Sex guide

I'm going to lose my virginity soon. How do I give her maximum pleasure? I need a detailed guide (starting at foreplay).

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Do not try to stick it in her immediately
    >Kiss her a lot, French kisses
    >Do not be afraid to flip her over and (gently) manhandle her when you want to change positions
    >Don't choke or slap her without prior consent
    >Go down on her first before sticking it in

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Go down on her first
      I'd prefer fingering.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >I'd prefer fingering.
        Depends on the women. I personally hate having that done to me. He should probably ask what she's into. Having a partner that's willing to ask what you enjoy and hear you out is a green flag.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I will ask, but I'm not ready to eat her out yet.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            It's better to go with the flow. The first time with somebody new will always be a bit awkward, especially if you're a virgin. Sex is something you get better at with time. You'll be fine as long as you're both attentive to each other.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            If you're watching porn, nofap and no porn for at least a week before, or else you won't be able to come because of the awkwardness.
            Know how to put on a condom.
            The hole is further down than you think.
            Sex is slower and less intense than fapping, but much hotter. It will get you hard much easier, but it's more difficult to come. Especially in a condom, that makes it more difficult too. Consider the speed at which you're fapping, you'll have to do it "very fast" with your hips in the end when it's time to come. Again, it's more difficult to get that speed with your hips. If you go limp, it's ok wo wait and cuddle for 10 minutes, you can try again.

            As for

            As anon said, go with the flow. For me, some blowjob is an expected part of the foreplay, and if you're doing it with your gf, it's normal to go down on her in return. If you don't go down, lube will probably be necessary.
            Just to be sure, if you're paying for it, don't go down on her of course.
            With a new partner, oral is also the time to check if it's "safe". Eg if it stinks or if there's an obvious infection.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >nofap and no porn for at least a week before
            Done.
            >you'll have to do it "very fast" with your hips in the end when it's time to come.
            And if I don't? Will I come eventually or not?
            >some blowjob is an expected part of the foreplay, and if you're doing it with your gf, it's normal to go down on her in return
            I don't know her STD status yet so I'd prefer to not do anything too risky.
            >lube will probably be necessary
            Her being wet is not enough?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Her being wet is not enough?
            NTA, but it depends. Ideally she'd be warmed up before you go at it. However, hormonal birth control can cause veganal dryness, so it may be necessary in some instances.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            > And is I dont? Will I come eventually or not?
            It happens sometimes, but its really unlikely if you have been porn & fap free for some time, drink some chamomile tea before to help you stay calm (anxiety may cause this to happen).
            And if you dont then you didnt, its ok, you stop when you are satisfied and say "I enjoyed it, I guess I got a little nervous but it was pretty good"

            > I dont know her STD status yet
            Dont have sex with her before that dude

            >Her being wet it not enough?
            I meeeean, not always, she also needs to be ¿strechy? The muscles need to be relaxed, you usually get that after she comes at least once.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Dont have sex with her before that dude
            Even with a condom? She's only had one partner before me.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            If he has had one partner its EXTREMELLY unlikely she has anything, but if you are scared of doing oral just take the test already instead of limiting your options

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I'll ask her after the first time.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            That's irresponsible but you do you

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You can get STDs with a condom you know

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            It's because heated lubes actually let her have a orgasm during sex are you a virgin??

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >If you're watching porn, nofap and no porn for at least a week before, or else you won't be able to come because of the awkwardness.
            What if you're worried about cumming too quickly, shouldn't you jack it the day before then?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            No

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        She is not going to complain about it, but she WILL think about it, its literally the best part for most women.
        But yeah, wash your hands, cut your nails and be CAREFUL not to scrach her ( IT HURTSS)

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >wash your hands
          With regular soap? Doesn't it irritate?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Yeah, regular soap, the water rinses it off

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Its not all about you

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Go down on her first before sticking it in
      Absolutely not necessary, especially at virgin level. Going down on someone is a different world on its own, fingering is normally plenty

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Can I find video guides on porn sites?

