should i just give up as a woman with autism and use dating apps?

should i just give up as a woman with autism and use dating apps?

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  1. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    This is a bait thread. Dating apps fricking suck and everyone knows this.

    • 9 months ago
      Anonymous

      I have literally nothing else at this point.

      • 9 months ago
        Anonymous

        I'll humor you and give you the benefit of the doubt.

        I want a serious long-lasting relationship. I don't want hook-ups, but I am sure that's easy to avoid (just don't have sex lol). But I suck at flirting and I am tired of having to approach men.

        [...]
        This was written by a man. Anyway, I don't care about looks, I'm fugly too.

        As someone who is burned out with dating apps. That is basically what the vast majority of dating apps are for and are used as.
        Though I have had a few dates from them, they where few and far apart. And unless you pay them a lot of money, you will not really find people. They silently put you in a queue and don't actually try to match you with people who are compatible at all.

      • 9 months ago
        Anonymous

        SaintSounds#8656
        If you're serious and want a partner, so do I. Add me and let's talk!

        • 9 months ago
          Anonymous

          I do not think I am what you are seeking.

          Which field STEM GF?

          I would tell you but I hate talking about my professional life online. But most STEM topics, I can hold a good conversation.

          hi op! how come you are giving up?
          its weird, because most girls i saw (as a stem student myself) were surrounded by guys trying to get their attention.
          if you have those qualities depicted in picrel then you don't sound bad at all

          Well I am not stacy lol. Most men in STEM do not go for other STEM women either, they think they are ugly and weird.

          https://i.4cdn.orgNSFFW1684783332344523.png

          I hope you rot alone and die alone just like I have to

          I don't even want that for you.

          >an easy in
          Isn't that what being lonely is though? As someone else who is lonely, it's an easy way to relate to someone else and start to form a stronger bond than with someone who has friends coming out the ass and no time. I really believe two lonely people paired up are a much stronger bond than two people with tons of social interaction. So what's wrong with someone seeing you as lonely being a way to bypass a lot of the icebreaker weeding-out bullshit that non lonely people put others through?

          An in as in to manipulate.

          • 9 months ago
            Anonymous

            when i mentioned women, i wasn't referring to stacy, OP! i was referring to all of them. nobody really cared about them being autistic, because stem students are all autistic themselves
            but now that you mention it, how would you describe yourself physically?

          • 9 months ago
            Anonymous

            The only women in STEM I have seen with a lot of men around are the Stacies. I am not sure what school you go to, but that's the case with mine.

          • 9 months ago
            Anonymous

            i went to a college where there were several STEM fields and i'm quite sure of what i saw 🙂
            there even was this girl, like 6'2 or something, overweight and rude and still had a bunch of men after her

          • 9 months ago
            Anonymous

            Okay, then that was your experience. I am telling you mine. If you do not wish to believe it, go ahead. Convincing you is not my objective.

            https://i.4cdn.orgNSFFW1684782770423385.png

            And in real life you reduce a person down to zero by how they look or by one stupid action or mistake they made. It's no different anon.

            [...]

            Having a fricked up childhood makes us grow up a lot faster than most, or at least it feels that way. I'm old and i'm still haunted by the shit that happened way back when. If someone went through something similar and turned out as well as you i'd have nothing but respect for them. Most couples bond over happy memories of their childhood, I personally wouldn't want to bond over stories of my dad putting a shotgun barrel into my face and threatening to kill me, my mom, and himself when i was like four, and shit getting worse as i got older and moving around a lot to avoid the consequences of his actions. I'd want to avoid all those mistakes for sure. When i'm at work or out and about doing errands and grocery shopping or whatever I also try to look put together even though it's physically exhausting and makes me shake in terror. It double sucks because interacting with people is a huge part of my job. When I get home I want to do nothing but lay here and recover. my whole body hurts and i feel like throwing up, and all i did today was go to the grocery store. I put up that front because i'm a guy and it's expected of me, but as soon as I get home and shut that door i'm a fricking mess. We can go darker anon, don't be afraid of it. Harness the darkness for good deeds and finish your degree. I believe in you, and it might not mean much, but I am proud of you. Don't give up. You're too strong to fail, those other students are poser trash compared to the real fricking deal that is you.

