My gf (26) scratches and pinches me (34) when we fight

We have been together for two and half years but we have been having fights on a weekly basis if not more for the last year or so. She says that I make her angry and when I don't listen to her, she has no other options but to scratch me. Our fights and arguments are usually over the most trivial and inane matters too. Not about cheating, jealousy or anything like that. It's also my fault too because when she first started doing it I just laughed it off and didn't take it seriously. This last time she scratched my face and I got very angry and told her we were done. Then she cried and cried and said she'll never do it again, only to do it again a few days later. Now I have a bunch of scars all over my forearms and hands. Also, if she's not scratching me out of anger, she's threatening me constantly to break up. I think i've accepted that this relationship is doomed, just need reassurance. I don't think therapy/counseling is going to help this situation.

PS...I moved across the country with this woman a year and half ago, have no friends or family here. Frick me right?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Slap the living shit out of her next time she does it. Pin her to the wall and scream at her. Level the playing field. She will probably frick you like a fighter jet after.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Ghost her and leave her, contact the police next time she does it. This relationship is not worth staying in.

      Ignore this incels power fantasy about beating up women.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      just leave her. but before that try , and report back if it works.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Jesus man. You're a man. Unironically spank her, like really hard. It sounds moronic and hilarious as frick, but she'll feel embarrassed and ashamed for the way she behaved. Also pinch her back next time too

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      THIS IS THE ONLY REAL POST ITT. shame op wont realize it and just do some other gay shit instead

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    NSFFW virgins are going to tell you to hit her, but that is a very bad idea, DONT DO THAT. You as a man can't get away with hitting people as much as women can, legally and socially. Sorry, that is just the double standard we live in. She seems crazy enough to be able to lie about you assaulting her first, and you do not want to deal with going to court over this. I had a friend who this happened to them, you don't want to deal with it trust me.

    Instead, you need to run away and just don't look back, you shouldn't tolerate anyone hitting you in a relationship. Ghost her and leave.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This, women are usually trusted a lot more in domestic cases.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >and you do not want to deal with going to court over this
      People always say shit like this but I'm pretty sure it's bad advice. I've been with a b***h like this and honestly, if I'm actually innocent, then I wouldn't mind going to court at all, especially if that b***h was beating up on me on top of it all. Which at some point when she threatened me with that "who do you think they'll believe" bullshit, I finally told her "I don't give a frick b***h, call the cops then, let's find out." Unfortunately, after that, she never touched me again

      But yeah, that's what the court system is there for, you know? Justice and all that shit?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This. Incels just expressing their power fantasies. I know a guy who choked his gf after she cheated and it didn't go well for him.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >I know a guy who choked his gf after she cheated and it didn't go well for him.
        What happened to him? Never know, mighta been worth it..

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Nothing happened to him. He immediately regretted it and realized he lost control over himself, now he has to live with what he did.
          Getting away with it is even worse than getting punished.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Ahahahahahahaahah

            Hahahahahah

            Ahahahahahahahah

            Well, it's settled then OP-- choke that b***h

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Well, you could go to prison too and get choked by gay guys.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >Well, you could go to prison too and get choked by gay guys.
            See, now you sound like them. But like I said from the start

            >and you do not want to deal with going to court over this
            People always say shit like this but I'm pretty sure it's bad advice. I've been with a b***h like this and honestly, if I'm actually innocent, then I wouldn't mind going to court at all, especially if that b***h was beating up on me on top of it all. Which at some point when she threatened me with that "who do you think they'll believe" bullshit, I finally told her "I don't give a frick b***h, call the cops then, let's find out." Unfortunately, after that, she never touched me again

            But yeah, that's what the court system is there for, you know? Justice and all that shit?

            >I don't give a frick

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >>I don't give a frick

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          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Bro you don't care if you get ass raped? Okay.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Well yeah nothing will happen if they don't press charges moron, but it isn't a chance worth taking.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I mean I don't give a frick either way. It's something that women like these don't seem to really take into consideration very often. Not everyone is scared off by the threat of jail

            Bro you don't care if you get ass raped? Okay.

