my boyfriend is extremely handsome and could get any girl he wants.

my boyfriend is extremely handsome and could get any girl he wants. im objectively a 3/10 and look like a man with an extremely asymmetric face, thin lips, round jaw, large nose. im not fat and am actually in really good shape but i have narrow hips and broad shoulders. never in my life has anyone approached me or called me pretty, even when i have gotten all dolled up and felt beautiful, felt like i was dressing in a way that worked for my masculine frame, i’ve never turned any heads. i haven’t been able to comfortably talk with him for months out of fear i’ll say something that gives him the ick like i have with all my other exes. we went out and this really nice older guy told him he looks like thor… anyone i talk to just kinda brushes me off and wants to go along with their lives and day but people seek out conversation with him. i’ve tried breaking up with him but he says he loves me and wants to see me happy again. i can’t go out with him anymore because i’m so embarrassed that he has to be seen with me. i wish i could be happy but i am constantly aware of how inconsequential i am to everyone around me because i’m so unpleasant to look at. i’ll post a pic of my face so everyone knows i’m not just being dramatic, i really am ugly.

how do i get the balls to leave so he can be with a girl that deserves him? how do i cope with the fact that im too ugly to happily date? how am i supposed to be happy as a hideous woman?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >im objectively a 3/10
    looks aren't important, raw emotions are.
    >how do i get the balls to leave so he can be with a girl that deserves him?
    there is no need to get balls, if you want to leave him simply send him a message that you no longer want to continue the relationship and block him.
    >how do i cope with the fact that im too ugly to happily date?
    by seeking a therapist with the intention to resolve these insecurities
    >how am i supposed to be happy as a hideous woman?
    despite vocal individuals, there is joy that can be derived independent of one's appearance

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Why be so fixated on being less attractive than your bf when he seems he couldn't care less lol, obviously your his type or something even if not conventionally attractive....

    Life sucks too much to over analyze stuff like this >.<

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    > and could get any girl he wants.
    But instead fricks trannies.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      im not a troony…

      Why be so fixated on being less attractive than your bf when he seems he couldn't care less lol, obviously your his type or something even if not conventionally attractive....

      Life sucks too much to over analyze stuff like this >.<

      because he’d be happier with someone
      else

      >im objectively a 3/10
      looks aren't important, raw emotions are.
      >how do i get the balls to leave so he can be with a girl that deserves him?
      there is no need to get balls, if you want to leave him simply send him a message that you no longer want to continue the relationship and block him.
      >how do i cope with the fact that im too ugly to happily date?
      by seeking a therapist with the intention to resolve these insecurities
      >how am i supposed to be happy as a hideous woman?
      despite vocal individuals, there is joy that can be derived independent of one's appearance

      i love him more than anything and i can’t let him go. how do i get him to leave?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        how about you just be a good gf instead and let him decide if he's unhappy
        who the frick are you as an ugly prostitute to decide what he should or shouldn't want?

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          he wouldn’t leave if he was unhappy, he dated a girl who abused him for a year even though he said he stopped liking her really soon after they started dating

          All the nicest girls have the self-esteem of a chemical waste train fire. I doubt you are less than a 6.5/10.

          i have been called ugly my whole life

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I think you have good reason to be concerned.

            Most men are not straightforward and have hidden agendas. Be it having a "practice gf", or they check out a long time ago, or they already have someone else, but they dont have access to her yet and the girl is a replacement or the threads, or how quickly men are to leave, if a woman gains weight..and so on.
            On top of that people like to see aesthetically pleasing couples and the pressure to be a particular body type or face type, or be collectively attractive is definitely there.

            Just look how common ratings between 1-10 have become, its insane. But thats also fair i guess, the market is full of competition and everyone is kind of in despair. lookmaxxing, affordable alterations with cosmetic surgery, camera filter and so on, just shows how wild the search has become to get human ressources. Who has THE one haha.

            Also men define their manhood by comparing themselves with other men and so to have a gf that other men find attractive, is making the man more valueable to others, as he generates jeoulousy and admiration and so on. So its not uncommon and not truly insecurity issues, to have these thoughts.

            However, I would rather put my attention into, wether you feel well treated in the relationship. Do you have the feeling he cares for you, do his action speak that language?
            Is there something you would like to have it differently and can you talk about it with him?
            Like all those things. He will have to do the same on his part.

            And if he will ever happen, that he leaves you, because of looks or otherwise, at least you can say, it was a good realtionship: you took charge for your own happiness.
            That you were honest in the relationship. To either act and say what you need to be content, or to leave, if you are not.
            Do you undestand?
            I think that is something that you can control and whatever he decides to do, know that with that agency, you will be able to handle it.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          You probably aren't anywhere near as ugly as you think you are. If you're in shape, dress well, and groom yourself well, then you probably look fine.

          Generally speaking the average woman is a LOT more attractive than the average men. You are almost certainly overrating your BF's appearance and underrating your own. Statistically speaking it just isn't possible for a normal girl with no deformities or weight issues to be as "ugly" as you imply you are.

          What it sounds like is you have mental problems (Obviously, because you're a woman who uses NSFFW, so you'd inevitably be insane). It's likely you have a form of body dysmorphia. My advice? Quit NSFFW and spend a lot less time on the internet. Places like this will only make you feel worse. In fact this is probably the worst place in the world you could have come for advice, seeing as 99% of men here are snide little incels who will jump at a chance to call any woman "ugly" or "a prostitute" (see:

          > and could get any girl he wants.
          But instead fricks trannies.

          )

          he wouldn’t leave if he was unhappy, he dated a girl who abused him for a year even though he said he stopped liking her really soon after they started dating
          [...]
          i have been called ugly my whole life

          >i have been called ugly my whole life
          Yeah, that's what happens when you get bullied. Chances are they were just saying it because they knew it would rile you up.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >i love him more than anything and i can’t let him go. how do i get him to leave?
        Most emotionally stable and consistent woman.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          should i just end my life?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >im not a troony
        doubts.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    All the nicest girls have the self-esteem of a chemical waste train fire. I doubt you are less than a 6.5/10.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i was in the same situation and the relatiosnip only ended after he died. hope this helps. chill the frick out

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You're most likely one of the prettiest girls he knows in his eyes, that's just how love works

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      if you're loyal and love him, thats worth a lot more to a good man than being conventionally attractive.

      do you promise?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        yep

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Only if he's in love with you, if he has long term plans with you it's likely he is.
        My gf seemed average when I first met her but she's the most beautiful girl in my eyes now.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    if you're loyal and love him, thats worth a lot more to a good man than being conventionally attractive.

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I guess he could have attachment issues(which to get him to leave just keep being sad and be inconsistent about your attention towards him, randomly ignore him ect)

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