            Thank you for sharing, although I hope this isn't you,

            https://i.4cdn.orgNSFFW1684784076672980.png

            LOL, there was a Tinder experiment I saw of a morbidly obese 80 year old woman and she got 2k matches and 100s of messages from handsome guys. These women are implying they are literally worse than an 80 year old morbidly obese woman
            [...]
            It's not about what you want for me. It's my reality and I wish it on every woman too even though I know it's unlikely it'll happen to you, simple as

            since its the same file name. I will assume no. Its horrible what happened to you, its sad these things stay with us for so long, but we really just have to try despite it all.

            This thread has derailed a little, and I'm sad. I'll just sleep now.

          • 9 months ago
            Anonymous

            neither was mine, but you seem to take things the wrong way, too! is that one of your quirks, along with attention seeking on these boards? 🙂
            sleep well!

          • 9 months ago
            Askeladden

            Idk who you are lil homie

          • 9 months ago
            Anonymous

            >I do not think I am what you are seeking.
            What do you think I'm seeking? And what are you seeking?

          • 9 months ago
            Anonymous

            I would want a woman like you tbh.
            Too bad you are likely a guy larping.

    • 9 months ago
      Anonymous

      not for women. if you are a below average man, dont bother

  2. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    >should i just give up as a woman with autism and use dating apps?
    What are you exactly giving up on?

  3. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    The case for bait:
    >dating apps
    >woman
    >woman with autism
    Sentence:
    Relocation to the Gobi desert

    • 9 months ago
      Anonymous

      I would be normie without autism. Maybe. Maybe I'm just a freak.

      >should i just give up as a woman with autism and use dating apps?
      What are you exactly giving up on?

      Dating

      • 9 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Dating
        How? What's wrong?

        • 9 months ago
          Anonymous

          I want a serious long-lasting relationship. I don't want hook-ups, but I am sure that's easy to avoid (just don't have sex lol). But I suck at flirting and I am tired of having to approach men.

          i'm le autistic fembot and i had a great time on dating apps
          >met guy 5 years ago on tinder - tall, handsome, super fit. we dated for like 2 months but he cheated on me straight away
          >hooked up with this amazing mexicam guy from bumble striaght after - really cute pretty boy type
          >found a bf on tinder again straight after - more my looksmatch, dated for a year
          >swore off dating for a few years after that
          >got back into the scene last year - met an model who i was fwb with for a few months but met my current bf on hinger who i adore and love dearly
          if it weren't for dating apps, i'd be either be a khv or i'd have to settle down for a super ugly guy in my league

          This was written by a man. Anyway, I don't care about looks, I'm fugly too.

          • 9 months ago
            Anonymous

            >written by a man
            frick off pick me prostitute ugly b***h

          • 9 months ago
            Anonymous

            >pissy about being called out
            Take your man hands and have a nice day gay.

          • 9 months ago
            Anonymous

            >just don't have sex lol
            Many people don't understand that somehow.
            >But I suck at flirting and I am tired of having to approach men.
            Same
            > I'm fugly too.
            I'm not ugly and I don't even look that bad but I'm so awkward as a guy I put off so many people. I can only survive in my workplace because I pretty much only have to be nice and that's it.

          • 9 months ago
            Anonymous

            I am also very awkward and I am weird. My dating pool is already very limited because I have quirks I will not sacrifice for someone, I would rather be alone. How do you go about dating?

          • 9 months ago
            Anonymous

            >My dating pool is already very limited because I have quirks I will not sacrifice for someone
            I get what you mean. For me, it'd be more of values I won't sacrifice than just quirks. But because of that, I think I sound very boring/nerdy.
            >How do you go about dating?
            Mostly dating apps, or attempting to date someone here. Tried talking to girls irl but they don't want anything to do with me.