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Experienced guy here
    first of all
    >hug her by one of your hands on the back of her head, push her head closer so that your lips are at her ear.
    >whisper "I'd break you, like a little toy" seductively.

    then start kissing her neck softly ( no love bites just yet ).

    make sure not to press too much on to her but one of your hands should reach her ass and grap softly, She'll never gonna tell you what she really likes... ( so I'll tell you they read sooooooo much smut they wanna be treated that way atlest 50% of it ).

    so after that ask her how wet is she? ( whispering voice, they love it )

    make sure to repeatedly whisper "hername, You're amazing"

    after that she'll be enough wet to do those unholy things.

    now go down.
    >put index and middle finger on the clitoris and rub it softly left and right. while your other hand's finger in her. sometimes two fingers hurts so make sure start by one.

    and brother DON'T you dare STOP, she'll ask you to stop many times just don't until she cums. it'll take 3-4 minutes wuth right motions ( yes 3-4 ). and after she cums, let her have 20 seconds break and kiss her while she's breathing heavily, then whisper in her ear.... "it's not over baby girl" ( with grim)

    now put your middle finger in her and thumb on her clit and don't move that finger anywhere just let it stay there.... and use your thumb to rub clit clock wise.

    she'll beg you to stop ( don't ).

    she'll cum second time in 3 minutes at max.

    after that you pull your d out and put protection on it ( if she doesn't want tell her "baby I'm concerned about you" ) then put it in with gentle pressure.... she'll scream so make sure you are kissing her while pushing in. and rest you know what to do.... you'll be done in 1-2 minutes if no pills are taken ( don't take them she won't mind 1-2 minutes cause you made her cum already ) after you are done make sure to give her a long kiss and whisper in her ears "You sure gets extra spicy, little girl".

    she'll never forget you.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >and brother DON'T you dare STOP, she'll ask you to stop many times just don't until she cums.
      >she'll beg you to stop ( don't )
      If she asks me to stop, I stop.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Don't that's the whole point, they make you stop when they're about to cum, that's what delay their orgasm.

        dont stop is the key

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      you are god fr

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      What in the frick is this tutorial PLS. As a girl I'd cringe so hard, this probably only works on 16 year olds who don't know what they want and get all their sex info from wattpad bruh. This made me realise I should post my own advice because HOLY HELL

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    The thing is that if you come with a list of things to do you'll be awkward and clumsy. It really is something you must 'go with' and be in the moment. Trust yourself that you'll figure it out.

    If you want to come in prepared. Think of them more as modular and component parts to apply where needed, not a rigid set of instructions.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Think of them more as modular and component parts to apply where needed, not a rigid set of instructions
      I will. But I'll need to know how to do each part correctly.

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Guys are ready immediately, women need time to warm up, you should see a point where her switch is starting to flip and whatever it is you're doing is working, keep that energy up and don't try to do anything you're not comfortable or experienced with, it's totally okay you're a virgin and it's better to move at whatever pace will be manageable for you. Foreplay and communication help, be gentle, ask what feels good, I started with my tongue because I was too scared to hurt her my first time and then started fingering her. Trim your nails and file them down before going over, I like to gently pull a back a little around the sides of my fingers to trim the little bit of nail that's around the side and file everything down so you have more freedom to work your fingers. no means no.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >you should see a point where her switch is starting to flip
      What are the signs?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Pleasure, arousal, enjoyment, there can be subtle changes like she's a little quiet or focused or she's moaning, basically whenever she's starting to "feel" it. I can get that way in 10 seconds but it can take her several if not 5-10 mins

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        She is probably going to tell you "lets fricking goooooooo", besides, you will notice a pool of water once you feel a pool of water

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Breathing harder, flushed face if pale, grabbing at your neck/clothes. Her back will maybe arch. It’ll feel like she’s pushing her chest against you or grinding her hips into you

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If it's your first time and you're worried about not satisfying your partner you might want to get her off first by foreplay. For most guys their first time will be either too quick or too long (not cumming at all deu to nerves).

