>talk to girl. >learn that she already had sex with someone else. >instantly lose interest in her

>talk to girl
>learn that she already had sex with someone else
>instantly lose interest in her

What do I do? I can't just find a virgin because they don't exist at my age.

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  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Keep looking

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Join a cult-like church that has a focus on life. You know the ones, where you're ostracized for having less than 3 kids. It's not just Mormons. Best chances nowadays.
    I was considering joining one while I was trying to turn my life around. But then I slipped back into my old habits, and frankly I'd feel bad for larping as a Christian just to get laid.

  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If you're in hs or college, just keep looking

    But if you're over 22 then your chances of meeting a virgin are slim to none. Most women lose their V card by 19 at the latest.

    You might just have to accept that you probably won't ever find a virgin, and will likely have to settle for someone a woman who has an ex.

    Non-virgin women tend to carry more baggage and attitude, they will compare you to their ex and they also will be a lot more difficult to please. But that doesn't mean it's impossible to have a healthy loving relationship with one, many men marry non-virgins in this day and age.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >You might just have to accept that you probably won't ever find a virgin
      So how do I do the "accepting" part? Its not like I can suddenly just decide to be attracted to them. If attraction was a choice then we could just ask the gays to just be straight.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      What does YOUR age have to do with anything?

      almost 60% of 19 year old girls are still virgins.
      Among Whites it is higher.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        People lie on surveys all the time, moron. Statistics are never valid.

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >learn that she already had sex with someone else
    How?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >So whats your bod count?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      They literally just tell you.
      It's come up in every relationship I've ever been in, and I've never asked.

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You sound delusional and entitled but unless you're rich or looking for the younger ones good luck

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Do you really just go on /adv/ to virtue signal in random threads?

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I'm giving you advice, it's called truth

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >looking for the younger ones
      That's a plan worth pursuing, and disregard what envious third-parties think.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >entitled
      Yea i am, and i deserve it, cry about it

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        And what makes you deserving of it

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I used to be like you but the truth is the only actual reasons to want a virgin are coomerish fantasies, hidden insecurities and arbitrary internet right wing dogma. No actual reasons with logical substance.
    My current gf has 24 bodies and she treats me like a king while an ex that was a virgin when we met turned out to be massive c**t. Personality and looks matter, not bodycount.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Bodycount does matter but being this obsessed about it like op is moronic

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Personality and looks matter, not bodycount.
      Bodycount is undoubtedly tied to your character and personality. Risking your health and potential pregnancy with 24 men, many of them who you barely know says a lot about you because its fricking stupid. Also you're not special if she was licking the bum hole of the 24 dudes before you.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        How many girls do you think have a bodycount of 24 or more?

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        no she's crazy anxious about pregnancy and diseases so she never had unprotected sex. And she didn't do oral stuff except for blowing two boyfriends a long time ago and she hated it so much she never did it again. In fact I've asked the most of her yet and she's been very compliant.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          You're a beta simp and a gay cuck for french kissing a prostitute who had other guys cum in her mouth.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            And someone is french kissing a mouth I spent half a dacede cooming into up to three times per week but the cum washes off in like a minute so it doesn't matter for anybody except a virgin troony like you. Cope and dilate.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >cooming into up to three times per week
            Like others did before you

            >the cum washes off in like a minute
            She can't unsuck a dick

            >so it doesn't matter for anybody
            It does matter to you if you're replying

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            nothing you said makes any sense at all or touches on truth at any point

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            It touches the truth as much as your girlfriend the 24 dicks

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >My current gf has 24 bodies
      And you're convinced that you're the last?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Less than 1 in 7 women has a bodycount over *12*, pal

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        well she is a bit of a bawd, but she's a bawd with a heart of gold

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >24 bodies
      imagine the smell

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      nice bait

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I feel you, I don't think its unreasonable to find non-virgins less attractive. I think it basically like an male "ick" that we can't shake, even the people arguing against you would choose the virgin version of their girlfriend or wife if they had a choice.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Let's be grateful for the fact that nearly everyone is conformist and sensitive to public opinion, seeking only within their age range. That gives those of us who don't give a shit about such things can confine our attention to the low bodycount younger women.

