My boyfriend takes me for granted.

I'm a 18y F. I like videogames, music, comics, films, wrestling and more retro shit. My boyfriend is not very attentive, never follows up to his words, doesn't prioritize me, has disappointed me in several ocassions, doesn't make a lot of plans for us and if he does, he forgets or doesn't follow up. He is also not very emotionally mature or emotionally supportive, he barely ever asks about me. I'm sweet to him, give him nice gifts, cook for him, play games with him and share a lot of interests with him, I also pleasure him good. I feel like he takes me for granted and doesn't love me as much as I love him. I feel very sad and lonely because I also have almost no friends

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Come over to /b/ and tell your stupid story

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You're both immature and still figuring shit out because you're basically kids. Talk to him about this shit, not us
    >but I did and nothing changed!
    okay, so there's your answer. Free tip: if you do that, they don't listen or improve, and only when you break up with them do they promise to finally "make an effort", that's not real change and it will collapse the moment they become comfortable and not afraid of losing you. Let "done" be done, and don't go back ever, or at least until the circumstances that caused you to break up have changed, which usually requires several years of personal growth and change, if at all.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I guess it's time to let go. I tried talking to him about it, in every way possible. Thank you

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >I'm a 18y F. I like videogames, music, comics, films, wrestling and more retro shit.
    You sound fat like the other girls. What is he taking for granted?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I'm not fat at all. If I was fat he wouldn't even be with me in the first place, he doesn't like fat women

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Yeah. Ok.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Just because all the nerdy women you met are fat because you can't get skinny women to even stand close to you. Doesn't mean I'm fat

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Ok.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        If your not fat then your either trans or neurodivergent in some way normal women aren’t friendless and interested in such niche nerdy things

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I'm not a troony. The issue with friendships nowadays is that people make it one-sided. It's me who always talks first or invited to hangout, eventually I stopped doing that and I lost half my friends. The other half I lost for being "too offensive"

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    break up with him and date an older guy, we're more mature and will treat you like you deserve.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I had older men confess to me as well, since I'm loyal I obviously declined. However you are not wrong, I saw a difference on the treatment I received, it's quite sad.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        hey OP. What you describe is exactly why I won't date another guy near my age. I always liked older men though but ended up dating guys my age and my ex bf was the absolute worse. I am now going out with a guy thats 20 yrs older and its goddamn HEAVEN.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          It'll be heaven right up until you grow older yourself. Then you'll be cheated.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I’m 90% certain whoever wrote that isn’t even a woman and is instead a man in his 40s trying to trick women in their 20s into dating older guys like him

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            a 20 woman that wants a 40 man for what ever reason doesn't need to be fooled.

            But to a larger issue and it concerns young men not 40 yo men. Its the young men that use trickery and lies and boast not an older man

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            maybe but I don't want an older man that just wants to have sex with a young woman for financial favors. I want a man that will love me like I will him. That is the biggest problem, finding an older man that will take my romantic interest serious and not brush me off like some stupid girl.

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Until you become immoral (good luck, sincerely) your time is less replaceable than any one formalized relationship.
    You can still love people and do your utmost to keep the good people in your life close, but you have to be scrupulous about respecting your own time more than any 'relationship contract'.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >immoral
      Hahahahahahahahahaha, got'm
      *immortal

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        For an 18 year old, that's a given.

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    you're either a troony, homosexual, male, or fat, ugly.

    you are not an 18 y.o. F

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      None. You're moronic as frick

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Sounds like you know what to expect. Apply this new found knowledge to every man and you’ll not be disappointed.

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    That's an emotionally unavailable bf, it'd just hurt you if you continued to stay with him. Also, ignore the people who say you should date "older men" in this thread, if a guy over 20 ever asks you out, run.

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Have you told him you feel this way?
    He won't know until you tell him. If you've only rewarded him, as it sounds like, you've been conditioning him to think his dismissive behavior is ok. You need to be direct about how upset you are about it. You can't just hope he'll realize he's not putting in his fair share. As far as he's concerned, what he's doing is enough because you appear attentive.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      No. Trust me, I have been extremely directly with him. I made my boundaries clear and consequences were paid if he crossed them. I gave him an ultimatum several times, several opportunities. I couldn't have been more comprehensive with him, I think it's time to let go. As much as it sadens me

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Hi granted I'm dad

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'll rightfully assume this thread is fake/bait, but it incenses me to no end that many such cases, usually even worse persist to exist, while I can be the best a girl would want, and get dropped on a whim
    Women hate to admit it, but they seek the abuse, consciously or otherwise. Comfort bores them. Nice guys simply finish last.

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Your brains aren’t even fully developed. You are just kids literally fricking around. Don’t expect a fairy tale. Don’t expect reason or introspection. Leave the kid for someone more developed, but don’t be surprised if that person grows weary of your own immaturity. Part of going through relationships is finding someone around your own level.

    And keep in mind that liking video games, wrestling, etc are not qualities that will get you high quality males. It will get you an infinite supply of chuds like the one you are dating. If you want quality men, you need a great physique, body count under 3, and a good personality (meaning non-combative/bitchy/naggy). If you have those, you can be happily married to a slightly older man before your friends are out of college.

  13. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >I like videogames, music, comics, films, wrestling and more retro shit.
    HAHAHA! Life isn't NSFFW you stupid c**t, men actually find those things extremely OBNOXIOUS in women! Bonus points to you for putting your man down and trying to garner good girl points for being with some one "not very attractive". Get back to the kitchen or put your big girl equal suffrage panties on and find some other butthole to play pretend-love with.

  14. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Sweetheart, most men are fricking stupid. Go date someone smarter and less selfish.

  15. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >My boyfriend is not very attentive, never follows up to his words, doesn't prioritize me, has disappointed me in several ocassions, doesn't make a lot of plans for us and if he does, he forgets or doesn't follow up. He is also not very emotionally mature or emotionally supportive, he barely ever asks about me.
    ...
    >I'm sweet to him, give him nice gifts, cook for him, play games with him and share a lot of interests with him,
    ...
    >I also pleasure him good.
    DISGUSTING.
    Actively destroying your future sexual value to any next partner.
    Decent bait.

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