Relationship Issue

>Frick gf
>She says it hurts, we've fricking too long
>I keep going
>She tries to please me
>Later
>She wants me to wear flip flops so that our outfits match
>I say no lol, I don't like flipflops
>She thinks I don't care about her and throws a tantrum
>Lol wut
>Breaks up with me
What the frick did I do wrong? I just don't like flip flops and won't wear it for anyone, not even her. Am I a bad person? Who tf cares about matching outfits holy shit, what a nothingburger. She also believes I'm only with her to frick her, which is truw, I do find her hot, what's so wrong about that?

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  1. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >Am I a bad person?

    Yes /thread

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Because I fricked her longer than she wanted to? I just thought she said that because she was bored and tired of fricking

  2. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    >She also believes I'm only with her to frick her, which is truw, I do find her hot, what's so wrong about that?
    if you want to keep fricking her you have to wear the flipflops

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Ugh.
      Is this what it means to be in a relationship? I've never really had a gf before

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Is this what it means to be in a relationship
        for starters. remember when relationship-havers warned you that getting a gf wouldn't make you happy because now you've got deal with her shit as well as your own? congratulations, you're getting what you wanted, good and hard.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >congratulations, you're getting what you wanted
          I didn't ask for this
          >good and hard
          What?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      That would make you her slave. Not worth it.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Exactly! I also don't want to make everything she fricking tells me to lol. She even said "If I don't want to follow her lead, I can leave", like what kind of relationship is that?

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          *if I don't want to follow her lead, she will leave
          Like, I'm disagreeable by nature, lol.
          If she wants an agreeable slave, then sure, gold for her. But without me.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            **good
            FRICK PHONEPOSTING

  3. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You WILL use the flip flops
    And you WILL be happy

  4. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Plus, she says I'm too serious. Like, that's how I am, that's my personality. My entire bloodline has been like that, it's literally indicated in our surname even.
    I just don't think we were meant for each other.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >I just don't think we were meant for each other.
      clearly because it just sounds like you dont compromise on anything but i wonder what you are looking for in a relationship.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >you dont compromise on anything
        Yeah. That's what she said too.
        >i wonder what you are looking for in a relationship.
        Well, aside from the usual, like a hot body and a matching personality, I want to have a deeper connection with a girl. I want her to completely "get" me.
        And the one I'm with right now, isn't like that, unfortunately. She doesn't even appreciate any art and I LOVE art. This is just an example...

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >Yeah. That's what she said too.
          because its true

          >Well, aside from the usual, like a hot body and a matching personality, I want to have a deeper connection with a girl. I want her to completely "get" me.
          >And the one I'm with right now, isn't like that, unfortunately. She doesn't even appreciate any art and I LOVE art. This is just an example...
          just break up a this point and i am sure you havent mentioned the rest of your other bad traits but you have to compromise in relationships

  5. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    You sound like you have a room temp IQ so youre probably not gonna grasp this, but, it wasnt the flip flops. It was a long chain of entirely self centered behaviour disregarding anything she wants or likes.

    And honestly, I guarantee Im at least double your age from the sounds of it, but people who do shit like youre doing, making it about the one thing and not seeing the big picture ("it was just flip flops. Thats so dumb") are the biggest cowards there are. Emotionally and intellectually. Just the worst fricking people who find every way to make everyone else look stupid bt cherry picking isolated snapshots instead of seeing their own pattern of behaviour and how it all adds up. The worst.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Okay, so then I'm self-centered and stuff, acknowledging and admitting that doesn't make me courageous or not a coward. It just makes me bad for relationships, I guess

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      sounds like he dodged a bullet

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        How.

  6. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    she'll go out of her way to give you the sex she wants and you won't even go out of your way to wear flip flops lol, sounds like yall just weren't a good match

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      >sounds like yall just weren't a good match
      Yeah. Glad we came to that conxlusion early on in the relationship. Because I actually WOULD go out of my way if it was for something actually important and not what fricking shoes I wear.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        dude, just frick it. get yourself another that doesn´t have mental issues like a 6 year old.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah dude, you're right.

          Thanks for the advice, everyone

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Nice, and remember, if you see her in the street, pretend you never meet her.

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            Damn, that's cold, but I get it

  7. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    There was prolly more goijg on than just da flip flopz

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      I think so too. Probably whatever this guy was saying, about my personality flaws, or just that we don't really match:

      You sound like you have a room temp IQ so youre probably not gonna grasp this, but, it wasnt the flip flops. It was a long chain of entirely self centered behaviour disregarding anything she wants or likes.