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    They exist. My gf is 35, ex is 29, and ex's sister is 36. Just gotta meet your own criteria and bring it up fairly early that you're waiting and are wanting someone else who is also waiting. Only roasties get pissed, most women worth dating will understand, and the few who meet the criteria rise to the occasion.

  9. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    they exist but whats your age OP? and are you a virgin? I'm 23 and had sex with a polish christian virgin last year and made her my gf but it ultimately ended because we just grew to not really like each other too much. In uni I did live with 2 other virgins and one ended up with one long term bf who shes still with and the other prostituted around abroad.

  10. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Never settle anon. You will find her.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      no he won't and even if he does he will blow it with his autism

  11. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    join crazy militant islamist group
    blow yourself up
    get virgins in paradise

    seriously though, the need for a virgin is just insecurity or narcissism or some shit like that
    it's okay to be either of those, i'm saying solving such issues may solve your problem more simply

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You sound delusional and entitled but unless you're rich or looking for the younger ones good luck

      I used to be like you but the truth is the only actual reasons to want a virgin are coomerish fantasies, hidden insecurities and arbitrary internet right wing dogma. No actual reasons with logical substance.
      My current gf has 24 bodies and she treats me like a king while an ex that was a virgin when we met turned out to be massive c**t. Personality and looks matter, not bodycount.

      Bodycount does matter but being this obsessed about it like op is moronic

      >What do I do?
      Question why you care about something so irrelevant.

      its so easy to see whose gfs are prostitutes

  12. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >What do I do?
    Question why you care about something so irrelevant.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >why do you care about something thats so irrelevant to me
      oh idk anon, maybe because we are different?

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Why do you think it's relevant?

  13. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >at my age.
    which is? 59?

  14. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Your only options are girls that are really religious, young, or socially inept. Which would you prefer?

  15. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >What do I do
    1) Holy Mass every Sunday
    2) Be wholesome there
    3) Participate in the activities of your parish
    4) ????
    5) Hymen

  16. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    That's just you. Believe me I don't want a girl with baggage. And having a growing body count can do awful things to a persons personality sometimes. But I think most people would just be happy that they had a lot of firsts, or were good at something their exes weren't good at. Or that their partner puts out more than what they put out for with their exes. Romance is greatly enhanced with a not of novelty, so seek that in your relationship if you cannot find a virgins to share everything new with them. On the other hand, the other story here is that there are a lot of people who have relationships and understand that their current partner is not doing things they did with their exes, or understand that they are not as good as the ex, somehow their current gf/bf has settled. That never feels good.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      The thing for me and I've said this consistently isn't "She's had sex" it's "She's had sex with fricking scumbags." Every fricking time that's the case.

      I've never met a girl who was like "Oh yeah, I married my husband out of highschool. We called him Captain America, only man I ever loved. 6'4, college educated but he loved his country so much he went and died a marine. He tripped over his massive pringle can dick and was hit by mortar fire." Because that, that wouldn't bother me at all. No, I'd never measure up, but how can I fault her for loving that guy, you know? Can't even call her a bawd.

      But instead it's always "He was such a fricking LOSER! He smelled and was all fat with stretch marks and his dick was so fricking SMALL. He made me do the most vile, disgusting shit. I sucked that gross dick every fricking day, but you're sweet, you won't make me relive that trauma, right? Of that fat dropout drug dealing loser who's cum I swallowed over and over and over every day for years." Now you're fricking trash. Why the frick would you frick a scumbag, you diseased prostitute? I don't want to be in that guy's company. Clearly you have a type, and don't want to be on his team.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Keep in mind a lot of women tend to villainize their exes, it's part of the "deading out" process
        That said, it's still part of the aforementioned baggage you get with non-virgins. If she's still talking about her ex(es) while in a relationship with you that's a big red flag. Not necessarily because she'll go back, but if he's living rent free in her head that means he's your roommate there and she'll associate you two, as you alluded to

  17. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Date younger girls. As long as it's legal, who gives a frick what bitter, hypocritical roasties think? If you're in the US, plenty of states where it's as young a 16. If you're in Europe, it's 14 in like 7 countries. Including Germany. Hell, that fricking place is trying to lower it to 12. I wouldn't go that far, I already got someone, but point is unless your sick ass wants to make porn you can find these girls if you know where to look, keep it legal, lock her down, marry her, make some babies and die happy in like 60 years. Anyone who tells you different is a jealous hypocrite.

