>single in your 20s. >"Don't worry about it bro, you don't need a gf, just grind"

>single in your 20s
>"Don't worry about it bro, you don't need a gf, just grind"
>single in your 30s
>"Um dude why are you still single? You need to get a woman and settle down and start a family bro, you're not getting any younger"
Why are people like this

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    A boomer just told me today 40 is an acceptable age to have kids. I told that b***h to look at her kids she had at 35. They are genetic freaks. They think they have all the time in the world.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      The same is true for men though which more people need to realize. Advanced paternal age is the #1 suspected cause of autism and the reason the rates of it have spiked like crazy in the last decade.

      And if women ignored me in my 20s leading me to become an isolated antisocial freak?

      According to 4chins you are supposed to now be super loaded in your 30s and hot barely legal women should be all over you, forgiving any social defects you have because of your money, and all the roasties who rejected you before are depressed single moms. Or something.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Advanced paternal age is the #1 suspected cause of autism and the reason the rates of it have spiked like crazy in the last decade.
        Yeah, that's it, not the heavy metals found in certain substances which have also been found in the brains of SIDS cases which straight up cause braindamage, nope, it's age!

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah you sure know more than scientists with their peer-reviewed studies, buddy. And the covid vaccine was putting mind control chips in us amirite?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      https://i.imgur.com/hyOiByK.jpeg

      >single in your 20s
      >"Don't worry about it bro, you don't need a gf, just grind"
      >single in your 30s
      >"Um dude why are you still single? You need to get a woman and settle down and start a family bro, you're not getting any younger"
      Why are people like this

      This is why a quarter of children are disabled nowadays and it's only going to get worse.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Are they actually genetic freaks or is this schizophrenic rambling your doing?

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    because its basically true

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      And if women ignored me in my 20s leading me to become an isolated antisocial freak?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        at 30 its basically permanent

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >It's THEIR fault I'm an antisocial freak
        You needed random ass women from the street to raise you?

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If you're a male, it doesn't really matter when you have kids. You can have them at 60 if you want, but you need millions and the woman needs to be ~ 30.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Men's life expectancy is 73, so the later you have kids, the more likely you are to be dead or in a nursing home before they even hit adulthood. Don't do that to some poor kid.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        The kid will inherit millions. It's fine either way. Maybe have the kid at 50. The most important thing is the money. Don't have multiple kids you can not afford.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Not this redpill shit AGAIN

      https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30206748/
      https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28472913/
      https://www.businessinsider.com/study-older-fathers-have-less-attractive-children-2014-3

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Try being Asian

    >No social life allowed
    >No extra curricular allowed
    >No dating allowed
    >No going out allowed
    >No public transport allowed
    >Just focus on studies

    Then turn 18
    >Why don't you know how to get to uni
    >Why are you so scared to go to places
    >Why don't you know how to drive there

    Turn 22
    >When are you going to get gf/bf
    >Why aren't you married
    >Why don't you have a house

    The only other Asians that somewhat did alright are the ones who "rebelled" or were considered "problem" kids. The obedient studious ones often ended up maladapted in some aspects of their life. Whether it's socially or financially or both. I think this is the reasoning for a lot of hikikimori types

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Does that mean I can just get an older inexperienced asian gf with low self esteem?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Where could I find an Asian guy like this? All the Asian men I see on dating apps are druggie frickboy raver types, even the ones with STEM jobs who should theoretically be nerds but aren't.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Nerds don't use dating apps for obvious reasons, check the library on any college campus and you'll see dozens

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          ...I'm not in college so it would be creepy if I went to a college campus lol.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Say you were hanging out with a friend or something. Other than smash tournies the library is the only place nerds hang out

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Ehh. Would tabletop gaming groups have some or is that just all white guys?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Probably. In my group there's only white guys but YMMV. Are you female by the way? Be prepared to be harassed by autists if so

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I am female, but I'm not attractive or young so nah. I can rest assured no one will hit on me.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Don't underestimate male thirst

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Frick the keeping up with the Joneses bullshit. Go for what you want and set a goal and go get it. Stop being a fricking loser.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Spare me that shit please. Nobody likes to be behind their peers. You and I both know it.

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    people are moronic anon. don't have kids after 40 or 30 something. sedentary parents breed sedentary kids.

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    What advice do you want?

