So how do you actually talk to women?

So how do you actually talk to women? I'm in a discord server with some girls, but the more I talk to them the less adept I feel in being able to handle conversations with them, ironically. The rules I'm applying to myself when talking to them is...
Don't overwhelm them with too many words

Don't excessively use references they won't get

Don't disagree with them too much, even if you think you're right

On the other hand, agree them with them as much as possible without coming off as a simp (this is hard)

Don't be a creep and ask them personal details, no matter how innocuous. Let them bring it up themselves first and then ask questions

Politics are absolutely forbidden, but if you're forced to talk about them pretend to align with their views. You can only be honest with your fellow guy friends

They value feelings a lot, try to emphasize more and stop being objective and sticking to facts and reality

Don't mention how much of a loser you are behind the screen, also don't reveal any weaknesses unless it's to fake humble yourself without actually damaging your image

They like small talk, they'll extend the conversation endlessly if you join in

They'll hold grudges if you accidentally trip them up, be careful to not get on their nerves

What other tips can you guys come up with?

Oh man, no wonder I get so anxious whenever I talk to them if I'm being bounded by so many restrictions. The funny thing is that they're not even single but they're good practice for when I get a girlfriend in the future.

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I have told a girl that I like riding my bike alone on nature trails and it gave her the ick, what the frick? The cherry on top is that she's heavyset and has kids, not exactly a catch.
    Another one disliked that I worked from home, though I make more money than she will ever see.
    So, I would add that you cannot reveal that you enjoy spending time alone, even doing healthy activities. I don't know why it is so bad, but they hate it.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You tried to attract low value women and are shocked as to why they are low value. So now you spread lies that all women must be terrible because only the terrible ones are willing to talk to you.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        It would way be more helpful if you named an example where that didn't happen.

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >What other tips can you guys come up with?
    None of that is the way to proceed if your goal is to find an ltr. Turn off the computer and go outside and talk to women.

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    talking to women isn't a logic gate. You can't map this out for anybody except generally unsophisticated people, not ideal dating partners.

    unless you're looking for those people, in qhich case some of the pua crap can work. but not through a fricking discord

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    femanon here, being completely honest girls are really a mixed bag but I really think your best bet is to learn about their interests. a lot of girls synonymize with the exhaustion of only being seen as objects, and treating them as people is your best gateway into them in turn wanting to learn about you, and I’m sure in your case even just making friends with girls is progress.

    fair warning, like I said, women are a mixed bag—some girls can be really lovely and others can be total c**ts for no reason and if your goal is to be happy, don’t settle for people that will make you even more miserable. i find it cute you’re willing to put so much effort into this, but remember that you’re human too and that sometimes some people just aren’t meant to fit your puzzle piece. I can lay down more pointers if you need them but really if you need to restrict yourself this much to talk with a girl or anyone else really, I doubt they’re worth your time.

    either way, hoping that you’ll improve as a person and land the girl of your dreams one day, godspeed 😀

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    anon, i prescribe 2 beers so that you stop thinking about all this dumb shit and just say whatever is on your mind.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Best advice

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Brother, a woman worth talking to wont make you have to pretend to care what theyre talking about and they wont make you lie about your own personal views. A good woman who isnt a walking meat sheathe is adult enough to be able to disagree, wont be neurotic and think youre being creepy asking about personal details, and certainly wont hold a grudge for being tripped up. Youre talking to pieces of shit. Its going to get tiring pretending.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Right it was tiring just reading about it. And none of them are single, so good chance they aren't entering the conversation with that certain crackle of energy.

      https://i.imgur.com/2zXt6le.jpeg

      So how do you actually talk to women? I'm in a discord server with some girls, but the more I talk to them the less adept I feel in being able to handle conversations with them, ironically. The rules I'm applying to myself when talking to them is...
      Don't overwhelm them with too many words

      Don't excessively use references they won't get

      Don't disagree with them too much, even if you think you're right

      On the other hand, agree them with them as much as possible without coming off as a simp (this is hard)

      Don't be a creep and ask them personal details, no matter how innocuous. Let them bring it up themselves first and then ask questions

      Politics are absolutely forbidden, but if you're forced to talk about them pretend to align with their views. You can only be honest with your fellow guy friends

      They value feelings a lot, try to emphasize more and stop being objective and sticking to facts and reality

      Don't mention how much of a loser you are behind the screen, also don't reveal any weaknesses unless it's to fake humble yourself without actually damaging your image

      They like small talk, they'll extend the conversation endlessly if you join in

      They'll hold grudges if you accidentally trip them up, be careful to not get on their nerves

      What other tips can you guys come up with?

      Oh man, no wonder I get so anxious whenever I talk to them if I'm being bounded by so many restrictions. The funny thing is that they're not even single but they're good practice for when I get a girlfriend in the future.

      Entering the henhouse in a chicken costume, just be the fox you are

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Talk to women IRL
    Think in terms of trial and error
    Start with ugos and maybe even bang a few

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Wow so much of this is wrong, bump your thread until tomorrow so I can give you some actual advice.

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    My experience talking to girls has been pretty much the same as yours. It's completely exhausting. I wish women were more like men, at least a little bit.

  10. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Wtf are these "rules" you've given yourself? Holy shit lol you might actually be full moronic.

    Assuming we aren't talking about autists, a woman is just a person. Talk to them the same say you would talk to any other person. You don't need any moronic doormat rules that treat women as if they're morons. Just the standard rules of social norms and communication.

    Be yourself you dumb b***h. Don't pretend to be someone or something that you're not. They either like you for you, or you're wasting your time.

  11. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    your mistake is trying to talk with w*men anon, specially online

  12. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >online women
    Uhhh. Only shallow mentally ill prostitutes are online OP. Find women offline

  13. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    OP its time to just stop with the sissy bs and put the dick on the table. Show them your manliness and post some dick pics

  14. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It is like impossible to interact with online women. They WILL screenshot and use shit against you, and for any perceived reason.
    It has not happened to me but I have seen it enough times. Discord is extremely cruel and toxic. Even male friends, be careful messaging stuff too sus, lest they do a 180 and go simp mode and expose you for brownie points.
    If you feel like you have to tiptoe around them, it is because you know they are dangerous and are being smart.
    There is no magic answer sadly, just tread carefully and try to have fun while putting on a slight face for protection

  15. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    women these days are so easy to talk to its silly. just make sure your fit, talk to them and pretend your uninterested, show curiousity but not intrest. youll frick this up 4-9 times but when you get it down you'll sleep with 9's non stop. i always pretend my dicks big and that gets them every time

  16. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Here’s a bump
    Anyways
    Can 5’9(and a little taller) autists attract non autist girls?
    For context: I get involved in local events that happen
    Is there anyways to attract?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Are you indian?

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        No arab (we’re also short)
        Any advice?

  17. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    as a girl myself here's the best advice i could give you

    Be funny. Girls loves a funny guy, even if he looks autistic

    Don't talk to girls on discord they're usually b***hes..

    Go outside and take care of yourself because a guy who's on discord everyday isn't really attractive.. you'll just look like a moron and a simp.

    Be open minded

    That's all i can give you good luck out there anon

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      With respect, women give terrible dating advice.

      However:

      >Don't talk to girls on discord they're usually b***hes..

      >Go outside and take care of yourself because a guy who's on discord everyday isn't really attractive.. you'll just look like a moron and a simp.

      SOlid advice

  18. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I thought I had issues. People really have issues talking with women online? Are these video chats or are you just typing?

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Discord server

  19. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    https://www.girlschase.com/content/conversationalist

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