            I wish you guys wouldn't act like dating apps are some kind of barrel scraping act of desperation. Everyone is online now, it's how people interact and shit, it's the reason people are glued to their phones 24/7. Dating apps aren't giving up, they're filtering people and giving you a chance to screen them before you meet. You can sort the trash and make it easier for yourself with dating apps, being as specific in your wants as you want and finding exactly what you're looking for. It's amazon, but for people.

            >being as specific in your wants as you want and finding exactly what you're looking for
            I wish lol. I want someone who's physically active, but the ones who claim to be active are still fat. I really wonder what they mean by that, like instead of swimming in water like most people do, do they swim in gravy instead?

  4. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    i'm le autistic fembot and i had a great time on dating apps
    >met guy 5 years ago on tinder - tall, handsome, super fit. we dated for like 2 months but he cheated on me straight away
    >hooked up with this amazing mexicam guy from bumble striaght after - really cute pretty boy type
    >found a bf on tinder again straight after - more my looksmatch, dated for a year
    >swore off dating for a few years after that
    >got back into the scene last year - met an model who i was fwb with for a few months but met my current bf on hinger who i adore and love dearly
    if it weren't for dating apps, i'd be either be a khv or i'd have to settle down for a super ugly guy in my league

    • 9 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Shed rather be a ran-thru prostitute than settle for her looksmatch

      Genuinely hope you die alone.

  5. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    I am dating a girl with autism which I met on a dating app. We're finally meeting next month.
    There is hope for you but you have to be the one who messages first.

    • 9 months ago
      Anonymous

      Why me the one who messages first? DO you suggest bumble then?

      >written by a man
      frick off pick me prostitute ugly b***h

      Idk what you're angry about. I am trying just like anyone else in this shit world. Chill

      • 9 months ago
        Anonymous

        Bumble is okay, managed to get a handful of girls in there, but they were unfortunately just one-night stands. I've found more meaningful friendships and my current relationship on OKC.
        >Why me the one who messages first?
        Speaking from my own experiences and point of view, a girl who does the minimal effort to just say anything other than "hi" when we match is a sign that she is willing to do slightly more than the bare minimum, which gets my attention.
        I also encourage you to have a meaningful bio, don't be afraid to make it long and cringy as long as it represents the real you. Be sure to mention you're looking for a relationship straight up and save your/others' time.
        Also DO NOT display your IG, phone number or real name until you feel confident with a guy you're talking with for your own safety/privacy.
        I'm sure there's a guy out there for you, wish you the best of luck anon.

  6. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    I wish you guys wouldn't act like dating apps are some kind of barrel scraping act of desperation. Everyone is online now, it's how people interact and shit, it's the reason people are glued to their phones 24/7. Dating apps aren't giving up, they're filtering people and giving you a chance to screen them before you meet. You can sort the trash and make it easier for yourself with dating apps, being as specific in your wants as you want and finding exactly what you're looking for. It's amazon, but for people.

    • 9 months ago
      Anonymous

      Reread that and you can realise how dystopian this all is

      • 9 months ago
        Anonymous

        I know how dystopian it is, even as I wrote it. But it's the truth and it's how we live now. Get on board anon, the ride is just beginning. Thank god I won't live long enough to see where this awful present takes us. Still, use the tools available and make yourself at least a little bit happy before it all comes tumbling down and gets even worse.

        • 9 months ago
          Anonymous

          I just ain't made for this world I guess, quite a conundrum I have, isn't it?

