Newly single 35 yr old male here, how terrible is dating in your 30s? I'm scared

Newly single 35 yr old male here, how terrible is dating in your 30s? I'm scared

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  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I hope you like single moms.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      let's be honest here. how many of you look like this, but then say you deserve better than getting a single mom. I never hear chad lites crying about getting used roasties

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Naught meh bruh.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Definitely not a chud phenotype, you can relax. However, you do look like a redditor soijack. Loose some weight and you got chadlite potential.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Somebody that ugly DOES deserve better than a single mother.
        A single woman whose vag has puked out a human skull and human eyes and a human torso has absolutely no ground to act like she has sexual value. The ugliest man is at least 1% higher than her on the food chain.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >then say you deserve better than getting a single mom.
        Being a virgin was the minimum requirement for women to get a man up until 50-60 years ago. So yeah even ugly men deserve the bare minimum.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      every wonder why /misc/ can simultaneously believe both this and that the majority of millenial women are childless? they are literally mutually exclusive

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        not necessarily if the childless ones arent on the dating market

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          why would deliberately childless women be married? you can just cohabitate

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >why would deliberately childless women be married?
            economic incentives both during marriage and after marriage

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >the majority of millenial women are childless
        You mean the uggos?

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    if you don't want to date in your 30s, date in youer 20s like a normal person
    don't waste your youth partying and having one night stands

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      What fun is that? Btw I'm probably nailing your grandma

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I was in relationships all my 20s

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        https://i.imgur.com/AGbNEZq.jpeg

        Newly single 35 yr old male here, how terrible is dating in your 30s? I'm scared

        How long was the last relationship and why did it end?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >don't waste your youth partying and having one night stands
      I'm a virgin at 30,
      no, I dont live with my parents
      yes, I do have a job
      no, I am not fat
      If I had to point out a personal flaw? I'm horrible at casual conversations, especially text based like on the dating apps
      but luckily that's never come up since I've been on the apps for 4 months with 1 match, which turned out to be a bot to advertise an onlyfans
      this is life in a town of 10k~
      my grandparents are also upset that I don't have kids and have passively mentioned that if they die before I have them they will donate their money to a charity that helps children

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        thx 4 info

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          no need to thank me, I do it for free

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Little young for me try dating as a widower. Line up goes around the block and you hand out numbers for service if your junk still works and fit.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Men are widowers anon, that's gay you know.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Women love widowers

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Women love widowers

      This. It's like women can sense when a man's had his heart destroyed by the memory of another woman. It's almost a form of social proof.

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Depends on several factors, but the quality of what you'll find will be quite reduced.

    American women have completely failed.

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Excuse me. I'm 30 and I still get carded while buying booze (pic rel is me). Sucks to suck losers.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      kek, how?
      I've never been asked for ID. Ever. And I've been an alcoholic since the age of 15.

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Chad English phenotype. The pinnacle of European success.

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    The world needs good priests

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Go to church, volunteer, you can easily get like a 22 year old cutie.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      i volunteer at church. more young men in church than young women but churches have nothing to say to young people... love homosexuals... hate marriage... pay tithes...

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Then you go to an awful church, what are you Lutheran?

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >i volunteer at church. more young men in church than young women
        I think you may be at an odd church then, because in most cases there are vastly more women than men.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          independent fundamentalist. but most independent fundamentalists here use the nkjv or niv and the only kjv church around went to the purple ribbon protest against domestic violence because i guess the pastors wife henpecked him

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      i volunteer at church. more young men in church than young women but churches have nothing to say to young people... love homosexuals... hate marriage... pay tithes...

      this

      frick going to ((church*~~

  9. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    i have developed a gilf fetish. shoutout darcy from momPOV

  10. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Your not ugly if thats your question anon. The dating market is shit for normal and above normal looks.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      The bar has been raised. I’m 6ft, light eyes, and am white (not blonde) and my chin isn’t receding. Dating sucks even more now because you’re not supposed to have even the slightest recede or thinning in your hair, no tired eyes, and must have no labial folds near your nose.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Dont get down over that. Women are too picky its their problem. Just find someone whos compatible if that's your goal.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I just don’t want to be with single moms who got dicked by everyone or settle for Asians or latinas. Yes, there are beautiful women of all races, even blacks, but we all know it’s considered a downgrade in the white community to mix with them. You will be seen as that guy who wasn’t good enough like a runt of a litter.