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >get her off first by foreplay
      That's what I'm planning. Any tips?

      You will not give her maximum pleasure on your first time. It will be awkward. You will be shit at it. That's how it is.

      How many times to get good?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Any tips?
        Oral obviously, but also LOTS of sweet stuff like hugs, kisses and praises. Also, listen when she tells you what she likes. For most people, not even just women, when you show you are willing to learn it doesnt matter that much you dont start out great, they will want to keep interacting with you to help you get better.
        > How many times to get good.
        ~3 I guess

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You will not give her maximum pleasure on your first time. It will be awkward. You will be shit at it. That's how it is.

  8. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    https://www.girlschase.com/comment/39145

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Don't click.

  9. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Under your clothes, wear a Pikachu costume and carry two 800 volt tasers
    surprise her

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      What if she doesn't like Pokemon?

  10. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Unless your 7x6 your not going to give her a orgasm

  11. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Sex is hard without experience. Just mentally prepare for a great deal of awkwardness and difficulty.

  12. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Pro gamer moves
    >During missionary, put her legs on your shoulders and grind your dick against her cervix
    >During doggystyle grab both her arms so she has to cling onto you as you frick her from behind
    >During cowgirl let her ride you and then suddenly start fricking her, make sure you know how to thrust properly from the bottom position (It's literally the same as barbell hip thrusts)

    All that aside though, if it's your first time it'll be semi awkward no matter what so don't rush into it too much.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Anuddah pro gamer move, to add on to what that anon says

      PRONE BONE
      >she lays flat on her stomach (pillow under her hips optional)
      >have her cross her legs at the ankle
      >grab cheeks and pull them apart exposing her coochie
      >slide in
      >pound town
      >light choking a plus here (sides of the neck, not the windpipe)

      Have fun anon

  13. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    First of all: don't try to change the world.
    No idea how old you are but the older you be the expectation gets higher. Not hers, but yours. Think like the fact that she let you this close is already a win. Mental pressure is a tricky and evil thing, so try to be az chill az you can get.
    Second: set the mood.
    The sex not starts in the bed not even in the bedroom but in her head. Talk, touch, other senses. Make the room tidy, not just clean. Remove the distractions even if that a stained sheet or just the smell. Make it tidy, get some candles and/or incense burner. Warmth means intimacy and safe, humans work like that.
    Third: listen to her.
    Not just what she tells, but how she reacts. If you slide your hand on her leg try to grabp it playfully. You will immediately notice if she like harder touch. Important to balance your intensity with hers, otherwise you will be too much or too less.
    And the most important: honesty. Don't tell her it's your first time, but if she ask about it, don't lie. Most of the girls are more patient when they know the man is not experienced but trying the best for her.

  14. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Just stick it in and cum in 30 seconds. What are you? A fricking baby?
    God, men are so cucked in 2024

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      But muh tantric goonsesh inside a holy cooter

  15. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Go visit a prostitute

  16. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Are you gay?
    No?
    Then you sound by instinct know what to do.

