>Parents marriage ruined absolutely any desire you may have had to ever get married

>Parents marriage ruined absolutely any desire you may have had to ever get married
Anyone else relate to this?
The only way i can see myself ever getting married if it's to my ideal wife but she probably doesn't exist in this world.
I'd rather never get married at all compared to getting married and then divorcing.
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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I wanna get married specifically BECAUSE my parents marriage wasn't great
    I saw the ways in which my dad was an butthole and didn't really care that much and I want to be better than him, I want to treat my family better than he treated his
    Rise above
    Generational improvement is how we approach a better society

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This rarely works, usually you just repeat all the trauma. Truth is, very little is under your control. Your kid may have shit health. Your partner may leave you. Thinking that you have control on how everything turns out is pure delusion.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        But they seem pretty aware about it?
        Self awareness is the main thing people who repeat mistakes seem to lack.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          They are likely unaware of trauma they should be focusing on. Even when aware and trying to do it differently overcompensation can be just as bad or worse.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Why are you so desperate to demotivate the guy?
            You're either truly broken or have insidious designs.
            Trying is better than doing nothing.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I dont want to demotivate. I want him to do it right if he does try rather than overcompensating and making it worse. Analogy:
            >his dad smokes
            >tells him its okay to smoke
            >he smokes a couple darts a day and eventually has kids
            >knows its bad and makes cigarettes out to be the devil, even one first smoke makes you a rabid addict covered in tumors
            >kid eventually gets curious and tries anyway
            >doesnt immediately become addicted or festered with tumors
            >starts smoking a pack a day and distrusting dad as a liar

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Even so, I know that a lot of my parents marriage failing was his fault, and as long as I am a better husband and father than he was, even if it doesn't work out, I will consider it a life well lived

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Same except not troony.

      Used to think like this and did my part just to realise not only is no (particularly) woman going to, but if they see that you are they feel like they can slack off even more. A healthy arrangement needs both parties trying and very few marriages end up like this. Just bachelormaxx and live for yourself op

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You can be the most strong caring loving husband and father ever, and you wife would still cheat on you with a Black person.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        There are evil people in this world but there are also good people.
        Don't let the evil taint your eyes.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Possibility does not outweigh probability. Yeah there are good people out there, but where tf are they? Most people wont meet a single morally solid person in their lives.

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's not the worst but I still internally said to myself "Man I am never having a wife or kids" when saw my own family and like I said we are not even that bad.

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I sometimes wonder why my parents don't get divorced already. then I remember the economy is fricked sideways and they'd both die if they were on their own.
    one moment they act as if they loved each other, the next they're yelling at each other for half an hour.
    worst thing is, I know that if I use the insanity that is my mother as a means to filter out crazy women, I might just kill myself now. because all women are, at the very least, as insane as my mom

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    My parents divorced ruined me and I was like 6 years old. All I remember thinking was my life is over and Ill never be normal again. Then when my parents got remarried all I could think about is how I have to spend the rest of my life with some moronic step parent who I absolutely hate. I hated my step dad and still do. Like the very first time I met him he was so friendly and I liked him a lot. Literally every time after that hes just a cold ruthless butthole with no emotions like he never acknowledges anything you say or find anything you say funny, insightful or interesting. I noticed now thats how he acts around anyone. Like the very first time you meet him hes the nicest friendliest person you can meet but if you get to know him hes going to have an outburst towards you like a complete narcissist. Hes also moronic too like 60 iq moronic.

    Hes the type of person that goes to the grocery store and looks everyone in the eye. Tries to start conversations with people just walking bye and says hi to everyone. Like creepyly overfriendly shit like staright autism moronic shit. Hes definitely over compensating for the fact he knows hes hated by me.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Tbh sounds more like he cant navigate through your autism specifically. The normie response to sperg generally is to just pretend they didnt hear you. Have you looked at yourself and thought about your behaviors?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Is this what you say to every robot
        >Its your fault
        >look at yourself blah blah blah
        Heres your (you). I know youre just trying to get reactions out of people.

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If the perfect woman confessed her eternal love to me I'm not sure even then what purpose marriage would serve

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I would like to get married but because of blackpill I know its not going to go well. Because I am average in looks and women will never truly love me and will only use me for betabux and fight with me for no reason and then divorce.

