My bf finally snapped and idk what to do

He’s been a massive piece of shit for a long time.

He is lazy, closed minded, misogynistic and hateful. He also has anger management issues and is extremely disrespectful.

Anyway he’s been treating me like fricking horseshit the past few days because he’s literally just a mentally ill piece of shit.

For example, he always b***hes and complains whenever I go to the mall with him, so every time I tell him not to come and then he gets offended and wants to come.

And the same shit happens every time, cause he’s a fat piece of shit. He starts having toddler tantrums saying he’s tired and wants to go home and that I’m taking too long then he becomes abusive and raises his voice and acts like a fricking loser.

Then he claims he only came because “I would get mad at him if he didn’t” and other stupid bullshit, when I’m the one telling him I don’t need him to come.

He literally had like 4 gfs in the span of a year last time he dated, which was 10 years ago before he met me. They all dumped his pathetic abusive ass, and he blocked most of them back (after they blocked him) cause he’s a fricking loser.

Last time we were out recently, he started b***hing again. We were literally on our way back, walking to the bus and I was just talking to SIRI. Asking questions about the weather. He told me to stop talking and shut the frick up. I have autism and continued talking to SIRI being like “Siri my bf doesn’t want me to talk to you” and other autistic shitposting.

He literally snapped and started yelling at me so I started walking slower so I wouldn’t have to be next to him. He turned around and had a look of insanity and madness in his eyes, and started REPEATEDLY burping really fricking loudly and profoundly at me, on purpose to show what a piece of disgusting shit he is and to annoy me. He literally did it like 10 times in a row consecutively and aggressively.

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Jesus just break up already

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This.
      It's not that difficult.
      You just enjoy drama

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Part 2

    Anyway, I went away to visit my family. He kept treating me like literal shit but when I left he said “I love you I’ll miss you” and basically forced me to kiss him.

    He kept msging me stupid shit like asking how to do the laundry and sending me worthless memes and acting like he’s a good bf (always acts nice over text like a manipulative abuser).

    Then the last straw where he told me he’d have to go away to his home town in less than a week to pick up some non-urgent pos mail that his parents can pick up, essentially telling me I have to hurry and come back so that he can leave our pets and I can come back and care for them (by the way he is always the one to leave me with them except for this one time).

    I finally snapped at him over text. Told him he’s ruining my vacation. Any time I’ve tried addressing his shit behaviour over text he just twists everything and denies it and it’s disgusting so I didn’t even try this time and just acted like a b***h to him because I’m sick of his shit.

    I blocked him so he couldn’t reply (cause all he does is manipulate as a response and deny and accuse me of random shit to derail and never solve anything).

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Part 3/3

      Recently I tried to unblock him and it turns out he has blocked me back, which he’s never done. He expects me to be respectful towards him when he’s abusing me 24/7 and never apologizes. He just always expects me to forget everything he’s done and act like nothing happened.

      Anyways now I don’t have the energy to go back and have no idea if he’s even taking care of the pets and he probably locked me out of this apartment or something ridiculous.

      Also im severely depressed and he’s my only social tie that even gave me an ounce of feeling socially connected so I didn’t want to break up with him.

      Psych meds aren’t even a thing in my country, everyone here is an butthole like him and idk what to do. I seriously need advice.

      I am at my parents now but they’re toxic asf too and I feel horrible

      eternal victim BPD prostitutes like this should legitimately be culled

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Bet he's either a tall or handsome mfer. how tall is he?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      seconding this
      must find out if OP is paying the psychochad toll before giving helpful advice

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I’m only with him as a means of survival, any other info about him is irrelevant

        I don’t give a frick about height , and he’s literally obese

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >as a means of survival
          wtf does this mean, he's an object to you? no wonder he hates you

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >I don’t give a frick about height
          is he tall though? Plz don't lie femanon. Sure you may blatantly lie as there's no way to verify, but I hope you do have some amount of conscience & honesty in you.

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >just work on yourself, incel
    >they don't want to date you because you're a bad person

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >He's lazy, closed minded, misogynistic, hateful, fat, has anger management issues and is extremely disrespectful.
      >Has had 4 girlfriends in a single year

      Meanwhile 3/4ers of this board havent touched a woman in the last 3 years.