    The emphasis here though is keep it legal.

  18. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    get over this, it's a stupid hang up. even if she is a ho, at least make her your ho

  19. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You are normal. I have become a voluntary celibate when I've learned that all girls of my age are non virgin bawds. This is fricking disgusting. Only homosexuals can have sex with non virgin bawds.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      that's emotion driven and very feminine

  20. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    This attitude ALWAYS stems from being sexually insecure and from fear of being compared. Stop thinking of yourself as sexually inadequate and stop fearing being a downgrade and an attitude change will follow.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >t. I don't know what I'm talking about
      It's not fear, it's disgust. And it's honestly worse if a woman gave herself to some gremlin who is clearly beneath me in every way.

      >Be me
      >Be desired by virgin
      >Don't know
      >Accidentally and suddenly give her the ick
      >Try to win her back to no avail
      >She loses virginity to a fricking homosexual with no identity but who she considered would love her
      >I made her think she couldn't get better
      >I made her settle
      >She finally wakes up after >12 months
      >They break up
      >She reaches out to me
      >I've felt like absolute CANCER for >12 months because of this and been a regular on /adv/ since
      >Reject her for certain this time
      My heart weighs 800 pounds but I just can't take her back. Not only did she immediately go to someone else after just one small thing by me, but he actually took her virginity while I seethed
      I'm a virgin still
      The hurt is indescribable and we could've been husband and wife but I just can't do it now. I saw all of this unfold in slow motion, even her coming back, because her cope "relationship" was all because of me, but it's just so fricking disgusting now it's insane
      I vomit from just the thought of the wasted potential

      I get that it's awful in the moment, but you dodged a bullet. A flaky woman with zero sense of character is not the kind of woman you should want to marry.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >It's not fear, it's disgust.
        I think that's the most common cope in this situation because it makes you seem like you're superior to others. You have to humble yourself enough to admit to yourself that you're not better than other people who make decisions that you don't agree with and that you're not a supreme judge of humans. Rejecting this desire to frame yourself as the superior judge will help you think clearly about your own identity, life and true desires and it's a key part of growing up. Your choices, emotions and even experiences that you missed out on or had don't make you superior or inferior, you're just you and so is everyone else. Humble yourself to learn to love your true self and than you can separate love from judgement and love the people that you want to love and judge the people that you want to judge without some uncontrollable disgust or fear or whatever getting in the way of your happiness. Humble yourself, learn to love yourself, learn to love others, than we'll talk.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          You wrote an entire paragraph of meaningless psychobabble without even reading the part where I spelled out (and the view is shared by at least one other anon ITT) that the feeling has nothing to do with supposed "fear of inadequacy".

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            sure it doesn't 😉

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            For someone who rambles about the importance of being "humble" (translation: doing what you want and dropping my values), you're incredibly condescending.
            Frick off.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            all I'm saying is your attitude is immature and boils people down to one aspect of their life in order to judge them as if a person is that simple and as if you have a right to judge and as if when looking for love you should be judging people. Judging people in search for love is a very tinder thing to do and you will never find love that way, it will happen only if you stop judging people. As long as you're in the judgment mentality you won't be able to make connection.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >if you have values I don't, you're immature
            Shove it

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            yeah sometimes your values just turn out to be shit. If you want to be martyr for the cause of virginity go ahead and look for a virgin as your best years and opportunities for romance pass you by but be aware that
            1. If you're not in high school it's over for you
            2. every year you hold these values you rob yourself of multiple opportunities for finding a woman that's not perfect but could be perfect for you and these opportunities will never come back

