If you don't live in a country where bidets are commonly used, this is guaranteed to be the reason.
    >Also he is overweight if it matters.
    >Also his underwear doesn’t fit properly and his pants and underwear keep falling and revealing his bare ass
    You're pathetic for fricking this man.
    have a nice day, homosexual.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Well he hadn’t gone in years but then he went because I made him and they did 2 deep cleanings and said he’s fine now but apparently he still smells horrible

      He is hairy too so he probably doesn’t wipe properly I guess but what is he supposed to do? Buy a bidet? I doubt he’d use it idk

      Does anyone who knows about overweight people have advice? I don’t even understand why his pants are falling

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Also to add the bedroom smells like literal shit and I think it’s from the mattress cause I cleaned everywhere else underneath

        You're a fricking dumbass OP. Dump this loser. He isn't worth salvaging.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        [...]
        You're a fricking dumbass OP. Dump this loser. He isn't worth salvaging.

        spoken like a true redditor giving relationship advice, except actually valid, dump this dummy.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >t. fatass who can't wipe properly and whose breath smells like a dumpster

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >He probably isn't wiping properly
      Dude, do you know how improperly you'd have to be wiping your ass in order to literally smell like shit 24/7 to the people around you? You can't smell a tiny bit of shit on an butthole through your clothes, it would have to be quite a bit of fresh or semi-fresh shit on him at all times

      But yeah this thread is fricking moronic, why do people make threads like this?

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    he probably doesn't clean himself properly, its hard to do when overweight. if he refuses to change well break up with him honestly. i get stinky after a while so its pretty much that, overweight people are smellier, dunny why though

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Also to add the bedroom smells like literal shit and I think it’s from the mattress cause I cleaned everywhere else underneath

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Maybe he's insecure about his weight and he doesn't want a bigger size so he doesn't have to face reality. He could deny he's farting cause he doesn't want to gross you out.
    You're just being high-maintenance, normal people don't smell like flowers or care about nutrition.
    Ye if he doesn't wipe properly that's gross, but if you're not seeing crap stains on underwear then he's wiping properly. Some people just didn't have parents that care about them enough to teach em basic life skills. Wet wipes save lives.
    This is coming from a woman but I guess most guys would agree - if he's not pestering you to shave or wear parfume or dress a certain way, why the heck are you nagging him?
    Lol gift him an electric toothbrush for xmas or boxers so he'll wear them.
    If you love him, you'll be patient and help him feel less insecure, and if you don't then it doesn't matter how he acts.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >normal don’t care about nutrition

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      You sound like a fat b***h if you think basic hygiene is the equivalent to telling someone to wear perfume

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I'll play doctor.
    In order of likeliness.
    Oral infection, notably sinus infection.
    Upper digestive, complication of IBS, is it brought on by eating bread?

    Diabetic ketoacidiosis, other ketoacidiosis. Distinct fruity/bad fruit breath brought on by the body burning fatty acid when insulin is missing.

    Tonsil stones
    Liver failure, distinct smell of dimerhy sulphide

    I'm going a lot on the intermittent nature because this tends to rule out poor general h6gine

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Doc I got swelling in my groin area wat do

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      It could also simply be acid reflux

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Oral infection, notably sinus infection.
      Tbh he doesn’t have any other symptoms that im aware of

      >Upper digestive, complication of IBS, is it brought on by eating bread?
      He possibly has IBS but won’t do anything about it

      >Diabetic ketoacidiosis, other ketoacidiosis. Distinct fruity/bad fruit breath brought on by the body burning fatty acid when insulin is missing.
      He probaly won’t agree to get tested for that but I’ll try

      >Tonsil stones
      I feel like his dentist would’ve pointed this out if he had them but then again they’re probably an incompetent pos

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Maybe he doesn't wipe his ass properly, a lot of dudes just do one/two wipes even though there's still crap left between their cheeks. Also he's fat so he has folds that will stink if he doesn't wash them properly.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Lol I had a fat friend who had very poor body odor, it was a chemical problem brought on by poor metabolism and poor diet

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah I’m thinking it has to be that cause I read some studies saying overweight peoples sweat just smells worse so that must apply to other areas as well

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Fart smell without farting? Sulphur compounds. Oral but not mouth? Whole digestive tract.
    Sounds bad, like keytones. Group of organic molecules that are highly detectable by smell, produced through metabolism failure.

    Is he diabetic? Based on that you say he's fat you may well want to get a test for diabetes. Easy test, worth taking generally.

    If the smell is... how can I say, like paint stripper, sweet, aromatic, that could very well indicate liver failure.

    Don't want to freak you out, more likely he has tonsil stones that occasionally become dislodged or something

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Sounds bad, like keytones. Group of organic molecules that are highly detectable by smell, produced through metabolism failure.
      Tbh it does smell like that but mostly like shit

      >Is he diabetic? Based on that you say he's fat you may well want to get a test for diabetes. Easy test, worth taking generally.
      No idea he doesn’t go to the doctor but wouldn’t he have other symptoms?