      Seriously, why are women like this? I dont even understand anymore. How does this happen?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Here, I will explain exactly how it happens. He isn’t greedy with his money but he’s a terrible person. He also has zero shame and so isn’t worried about approaching women. He ends up being the only guy that made any move on her and she agrees/

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Idk tbh also maybe he wasn’t fat when he had that string of gfs (actually yes I think I can confirm he wasn’t fat 10 yrs ago)

        But he was still a pos lol

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Its just really blackpilling honestly. I feel the best way to get a gf as an autistic incel would be to become way more unkind, rude, domineering, and maybe a bit violent.

          I'm considered very kind-hearted by others so its pretty depressing the path of least resistance to getting a woman is being a terrible person

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You are NOT getting it, you literally just morphed what I said to match your worldview

            They get gfs DESPITE being rude pieces of shit, not because they are rude pieces of shit

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah, and I think you're incorrect. Macho men get more gfs than normal, decent guys. The bf of OP gets more girlfriends than my (non-NSFFW normie) guy friends. And of my guy friends, the one who is rudest and least outwardly kind has way more experience with women than anyone else in my friend group

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Gee, perhaps it’s because he makes the most moves on women..

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            If you don’t offer to split and actually pay for everything and actually ask women out and don’t complain about your life you will get women

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          dump him and i'll be your bf

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Ur probaly like 20

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            and? i'm 22

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Im oldd

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            it's ok, i prefer girls older than me

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >I dont even understand anymore. How does this happen?
        It's extremely simple, looks are supreme, and abusiveness is either neutral or positive. Just use your eyes.

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Part 3/3

    Recently I tried to unblock him and it turns out he has blocked me back, which he’s never done. He expects me to be respectful towards him when he’s abusing me 24/7 and never apologizes. He just always expects me to forget everything he’s done and act like nothing happened.

    Anyways now I don’t have the energy to go back and have no idea if he’s even taking care of the pets and he probably locked me out of this apartment or something ridiculous.

    Also im severely depressed and he’s my only social tie that even gave me an ounce of feeling socially connected so I didn’t want to break up with him.

    Psych meds aren’t even a thing in my country, everyone here is an butthole like him and idk what to do. I seriously need advice.

    I am at my parents now but they’re toxic asf too and I feel horrible

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Now I get it. Everyone around you is toxic towards you "for no reason at all"

      b***h have you figured out that you're the common denominator? What are you doing to these people that make them react THE EXACT SAME WAY to you?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Not to mention, she chose him.

        https://i.imgur.com/8niT1bu.jpeg

        He’s been a massive piece of shit for a long time.

        He is lazy, closed minded, misogynistic and hateful. He also has anger management issues and is extremely disrespectful.

        Anyway he’s been treating me like fricking horseshit the past few days because he’s literally just a mentally ill piece of shit.

        For example, he always b***hes and complains whenever I go to the mall with him, so every time I tell him not to come and then he gets offended and wants to come.

        And the same shit happens every time, cause he’s a fat piece of shit. He starts having toddler tantrums saying he’s tired and wants to go home and that I’m taking too long then he becomes abusive and raises his voice and acts like a fricking loser.

        Then he claims he only came because “I would get mad at him if he didn’t” and other stupid bullshit, when I’m the one telling him I don’t need him to come.

        He literally had like 4 gfs in the span of a year last time he dated, which was 10 years ago before he met me. They all dumped his pathetic abusive ass, and he blocked most of them back (after they blocked him) cause he’s a fricking loser.

        Last time we were out recently, he started b***hing again. We were literally on our way back, walking to the bus and I was just talking to SIRI. Asking questions about the weather. He told me to stop talking and shut the frick up. I have autism and continued talking to SIRI being like “Siri my bf doesn’t want me to talk to you” and other autistic shitposting.

        He literally snapped and started yelling at me so I started walking slower so I wouldn’t have to be next to him. He turned around and had a look of insanity and madness in his eyes, and started REPEATEDLY burping really fricking loudly and profoundly at me, on purpose to show what a piece of disgusting shit he is and to annoy me. He literally did it like 10 times in a row consecutively and aggressively.