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >sometimes your values just turn out to be shit
            By what metric are you judging that, you pseud homosexual? Weren't you just lecturing me about not judging?
            You "don't judge" types are insufferable; you're pathologically dishonest.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >By what metric are you judging that, you pseud homosexual?
            They simply don't make a better person. Your desire to bang a virgin is purely selfish. It's for your ego. And they do not make you happier either because unless you're in hs you will fail and waste time and if they're after hs and still a virgin they're girls that you settle for anyway.
            What you're going to bring up the bible next? If yes than non virgins and even prostitutes are still beloved children of God and He doesn't look at them with disgust.
            So basically your "value" is just an arbitrary standard that exist just for your ego and to protect you from fear of inadequacy and a tool to frame yourself as a superior judge of others.
            That's not at any point moral, Christian or beneficial to your life. In fact looking at a human being with disgust is a sin.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >They simply don't make a better person.
            I repeat: by what metric? You're *so* confident that we shouldn't judge, and you're equally confident that not only am I lying about my feelings for the sake of my ego on a Libyan hackysack forum, but also hold shit values.
            If your moral system's linchpin is the commandment that not judging (except when judging people who don't agree!) is the highest good, then I simply disagree with you. We have nothing to gain from talking to each other, because you obviously have vastly different priorities from me.

            And if that ISN'T how you'd describe your morality, then your ideology is just an incoherent mess that amounts to shitting on people for caring about things you don't personally care about. Either way, you're adding less than nothing to the discussion. Not only are you saying nothing useful, but you're acting in the usual smug and sanctimonious fashion that "don't judge" types seem to be plagued with.

            >What you're going to bring up the bible next?
            I'm not religious, and neither are you.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I'm not shitting on you or judging you I'm just criticizing your values because I used to hold them dearly for a long time only to realize they're not values but standards and they're neither moral nor beneficial. And to make things straight I don't view not judging people in general as a moral virtue, there's time and place for judgement, I'm just saying that when looking for a partner it has no place because it prevents you from creating a true connection and makes you miss out on opportunities and lose precious time. The whole time when I'm talking about judgment I mean strictly in the context of dating. This is why app dating is a failure, it makes you judge people, you can't find love in that mindset.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You literally called my values shit and me a liar.

            >because it prevents you from creating a true connection
            I'm not interested in a woman who doesn't share my values. If she has sex outside of marriage, she doesn't share my values.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            yeah that value is shit but I'm not callig you shit for having it and I'm not calling you a liar I just think you're unaware of some of your mental processes like everyone ever and I'm pointing them out. It's your choice ultimately but this is an advice board and I'm trying to give you advice based on my life experience

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            And I think your values are shit.
            Now that we've had the constructive conversation you apparently wanted, can you shut up?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >In fact looking at a human being with disgust is a sin.
            and judging people is not a good thing either and you will be judged in return for it

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >A flaky woman with zero sense of character is not the kind of woman you should want to marry.
        I've heard both takes on this. I've told myself that she indeed has character because she did not tolerate the ick I made her feel. She knew she "deserves better"
        But then like what did I even do. I "gave her the ick" and that's all it took? I told myself she was frustrated and I didn't make her feel better, but a friend said she was already ready to leave you, if it didn't happen then, it would've happened later and you dodged a bullet
        I just don't know. It fricks me up beyond belief. I can't focus on anything because of it

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Or it could be as simple as not wanting to deal with baggage another man left her with 5, 10, 15 years ago
      Some men aren't as desperate for pussy that they'll put up with a b***h who hates men because of an ex like you would

  21. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Be me
    >Be desired by virgin
    >Don't know
    >Accidentally and suddenly give her the ick
    >Try to win her back to no avail
    >She loses virginity to a fricking homosexual with no identity but who she considered would love her
    >I made her think she couldn't get better
    >I made her settle
    >She finally wakes up after >12 months
    >They break up
    >She reaches out to me
    >I've felt like absolute CANCER for >12 months because of this and been a regular on /adv/ since
    >Reject her for certain this time
    My heart weighs 800 pounds but I just can't take her back. Not only did she immediately go to someone else after just one small thing by me, but he actually took her virginity while I seethed
    I'm a virgin still
    The hurt is indescribable and we could've been husband and wife but I just can't do it now. I saw all of this unfold in slow motion, even her coming back, because her cope "relationship" was all because of me, but it's just so fricking disgusting now it's insane
    I vomit from just the thought of the wasted potential