  17. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I spin them

    Spin 2 win ass 2 ass

  18. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    From a girl, for a girl.
    Part 1
    Start by kisses-> french kissing and light to grabby touching around her neck, waist, ass, boobs. Grab her close to you and ask what she wants or take first initiative (but always make sure she's responsive and not feeling uncomfortable, you could ask her but doesn't have to be verbal). Start to just caress her pussy slowly but firmly (even on the outside of clothes or underwear) just rubbing up and down while kissing her. Teasing and buildup really helps with relaxation, getting wet and higher chances of orgasm for girls. At that point she may start to touch you or may want to take clothes off (depending on how horny or forward she is). You can start undressing her once she is more noticeably horny. Non-verbal signs she's enjoying it is heavier breathing, flushed face, gyrating/bucking her hips, or moans. After undressing, touch her vulva by running your middle & index finger/middle & forth finger up and down her pussy (between the two flaps/on the slit) circling the clit everytime you get to it (the clit is at the top of the slit so you will always find it this way, feels like a small nub under the hood and will get more engorged the more horny she is). You can do this while kissing her or her body, grabbing her breasts or teasing her nipples (if she likes it). Since it's your first time, it's not possible to become a sex master right away (giving oral might be a bit ambitious so I'd stick with hands).
    Depends on the girl but dirty talk helps throughout; tell her what you love about kissing her (her soft lips, her moans ect). Tell her what you love about her in general (how wet she is, her body) and what you're wanting/planning to do to her (eg. how much you want to feel her warmth on your wiener, how you want to hear her moans/moaning your name, how you want to feel her shaking with pleasure ect). At this point she should be RLY horny. 1/

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Part 2.
      Next you can choose to finger her or do my fav grinding move.

      Fingering her:
      Fast doesn't always mean good. Once you can feel she's physically very wet, slip your finger(s) in slowly and you might feel a clench around your fingers (muscles clenching/pulsing is good and means she's feeling good). You should massage her g-spot which should be just before or just past the second knuckle, feel spongy, ribbed, and slightly bumpy. Massage by pressing and rubbing the g-spot in a 'come hither' motion pushing towards the direction of belly button and pulling towards clit. Always see how she responds/ask because she might want something else (eg harder pressure). You can rub her clit in a circular motion with your thumb at the same time but this may be difficult since it's your first time and your hand co-ordination might not be great (this will improve with more practice). Build you pace up and eventually it'll be more of a whole arm movement than just fingers/wrist. It's hard to describe this but there are tutorials on pornhub. If she IS about to come the g-spot will become very hard like a bunch of pressure is built up; keep the same rhythm of rubbing her clit and continue pressing hard on the g-spot (this will probably be tiring since it is harder). If she comes you'll feel the vegana pulse and muscles clentch harder around your fingers in roughly 1-2 seconds intervals. Once the clentching stops slow down and kiss her as she's coming down from her high. Don't be discouraged or think you didn't give her good time just because she didn't come, it doesn't just depend on you but also her.

      My fav grinding move:
      Go on top of her or be in a position where you dick can be moved up and down/in-between her pussy slit/on the clit (almost like a hot dog in between a bun). You can grind your dick on her slit while making out with her (making sure it puts pressure on her clit). 2/

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        From a girl, for a girl.
        Part 1
        Start by kisses-> french kissing and light to grabby touching around her neck, waist, ass, boobs. Grab her close to you and ask what she wants or take first initiative (but always make sure she's responsive and not feeling uncomfortable, you could ask her but doesn't have to be verbal). Start to just caress her pussy slowly but firmly (even on the outside of clothes or underwear) just rubbing up and down while kissing her. Teasing and buildup really helps with relaxation, getting wet and higher chances of orgasm for girls. At that point she may start to touch you or may want to take clothes off (depending on how horny or forward she is). You can start undressing her once she is more noticeably horny. Non-verbal signs she's enjoying it is heavier breathing, flushed face, gyrating/bucking her hips, or moans. After undressing, touch her vulva by running your middle & index finger/middle & forth finger up and down her pussy (between the two flaps/on the slit) circling the clit everytime you get to it (the clit is at the top of the slit so you will always find it this way, feels like a small nub under the hood and will get more engorged the more horny she is). You can do this while kissing her or her body, grabbing her breasts or teasing her nipples (if she likes it). Since it's your first time, it's not possible to become a sex master right away (giving oral might be a bit ambitious so I'd stick with hands).
        Depends on the girl but dirty talk helps throughout; tell her what you love about kissing her (her soft lips, her moans ect). Tell her what you love about her in general (how wet she is, her body) and what you're wanting/planning to do to her (eg. how much you want to feel her warmth on your wiener, how you want to hear her moans/moaning your name, how you want to feel her shaking with pleasure ect). At this point she should be RLY horny. 1/