    • 9 months ago
      Anonymous

      Except 95% of women match with the same 5% of men lol

    • 9 months ago
      Anonymous

      I've unironically had more luck with twitch, discord and NSFFW with finding gfs than any dating app. I'm an ugly fella with some e-clout though so that's why maybe

    • 9 months ago
      Anonymous

      Dating apps are literally just that. Who cares if it's online or that it is the largest way people meet when it is literally designed to suck lonely people dry of money in the hopes of finding someone. Not only that, but it turns the whole process of finding a partner to be akin to window shopping you reduce an entire person down to how they look in a single photo.

      https://i.4cdn.orgNSFFW1684780159581616.jpg

      If dating apps only work for women and chads, how come 67% of americans found a partner on there?

      How come marriage rates are at an all time low then?

      • 9 months ago
        Anonymous

        And in real life you reduce a person down to zero by how they look or by one stupid action or mistake they made. It's no different anon.

        Probably. It hurts but it's the truth. I haven't fallen for that meme from any chad though and thankfully I can see through when someone doesn't like me at all, but still I am so hopeful it bites me at other times.

        [...]
        [...]
        Well I don't know, I like coming off as put together and tough since I had to be my whole life from a fricked up childhood situation. I just feel like throwing up if someone saw this from me, literally my face right now is beet red and I feel sick lol. I just don't think guys respect women who are lonely since I've just been targeted before since I'm weird and anti social so they think it's easier to manipulate me. It makes it hard to think anyone would ever find that cute or relatable instead of a red flag, pathetic, or an easy in. Sorry to get dark.

        [...]
        You are right though it's predator bait, but I also feel like knowing my feelings and feeling them is important, it's just rare to find people who will treat you gently.

        Having a fricked up childhood makes us grow up a lot faster than most, or at least it feels that way. I'm old and i'm still haunted by the shit that happened way back when. If someone went through something similar and turned out as well as you i'd have nothing but respect for them. Most couples bond over happy memories of their childhood, I personally wouldn't want to bond over stories of my dad putting a shotgun barrel into my face and threatening to kill me, my mom, and himself when i was like four, and shit getting worse as i got older and moving around a lot to avoid the consequences of his actions. I'd want to avoid all those mistakes for sure. When i'm at work or out and about doing errands and grocery shopping or whatever I also try to look put together even though it's physically exhausting and makes me shake in terror. It double sucks because interacting with people is a huge part of my job. When I get home I want to do nothing but lay here and recover. my whole body hurts and i feel like throwing up, and all i did today was go to the grocery store. I put up that front because i'm a guy and it's expected of me, but as soon as I get home and shut that door i'm a fricking mess. We can go darker anon, don't be afraid of it. Harness the darkness for good deeds and finish your degree. I believe in you, and it might not mean much, but I am proud of you. Don't give up. You're too strong to fail, those other students are poser trash compared to the real fricking deal that is you.

  7. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    Purge xenos and expand our factory? What's that?

    • 9 months ago
      Anonymous

      >what's that

      Look at this fricking heretic right here, ignorant of the glory of the Emperor.

      >My dating pool is already very limited because I have quirks I will not sacrifice for someone
      I get what you mean. For me, it'd be more of values I won't sacrifice than just quirks. But because of that, I think I sound very boring/nerdy.
      >How do you go about dating?
      Mostly dating apps, or attempting to date someone here. Tried talking to girls irl but they don't want anything to do with me.
      [...]
      >being as specific in your wants as you want and finding exactly what you're looking for
      I wish lol. I want someone who's physically active, but the ones who claim to be active are still fat. I really wonder what they mean by that, like instead of swimming in water like most people do, do they swim in gravy instead?

      Maybe they lift weights once in awhile? I dunno, if I was to swim even an hour or two a day i'd be fricking jacked. I'm a chubby man who eats too much even though my job requires me to be physical and walk my dog for an hour daily. That counts as active, but i'm still pudgy in the middle. I hate it. Even though i'm an example of how someone can be active and still chubby in the belly area.

      If they seem nice though, give them a chance and encourage them to come for a walk or a swim with you. You'd be surprised how quickly a guy will take up doing shit with you if you bother to ask/encourage him to do so. Most of us enjoy seeing results, and having a cute girl invite us to do an activity is generally great motivation. Just a protip, you can have that one for free.