          >bring home a fricked up fatty or a non-white girl
          >”whatever makes you happy son.”

          >bring home a beautiful blonde or brunette European girl
          >proud of you son. You bagged a good one!

          I just want to make my family proud and to have my mother stop being so stressed. She wanted to be a grandmother. I don’t want her to cry. I want to see her smile. That’s all I want anon. To make my family proud and not stressed over me.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            No one is saying to racemix, create your own amish catholic community and have 10 children with a wife. Thats as good as it gets.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >amish catholic community
            no that means I have to give up my porn, weed, and vidya!!! NOOOOO. call me tradcuck, but I never hear any cry about finding a woman

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You can do it. Dont contribute towards under replacement rate. Have 3-5 kids per family. Minimum.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Having 2 children with a woman doesnt matter youd might as well be celibate. Fricking Africans are outbreeding everyone same with east India.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >must have no labial folds near your nose.
        Wait what the frick? What about when you smile?

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          The new standard for white men thanks to media is to either look like a TikTok prettyboy model with incredibly sharp features, pristine skin, and hair that covers your forehead without being bothered by a gust of wind or look like a bearded steroid-using combat veteran wearing Oakleys, under armor, and own an expensive off-road vehicle just to impress a basic b***h holding a cup of pumpkin spice coffee.

          Dating went to absolute shit once 2020 hit. The easiest was probably during the dub.step era.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >TikTok prettyboy model with incredibly sharp features, pristine skin, and hair that covers your forehead without being bothered by a gust of wind
            Teen pop star archetype was popular long before I existed. That's not new.
            >or look like a bearded steroid-using combat veteran wearing Oakleys, under armor, and own an expensive off-road vehicle
            That's not new either. That signals that he's a big spender.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      How do you know if you're ugly?

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Your not thats all that matters dude. Your not a downie or have facial deformities.

  11. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    He looks like 45.

  12. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Seems bretty easy. Haven't tried though even though, all women seem like cannibals and i'm afraid they'll eat me.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Go to Catholic church if you havent done so and attend latin mass.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      i volunteer at church. more young men in church than young women but churches have nothing to say to young people... love homosexuals... hate marriage... pay tithes...

      Latin Mass. look up fssp parishes near you

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Or byzantine rite. Or non cucked Art shit/ edgy art shit where women aren't moronic

  13. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm 36 and I'm a fat smoker who only quit drinking and started exercising with regularity a year ago. I look younger.

  14. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Its abysmal. Single moms, tattoos everywhere, vaxxed, birth control damage, fatsos. Many women are also mentally broken by the 'need to date up' relative to their career, which men dont care about. They are very hard to please.

    This isnt a women hate comment because modern men are just as broken by porn, low T, lack of male role models, lack of faith and economic destitution.

  15. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You’re a Roast Wrangler now my friend. Have fun with it. Your dating pool consists of worn out Roasts that couldn’t stop roasting long enough to attract a suitable mate. The meat curtains will be flappy, the pelt will be loose as the smell of old sweaty unshewn mitt fills the air

  16. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    it’s sad when some men don’t realize they are around the 2 or 3 range. Even sadder when it’s a woman

  17. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    He already looks like he molests his teenage stepdaughter.

  18. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    that dude is in his 40s at least

  19. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Looks like ted cruise missile and matt gaytz had a babby

  20. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Be ugly and boring
    >Why don't women like me

  21. 2 weeks ago
    CHRIST AND HITLER 1 VS ALL FOUGHT SATAN

    FIGHT SATAN
    QUIT BEING SCARED

  22. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Try not to look like you hit on girls as a youth pastor.

  23. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Its a shit show.

