Sexual masochism

>nothing hotter to me than males mistreating me
>get flustered when reading/watching something and sadistic male shows up
>very difficult for me to orgasm if I'm not being hurt
Anyone else in this position?
I don't even want to be treated poorly outside of the bedroom and I know this fetish is common for women but I still feel bad about it.

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >I don't even want to be treated poorly outside of the bedroom
    that's the point of bedroom roleplay?
    >>very difficult for me to orgasm if I'm not being hurt
    this is a bit weird, coz it means you're entirely reliant on your partner to orgasm. and masturbation is useless

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >this is a bit weird, coz it means you're entirely reliant on your partner to orgasm. and masturbation is useless
      It's actually really annoying because I used to be able to do it, independently, then it became next to impossible to. I think my brain was like rewired. It's obviously a Worse situation but I don't know what I can realistically do to change it??

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >I don't know what I can realistically do to change it??
        idunno I'm not a masochist that can't cum without begging for it

        Im on the wants to mistreat you during sex side of things and it does feel strange I dont want to do stuff like that outside of sex so ive never been sure how to feel about it but it is great stress relief

        I've never done anything of the sort irl, but it'd be cool to try. I know porn games are Not a good point of reference, but it's the only thing I have

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I definitely recommend it irl if you find someone you trust go for it you wont regret it

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >if you find someone you trust
            bruh. lol. lmao. rofl.
            first, it'd have to be someone willing to trust me (I may've not been clear, but Doing the mistreating and rough play is what interests me, not getting roughed up)
            second, I'd actually like a normal relationship before jumping into kink territory

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Oh lol whoops I misunderstood my brother but yeah I still definitely recommend it will make you feel lighter

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            no prob.
            what I did try, on myself so I also know I don't like it done on me, is rope stuff
            sure, it was hemp, which isn't reccomended for some reason, but even with the right tightness I don't like being restrained.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >but I don't know what I can realistically do to change it??
        ... jerk off? You could try jerking off.. seems like that ought to do the trick

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I was obviously implying that is possible but very difficult, kind of more effort than it's worth.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Do you own a vibrator? A good one?

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Im on the wants to mistreat you during sex side of things and it does feel strange I dont want to do stuff like that outside of sex so ive never been sure how to feel about it but it is great stress relief

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I'm a male to troon with severe masochism. I've had women (real) beat me, choke me, burn me, and cut me. And a guy once. I don't know how much of it is a fetish and how much is simply hating myself.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Did you find it erotic at all?

      It's normal for fetishes to be at least partially an expression of something traumatic or that you fear (for example the large number of RW cuckold fetishists).

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Yes it was erotic for me, but I feel extreme guilt and shame for being aroused so it creates a feedback loop.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You're cooler than op because you've actually experienced it.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I can never compete with real girls

        >beat me, choke me, burn me, and cut me
        any tips?

        Tips for what, hurting me?

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >Tips for what, hurting me?
          I mean, when you put it like that it does sound bad.
          but I meant for the act in general, not to You

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            The more you seem to enjoy yourself hurting me, the more I will enjoy the experience I think.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            hmmm... and what's the term for "I'm not sure about this, but I'm doing it for you"? it has a name, and that would be my stance on a bunch of the hardest bits

            >but it's much too embarrassing to ask for those things and would probably lead to them looking down on me
            God women are so fricking stupid it's unreal

            kek

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            If there's something you don't want to do to me I'd rather you didn't. I just want the other person to use me and do exactly what they want to me.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I'm prodding for information, as I can't get it from real sources unless I bust my piggybank for an expensive prostitute that'd let me practice the more tame shit, or a super expensive prostitute that is made for the hard kinks

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            What information do you want?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >beat me, choke me, burn me, and cut me
      any tips?

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    do u schlick to ryona doujins or something

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      More or less, the most recent time it was to a manga with ryona in it.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      NTA but I do, some times, jack to ryona
      there's some I like and some I don't, and I don't know the meta in ryona categories

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    How do you like to be used by men

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Hair pulling, being slapped, grabbed roughly, I'd like to be choked or punched but it's much too embarrassing to ask for those things and would probably lead to them looking down on me

      like for real

      Insults are also nice.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Hair pulling, being slapped, grabbed roughly, choked
        so, the standard
        >punched
        that's a line of trust and consent only someone really close to you would cross. or someone you paid for
        >would probably lead to them looking down on me
        isn't that the point? /jk

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >but it's much too embarrassing to ask for those things and would probably lead to them looking down on me
        God women are so fricking stupid it's unreal

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >God women are so fricking stupid it's unreal
          How is that stupid? I have some sense of shame.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            If you didnt have any shame it wouldnt be fun to abuse you

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >How is that stupid? I have some sense of shame.
            Yeah, exactly, that's stupid. Being ashamed of what you like sexually is stupid. Not telling your partner what you like sexually is stupid. Just hoping they read your mind is stupid. And of course, trying to send subtle signals/messages to them or trying to manipulate them into doing what you like is really, really fricking stupid

            You're one of those girls who will be with a guy for years and never do anything kinky with him, always turn down his suggestions, always say "I'm not that kind of girl," then way down the road you will either cheat on him, or he will find out some shit from your past where you were this giant filthy prostitute with other dudes and you loved every second of it and you kept it secret from him all that time..

            You're the kind of girl who is a prude for boyfriends/husbands, but a prostitute for random buttholes

            Yes, that is really, really stupid

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >then way down the road you will either cheat on him, or he will find out some shit from your past where you were this giant filthy prostitute with other dudes and you loved every second of it and you kept it secret from him all that time..
            I think you're uh, making up someone in your head and saying 'that's you.'