      • 9 months ago
        Anonymous

        >having a cute girl invite us to do an activity is generally great motivation
        I'm a guy looking for a girl, anon.

      • 9 months ago
        Anonymous

        https://i.4cdn.orgNSFFW1684779203584166.png

        >I'm sorry, I wish I could meet someone traditionally though. Feels a lot more natural.

        I know what you mean, your parents and other people around you probably tell stories of how they met, and not one of them starts with, 'so i was on [dating app] and filtered everyone til i found [her/him[, it was so romantic~" Yeah it feels weird I know, but everyone is online and it's part of our world now, it's as organic as anything else honestly. Natural is an ugly word. Nothing is more natural than humans using tools to make up for deficiencies in their own selves. Personally i'd rather meet someone online than in person, they wear masks in person and try to always put on their best face, while most everyone i've met online don't do any such thing, our conversations were much more genuine and I felt as if I knew the them beneath what they would otherwise present to me out from behind the screen.

        >I am adorable if you think slightly ugly girls can be and I am in grad school (masters). But still, no men want me lol.

        If you want the brutal truth, i'd prefer a slightly ugly girl who's smart and strong. I'd marry smart and strong, I have no need for a beautiful wife, I have a need for someone who can help me with paperwork and moving the furniture while practicing a lecture on me or attempting to teach me math. Everyone looks the same with the lights off, and your brain is worth more than your looks. I'd 100% date you if you lived close to me.

        https://i.4cdn.orgNSFFW1684780526153605.png

        >and I am scared to what they'd think of me after reading such a pathetic display of my loneliness

        I can only speak for myself on this one, but personally I don't find it pathetic in the least. We are all of us pathetic and lonely, so we have no room to judge anyone else. Besides, I think most of us would find it endearing and consider it a bonus quirk. No mask, just the real, scared, awkward, shy, smart and lovely person beneath the mask you'd put up iRL. As I said, smart and strong wins out, and showing someone how vulnerable you actually are is a brave, ballsy move. Bait for predators for sure, but brave and ballsy all the same :3

        These ai generated pics are so fricking cringe bro

        • 9 months ago
          Anonymous

          Don't care, I think they're cute

  8. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    The ONLY attractive autistic women are commonwealth and in grad school. It's not even about appearance at that point, it's about being adorable

    • 9 months ago
      Anonymous

      I am adorable if you think slightly ugly girls can be and I am in grad school (masters). But still, no men want me lol.

      https://i.4cdn.orgNSFFW1684778595467836.jpg

      Bumble is okay, managed to get a handful of girls in there, but they were unfortunately just one-night stands. I've found more meaningful friendships and my current relationship on OKC.
      >Why me the one who messages first?
      Speaking from my own experiences and point of view, a girl who does the minimal effort to just say anything other than "hi" when we match is a sign that she is willing to do slightly more than the bare minimum, which gets my attention.
      I also encourage you to have a meaningful bio, don't be afraid to make it long and cringy as long as it represents the real you. Be sure to mention you're looking for a relationship straight up and save your/others' time.
      Also DO NOT display your IG, phone number or real name until you feel confident with a guy you're talking with for your own safety/privacy.
      I'm sure there's a guy out there for you, wish you the best of luck anon.

      OKC is OkCupid? And thank you, I will try I suppose. I'm still so shy, and a little hopeless. I feel like crying lol

      I wish you guys wouldn't act like dating apps are some kind of barrel scraping act of desperation. Everyone is online now, it's how people interact and shit, it's the reason people are glued to their phones 24/7. Dating apps aren't giving up, they're filtering people and giving you a chance to screen them before you meet. You can sort the trash and make it easier for yourself with dating apps, being as specific in your wants as you want and finding exactly what you're looking for. It's amazon, but for people.

      I'm sorry, I wish I could meet someone traditionally though. Feels a lot more natural.

