My girlfriend went on a big rant about how its evil to develop crushes on anyone when youre in a relationship.

My girlfriend went on a big rant about how it’s evil to develop crushes on anyone when you’re in a relationship. She said if I ever did, I'd be a horrible person, and she threatened to take all my stuff, sell it, and try to get me fired from jobs over old YouTube videos.

As someone who has developed small crushes on a friend or two (online friends that I haven’t seen the faces of that I knew before gf) but haven’t acted on any of them and never will, I feel terrible and sick to my stomach. I've had OCD episodes before where I've panicked about developing crushes and being a horrible boyfriend because of it. Should I break up with her? I’m feeling really bad right now. I literally just spent over $200 on a road trip idea for us and now I fear the whole thing is going to be uncomfortable now.

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    chill out, dude. you’re fine.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    she sounds like a crazy and dangerous woman. and you sound like a neurotic cuck.
    maybe you should get a nicer, less intense gf for yourself. but make sure to not trigger her crazy while you opt out of that relationship.

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    That's ridiculous. It is impossible to be attracted to one person and never find anyone else charming. I would find someone else who is more normal.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      She said she never thinks about anyone but me. She doesn’t have friends and is also an autist like me, but in different ways.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    take this situation to stop developing crushes on people, especially online people. There are billions of people worthy of love, but when you're in love with someone, you should stay focused on them.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I haven’t befriended any girls since being with my girlfriend. I just have old friends I still talk to and then I get really scared that I may have a crush on them since I tend to be super paranoid often and take my admiration of anyone’s kind gestures as attraction and I’ll feel horrible the entire day. I’m not actively trying to have anything or focus on anyone, I have bad intrusive thoughts.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        you sound incredibly depressed, insecure, and anxiety ridden. have you tried therapy?

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      You can’t really control getting a crush on someone, best you can do is not act on it.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Did you play games with those online friends? It's a bit weird to develop crushes never seeing their face, but makes sense if they have an avatar.
    >she threatened to take all my stuff, sell it, and try to get me fired from jobs over old YouTube videos.
    without even considering anything else, she is bad news and you should get out

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >My girlfriend threatened to completely ruin my life at the idea of me even thinking about somebody other than her. Should we break up?

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Simillar problem plus my gf gets insane when for example an ex says hi when she sees me in the street.She says that makes her really uncertain because she feel like she cant trust me because i greet my exes if i see them and that she cant take that pressure anymore,what should i do?

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    you should marry her.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Kinda sounds like he doesn't really have any other option. You only have so many days on this planet. Imagine you die and you find out that 75-80% of your waking hours were spent worrying about your woman or women in general. Sad!

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    She probably has a crush on someone else and is projecting it onto you. Like how cheaters will always act extremely paranoid because they assume they are also being cheated on.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      listen to:

      anon, the reason she is acting like that is because SHE has developed a crush and she feels so bad about denying herself it that she thinks she took a big gamble on you and that's why she's being uptight with you and projecting

      sad to say but if that's how she deals withher emotions you have to have a very serious talk withher outlining why what she said is crazy (anyone has crushes) and if she doesn't respond well to that it may be time to move on

      >Threatens to ruin your life over shit you can't control
      Dump that b***h immediately, only gonna get worse from here

      ultimately doesn't matter why anyway but it's probably a combination of these

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    anon, the reason she is acting like that is because SHE has developed a crush and she feels so bad about denying herself it that she thinks she took a big gamble on you and that's why she's being uptight with you and projecting

    sad to say but if that's how she deals withher emotions you have to have a very serious talk withher outlining why what she said is crazy (anyone has crushes) and if she doesn't respond well to that it may be time to move on

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Everyone develops crushes while in relationship, and I'm saying this as a femoid. It's just a matter of being responsible enough not to act on them. It's generally best to white lie about them, just pretend they never happen even if they do. You can complain and vent about it to your trusted friends but not girlfriend/wife. SOME people will be okay knowing their partner has a crush on someone else. MOST people won't. It's better to just not bring it up.
      Also,
      this anon is correct.

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Sounds like shes been cheated on by at least one bf. Some girls get incredibly insecure + controlling as a result. Ironically it makes them intolerable and makes cheating look like a fun way of getting back at them

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Threatens to ruin your life over shit you can't control
    Dump that b***h immediately, only gonna get worse from here

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