        Just dump him. What do you want us to say?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah he pretended to be great and literally no one else spoke to me

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Leave. Move out as soon as possible. What are you doing with a guy like that?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Did you miss the part where OP says she is autistic? If you’ve dated an autist before, you should know something about them:

      They misinterpret social cues and social exchanges. All of them, not just jokes and flirting, even the negatively charged ones. In fact, ESPECIALLY the negatively charged ones. You could have a disagreement with an autist and flippantly make a passive disapproving comment, maybe even sugar it with feisty banter, and the autist will make a thread saying

      >I’m being bullied.

      Also pay very close attention to OP’s wording, and it tells you the reality of whose being abusive. I’ll list them all:

      >He’s a massive piece of shit
      >Lazy, closed minded
      >he’s literally just a mentally ill piece of shit
      >he always b***hes and complains
      >he’s a fat piece of shit
      >acts like a fricking loser
      >pathetic
      >he’s a fricking loser
      >piece of disgusting shit he is

      Oh and this is how OP feels about everyone around her
      >everyone here is an butthole
      >my parents are toxic asf

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Wtf is the point of this post? He’s literally a lazy piece of shit and it’s no coincidence all of his gfs dumped him

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        lol what a mad fricking moid. its not hard to imagine her parents are toxic as well, since she ended up dating this guy
        just shut the frick up and mind your own business. She's probably right.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >its not hard to imagine her parents are toxic as well

          almost like she learned her behaviours from somewhere, huh?

          Wtf is the point of this post? He’s literally a lazy piece of shit and it’s no coincidence all of his gfs dumped him

          The point of the post is the OP went on this tirade to throw her bf under the bus with excessive put-downs and genuinely abusive language. And then after all of that she says

          >Also im severely depressed and he’s my only social tie that even gave me an ounce of feeling socially connected so I didn’t want to break up with him.

          >Grrr I hate him so much he’s a piece of shit loser

          >...But I don’t want him to break up with me!

          Literally “I hate you, don’t leave” mindset. It’s textbook BPD-coded shit and I have a very hard time believing or trusting OP is able or willing to tell us the full story of what’s going on.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah I have no friends or job what do you expect me to think? No one in my position wants to be alone. Anyway get a life, this board is for advice not to be a pos towards people who need help.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Advice doesn’t = unconditional validation, OP. Advice can be sternly negative, or sweetly reassuring. Sometimes people need challenged via advice. And the fact that you’re already painting me with:
            >Get a life
            >PoS towards people who need help

            Shows that you cannot accept any scrutiny or questions into accountability. Instead you default to calling anyone who is disagreeable as a piece of shit. Your words, not mine.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            What advice or help did you give? You just accused me of having bpd and being abusive with no evidence

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            He advised you to look at your own behaviour after reading you like a book
            Agree with him. If you want validation go to reddit

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Wow very helpful

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I handed you a mirror, that’s why I repeated your words back to you:

            >He’s a massive piece of shit
            >Lazy, closed minded
            >he’s literally just a mentally ill piece of shit
            >he always b***hes and complains
            >he’s a fat piece of shit
            >acts like a fricking loser
            >pathetic
            >he’s a fricking loser
            >piece of disgusting shit he is

            Ask yourself one important question. If you saw or heard your partner talking about you in this way, in the way you spoke about your bf – would you want to stay? Could you love that? If the answer is ‘No’ then please don’t act surprised when BF is demanding break up.

            Maybe he was abusive too. Maybe you are simply being reactively abusive. It does not matter. Because at the end of the day, the relationship is still bringing out the worst in you. That proves the relationship is unstable and needs to go.

            So let him leave, break up.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Nice and how is leaving him going to help me?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Nice and how is leaving him going to help me?

            Well that’s easy. If your claims about how BF is this big bad and abusive man are genuinely true and not exaggerated, then it helps you because you no longer have to be abused.

            Right? Make sense? Hello?

            And if you choose to remain in the relationship despite your claims, then it either makes you deserpate or lying.

            I’ll assume it’s desperation, just to be charitable to you. So if you’re only staying because you don’t want to be alone, then it means you don’t love him at all. You only love not being alone. And that is a poor reason to stay in any relationship.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Actually no it doesn’t help me no longer be abused, because then I would have to live with my parents who are also abusive.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Get a job? Live alone?
            People on this board sometimes

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Get a job? Live alone?
            People on this board sometimes

            She's a leech.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            It's not. It's going to help him though.
            Btw I'm this anon

            Now I get it. Everyone around you is toxic towards you "for no reason at all"

            b***h have you figured out that you're the common denominator? What are you doing to these people that make them react THE EXACT SAME WAY to you?

