>new girlfriend wants to stay over the weekend

>new girlfriend wants to stay over the weekend
>I say yes but I'll be gaming for a few hours with friends on Friday night, she says she's ok with this
>come Friday, I game about 3.5 hours with my friends while she makes food
>we eat dinner and watch a movie and have what I consider a good time
>movie ends, we consider watching something else when she goes "you didn't even acknowledge me when you were gaming, like I was a cat or something"
>get into argument regarding social boundaries and it sours the mood so we end up not watching anything

This is a red flag, right?

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yes. She's a c**t.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      bump

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Nah not necessarily. 3.5 hours is a long time for a girl to wait without feeling acknowledged. Plus she was cooking for you anon that's good. And she's saying what the problem is clearly. Just like take a couple of 10 minute breaks next time

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Yes, the red flag was you ignoring her to game with your friends while you had company. You just gave her a glimpse into what life with you would be like long-term and she's rightfully annoyed that you'd prioritize vidya over bonding with and fricking her.

      [...]
      she came to OP's house to cook him dinner. that doesn't exactly scream selfish to me.

      Based. Should've at least let her play some vidya, even if it's for a little bit.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I call video games the napkin because it dries out a woman's pussy

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yes, the red flag was you ignoring her to game with your friends while you had company. You just gave her a glimpse into what life with you would be like long-term and she's rightfully annoyed that you'd prioritize vidya over bonding with and fricking her.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      imagine being a woman, 3.5 hours out of an entire weekend and you can't shut the frick up long enough to let your man enjoy himself before you steal two days from him? smdh relationships are moronic

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        yes, 3.5 hours is a rudely long amount of time to have company over while you are finishing other tasks! its insane this even needs to be explained. that's like a dictator or mob boss power move

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          She invited herself over. If someone says they're busy with pre-made plans and you come into their space anyway, then you get mad that they were indeed busy, that's a you problem.

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    she came to OP's house to cook him dinner. that doesn't exactly scream selfish to me.

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >she says she's ok with this
    frickin kek anon, how old are you?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >This is a red flag, right?
      She just sounds a little immature, which isn't a red flag. You just need to break her into your routine better and make sure she feels loved.

      There's nothing inherently childish with making sure your potential partner-for-life is on the same page as you, even on small things.

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Idk if it's just me but I don't understand why would you even want to play vidya for 3,5hrs when your girlfriend is coming to stay over. Unless it's like a scheduled match/event or something. Did you acknowledge her at all during the 3,5hrs? I mean yeah, she said it was okay but since she was cooking and all, it would be nice to at least have a few small breaks to communicate with her during that time. Especially when you're a recent couple.

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yes, it’s a red flag. The red flag being you. You had a new girlfriend at your place and you played games for 3.5 fricking hours? I’m surprised she didn’t break up with you to be honest. If you want game time don’t fricking invite her over just to then ignore her - what a dumbass

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      totally agree. muh gaming with muh friends. Next time she will know not to come.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Pretty much this.
      If you'd be living together, sure, 3.5 hours of gametime is fine since she's living there and has her own shit.
      But she came over for you - she was basically a guest, and you had the manners of a fricking chimp.
      At least she can speak her mind about what bothers her, but 3.5 hours of not even acknowledging a guest that came over for you? You're the c**t OP.

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >let gf know you will be doing thing in advance
    >do the thing as you said you would
    >3.5 hours, not long at all
    You're moronic if you think OP did something wrong here

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      OP could've said something like
      >Wow it smells really nice in the kitchen, GF!
      Or give a small update about his game or make a remark about looking forward to spending more active time with gf later. Or he even could've stretched for a bit midway and have walked over to the kitchen to hug and kiss gf. But the talking could've been done from behind the pc even. When my bf is gaming he occasionally tells me something about the game or just tells me he likes me or sometimes comes and headpats me.

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    She should fricking know that’s how shit goes with playing video games.

    Women are so fricking stupid I hate them

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I hope she breaks up with you for this so you learn a lesson. Imagine you go over to your girlfriend’s place and she tells you to cook and not talk to her while she has a 3.5 hour zoom call with her friend

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    young men are worthless

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Women can't just turn off, that is the price of a woman jackass, they demand constant attention and you have to lower yourself for that pussy, either make peace with the fact or continue coping online.
    Your fault for finding the standard female specimen and complaining that it behaves like a standard female specimen.
    Find a dork chick that plays vidya like you, even then that is another can of worms and you are clearly inexperienced with how mentally ill 99% of the human population is.

  13. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Its a red flag that you told her you would do something and she got mad that you did it anyway, but you shouldn't have done it in the first place. Could you have not played the game before she came over? It would be annoying if your friend did that let alone your boyfriend. On the contrast though she did agree to it. Basically shes a moron for agreeing to it and getting mad when you did it, and you're dumb for doing it in the first place.

  14. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You explicitly told her you'd be gaming with friends beforehand, and she got upset that you were busy, doing the thing you warned her you would be doing.

    I don't know what transpired in the argument but if she understands you need time for your hobbies and she's still not willing to allow you time to do the things you want to do then yes, it's a red flag. You probably could have gotten up for a few minutes to see what she's up to every hour or so, but hey... you warned her.

  15. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's not even a girl thing, if my brother came in the room when I played games I'd acknowledge and prioritise talking to him while playing, you done fricked up
    You're actually in the room with this person, not in some fairy tale land whenever you're on a computer

  16. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >>I say yes but I'll be gaming for a few hours with friends on Friday night, she says she's ok with this

    she knew what she was walking into.

    She could be dating me, non gaymer, normal human, but thats what she gets. Her choice, her loss.

    YOu did good op.

    If there was no warning from you before, then it would be shitty.
    But its not bad idea to let her know shes valued at least once in 3 hours.
    Women will often say shit like "okay with it" then not be okay with it. Dont trust them. Small act of kindness goes a long way with them kids.

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