      • 9 months ago
        Anonymous

        >I'm still so shy, and a little hopeless.
        That bothers guys far less than you would imagine. 90% of this board, myself included, would argue that's adorable.
        When you speak to a guy that is interested in you, he'll get over any awkwardness you display if you make him feel like you are trying.

      • 9 months ago
        Anonymous

        >I'm sorry, I wish I could meet someone traditionally though. Feels a lot more natural.

        I know what you mean, your parents and other people around you probably tell stories of how they met, and not one of them starts with, 'so i was on [dating app] and filtered everyone til i found [her/him[, it was so romantic~" Yeah it feels weird I know, but everyone is online and it's part of our world now, it's as organic as anything else honestly. Natural is an ugly word. Nothing is more natural than humans using tools to make up for deficiencies in their own selves. Personally i'd rather meet someone online than in person, they wear masks in person and try to always put on their best face, while most everyone i've met online don't do any such thing, our conversations were much more genuine and I felt as if I knew the them beneath what they would otherwise present to me out from behind the screen.

        >I am adorable if you think slightly ugly girls can be and I am in grad school (masters). But still, no men want me lol.

        If you want the brutal truth, i'd prefer a slightly ugly girl who's smart and strong. I'd marry smart and strong, I have no need for a beautiful wife, I have a need for someone who can help me with paperwork and moving the furniture while practicing a lecture on me or attempting to teach me math. Everyone looks the same with the lights off, and your brain is worth more than your looks. I'd 100% date you if you lived close to me.

        • 9 months ago
          Anonymous

          >i'd prefer a slightly ugly girl who's smart and strong
          I want to find a girl who's like that too. Not necessarily really strong, but is physically fit somehow, be it stamina or strength.

        • 9 months ago
          Anonymous

          >i'd prefer a slightly ugly girl who's smart and strong
          I want to find a girl who's like that too. Not necessarily really strong, but is physically fit somehow, be it stamina or strength.

          Adding onto that, it's not like I don't do the same things either. I hold myself to the same standards but it seems nobody can meet them.

  9. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    Are you from europe? If yes then just date me lol

  10. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    How is that "giving up?" Online dating is the most common way couples meet in modern times.

    • 9 months ago
      Anonymous

      They met "online" but the same study says only 5% met on actual dating apps. I guess social media is the most common way

      • 9 months ago
        Anonymous

        I notice you're not posting an actual source for this and I don't see anything like that when I look at the study myself so I'm gonna have to call bullshit.

        • 9 months ago
          Anonymous

          >uhm excyoose me sthir but im gonna need to sthee a sthource for that thank you

      • 9 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Surveys carried out and analyzed by Stanford University show that between 1995 and 2017 the number of heterosexuals who met their partner on the internet rose sharply from 2 percent to 39 percent. With the help of dating apps like Tinder and eHarmony

  11. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    You could probably easily get a bf from this board who is also autistic.

  12. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    Why do you feel as if you have to give up? How much have you been rejected? If you are in stem aren't there many guys there?

    • 9 months ago
      Anonymous

      They think the STEM girls are ugly and weird. They never want to date us

      >I'm still so shy, and a little hopeless.
      That bothers guys far less than you would imagine. 90% of this board, myself included, would argue that's adorable.
      When you speak to a guy that is interested in you, he'll get over any awkwardness you display if you make him feel like you are trying.

      You're so nice thank you. I'm just getting emotional now

      • 9 months ago
        Anonymous

        There are several guys ITT who seem to want an autistic stem girl.

