My ex wanted to go no contact when i eventually find a new guy, if he indirectly sees I have a new bf will it really harm him?

My ex wanted to go no contact when i eventually find a new guy, if he indirectly sees I have a new bf will it really harm him? They are total opposites, ex is 5'6 and asian, bf is 6'4 and white. I do not want to harm him so should I just block him so he doesnt see?

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  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    yes just block him. I personally can't understand why he would wait to go no contact until after you meet someone new. maybe you actually were justified in breaking up with him.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      He said it will shatter him seeing me with someone new which I completely understand, but he was my only and best friend for a long time so it is hard to lose him

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        if you really care about him just go no contact. stop being selfish

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Why is it solely my responsibility if he is willingly talking to me? We discussed a friendship in detail

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            sounds a bit contradictory. as far as I can gather, he said he wanted to go no contact if you found a new guy. well, you found a new guy. what friendship is there to have?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I guess you are right, but if I do block him, he still might hear from mutual friends or ask why I suddenly cut contact. He said he would never be rude to me or my future partner, just be very hurt seeing me with someone else

            >They are total opposites,
            >ex is 5'6
            >bf is 6'4
            This is literally all women think about and consider for their relationships. All that other shit you guys try to do means nothing unless you already fulfill the genetic requirements.

            Women dont date shorter men and their vapid, women do date shorter men and their still vapid. How can we win? See

            Because I loved him, we dated for 4 years. I only brought up height to emphasize how different they are and I know some men get complexes over it but it genuinely did not matter to me.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            so which one is it, does he want to go no contact or not? just respect his wishes idk.

            you could just ask him straight up. like tell him you did find someone else and if you still want to be friends. that way you don't have to worry about mutuals and all that stuff

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I might take this approach but I dont want to like rub it in or seem like im weaponizing it, you know? I still care deeply for him, I just do not love him romantically

            why are you talking about the race of your boyfriends?
            are you koreaboo or weeaboo?
            i think your current white boyfriend will be very unhappy that you dated an asian guy for a long time before you met him

            Again to highlight their differences, and no im not. Why would my current bf care that I used to date an asian guy?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            well good luck whatever you decide to do. it's hard to make everyone happy.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Thanks, I am a people pleaser to my core and hate hurting others

            i think many white dudes can't stand the idea of white girls dating non-white guys because they react hysterically to it and seem overly offended by it
            maybe white men can't cut out the nazi phase
            as a south korean guy, i've seen a bunch of white guys on the internet date korean/japanese/any other kind of asian girls, but i've never been angry about it
            it's just their life and it doesn't matter to my life

            I think this is mainly applicable to brown/black men because there is a lot of racist stereotypes of asian men being unmasculine therefore they are not perceived as a "threat" so white men do not really care when white women date asian men.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Thanks, I am a people pleaser to my core and hate hurting others
            imagine being with another autist

            >what do you want
            >no what do you want
            >no what do you want
            >no what do you want

            kek

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            https://i.imgur.com/1UkfzdA.jpeg

            My ex wanted to go no contact when i eventually find a new guy, if he indirectly sees I have a new bf will it really harm him? They are total opposites, ex is 5'6 and asian, bf is 6'4 and white. I do not want to harm him so should I just block him so he doesnt see?

            My advice is to cut ties with exes when everything ends. Also, sometimes hurting others is inevitable when we need to pursue our goals and happiness. Hurting someone doesn't mean you're being evil necessarily. If your ex is attached to you emotionally that's his problem.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            i think many white dudes can't stand the idea of white girls dating non-white guys because they react hysterically to it and seem overly offended by it
            maybe white men can't cut out the nazi phase
            as a south korean guy, i've seen a bunch of white guys on the internet date korean/japanese/any other kind of asian girls, but i've never been angry about it
            it's just their life and it doesn't matter to my life

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >blablabla virtuesignaling
            Ngmi

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            how does that become virtua signaling?
            i only ppity white guys who still believe that asian girls are less materialistic, less promiscuous, and wiser than white girls
            asian girls are just snobs just like white girls
            they are extremely obsessed with a man's looks, money, and career

            Thanks, I am a people pleaser to my core and hate hurting others
            [...]
            I think this is mainly applicable to brown/black men because there is a lot of racist stereotypes of asian men being unmasculine therefore they are not perceived as a "threat" so white men do not really care when white women date asian men.

            i do not care about white girls
            i know that white girls are worst feminists and i heard they usually have +20 body counts
            i am sick of their girls can do anything bullshit
            people in general can not do many things though

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I still care deeply for him, I just do not love him romantically
            Shit like this makes no sense to me. If there was someone who genuinely supported me I would becime attracted to them as we got to know each other.