            You're a piece of human shit. You're the common denominator where "Everyone is toxic and a piece of shit" it's damn apparent to me that you're the one causing all of this, and that guy who's fricking you occasionally is your latest victim of abuse.
            >leave him alone, he deserves much better than you.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Lmao yes and all his exes were also “horrible people” like me and that’s why they dumped his ass, poor guy

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            That’s because he’s probably codependent and never questions women and can’t see red flags to save his life. I’ve seen this so many times it always plays out the same. And in this story, it means you are the emotionally volatile woman he keeps falling for.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Yes just side with some random guy because he’s male

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I’m not siding with anyone, actually. I’m siding with common sense. And common sense is telling me that something isn’t adding up. You claim abuse while saying abusive shit about your boyfriend for all to see. And in my experience, that’s usually a nice juicy red flag that someone isn’t being truthful.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I said facts about him anonymously and now I’m abusive?

            You sound like a troll

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Oh yeah, you said facts all right. You showed us all how abusive he was for:
            >Wanting to go home because he was tired shopping all day
            >Burping
            Oh and my favourite one
            >Telling you he loves you and wanting a kiss/messaging you to ask how to use a washing machine.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            This girl is too moronic to even realize how she sounds. The guy putting up with her (he should never have to) needs to cut his losses, and be free of this bat shit crazy waif.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Bump

          • 3 weeks ago
            Sage

            Nah, in every field

            Sage

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            We aren't going to believe only your side of a "story" where you're the constant victim... all you've done so far is bash the guy, and then moron your way through "wait why doesn't anyone believe me"
            >your entire post is "and then for no reason at all, _____ happened"

            Sweetie, most of us keep girls like you around solely for your holes. We know not to take chicks like you seriously, because you're too moronic to take accountability for your role in anything.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Aaand she snapped
            Way to out yourself as a bitter loser

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Seek a psychologist you have some issues lady
            Hope your """terribly abusive""" bf manages to break up with you

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            And all of your exes didn't get fed up of your moronic ass? Lmao sweetie, you're nothing special.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            He literally gets unhingedly mad at me talking to SIRI because I have autism and then at night when he gets horny after abusing me all day he tells me to “sit on his face” despite the fact I’ve told him I’m not interested 400 times (he has an undiagnosed health condition that makes his breath smell like literal shit and I don’t want to get fricking aids)

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    not reading any of that, dump him or it's on you.

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I stopped when I saw that there were three parts to this. I get the feeling that it is a hoax because not even a female stage comedian would reach such hyperbole about "the bf from hell."

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      How is it hyperbole?

      >and started REPEATEDLY burping really fricking loudly and profoundly at me
      That's the funniest angry response to someone I've seen in quite some time lmfao

      I mean I can see why it could seem funny but it was honestly cringe worthy, pathetic, embarassing, revolting

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        yeah that's what I mean, it's just such an insane response that I would have a hard time taking anyone seriously after that.

        And I mean take anyone seriously. With anything. The fact that you're still taking your relationship seriously with a guy who acts like a sick animal when he gets upset is equally insane to me.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Like you mean, if someone did that to you you would just never take any human in your life seriously again?

          Yeah he literally is a sick animal like holy shit I don’t understand how it’s possible for be so mentally ill and disgusting

          It’s my only form of human connection

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Like you mean, if someone did that to you you would just never take any human in your life seriously again?
            If a person did that to me, I would not take them seriously in any way again.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Hi Anon. Since you don't want to break up with him, is your question how to make him change? Since the reason you want to stay with him is because he's your only socialization and you'd have to go back to your parents, would you be open to us brainstorming other solutions to that?

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >and started REPEATEDLY burping really fricking loudly and profoundly at me
    That's the funniest angry response to someone I've seen in quite some time lmfao

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    woman and complaining, name a more iconic duo.
    To be clear, I wouldnt date this man, but I especially wouldnt b***h if I chose to stay. He is nothing, and you are somehow less.

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    And you're still communicating with him why?

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >the desperate bumps from op seeking validation
    Kek

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