            >Bro you don't care if you get ass raped? Okay.
            It's not really like that in prison, btw. But even if it was, nah, frick it, worth it

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >It's not really like that in prison, btw. But even if it was, nah, frick it, worth it
            homie u gay lmao

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >homie u gay lmao
            When life gives you lemons..

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Why go through all the trouble in the first place when you can go on Grindr?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >Why go through all the trouble in the first place when you can go on Grindr?
            I do go on Grindr. You would be surprised how difficult it can be to get someone to frick you in the ass, I swear. You'd think it would be a damn free-for-all right? But the dudes on there nowadays are talkin about shit like "want someone to take me out on a real date, not just hookup" and "please don't send dick pics as your first message" or "looking for someone to cuddle with :^)"

            Yeah, they're prolly lying and in reality just wanna frick, right? But that's the same kind of shit you have to do with with women, so what in the frick would be the point? If I'm gonna get fricked in the ass by a man, it damn well better be a man who means what he says and says what he means. If I wanna deal with bullshit I'll just stick to women..

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      this is the only sensible answer in this thread.
      provided you aren't living together, dump that b***h and lock your doors until she tuckers herself out, also record yourself and any messages / texts she sends you in-case she trie's to trap you with some made up domestic abuse threat.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Leave and file a police report.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Yeah you have no recourse except to leave.
    You take any of the shit advice you're going to end up in jail as a wife beater and then you're really fricked.
    I'm in a similar situation but have kids so I can't just leave.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    put it in pooper next time it happens.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Document all the abuse, scars, etc. You need evidence in case this psycho tries to really hurt you. After you document the abuse and can prove 100% that she's been assaulting you, leave her. You can't stay with someone that gives you scars and tries to manipulate / blackmail you. Someone like that can't be trusted and there is no future, relationship-wise. Do not fight with her if you can help it and don't hit her or do anything physical except deflect any incoming blows. There are other fish in the sea. You had a girlfriend here, you'll have one again. Good luck!

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Here is my time

    >but we have been having fights on a weekly basis if not more for the last year or so

    A woman is a mirror. She is reflecting your actions. You are looking at it as if she wants to fight. No, she and you are terrible communicators, she is trying to make herself heard and you are not listening. She is unhappy and you are not addressing it, she will monkey branch eventually

    >She says that I make her angry and when I don't listen to her, she has no other options but to scratch me
    So you dont listen to her. You either stop her from expressing herself, or you are not listening. Not caring, not loving. You dont give a shit. A leader would calm her down, open her up and sloooowly find out why is she unhappy

    She cant say directly, because she is a woman. She is a little scared child crying for help and you dont care

    >Our fights and arguments are usually over the most trivial and inane matters too
    Its not about particular things, ots about her mood and attraction towards you in general

    >It's also my fault too because when she first started doing it I just laughed it off and didn't take it seriously.
    Huge mistake, I did that one too and she left. She FELT I treated her badly, for me it was stupid so I laughed at these things, it was ridiculous from rational point of view. But she FELT hurt and it kept piling up

    >don't think therapy/counseling is going to help this situation.

    You dont need counselling. You need to be the men. Sit her down, be calm and charming. Playfully open her up, find out why is she upset, dont provide solutions, shut up and listen. Acknowledge your fault and apologise once. Then stop doing bad things, start doing fun and manly things you did in the beginning of the relationship. Easy

    >I moved across the country with this woman a year and half ago, have no friends or family here
    You are needy pushover doormat and she feels that. Her fighting you is an attempt for you to man up and make you both happy

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Dayum. I'm so glad I didn't move country for this crazy hot chick.

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >My gf (26) scratches and pinches me (34)
    I can't help you, but I would like to know where did you find her.

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