My girlfriend of four months told me she didn't love me anymore because she was angry. What should I make of this?

My girlfriend of four months told me she didn't love me anymore because she was angry. What should I make of this? after that she told me she loves me just she in very bad mood

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  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    She doesn't love you. She's just waiting until Chad can whisk her away from you.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Why? should I break up with her honestly I dont see future with her

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I would. Four months in and you are both already saying "I love you", which means neither of you mean it because it's too soon to be that invested in each other, and as soon as she gets upset she revokes her love card, frick that.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Frick off. Four months is enough. What a soulless take.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >it's too soon to be that invested in each other
          mfw my husband and I were saying I love you a month in and living together 4 months in

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You got exceedingly lucky.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Nah. We both knew we were meant to be pretty much immediately. We felt no need to beat around the bush. 8 years in, incredibly happy still.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            What do you think about OPs situation?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            She sounds like a BPD demon, I'd honestly ghost her.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >We both knew we were meant to be pretty much immediately.
            So does everyone else who does what you did. They're usually wrong.

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    A woman’s reality is dictated by her emotions

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >My girlfriend of four months told me she didn't love me anymore
    Four months is generally too short a time to truly love someone anyway.
    Her sense of "love" is shallow and distorted.

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    she probably said it out of anger. talk to her when she's calmer to understand what's really bothering her. open communication is important.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Women cannot comprehend open communication, hence this dumb b***h's tantrum

      https://i.imgur.com/dB9yPrp.jpeg

      My girlfriend of four months told me she didn't love me anymore because she was angry. What should I make of this? after that she told me she loves me just she in very bad mood

      Just tell her that you're no longer interested in being with her, since she wants to play games.

      Then dump her, and date someone else.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Love is a battlefield, which means it can harbor every emotion. Your GF is an immature dope.

        Should I text her or meet irl? we live kinda far away honestly dont wanna waste time commuting for her

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Eh, in person Is best. Just have her meet up with you somewhere, and keep it brief. Don't bother telling her what's up, just say some shit like

          "Hey babe, let's meet up for coffee at ___ I heard it's pretty good"

          Then get your coffee, dump her, explaining that you're not going to be with someone who plays emotionally manipulative games"

          Don't even finish the coffee, and leave first. She'll only ever remember seeing you walk away from her.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            [...]
            Should I text her or meet irl? we live kinda far away honestly dont wanna waste time commuting for her

            I'll also add, that you are not required to fight her for your relationship. If she feels otherwise, then she's openly admitting to sabotaging the relationship, solely out of boredom

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I think she will just tell me she didn't mean anything by it and actually loves me or she has PMS. How should I deal with that?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            By holding frame. And tell her thst her actions have consequences. You're not going to lower your standards for someone who thinks weaponizing their affections is acceptable. After you let her know this, just walk away and leave.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            She just texted me “ If I didn't write to you, wouldn't you talk to me all day? “
            I dont even wanna meet her I just want to text her to break up but yea I dont think thats really good idea

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Also there is chance she might pregnant getting test right now idk really now how to proceed

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            She just texted me she isnt pregnant what a relief

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You're not still texting back, are tou?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            No, I texted her, thanking her for letting me know, and she just texted me be at “meet up place” tomorrow at 5pm. Also she told me at the end of the call we had before that she hated me.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            What a b***h, I wouldn't even turn up now.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            What a b***h, I wouldn't even turn up now.

            Yeah I wouldn't even make an effort for that. Just ghost her ass.

            Text her this "I'm not going to waste a seconds more time with you, I was planning on being civil, but you are clearly too immature to reciprocate that. You dont hate me, you hate yourself. Im not going to be your scapegoat. Thanks for the memories."

            And then DO NOT TEXT HER BACK OR SHOW UP

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            She's trying to gaslight you bud. Don't be a pussy. In person.

            IF she's pregnant, you'll get a paternity test. Obviously she's going to try and keep you around if she is. This is another leverage point:

            "Ill be in the kids life, if its mine. However, If you want me in your life, then you're going to act right. The moment you don't, I'm gone."

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You don't need to text her back, but "hey I've been busy. Let's meet up for coffee"

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Frick, I fumbled. She called me crying, and I said, 'Let's talk tomorrow.' I didn't tell her about what, but I think she gets the idea

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Honestly, not a bad play at all. Good shit anon. Just stick to your guns, women are manipulative by nature, and will ALWAYS try to use fake tears and tantrums to get their way.

            Remember brother, you deserve love same as anyone does. Ture and pure love. Not the type that is subject to someone's fleeting emotional shifts. Likely she's going to try and pull out all the stops to play damage control.

            You have a few options when that happens,

            1. You hold to your standards and refuse to believe a word she has to say, and leave.

            2. You leverage her immense guilt into being allowed to bang multiple women on the side, with her full knowledge and consent... after all, she's the one who fricked up and wants to keep you

            3. You cave, throw everything to the wayside, and foolishly accept more of the same treatment from her.

            Personally I hope you pick #1, but if you wanna play around and see what type of shit she's willing to do for you, #2 is your only other option (#2 really has no limits if you're trying to get 3sums out of her and her hot friends)

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            By holding frame. And tell her thst her actions have consequences. You're not going to lower your standards for someone who thinks weaponizing their affections is acceptable. After you let her know this, just walk away and leave.

            If she loved you, she wouldn't treat you that way

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Love is a battlefield, which means it can harbor every emotion. Your GF is an immature dope.

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    She definitely meant it. She probably was angry when she said it but saying it is enough. I've been through similar thing and you probably have to break up with her.

    She said it because she knew it will hurt and confuse you. She wouldn't have said such a thing if she actually loved you, she wanted to see you hurt and she hurt you with the truth.

    When she cooled down she might have thought she didn't mean it so she was probably honest when she told you she didn't and "was just angry" but she was sincere when she said it.

    BEST CASE scenario is she does love you but she was willing to tell you she doesn't only to see you suffer. This means she'll keep doing things like this - confuse and hurt you on purpose.

    Maybe she's just confused. The fact that she said it is enough and it doesn't matter if she loves you or not. She wanted to see you hurt and she did.

    Break up with her if you wanna save yourself lots of heartache.

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    you are her safety net basically

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Ypu got a bpdemon, mibe started by saying she doesnt love me, then she broke up witb me but beg me to take her back and now she threaten to suicide when shes pissed. It's pretty usual, youre only at phase 1

  9. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If women say they don't love you, they mean it. A female family member of mine said it to her partner before and then cheated on him multiple times, which even now he still doesn't know. Saying "you're a c**t", "frick you", etc is fine in an argument, but who says "I do not love you" just as an off the cuff insult?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      People with bpd

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Not worth it.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Now I get why crazy pussy isnt worth it fml

  10. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    When dealing with emotions remember to add "I feel in this moment that" before. In your case, you should have interpreted it as "I feel in this moment that I don't love you anymore". This way you better understanding that the feeling is most likely fleeting. Just acknowledge that you received the message and understand, but don't make it an actual problem. Unless you did something stupid she'll come about

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