            >You're the kind of girl who is a prude for boyfriends/husbands, but a prostitute for random buttholes
            The 'kind of' is doing a lot of heavy lifting here.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I think you're uh, making up someone in your head and saying 'that's you.'
            That is exactly what I'm doing, yes. What's your point? You asked me to explain how it was stupid for you to be too ashamed to tell a guy what you like, right? Well, there you go

            he is right, in a way. your partner is there for all of you, kinks and all. they may not be into them, but they can tolerate em for you.
            [...]
            that type of person does exist (man and woman), and it is a shitty thing for your partner to not even know X Y Z about you, and find out you liked and did X Y Z with others that aren't them.
            >The 'kind of' is doing a lot of heavy lifting here.
            idk if you misunderstood, but it was "kind of" meaning "type of", not in "half-assing". and again, that type of person exists

            >idk if you misunderstood, but it was "kind of" meaning "type of", not in "half-assing". and again, that type of person exists
            I suspect they are feeling a little offended maybe? That wasn't my intention though, I was just trying to get my point across, and I think it's helpful to give an actualy tangible example rather than say some shit like "you should be open and honest with your partners :^)" because that on its own means jack shit

            >that type of person does exist (man and woman), and it is a shitty thing for your partner to not even know X Y Z about you, and find out you liked and did X Y Z with others that aren't them.
            What makes you think I have slept with more than one person?

            >What makes you think I have slept with more than one person?
            It doesn't matter, but now that you've said that.. clearly you have and you feel bad about it. That's stupid too

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Dude you are scaring the chicks off

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            he is right, in a way. your partner is there for all of you, kinks and all. they may not be into them, but they can tolerate em for you.

            >then way down the road you will either cheat on him, or he will find out some shit from your past where you were this giant filthy prostitute with other dudes and you loved every second of it and you kept it secret from him all that time..
            I think you're uh, making up someone in your head and saying 'that's you.'

            >You're the kind of girl who is a prude for boyfriends/husbands, but a prostitute for random buttholes
            The 'kind of' is doing a lot of heavy lifting here.

            that type of person does exist (man and woman), and it is a shitty thing for your partner to not even know X Y Z about you, and find out you liked and did X Y Z with others that aren't them.
            >The 'kind of' is doing a lot of heavy lifting here.
            idk if you misunderstood, but it was "kind of" meaning "type of", not in "half-assing". and again, that type of person exists

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >that type of person does exist (man and woman), and it is a shitty thing for your partner to not even know X Y Z about you, and find out you liked and did X Y Z with others that aren't them.
            What makes you think I have slept with more than one person?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I don't? again, I said "that type of person exists".
            you being ashamed of your own fetishes is a way to turn you into the type of person that hides things from their partner

            >I think you're uh, making up someone in your head and saying 'that's you.'
            That is exactly what I'm doing, yes. What's your point? You asked me to explain how it was stupid for you to be too ashamed to tell a guy what you like, right? Well, there you go

            [...]
            >idk if you misunderstood, but it was "kind of" meaning "type of", not in "half-assing". and again, that type of person exists
            I suspect they are feeling a little offended maybe? That wasn't my intention though, I was just trying to get my point across, and I think it's helpful to give an actualy tangible example rather than say some shit like "you should be open and honest with your partners :^)" because that on its own means jack shit

            [...]
            >What makes you think I have slept with more than one person?
            It doesn't matter, but now that you've said that.. clearly you have and you feel bad about it. That's stupid too

            >that on its own means jack shit
            it can be worded better, y'know?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >it can be worded better, y'know?
            I don't care, I'm not fricking Mark Twain or Shakespeare, I'm not trying to use all the right words, I'm just trying to get my point across in the simplest way I know how

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >What makes you think I have slept with more than one person?
            Wait wait wait wait. Wait.. do you have a boyfriend right now who thinks you were a virgin before him? Is that what's going on here? lol

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        It never hurts to try if its someone who is also into that they probably wont look down on you and where would you want to be punched and do like to be bitten and what kind of insults are your favorite insults to be called

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    do u like choking or air play, i only like it cuz the girl gets turned on and is cumming while she is barely able to speak but most s and m stuff is kinda weird, i dont really understand the punching in ryona doujins, i like femdom too and when the females punch the guy but also the art feels memey

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I dont know about ryona but I like to punch them in the stomach during sex and it usually causes them to clench down on you harder

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Damn I just want to strangle op

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      same, but the philosophy of fetishes is an interesting topic

      >it can be worded better, y'know?
      I don't care, I'm not fricking Mark Twain or Shakespeare, I'm not trying to use all the right words, I'm just trying to get my point across in the simplest way I know how

      aight

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I dont know why I like to hurt women during sex I have no interest in it outside of sex

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >I dont know why I like to hurt women during sex
          same reason most women like to be hurt during sex?
          >I have no interest in it outside of sex
          if you did, you risk prison

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            And what are those reasons and I phrased that kinda badly I was trying to say that I dont hate women or think badly of them but as soon as I get intimate with a woman i just want to destroy them

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >as soon as I get intimate with a woman i just want to destroy them
            this was funnier than it should've. but kinda same? if I see a woman I like I imagine her tied up, so I may be too far gone
            >what are those reasons
            frick if I know. not even women know why they like to be treated roughly. might be some old software from our monkey days.

            this thread was fun, and I'd love to keep talking, but I gotta go to sleep.
            if anyone from here wanna keep talking about this shit, throw me a discord ( argianon ), as I know there won't be another of these threads

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Good night homie glad I could make you laugh

  8. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    you have it easy if you're a woman, there's a ton of sadistic men
    imagine being a heterosexual masochistic man, there's barely any woman who wants to use and abuse a man like this...

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