Silly boyfriend

Why does my boyfriend get jealous whenever other guys find me attractive? He also gets upset when guys hit on me in public and so on, which that I understand because he's upset I have to go through that. I feel like I don't quite understand because he's the only man I'll ever love and desire, so I'm not sure why it affects him so much. I'm his first real girlfriend though

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Nice humblebrag.
    You understand just fine.
    Take your larp elsewhere.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      How the hell is this a humblebrag I'm genuinely asking. It actually upsets him all the time and he won't say why

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Maybe post a pic of yourself and we can tell you why

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Can you answer the question I already asked on quora and everyones saying to dump him but he is not abusive or ever mean he's an angel

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            no, also quora/reddit/twitter and every other normie site is filled with bots, those people who tell you to ditch probably didn't even read your thread and just spitefully wish you to break up just to spread misery in the world, seek advice from someone you trust like your family or unironically your teraphist, not that i believe in this psychiatrist bullshit, actually despise it, and Freud was a fricking pedo demoniac israelite and i hope he's burning in the deepest pit of hell RN.

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    He's obviously insecure, duh???

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      But why. He knows I'll never leave him or flirt back or something. I just want to know what to do in these situations because last time I just didn't know what to say at one point and I felt so bad. He assured me it's all him though and he needs space but this happens very often

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        So these men hit on you in front of your bf and you just stand there? How about grabbing your bfs arm and walking away? That would go a long way towards fixing this shit.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Of course not I mean when this happens to me when I go out alone, or online, I sometimes get messages or emails from people I don't know being nasty. The most common though is guys harassing me or something, so I tell him and he calms me down but he also gets a bit upset and distant. I understand he's insecure now but still it's a little hard to understand at times

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >harassing me or something
            Then you need to find a way to shut this down instead of whining to him about it. Its going to happen to women but women need their own coping mechanism. Some learn to ignore it or avoid giving other men access if there is one place it happens frequently. If its in public and other people withing earshot and a guy starts up I just say STOP IT loudly and move away. I am not embarrassed about it at all and it shuts it down. Its not an original idea because I saw and heard another girl do it and it worked.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Good idea. It's kind of hard because sometimes I'm walking to work and there's literally no one else around, last time it was in the store and it was 3 guys plus the cashier so I was cornered. I do my best to ignore it but it generally shakes me up a bit because I always never anticipate going outside and immediately regretting it

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Say it anyway and if you do not see anyone around shout it. If you were cornered turn to the guys and say it so the cashier knows. Its concerning you walk alone with no one around. Thats not safe at all for anyone.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            It's definitely not safe but I live in an area where I can just walk to the mall or something, no point in driving. That's why I usually walk places. I'll get my license soon though maybe it'll drastically reduce most of these issues

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Kara

    You lucked out lol, out of all issues jealousy is probably the most tame one. Just show him you care, don't make him feel guilty for being attached to you and let him know if his lack of trust bothers you.
    Also if you wear super revealing shit I don't blame him. I'm a woman too so I get it that you wanna dress however you like and you can but inviting more temptation makes you more likely to succumb to it.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      No no of course not. I never wear revealing things. It's usually just perverts and sometimes I feel inclined to say pedos because I'm a teenager. I'll definitely try to reassure him much more though. I already do but I definitely wasn't doing it as intensely as I should have

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    He's insecure that eventually a guy that is better than him will hit on you and seduce you, and when that happens you'll leave him (which you will.)

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      How the frick do you seduce someone to that degree. I am in love with him and him with me absolutely nothing can cause a rift between genuine love and trust

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I've seen it happen in real life, you'll know when it does.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I'm not like that I literally don't find most people attractive, he's exactly my type

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            All it takes is one bad day.

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    He sounds like a dweeb. Seeing other men flirt with my gf ignites a healthy jealousy in me, I just think "Yeah so many guys want her, my girl is hot, but she's mine all mine"

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      That's what I'd have liked ideally, because id feel the exact same about him if other women flirted with him. I know he'll never flirt back as well. He's definitely just not experienced at all so he doesn't understand why this is all a little silly

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