        • 9 months ago
          Anonymous

          I am a little scared to date someone off LULZ, and I am scared to what they'd think of me after reading such a pathetic display of my loneliness. I don't think they could look at me straight

          • 9 months ago
            Anonymous

            >and I am scared to what they'd think of me after reading such a pathetic display of my loneliness

            I can only speak for myself on this one, but personally I don't find it pathetic in the least. We are all of us pathetic and lonely, so we have no room to judge anyone else. Besides, I think most of us would find it endearing and consider it a bonus quirk. No mask, just the real, scared, awkward, shy, smart and lovely person beneath the mask you'd put up iRL. As I said, smart and strong wins out, and showing someone how vulnerable you actually are is a brave, ballsy move. Bait for predators for sure, but brave and ballsy all the same :3

          • 9 months ago
            Anonymous

            >I am scared to what they'd think of me after reading such a pathetic display of my loneliness
            Look where you are. Most guys here are just as lonely and pathetic. I think they would even prefer someone like that. Because they can relate to the same issues as you.

      • 9 months ago
        Anonymous

        >You're so nice thank you.
        No problem, anon. I hope you find what you're looking soon enough.

  13. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    >STEM gf
    >"I wanna live forever"

    yeah ok

  14. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    Ugh frick I'm cringe and crying again

  15. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    >should i just give up as a woman with autism
    No, you should give up as a man with autism.

    • 9 months ago
      Anonymous

      Seriously, if you're not just attentionwhoring and you unironically think specifically being female while having autism hopelessly ruins your chances of dating, I want you to imagine the replies you get to this same post swapping "woman" with "man", OP.

      • 9 months ago
        Anonymous

        I'm sorry, it's just that normies think we are freaks, and the people I have dated before took advantage because of the autism. That's what I mean, it's very hard to find people who accept you, respect you, and also still are attracted to you. The autism is another hoop added to that, and being female people expect you to know these social things when really I don't and these let downs they get when you're just weird also make them dislike you and treat you worse

    • 9 months ago
      Anonymous

      >Hugging and kissing for a long time
      >Autistic males 0%
      >moronic males 50%
      I don't know why I am laughing hard reading this. Btw I am probably an autistic male.

    • 9 months ago
      Anonymous

      >moronic males have more sex than autists
      Is this it? The ULTIMATE blackpill?

      • 9 months ago
        Anonymous

        It's the siren call for all of us to start commiting suicide. It's over autismbro. We had a good run, time to lay down and give up. Everything is upside down, so maybe if we lay on the floor we'll be on the ceiling again eventually.

      • 9 months ago
        Anonymous

        It truly is. I remember seeing a short list of mental illnesses where everyone had higher employment rates than autists (80% of autists are unemployed).

  16. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    No way, you totally deserve the 6'4" rich fit guy who'll treat you like the princess you are. Don't settle for less!

  17. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    If dating apps only work for women and chads, how come 67% of americans found a partner on there?

  18. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    I have this picture in my mind where STEM girls have a lot in common with incels. In that they think chad is going to give them a chance cause they are smart. And of course he doesn't, or if he does it is still just for the looks.

    • 9 months ago
      Anonymous

      Probably. It hurts but it's the truth. I haven't fallen for that meme from any chad though and thankfully I can see through when someone doesn't like me at all, but still I am so hopeful it bites me at other times.

      https://i.4cdn.orgNSFFW1684780526153605.png

      >and I am scared to what they'd think of me after reading such a pathetic display of my loneliness

      I can only speak for myself on this one, but personally I don't find it pathetic in the least. We are all of us pathetic and lonely, so we have no room to judge anyone else. Besides, I think most of us would find it endearing and consider it a bonus quirk. No mask, just the real, scared, awkward, shy, smart and lovely person beneath the mask you'd put up iRL. As I said, smart and strong wins out, and showing someone how vulnerable you actually are is a brave, ballsy move. Bait for predators for sure, but brave and ballsy all the same :3

      >I am scared to what they'd think of me after reading such a pathetic display of my loneliness
      Look where you are. Most guys here are just as lonely and pathetic. I think they would even prefer someone like that. Because they can relate to the same issues as you.