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >people's answer changes after 10 years go by
    >wtf how could this be
    A dumb and pointless frog thread, many such cases.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      I'm just saying it's hypocritical of people to tell you not to worry about relationships and then expect you to be able to easily get into one when you're old

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Why though? Why is it hypocritical for people to expect you to have learned a thing or two and gotten some experiences after a DECADE has passed?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I already feel too far behind at 25 to even catch up. Things were looking up in 2020, then the chink flu happened and I lost my internship. I've worked remotely since here and there, but trajectory was down since then. Now I'm competing with people who have normal experiences, normal milestones, have dated and had sex with multiple partners. I'm 25 and have the romantic experience of a 12 year old. It's a joke. If I tried to get intimate with a girl they'd laugh in my face at this point because I'd be acting like some awkward teenager in a Michael Cera movie. It just feels like diminishing returns if I even bother. Pretty much feels over if you didn't take care of it during college.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I already feel too far behind at 25 to even catch up.
            Oh for frick's sake, I thought you were 30?
            >Now I'm competing with people who have normal experiences, normal milestones, have dated and had sex with multiple partners.
            Those people all lived through the chink flu too though. Why did the plandemic not stop them from living normal lives but it did stop you?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I'm not OP. I just feel similar. If you're already so far behind, nobody is going to be forgiving of your mistakes. You will be judged harshly and have to go through the motions everyone else already did years before. No woman is going to put up with that. The Covid thing is more like I went from going to uni classes in person to being stuck on Zoom calls, and there was a lockdown for a while so everything was closed. I was about to climb out of a hole then got pushed back in it. I've been working and saving money, but in terms of dating, its like starting a race from the beginning when everyone else is already halfway done.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I started dating at 25 and ngl it was horrible. I was naive and clueless, got taken advantage of and used over and over. Never got to experience proper cute romance, it had to get sexual right away because that's what is expected at that age. So even as a virgin I didn't get to experience the cute butterflies-in-tummy "just kissing and making out phase" because sexual acts were pushed on me immediately. It left me really depressed. Wish I could've had normal innocent first experiences.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            SAME, how old are you now?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Omg, I started at 20 and when I didnt want to have sex before listening the "I love you" I was a boring prude b***h

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Have sex.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Did you even understand a single word he said? fricking esl moron

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            She*
            You really think women would be the ones pushing sex on men immediately, or that men would be upset about it?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            do you really think there are women on this board?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It's a dumb viewpoint to have no matter the timeframe. Completely forgoing a stage of social development and expecting it to benefit you years down the line is insane.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Ok, well who told you/him to "completely forego a stage of social development" then? Maybe that wasn't the best idea?

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          You're not very smart are you?

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Infinitely smarter than you, yes.

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    In the conservative south people openly expect you to get married shortly after college. If you date a girl through college and then don't marry her when you're 23-24 her whole family fricking hates you. If you're single from 25-30 older people will hassle you about it every single time they see you.
    In general mainstream culture seems to be basically delusional about how long people are fertile, but there's nothing you can do. I really doubt you didn't get a gf *because people told you it was fine*. You should have want a girlfriend, theoretically. You didn't get one because you couldn't. It's no one else's fault.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Based South.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Is it better or worse or just different? Idfk. I'm glad I'm not eith my girlfriend from highschool lol. I know I b***h about my current gf sometimes but I genuinely love her and it took years to find it.

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    There isn't a word to describe how over it is.

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Nobody tells you how to get a girlfriend
    >Me: becomes 30 without having a girlfriend ever
    >Normies: WTF how did you never have a girlfriend???
    Normies (extroverts) are inherently evil people who thrive on gaslighting others.

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Its a bit like breathing, running, or liking specific foods. People assume you'll get a partner eventually. They dont know you cant form any meaningful relationships, or that you have severe distrust of people and dont really want a gf deep down/wanna be left alone but the concept of a gf sounds noce, or that you have trauma (you may not even think its trauma).

    They just think youre in a lonely strike.

  13. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Everybody just thinks I'm gay now, works out pretty good, you could just lean into that. People will either ignore you outright or roll out the red carpet for you depending on their politics.

  14. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Just pay for sex at this point. It's not going to get any better, no matter how long you wait.

  15. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Why did you listen to what someone else was telling you and not just do what you wanted to do?

  16. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >single in your 30s

    best time imo to date around. You know yourself more and waht you want. Also what you dont' want.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      That's great for those privileged enough to get dates in their 30s

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Not really. Women in their mid 20s and up will expect commitment from you quickly and will bounce right away if you don't give it. The best time for dating around is college, when no one is thinking of long term goals/marriage/kids.

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