      >If the smell is... how can I say, like paint stripper, sweet, aromatic, that could very well indicate liver failure.
      Nah it’s just faeces smell

      >Don't want to freak you out, more likely he has tonsil stones that occasionally become dislodged or something
      Wish the dentist would’ve noticed them

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        His duodenal valve also could be bad. If that happens, intestinal contents back up into the stomach. It causes horrible fecal breath

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Take a fresh lemon.

    Slice off a ring of it, maybe 1/5. Squeeze it into a glass of water.

    Have him gargle the lemonjuice water a few times, then drink the glass.

    Then drink another glass of water (clean).

    This might solve his bad breath.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Thanks for this tip, I’ll try to get him to do it but he’ll probably disagree.

      It could also simply be acid reflux

      He claims it doesn’t happen to him anymore but idk

      Gum disease + fat
      needs to lose weight and use some dedicated mouthwash/see a dentist

      He already went to a dentist and they cleared him

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Gum disease + fat
    needs to lose weight and use some dedicated mouthwash/see a dentist

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    The shit smell of sulfur will eventually leak out both ways if there is an issue in the GI tract, which is something a dentist wouldn't be able to fo anything about. If he only eats red meat, and in high amounts, then he would have a pretty high amount of sulfur in his diet compared to any normal person and since he's a fat frick I assume he is not moving enough to metabolize any of the shit he eats out. This is always going to be a problem until his diet changes.

    Also lol your bf is fat and stinks.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah I figured. I wonder if you could call him and tell him that or perhaps link some studies so he believes me. I guess I’ll try finding some studies that say that. Either way he probably won’t do anything about it.

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    A bit like acetone?
    Could be diabetes, especially if he is overweight.

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    he's literally me

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Checked for tonsil stones? I have had some but the breath nearly tore the wallpapers down around me.
    An informative but also somewhat gross GIF here:

    [...]

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      How do I check for those? Doctors here literally don’t know shit

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Least gross way: take a picture with your phone. If the tissue is deep red/infected, or of you can see the ends of some tonsil stones, you just have to get them out.
        Just push outside the openings and you will get them out. If it is infected you could get a bad spray as in that GIF.
        Just keep in mind that the tonsil stones reek.

  14. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >also he is overweight if it matters
    >if it matters

  15. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Your biology doesn't actually like your bf.
    He's not any worse than anyone, you just don't like him. It's not going to get better by your rationalizations.

    Your supposed to like your partners stink.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      For men and women to be properly compatible, they need to enjoy each other's scents. I'm not kidding. You're just not a match. Do you want to marry this man and live with these smells for the rest of your life? If not, leave now and find someone you'd be fine with that arrangement.

      listen to these anons and ignore all the shit about "health problems" because that is cope

      https://i.imgur.com/LakGjCr.jpg

      It’s literally his breath, but also something else cause even after he brushes his teeth he smells like farts/crap sometimes. In addition his mouth always smells even after brushing and tongue scraping and mouthwash.

      He vehemently denies farting (he isn’t shy about this kind of stuff) so the only thing I can think of is maybe he is farting without knowing it.

      Also he is overweight if it matters.

      Also his underwear doesn’t fit properly and his pants and underwear keep falling and revealing his bare ass, not sure if that has anything to do with it.

      I told him to at least buy new properly fitting underwear (he isn’t poor, and his underwear is all stretched out and old) and he refuses to because he claims “these fit him”.

      Anyways does anyone have advice? The only other thing I can think of is that maybe he smells because he eats red meat 24/7 and doesn’t eat healthy but he doesn’t care about that either and I can’t convince him unless a man tells him he won’t listen to me. Advice please.

      are you the same race? how similar? etc.

  16. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I've been rejected hundreds of times (quite literally, women think "hundreds" is an expression but for men like me isn't) merely on the basis of my height and race. (5'5 latino)

    And you are telling me you put up with a guy that has non existent personal hygiene? This is either a LARP or he is extremely tall.

  17. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Tell him to floss, then brush tongue with one brush, then teeth with another, then mouthwash swish and gargle. Sounds like he's not brushing his tongue.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I don't brush my tongue and still don't smell, it can't be that lol

  18. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Absolute mess of a bf.
    Lift your standards.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      im having a great laugh with this thread like actually laughing thanks OP. even though im single at least im not with a fat smelly pig that cant wipe shit from their ass or replace their underwear

  19. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    For men and women to be properly compatible, they need to enjoy each other's scents. I'm not kidding. You're just not a match. Do you want to marry this man and live with these smells for the rest of your life? If not, leave now and find someone you'd be fine with that arrangement.

  20. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >In addition his mouth always smells even after brushing and tongue scraping and mouthwash
    he has tonsil stones.

  21. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >something else
    That would be the vaccine odor of death.

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