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      so sorry bro, remember though that young love is shit love and you'll get better, just try to have a healthy attitude towards women and sex and you'll get lucky eventually. My virgin friend who's 25 just got his first girlfriend and I think what helped him was that he wasn't obsessed with his v card.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Isn't this worse than being in a relationship with someone?

  22. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Women lie about their body count more than men. I have been with girl who said she fricked 4 men and if it doesn't bother me I was like it's your life. When we met her dick sucking skill were 1 star and when I tried to frick her I couldn't even get it up because she was virgin and I couldn't penetrate her. It was terrible experience. My dick was too big and I felt unsatisfied

    My porn addiction might have played role too. Afterward I dropped the whole thing that girl needs to be virgin, I just want ot have good time. Many women lie they had sex to keep their ego high. What a strange creatures

  23. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Bros I can’t help myself
    I meet girls on dates
    I’m always looking for virgins and if they say they’re not virgins I can help but get e raged and shake, one girl told me she slept with 30+ guys and I just slapped her hard in the coffee shop
    What is wrong with me?

    • 2 weeks ago
      danger days

      get therapy, take a shower and touch grass. i wouldn't knowingly date anyone who has slept with 30 people, but getting so pressed and pissy that you resort to violence means there is something wrong. seek help. you're not entitled to a virgin unless you are one yourself

  24. 2 weeks ago
    danger days

    You're not entitled to a virgin significant other unless you are one yourself. in which case keep looking.

  25. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    ITT: wiener sucking homosexuals

  26. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >What do I do?
    You stop being a fricking moron with delusional expectations. Men adamantly insisting women be virgins is the same bullshit was women adamantly insisting you have a million dollars.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >work hard to have million dollars
      Vs
      >just not spread legs

      Uhhhhh, ummmm

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Nobody with that kind of money "worked hard," they happened to be in a board room at the right time. People who actually work hard make baby money.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >ancestral wealth based on pure luck and right time to purchase property/start business inherited by descendants who happen to have same luck and right decision making and enough wit to multiply money passed down again
          Vs
          >not spreading legs

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Do you understand how easy it is to get raped as a woman in high school or college? It isn't always HURR DURR SPRED UR LEGZ, man.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Are there rapist with us in this room right now?

          • 2 weeks ago
            danger days

            probably yes. they're literally at every corner just hiding until you're alone

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            And those rapists, do you see them all the time or just occassinally. Are there voices in your head accompanied with those rapists?

          • 2 weeks ago
            danger days

            HEUGH AHAHA! I SHOULD CALL THIS PERSON DELUSIONAL! This will show them...heh...I'm so funny...

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I'll prescribe olanzapine and xanax for now, see me after month and if the voices will be louder do not hesitate to call immediately. Although it takes month for meds to work I have faster ones

          • 2 weeks ago
            danger days

            damn bro you got the whole squad laughing it's alright you can stop now

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Theres rapist behind your back

          • 2 weeks ago
            danger days

            "theres a rapist behind your back"

  27. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    either join a church or get fit/handsome and frick as many girls as you can for a while until the right one rolls along. if you have a lot of bodies you won’t care if she has a few.

    if you do this right then do not settle on any girl with more than 5 bodies.

  28. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Get over it. Everyone has sex for the first time, and the social significance of virginity is something that we made up. It's a stupid standard that just limits who you can have sex with, and doesn't have any tangible benefit.
    Being with virgins is annoying anyway, people with experience know what they want and how to please better.

  29. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Its over. Beggars can't be choosers, but I mean..you can still look around if you want to

  30. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous
  31. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    My last gf I met when we were both 30. She had only had sex once before me

    This new girl I'm dating seems to have more experience, but not bawd levels

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