    1. Women in their 20s are busy getting run through.

    2. Women in their 30s are ran through single moms.

    3. Women in their 40s are narcissistic control freaks who are married to their careers.

    4. Women in their 50s divorced their husbands because they were bored.

    5. Women in their 60s are sad cat ladies.

    6. 70s and above wtf why would you even consider them?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I hope to god its just an American/western problem. Doesn't matter, I've already come to terms with living alone and dying alone. American white women is the only women in my area and they are disgusting. My choice is drugged out meth head, trailer trash with a dozen kids aka white Black folk, complete sociopath's looking for a foot stool to divorce later etc. No marriage material. Pussy is easy to get these days but even that disgusts me. I don't want or need prostitutes. I want a wife.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        its a global problem, anon. the west exports it's cultural degeneracy worldwide. hence why fertility is falling in all nations of the anglosphere

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I noticed it’s really bad for Germans. I heard of you’re not conventionally attractive in Sweden you’re fricked.

          What are the expectations per country? Every country, western or eastern has different standards. For example, in Asia they like girly men. Russians want men with money. What about Ireland? What about Spain?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >spain
            Worst country in europe when it comes to dating. More feminist than sweden. You’ve been warned.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >pick between art hoes down south or the pickiest women on earth up north
            God help us

            What about Italian women? Irish women? Dutch women? French?

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >I don't want or need prostitutes. I want a wife
        this

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Date teens and when the mob comes for you, draw and fire before they get into striking distance. Dont stop until the mag is empty.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        They don’t find older men attractive though. They want the TikTok guys.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Who said they will have a choice?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            What are you implying?

  24. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It doesn’t seem like he has a six pack abs or a six inch inch dick.

  25. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I got a 22 year old gf at your age. Im turning 40 this month and shes still living with me and sucking my dick. Zoomies like older men because zoomies themselves are homosexuals and druggies. If you try to date our peers though you're going to have a bad time.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Zoomies like older men because zoomies themselves are homosexuals and druggies
      That druggie part is a serious problem. They give up on everything and I wouldn't be surprised if that's the reason why NEET is glorified these days.

  26. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    36 and never had a gf. Single mums always want to date me because I'm a good-looking rooster and successful, but I have aspergers. slept with loads of women, close to the 200 mark, I always am hoping it'd lead to more, but they always ditch after a weekend with me. they just want me for my looks

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      How tall r u

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        180cm

  27. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    For guys that want serious relationships its shit
    For guys who just womanize and manipulate its fine

  28. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >few matches
    better than most

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I have never used a dating app in my entire life. I at least can have that much dignity

  29. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm Chad so I frick zoomerettes

  30. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Not bad, not good
    You start getting more cache and value than you had in your 20s. Women are starting to panic at this age as they realize their value is going down. That's actually true. You still probably look normal and not "old" yet, although your mileage (and hairline) may vary.

    Dating much younger is still doable. Despite the recent "age gaps are bad" meme, women being interested in somewhat older men is very normal.
    The downside is dating in your own age range is fricking horrible. Used up bitter, cynical women with tattoos and cloying ingratiating desperate single mothers (who often don't let you know about their kid until you've talked enough you have to ghost them in a mean way) as far as the eye can see. And some bitter, cynical single mothers with tattoos too.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Is there even hope to dating a younger women as a man in his 30s with some signs of age such as not the best (not the worst either) hair and not having pristine teenage skin? I look young but I look tired if that makes any sense. I’m also not fat.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Yes
        You either have to find a girl with slight 'daddy issues' (very common) or just find one who for whatever reason doesn't care or is attracted to older men. Age doesn't hurt men as much as it hurts women, aside from balding.

        If you're not limiting yourself to white women, and especially if you're willing to passport bro it up, men in their 30s and 40s are what women are specifically seeking out. (Stability, status, money.) But obviously avoid obvious gold diggers who are being completely pragmatic and transactional.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I don’t want to mix with Asians and brown people.

  31. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    ayyy bro! I am newly separated and 36! I am just gonna give up. forget about dating. just do prostitutes. dating aint worth it! was in a relationship for 7 years before this. frick it!

    woooooo, im actually happy

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This guy has the right idea but youre also at the age where you should have kids, or should have had kids.. idk if it's possible to do both and have that still somehow workout as being healthy for your kids but Im sure it's manageable, somehow, probably not in the current year though

      If I were you I'd go run through a bunch of hoes in Eastern Europe and then pick like a 20yr old one and start having kids..