      And honestly, I guarantee Im at least double your age from the sounds of it, but people who do shit like youre doing, making it about the one thing and not seeing the big picture ("it was just flip flops. Thats so dumb") are the biggest cowards there are. Emotionally and intellectually. Just the worst fricking people who find every way to make everyone else look stupid bt cherry picking isolated snapshots instead of seeing their own pattern of behaviour and how it all adds up. The worst.

  8. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Also, she pulls out her phone and texts and is on TikTok and stuff WHILE we were getting a massage together, like while they were gicong her a massage, she was on her phone. I find that disrespectful. I scolded her in front of everyone and she got mad like a fricking child, that she pays them to give her a massage, so it doesn't matter what she does.
    Also, she can't even walk 2min to the restaurant, she wants it easy and prefers that a taxi brings her there, because it's free and more convenient. I told her it's healthy to walk a little, but she said she doesn't care about that, she only wants it easy. Like what kind of person is that?
    Ok. I'm done with my rant now

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      bro if you just want to frick her why do you even care about all this, just wear the flipflops, frick her, then live your life

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >why do you even care about all this
        Because I don't want a woman who behaves that way.
        I won't wear the flipflops either.

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          You can’t always get what you want

          • 2 months ago
            Anonymous

            True. But I most definitely not want this. She's a real burden, every fricking day

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        Plus, the sex isn't even that good.

  9. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    I hope everyone in this thread gets cancer and dies

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Frick you, plus that would include you too now. And why so negative? Wishing death upon others doesn't make you a better person, on the contrary.

  10. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Relationship? More like relationSHIT

  11. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Unrelated question, OP, but do you smoke weed?

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      No way lmao, why?

      >Yeah. That's what she said too.
      because its true

      >Well, aside from the usual, like a hot body and a matching personality, I want to have a deeper connection with a girl. I want her to completely "get" me.
      >And the one I'm with right now, isn't like that, unfortunately. She doesn't even appreciate any art and I LOVE art. This is just an example...
      just break up a this point and i am sure you havent mentioned the rest of your other bad traits but you have to compromise in relationships

      >because its true
      I guess.
      >but you have to compromise in relationships
      How frustrating. I guess it can't be helped, right? But yeah I'll break it up then...

      But where do I draw the line of how much we should compromise ourselves in a relationship? Is it possible to not compromise at all? Else I might just stay a bachelor, but I don't think that will make me happy in the long-term... Thanks for the answer.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >But where do I draw the line of how much we should compromise ourselves in a relationship? Is it possible to not compromise at all? Else I might just stay a bachelor, but I don't think that will make me happy in the long-term... Thanks for the answer.
        you answered everything yourself, you dont want to commit to anything, if you get into a realtionship and dont compromise then you are in for a bad time. the only option left is hookups where there is a 80% chance you will get herpes

        • 2 months ago
          Anonymous

          >where there is a 80% chance you will get herpes
          Lol that's not ven true, plus everyone already has some kind of herpes laying dormant within us... At least that's what my sex doctor told me

  12. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    Update:
    She gave me some pamplet for a show and I threw it away because I didn't care about it, but she actually wanted to read it, and now guess what: another tantrum.
    She said all girls are like that and I have no gentleness in my being and that I'm going to find no girl and basically die alone. She sounded a lot like my mom and sister lol.
    I'm so done with this bullshit.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      Lmao. You're so childish.
      You probably met the most honest woman in your life who was giving second chances after second chances. You'll probably get more compromising as you get older and more lonely. Maybe you not being compromising can get you better laid, but I'm guessing you also have tantrums like a childish girl.

      • 2 months ago
        Anonymous

        >You're so childish.
        How am I the one being childish here?
        >who was giving second chances after second chances.
        This is literally our 3rd day of living together, there's not much I could do wrong in those 3 days expect for what I told you guys already.
        >You'll probably get more compromising as you get older and more lonely.
        I hope not, but I heard I had to be compromising to be in a real relationship anyway, so who knows. I'd rather just find a girl who doesn't constantly b***h about my behavior though, especially when it's just bullshit like not wanting to dress how she wants me to for a little because it makes me uncomfortable, or throw away some paper because I didn't know she wanted to read it.
        Which is obviously just a limitus by her to see how much I care about her (barely anything for her and apparently I'm fricking evil too according to her)
        >but I'm guessing you also have tantrums like a childish girl.
        I'm 25,I don't need to have tantrums. The only tantrum I could have made was because she keeps b***hing about me. But no, instead I listened and endured her fricking b***hing all day.

    • 2 months ago
      Anonymous

      It's crazy she throws a tantrum everytime but you are a tactless butthole. She sounds spoiled but at the same time she is right about you. You deserve to be lonely and suffer until you kill your ego. You are too far up your own ass. You sound like you're in your late teens or early twenties.

  13. 2 months ago
    Anonymous

    op sounds like an autistic child

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