    Only way around this is to pick a very ugly woman as a wife but then my kids will be ugly too so it will be an hypergamous relationship and they will suffer.

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    my mentally ill bipolar mother removed all desire of having a relationship or partner

  8. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Definitely can relate. My parents constantly fought in front of me (verbally and physically) from ages 0-6. they divorced when I turned 7, but still continued their bullshit for the next decade. Visitation battles and basically anything else you can imagine. They stopped being bitter oldgays 6 years ago when I turned 18, but by that point it was already too late. Now they think im homosex because theyve never seen me with a girl. Gee I wonder why. Gen x is so fricking moronic.

  9. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    seeing other peoples marriages, i dont want to get one myself
    even with an "ideal wife"
    its just not a good deal anymore

  10. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    My parents, and a handful of the other parents I saw growing up, were stuck in loveless marriages that reduced them to bitter and unstable roommates. It raised my standards in the sense that I'm only interested in someone who I'm truly compatible with.

  11. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yeah same. My parent are the only reason I ended up /here/ of all places.
    At least I'm not craving for pussy as much as most incels do, because
    >t.male virgin who also has no interest in sex without marriage

  12. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Completely relatable anon. My parents have a shitty marriage, and I am scared to death of marriage as a result. Life didn't work out as either of them expected, My dad works more than he ever has, and his financial situation isnt any better, and my mom doesn't seem to have any interest in helping him. My dad has a really shitty life, and his life has affected probably 70% of my worldview. Ironically him and I would disagree on most issues, like kids for example. He says kids are his only source of joy in his life, but in my eyes kids have only ever brought my parents stress and burden. I think I understand my dad very well, but I struggle to understand my mom. I think she can't accept the fact where they are in life and thus takes it out on my dad. She has beena great mother, but as a wife she has done a poor job. I don't know maybe its something deeper its just that theres little affection from her to my dad and my dad has tried so hard to get something back, but to no avail. Evntually he just gave up and now they both are miserable in their marriage. They won't get divorced because its a sin, and they can't afford to live without one another. If they hadn't had kids I doubt they would still be together. They don't fight very often, but its clear in my eyes and my sisters they are not happy. It makes me very sad and cynical to see them interact with one-another. My sisters and I think they should be divorced, but I don't think it will happen anytime soon. It terrifies me to think one day I might be in the same situation as my dad. Its my biggest fear.

  13. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I feel cheated. My parents did the right thing and got married. I tried walking the same footsteps but times are too different now. In the late 80s women weren't completely evil yet. My mother had problems, and in no short supply. but there's a big difference between that and what's wrong with women now. If it weren't for the bitter mgtows years back prea' I would be just as bitter and miserable as them now. My marriage went down like a hydrogen zeppelin, but she didn't get shit because I insisted on a Christian marriage instead of pagan. They can't make you pay alimony or take half your stuff if you're Christian. I miss her a lot, and we're still married technically. But I haven't seen her in a couple of years. Still got the engagement ring and wedding bands. Sometimes I wear her rings on a necklace. Kind of widower behavior but I mean that's what it feels like. I don't think it's inappropriate. Got to hold on to the happy memories in life, not the bad.

  14. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I love reminiscing about how my mom hysterically yelled and screamed at my dad while hitting him for actually so little shit. Or my dad just taking it all, then suddenly snapping, followed by another hysteric fit thrown by mom, so she attempts to get out of the car (while dad is driving) and fails horribly. It's fricking insane how people get kids. Then again, I was a mistake, so my observations are a glitch anyway.

  15. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I look at my mom and realized her life would be 10x easier without kids or the dead beat men she dealt with, that played a big role in me embracing being a virgin. Now at 31 I have no regrets about it. Family life is a gamble and a trap for average people.

  16. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Do anons actually side with their mom on anything? Yeah dad was always super angry and hitty all the time, but it's clearly something mom could have prevented if she wasn't being so bad. I resent both but clearly dad was just a victim who didn't know how to handle the stresses of life. He tried his best to handle it though. Mothers only try to add to stresses while pretending to be nice. Manipulation, they try to hide that's what it is but it's about as effective as sticking an elephant behind an acorn. There's no way anyone is dumb enough to fall for it.

  17. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I doubt many people care about marriage nowadays, regardless of how their parents did

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