        Part 3.
        If your dick keeps sliding around use your hand to make sure your dick is getting enough pressure on her pussy and clit. Your hips should be sliding back and forth as if you were having sex (but aren't yet), this is easiest in missionary with dick facing up towards your stomachs. If your dick is facing down you can use your hand to guide your dick to make it press against her clit everytime you move your hips (or just move it with your hand by itself - no hip movement). Make out while doing this and she will 99% want you to put it in already and might even be telling you that. REMEMBER TEASING IS KEY. Also please wear a condom before doing this because yes you can still get pregnant even if it's just the outside.

        After that take her to pound town :3 (missionary is easiest for beginners and all round nice position).
        Wear a condom, don't be afraid to make eye contact AND sounds (it's super hot trust). You can rub her clit with your thumb in a circular motion to make her experience better or making out + groping / sucking nipples is Nice.
        After you finish (you may not be able to come, some people find it hard 1st time round) tie your condom into a knot so cum doesn't escape and throw it into trash. Have a shower together if y'all feel like it or just get a wet cloth and clean her and yourself up. Make sure she pees after sex so she minimises the chance of getting a UTI (women are more prone to it than guys). Cuddle / lay with her and tell her how you had a nice time, ask her how she feels (eg. I really enjoyed that hbu?) .
        Happy sexo time !!

  19. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >learn to kiss. Some girls like lots of tongue and deep French kissing, some girls don’t.
    >don’t rush directly to the pussy, it’s the last thing on the list.
    >always have your hands running over her body, both hands. Be slow, deliberate, and mindful about where they’re at. Butt, boobs, spine, thighs, neck, side of the rib cage, belly.
    >whisper and growl in her ear in the lowest tone
    >don’t just stick it in, grind your dick on her pussy till you can feel an adequate amount of wetness and don’t use your hands to guide it in, angle your hips so it slips in naturally
    >if she starts bucking on you (either with you on top or her) use your hands on her hips and ass to assist, get your hips into the rythem, it’s kinda like dancing
    >if you aren’t a fat ass and are in decent shape, don’t be afraid to press your body against hers with full weight if you are on top
    >experiment lightly, think of it as playing a musical instrument, if you do the right thing she likes a good sound will come out. Try touching, kissing, licking, etc in various parts of her body, not just the regular areas you might think of
    >use your strength, I’m assuming you aren’t a feeble weakling and she isn’t a landwhale that weighs 250 lbs. you should be able to move her body around, not roughly, but with purpose.
    >don’t lick the pussy, make out with the pussy. Anything she enjoys having done with her mouth, she’ll enjoy with her pussy.
    >eye contact
    >hold her hands while you’re doing it sometimes

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Agreed

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Also, a couple of other tips and tricks

      >maximum depth penetration is achieved in the scissor position with her on her side with one leg in your hands and the other between your legs. Go easy with this because even if you are slightly below average you can cause pain
      >find the g-spot, it’s not hard if you got her revved up. It’s about 1-2” in and on the roof of her vegana, it feels like a sponge about the size of a silver dollar and it swells up when she’s turned on (trim your damn finger nails before you do that)
      >if you get a good noise out of her that doesn’t mean to go HAM and up the intensity, steady and consistent wins the race
      >most girls don’t like anal, but lightly rubbing around the outside butthole ridges is almost always welcome.
      >squeeze the tit but don’t pinch the nipple, it sounds cringe but you kinda want to milk them
      >hair pulling is not pulling, it’s more like grabbing. Run your hand up her neck until you have a good amount between your fingers and just make a fist. You aren’t trying to jerk her head back, just applying tension and assuming control
      >know what dirty talk level is appropriate, trust me when I say that the right kind of words said during the act can trigger an orgasm in a woman.
      >lastly, get in touch with your primal man. Women want an animal, just not one that’s dangerous to them. Give off guard dog vibes.

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