            You are broken if that doesn't occur for yoi and you failed a 4 year relationship because of superficial shit.
            Did he cheat? Lie? Abuse?
            No?
            Then you're in the wrong completely and should go to therapy and get back with him.

            You've probably ruined him for life and if he saw what you're doing now he is guaranteed going to be suicidal.
            How did he wrong you?
            How does such a long term engagement fall apart?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >life going in different directions
            That is so vague, you're just scrambling to justify actual cruelty. This was not mutual.

            I am highly considering moving to another continent (the country my parents are from) and he wants to remain in the US, it really is not that complicated, I am assuming you have never had relationships if you are thinking this deeply of things not working out between high school sweethearts

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >we love each other
            >neither wants to move
            loving every laugh
            have a nice day failed normalgay

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I mean its a massive ask to have someone leave their family and friends behind and move to somewhere where they have never been and do not speak the language of (which is VERY hard to learn)
            Not like it is just moving states lmao

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            What a simp omg.
            Maybe he even evolves into a cuck lmao

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        He's trying to hold you hostage so you feel bad for finding a new bf. Just tell him you did get a new bf and be rid of him

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    What a pussy, he should have blocked you immeadietly after the breakup.
    Whats the use to it?
    Hope he grows some balls.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      No that's pussy too. Real shit is just not talking to them or caring what they are doing because you know they're in the wrong.

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >ex is 5'6
    dear god why would you do that to yourself

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Keep it up, I'll kill myself eventually

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Because I loved him, we dated for 4 years. I only brought up height to emphasize how different they are and I know some men get complexes over it but it genuinely did not matter to me.

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >y ex wanted to go no contact when i eventually find a new guy, if he indirectly sees I have a new bf will it really harm him? They are total opposites, ex is 5'6 and asian, bf is 6'4 and white. I do not want to harm him so should I just block him so he doesnt see?

    he wants you to send him a sex video so you look like a porn star and he'll beat his meat to it

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >They are total opposites,
    >ex is 5'6
    >bf is 6'4
    This is literally all women think about and consider for their relationships. All that other shit you guys try to do means nothing unless you already fulfill the genetic requirements.

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Correct, it's luck of the draw and 99% of men aren't good enough for these Nu-woman societal dross

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I don't fricking care about you stupid fricking prostitutes anymore. Suffer

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      They will, once they are 35 with 100 tattoos and 15 kids from the chads they partied with and the betabux touchless 40 year old virgin incel NVIDIA engineer doesn't save them because they went with a robowife rather than saving some washed up old hag

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Interesting fantasy anon

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    why are you talking about the race of your boyfriends?
    are you koreaboo or weeaboo?
    i think your current white boyfriend will be very unhappy that you dated an asian guy for a long time before you met him

  9. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    hes your ex theres no reason to really put any energy into wondering about ur exes feelings and kinda unfair to your new bf

  10. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Never be friends with your exes, even if you were great friends before. There's plenty of new people to meet who suck equally as much.

  11. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    stfu you both will be strangers again and move on so it doesn't matter. you lost a 4 year relationship and your best friend, good job BPDemon

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Not all relationships last and he was my high school bf lol, our lives are just headed in different directions, nothing crazy

      how does that become virtua signaling?
      i only ppity white guys who still believe that asian girls are less materialistic, less promiscuous, and wiser than white girls
      asian girls are just snobs just like white girls
      they are extremely obsessed with a man's looks, money, and career

      [...]
      i do not care about white girls
      i know that white girls are worst feminists and i heard they usually have +20 body counts
      i am sick of their girls can do anything bullshit
      people in general can not do many things though

      I am talking about white mens perception of asian men, not white women.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >life going in different directions
        That is so vague, you're just scrambling to justify actual cruelty. This was not mutual.

  12. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    idk it sounds like he might kill you

  13. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Obviously you don't care enough about your current bf since you are so concerned about your ex. If you aren't careful you will lose your bf over this. Since you are ok with the emotional tether to your ex then get rid of your bf or continue to lie to him and hope you aren't discovered.

    Me, when I'm done with one guy I am done and I want no information nor do I care what he does. My focus is on the guy I am with.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Kind of hard to just cut ties with someone you have known all your life and have a bunch of mutual friends with lol

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