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        i dont have kids. me and my fiance at the time got married with the idea to have kids ASAP but then it turns out she dislikes me and so she moved out.. ive given up on kids and a normal life etc.

        gonna just get prostitutes and die alone prob. w.e.

        eastern europe where? has to be a really poor place. even eastern european b***hes are snooty now

    • 2 weeks ago
      Cheswick

      7 years and no kids? Why bother being in a relationship

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        idk. no good influences growing up, no wisdom. very naive. i was "in love" with her and felt a trauma bond with her. i fricked up what can i say. bad decisions. loser shit

        • 2 weeks ago
          Cheswick

          Did you not frick raw? Are you sterile?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            she decided she didnt wanna have kids with me until we figured out mental issues.

  32. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >tfw you look like one of the mask people from that twilight zone episode
    ZAMN homie, i cant imagine why you get no b***hes...

  33. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Relationships don't fail. Women fail.

  34. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Holy shit he makes 30 look so bad. I'm handsome in my 30s, mfs are handsome in their 60s, ugly is just ugly. I can get 23 year old girls still ez

  35. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >run across that there minefield. on the other side is a single mother with a goblin kid.
    and go.

  36. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If you have money then very easy, if you don't then you are fricked

  37. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Pretty bad. You’re not allowed to date anybody younger or (You) or it’s pedophilia now, so I hope enjoy (A) staying single, (B) buxxing roasties, (C) firing into mobs, or (D) letting the crowd beat you to death.

  38. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If you are somewhat good looking it isn't that bad. I was scared of dating in my 30s and found it to be pretty easy. It's a shame I'd rather be on my computer though.

  39. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Just hit 21 and still a virgin and my choices are not good here in America. They are all obese prostitute single mothers or prostitute single mothers and I frankly can’t imagine a life with any of them. I have a plus size coworker who not kidding had a black baby and she throws these stupid unsubtle hints like he’s going to need a daddy as if she was flirting. Anyone my older sister is thin pretty and pleasant we get along well and I was thinking of asking her out on a romantic date. How do I do this and get her to say yes or at least without her freaking out and telling our parents? Thanks

  40. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    This homie looks 20 years older than me and in older than he is.

    TF are they doing to cattle these days?

  41. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    go for zoomettes and youll be alright, thats what i do

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      How??
      They don't match me on tinder.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        lie, always lie about every aspect of your life; the thing is it works for me because im fit and have a nice car, but in reality i am a neet who doesnt have much to offer. bonus points if the girl has daddy issues (most of them have).

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          How old are you and how are you a NEET in Mexico

  42. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >30
    nah bro

  43. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It’s pretty bad in Muttland.

    I’m a little older than that, have a house etc. I can only match with divorced and leftover roasties my age that can’t give me healthy babies that I want nothing to with. Tinder zoomie b***hes filter out old men so you never match with them; or it’s extremely rare.

    I even tried the Christian and Mormon route and tried to meet ‘trad’ religious girls, but they don’t want older men either. They don’t even want to settle down with a husband who can take care of them unless it’s a 6’ 4” chad their age or whatever. This country is beyond redeeming. The israelites fricked it beyond repair.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Cheswick

      Why should a 20 year old be with you it not just women its men's sperm that mutates after 25. Unless you frick when your in your prime your having a autistic loser.
      A 30 year old man is way to old for a 20 year old

  44. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    that guy was never attractive at any age

  45. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    33. Dating 5 women at once currently. Youngest is 26 oldest is a 45 milf, and 3 are around my age. The 45 year old is the only one with kids. That's not what you have to watch out for. What you DO have to watch out for is the unending tide of mind broken women who are so desperate to settle down and have a kid it gets cringe sometimes. Now I know how they felt when I was in my early 20's spilling my spaghetti. The tables have definitely turned.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >45 y/o milf

      Disgusting

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        She's actually one of the hottest out of the bunch. Fantastic breasts, and no drama cause its pure casual. Sorry, what's the problem again?

  46. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Why did you get single? The next girl that you date (if you ever get to date again) you better put a ring on that shit immediately and lock it down.

  47. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If you don't have the charisma to woo high school girls and the apathy to ignore all the glares from bitter prostitutes and jealous old dudes, then just do yourself a favor and become a monk. No this is not hyperbole. Dating a woman within your socially acceptable age range is a waste of time: she either has bastard kids or has piss stained cats.

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