      Well I don't know, I like coming off as put together and tough since I had to be my whole life from a fricked up childhood situation. I just feel like throwing up if someone saw this from me, literally my face right now is beet red and I feel sick lol. I just don't think guys respect women who are lonely since I've just been targeted before since I'm weird and anti social so they think it's easier to manipulate me. It makes it hard to think anyone would ever find that cute or relatable instead of a red flag, pathetic, or an easy in. Sorry to get dark.

      https://i.4cdn.orgNSFFW1684780526153605.png

      >and I am scared to what they'd think of me after reading such a pathetic display of my loneliness

      I can only speak for myself on this one, but personally I don't find it pathetic in the least. We are all of us pathetic and lonely, so we have no room to judge anyone else. Besides, I think most of us would find it endearing and consider it a bonus quirk. No mask, just the real, scared, awkward, shy, smart and lovely person beneath the mask you'd put up iRL. As I said, smart and strong wins out, and showing someone how vulnerable you actually are is a brave, ballsy move. Bait for predators for sure, but brave and ballsy all the same :3

      You are right though it's predator bait, but I also feel like knowing my feelings and feeling them is important, it's just rare to find people who will treat you gently.

      • 9 months ago
        Anonymous

        >Probably. It hurts but it's the truth.
        I am so happy you are suffering anon. Please keep hurting yourself by going after chad.

        • 9 months ago
          Anonymous

          I said I do not, they're shallow anyway. It's not what I'm looking for. They're also kind of stupid.

          • 9 months ago
            Anonymous

            You are shallow as well so it is not a problem. They are definitely what you are looking for and that is why you suffer. And that is good.

      • 9 months ago
        Anonymous

        >I just don't think guys respect women who are lonely since I've just been targeted before since I'm weird and anti social so they think it's easier to manipulate me
        For me personally I would prefer a woman who had similar experiences as me and was kinda lonely. I would definitely respect her.

      • 9 months ago
        Anonymous

        >an easy in
        Isn't that what being lonely is though? As someone else who is lonely, it's an easy way to relate to someone else and start to form a stronger bond than with someone who has friends coming out the ass and no time. I really believe two lonely people paired up are a much stronger bond than two people with tons of social interaction. So what's wrong with someone seeing you as lonely being a way to bypass a lot of the icebreaker weeding-out bullshit that non lonely people put others through?

  19. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    Which field STEM GF?

  20. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    hi op! how come you are giving up?
    its weird, because most girls i saw (as a stem student myself) were surrounded by guys trying to get their attention.
    if you have those qualities depicted in picrel then you don't sound bad at all

  21. 9 months ago
    Askeladden

    I hope you rot alone and die alone just like I have to

  22. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    Yes, give up

    The idea of NSFFW tier women disgusts me
    If you're so revolting you cannot find a partner online despite having all the benefits of being a female, you're either too picky or too ugly

    • 9 months ago
      Askeladden

      LOL, there was a Tinder experiment I saw of a morbidly obese 80 year old woman and she got 2k matches and 100s of messages from handsome guys. These women are implying they are literally worse than an 80 year old morbidly obese woman

      I do not think I am what you are seeking.

      [...]
      I would tell you but I hate talking about my professional life online. But most STEM topics, I can hold a good conversation.

      [...]
      Well I am not stacy lol. Most men in STEM do not go for other STEM women either, they think they are ugly and weird.

      [...]
      I don't even want that for you.

      [...]
      An in as in to manipulate.

      It's not about what you want for me. It's my reality and I wish it on every woman too even though I know it's unlikely it'll happen to you, simple as

  23. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    it depends, how autistic are you?

  24. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    You'll probably get pumped and dumped by Chad if you go the dating app route.

    I'm a CS bro (28) living in Toronto. If you're in my city here:
    Narco#5296

    I honestly just wanna marathon avatar the last air bender with a woman just once before I hit 30 Jesus fricking Christ.

  25. 9 months ago
    Anonymous

    Not a gorl, not in stem, not an autist as far as i know and yet i am hitting almost all the boxes there

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