My girlfriend went on a work trip to another country and is staying there for 3 days.

My girlfriend went on a work trip to another country and is staying there for 3 days.
I'm anxious about being cheated on because I suffered the same fate when I was with my ex and she went to conventions to sell stuff.

How do I know if she cheated?

>she hasn't shaved in months, she didn't shave when she went there. Shes very self conscious about hair down there but in the last months she's been going through a depressive episode and stopped doing it.
>I secretly have her MacBook password and can check her photo album, is there anything I can check?
>she video calls me every day while in bed when she's about to go to sleep

What can I check to be sure that she didn't cheat or isn't cheating?

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    this is not how you have a healthy relationship anon

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I know, but my trauma gets the best of me during these situations. I'm trying to control it, and haven't checked anything from her (phones or MacBook) ever, but the urge is there.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        resist the urge and do nothing.

        if you trust her, which you should if youre in a relationship, then you should assume the best in this situation and assume she will be faithful to you.

        would you want her to be this untrusting towards you?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      resist the urge and do nothing.

      if you trust her, which you should if youre in a relationship, then you should assume the best in this situation and assume she will be faithful to you.

      would you want her to be this untrusting towards you?

      Lmao what a fricking cuck.
      Trust does not mean being a naive moron that gets blindsided by a random prostitute.
      >b-b-b-but muh feefees and my perception of love raised on instagram reels
      Yeah ok bro. Don't forget to prep the bull next time.

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    3 days isn't very long anon
    I mean I'm not a woman but I'm a good looking social guy and I would probably struggle to get sex within 3 days if you air dropped me into the middle of a foreign country unless I was spending all day and all night trying to get sex, which presumably she is going to be working a lot or hanging out with coworkers.
    Maybe it's really that easy for a woman to pop up in a completely strange place and get sex within a matter of hours but frick I'm not ready for that blackpill

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Maybe it's really that easy for a woman to pop up in a completely strange place and get sex within a matter of hours
      lol moron.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Maybe it's really that easy for a woman to get sex
      They literally could ask the first male they see in the streets if he is down to frick. 8 out of 10 times the answer would be yes.

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Hey anon, what country she going to? I'll take good care of her.

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If you have the macbook password, you can look her position up on "Find My" and crosscheck if she is where she says she is. Not necessarily an indicator though, several times I told my bf I was in class when I was actually buying some fastfood lol didnt want him to think im greedy for food

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      which country did she go to btw? You said work trip, what kind of work trip? Like, having to go to HQ of the company or is it like a presentation, meeting with business client etc

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        She went to the HQ of the company and they are having Workshops and meetings with all the sales people.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Ok, sounds not too bad. If there will be any cheating, it's not going to be a random guy but someone she works with there, so just keep up the daily texting, maybe ask her what she did that day in the videocall.
          You're still her bf, so be loving and supportive, and try to let your mind ease off.

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >How do I know if she cheated?
    You can't.
    Have her continue being loving when she's around you. If she stops being loving, dump her.

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I cheat on my wife with our next door neighbor
    it's not the distance

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Women... unsupervised... on a trip abroad. Just fricking brilliant.
    Reading threads such as these reminds me that I don't appreciate the social mores of my native third-world homeland nearly enough, and that I should not take them for granted.

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >She FaceTime you at bedtime
    That right there should be more than enough to mellow you out bro.
    Think about it, like really think about your ex.
    >Probably didn't do this
    >Current loving girlfriend DID do this

    My guy she probably misses your warmth just as much as you do. Don't fumble this and self destruct, otherwise you let your ex win and even IF she wanted to cheat on you then it would've already happened and NOTHING you do right this second would have changed ANY of this HYPOTHETICAL.

    I cannot stress this enough anon, I know your pain but I got over it by accepting that if shit happens then it happens and you gotta accept that you'll feel better if you do. I obviously don't know you or your woman but sounds like you got nothing to worry about and this is just past trauma trying to sabotage yourself.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      When my ex did it, I noticed it because she suddenly shaved her pussy when she was at the convention, despite not shaving for ages.

      I asked her and she said that she wanted to be comfortable, which was a weird thing. Every time she went (it was a regular thing) she would shave herself and even started waxing.
      I got suspicious and one night I grabbed her phone and saw a message from a guy saying that he missed her.
      opened the phone and saw sexting, nudes etc. etc.

      It totally destroyed me because we were together for 5 years at that point. I actually stayed with her 4 more years until I realized that the lack of trust was ruining me mentality.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >bro just chill and accept it if your gf gets rawdogged on her trip
      kek what the frick is wrong with millennials and zoomers?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Just let her
        homie I'm saying you can't do shit if she's thousands of miles away. If she wanted to cheat, she's going to cheat and no amount of your dumbass simpery would change that in this fake situation.

        Learn some stoicism you homosexual and understand some things are beyond YOUR control.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Learn some stoicism you homosexual
          I must have missed the part of Meditations where it says 'just sit back and let yourself be cucked'.

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    That attitude will drive her to cheat.

    Paranoia will annoy her

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Calm down, you are fine and there's no reason to be paranoid about anything. If your girlfriend cheats: she has a wonderful time getting a galvanized sexual experience. There's nothing scary about that so it's completely irrational to get hysterical about it. And if you are upset about it then check yourself into a mental health ward and get a prescription for anti-psychotics because that's not a normal reaction.

    You have lived a very charmed and privileged life and if getting cheated on was the worst thing that you've ever had to endure then your father failed to instill a good frame of reference for pain and suffering or a sense of resIlience in you. You will never understand what real pain and suffering is like unless you get sepsis

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