Should I date a former coke user?

I've been hooking up with a very cute girl for a couple weeks, but yesterday she confessed that she used to use (?) cocaine, but stopped 4 years ago (we were both teenagers then, if that matters). Ever since, I'm pretty torn up on what to do. Can a relationship with a former drug addict work at all?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I'd say yes. Just encourage her to practice healthy exercise and eating habits, and both of you should be in some kind of community.

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You two sound like a match made in heaven

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    imagine all the dudes she was banging when she was doing lines.

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    yeah it's totally fine
    4 years ago is long enough that any cocaine cravings will have left

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Coke is not a very strong drug. I live in LA and virtually everyone here has done it at some point in their lives

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    coke is very addictive

    but 4 years is a very long time

    i'd say it depends how she sees coke

    if she is really serious with never wanting to come close to it

    or if she still goes to places where people use coke "but she wont herself"

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      to add to my last sentence

      if she is really serious about never wanting to come close to coke you can try with her

      but if she is like "no I dont mind that others do it I just wont myself" it is asking for trouble.

      So if coke, or people that use coke, have absolutely NO part in her life anymore, then you can try.

      If she doesnt see what the big deal is, it is a ticking time bomb

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Go back

      to add to my last sentence

      if she is really serious about never wanting to come close to coke you can try with her

      but if she is like "no I dont mind that others do it I just wont myself" it is asking for trouble.

      So if coke, or people that use coke, have absolutely NO part in her life anymore, then you can try.

      If she doesnt see what the big deal is, it is a ticking time bomb

      To reddit

      as a former coke user, yes

      I'd date me

      I'd date me hard

      homosexuals

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >user
    >addict
    so which was it?

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    as a former coke user, yes

    I'd date me

    I'd date me hard

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    A teenager could not be a real adict.
    Only "meme adict".
    She is cringe, you are cringe.

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    If she had a party phase or used it sparingly, it is not a problem for _you_ as long as she is honest with you.

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You need to provide more context. When she says she used to do blow, was it often or a few times. I’ve done blow a handful of times but i’m not an addict.

    Was she addicted and had to go to rehab? If that’s the case then you need to ask her about her lifestyle during that time. That’s probably what you’re more concerned about anyways

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This.

      Coke was great when I could get my hands on it, but I could see how using it frequently would lead to a serious problem. Someone who has experimented with it isn’t the same as someone who was a full-blown addict.

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Addiction is a tough thing. The question is if she acknowledges the issue, refers to that point of her life as a negative, and not only doesn't practice that kind of behavior anymore, but expresses active disinterest in doing so. Everyone has a past, everyone makes their mistakes, and that doesn't determine who they've chosen to be now. Your past doesn't define you unless you refuse to choose a different future. If she seems like she's chosen a different path than the one she was on at that time, then I wouldn't worry about it. Those experiences can make you stronger if you let them. Use your judgement to determine if that's what she's done.

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    yes

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Once a drug user, always a drug user. Don't get involved.

  15. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    book up in any case, dawg

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