On a scale from 1-10, how angry would a woman get if you lied about being a virgin?

On a scale from 1-10, how angry would a woman get if you lied about being a virgin?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Depends on how spastic she is about absolute honesty and the amount of trust issues she has. Doubt a normal one would be more than 3/10 mad, unless your performance was abhorent.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    0, don't give a shit.
    Gonna be a fricking 8 if she invents some made up story to say that she's "not like that anymore" tho.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I'm going to answer strictly about voluntary non-virginity. Being raped is horrible and obviously doesn't reflect on a woman's character. I might be slightly annoyed that she doesn't trust me to understand, and I would be wary that she's willing to lie to make herself look good under any circumstances, but her virginity itself isn't my concern there. It wouldn't get in the way of an otherwise good relationship.

      With that in mind, my reaction would depend on when/how I found out the truth. It could be anywhere from a 1, not caring at all, to a 10. It's much worse if I find out the deception on my own rather than her coming clean. And it's also much worse if she plays along and only tells me after we marry. In any case, though, I'd end the relationship. I'm waiting until marriage, and it's non-negotiable that she does the same. If she willingly chose to have sex outside of marriage, then she clearly doesn't share my values.

      My reasoning is in the next post.

      Man, /adv/ really struggles with reading.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Thanks for saving me the energy on typing out an explanation.
        Almost all of the threads we get on this subject are about the other way around, so I jumped the gun. I'm guessing the other anons did, too.

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Maybe 1?
    So long as you're physically demonstrating attraction to me and you're showing appreciation for the attraction you get back, we good.
    But if you're lying to me because you aren't actually attracted to me and just wanted to waste my time, I'd tell you to get the frick out, 6/10.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    theres no reason to lie, if youre with someone who would give a frick theyre not worth it, and if you dont want a relationship just get a hooker

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >if you dont want a relationship just get a hooker

      More men would if women weren't price gouging

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        poorgay

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          ¯_(ツ)_/¯
          Not my problem that men use women for sex

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'm going to answer strictly about voluntary non-virginity. Being raped is horrible and obviously doesn't reflect on a woman's character. I might be slightly annoyed that she doesn't trust me to understand, and I would be wary that she's willing to lie to make herself look good under any circumstances, but her virginity itself isn't my concern there. It wouldn't get in the way of an otherwise good relationship.

    With that in mind, my reaction would depend on when/how I found out the truth. It could be anywhere from a 1, not caring at all, to a 10. It's much worse if I find out the deception on my own rather than her coming clean. And it's also much worse if she plays along and only tells me after we marry. In any case, though, I'd end the relationship. I'm waiting until marriage, and it's non-negotiable that she does the same. If she willingly chose to have sex outside of marriage, then she clearly doesn't share my values.

    My reasoning is in the next post.

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Anyone worth getting to know and being with is not going to care if you're a virgin, unless they have some kink about that shit.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      There is really nothing wrong with wanting a sweet, innocent boy and not a manprostitute

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        i am neither sweet nor innocent, i lost my virginity at 28

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      There's plenty of reason to care besides having a fetish, which is a tiny proportion of the population, and those who do have a fetish typically won't give a shit about what they see as a fling. It's an opportunity that didn't pan out to them, that's all.
      Plenty of people would be disturbed not by the truth but by the fact that he lied at all. Others are looking for someone with shared values, and how he answers could give the wrong impression in either direction (that he's either too 'prudish' or too loose).

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        The lying part in and of itself is the worst part of it, absolutely. The being a virgin part does not matter at all to me and I couldn't fathom being upset over someone being a virgin, or not being one, or even having a high body count, but that's me. lol

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Just seems like a "logical" defensive lie instead of a malicious attempt to mislead given how most do have apprehensions if someone is a virgin in their mid twenties or so. Kinda like not telling your parents are alcoholics, so you don't get pre-judged as one.

          I guess you could argue that it's also bad they didn't trust you enough but that question usually comes up before people know eachother too well.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >I am utterly incapable of understanding the thoughts of others
          I know, brain damage-kun. I know.

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Probably mad I’m guessing which is why I’m not gonna lie and say yes if I ever get asked that while still being a virgin.

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I wouldn't get angry, I'd just be disappointed she chose to lie, and thus not trust her word. I'd understand there may be the inclination to suggest otherwise in cases of rape, but a simple 'no' suffices. I dislike the lying leaps and bounds more than worrying about a hymen that'll get broken anyway.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      she´s been lying about it her whole life, get on her level

      learn into reading comprehension please

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    she´s been lying about it her whole life, get on her level

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Depends on the woman. Some care some wont.
    In general people dont appreciate lies though. No matter how small or inconsequential. So probably she wouldn't be too pleased. And id say less likely shed be mad as much as itd make you look like a b***h for bejng insecure about something to the point of lying. Thats almost worse.

    Please note: not mentioning it is very different from lying. You care more about your being a virgin than anyone else does. Guarantee.

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    1, I'd tell her it's a silly thing to lie about and I don't care about her past bedroom experience unless it's important for me to know due to breach of confidence and/or present unresolved trauma, the only thing I care about when we're together is the here and now, enjoying the moment and seeing where it leads, if it leads somewhere that is.

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    How would they ever find out you lied? It's not like you have any exes who can confirm you aren't really a virgin.
    It's always best to lie to women about it because they just fundamentally can't bear the idea of being with a virgin guy beyond the age of like 16.

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    2, I guess? I would've said 0, but I'd be annoyed (and also just kinda baffled) by the fact that she lied to me about it.

    I don't care about virginity at all. If anything, it would be a red flag for a straight woman around my age to still be a virgin.

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Less mad as much as just creeped out that you would lie, generally. You *are* a liar. It doesn't really matter much what the lie is about, it just kind of damages trust. If you would lie about something so minor, who's to say you wouldn't lie about something that was actually a big deal? If your answer is something like, "I thought you wouldn't frick me if I told the truth," you should expect them to feel quite a bit angry, actually

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    6, I would be pretty sad you weren't a virgin but I can understand why you're lying. If you were a gigabawd (5+ partners) I'd just break things off immediately.

  16. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i lied through my teeth but came clean about it. it's about how you frame it though:

    >i thought you weren't gonna frick me!
    bzzzt wrong answer

    >i thought you wouldn't like me if i weren't experienced
    decent answer

    >i was embarrassed and insecure, i shouldn't have done it
    good answer

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >admitting insecurity to a woman

      how is this a good answer?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        women like a little bit of vulnerability in men, just a little spoonful

        just don't keep going back to it or bringing it up

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >women like a little bit of vulnerability in men, just a little spoonful
          Not when it involves virginity

  17. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >tfw 34yo khv
    It's so over for me

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