The girl I have feelings for turned me down when I asked her out. She's been a close friend for years.

The girl I have feelings for turned me down when I asked her out. She's been a close friend for years. Only likes me as a friend, she says. I've kind of given up on life since then. Returned to smoking and drinking. Slacking off at my job. Grades are slipping. I'd drop out of school and work entirely but I don't want to upset my parents. I'm a hollow shell of a man. If I can't be with her, life has no meaning. All color has been drained from the world. I'm a gray man in a gray world, drinking and crying almost every night.

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  1. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    lmao dude, just stop hanging out with her and you will forget her

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I don't think that would help. I wouldn't forget her; I would only miss her.

      shes probably fricking chad right now btw

      That is fine. I have my cigars and my beer. That is enough for me. I'm just a ghost now anyway. Where once existed a man there is now nothing but a ghost. The dead have no say when it comes to the affairs of the living.

      • 1 month ago
        femanon

        i kinda felt like a ghost too after being rejected, a part of me still does

        >She's been a close friend for years
        Why do men keep doing this to themselves? Serious question.

        lol it's so tragically over

        >wow ha ha anon remember that time when you asked me out
        >[insert stomach sinking to ocean abyss]
        you are beyond yourself

        nobody would say this they'd just pretend it didn't happen and move on

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          >nobody would say this they'd just pretend it didn't happen and move on
          >femanon
          >stupid
          every time
          he's dead to her from this point on, she'll keep evading him because he's not chad
          he was a beta orbiter who thought that he could escape the orbit

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    shes probably fricking chad right now btw

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >She's been a close friend for years.
    congrats on ruining your friendship, you fell for the memes. for the other robots lurking, NEVER ask out a friend you can't afford to lose, you want a gf? ask some other girl out, because the probability of a close friend of years liking you back that way, and you lurk NSFFW, is 0

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Who says that unrequited feelings have to end a friendship? They do maybe 60-70 percent of the time. Not an overwhelming majority.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >wow ha ha anon remember that time when you asked me out
        >[insert stomach sinking to ocean abyss]
        you are beyond yourself

  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Bro I swear some of you are beyond redemption
    If a girl likes you trust me she'll let you know ASAP, she'll never let you become her friend
    If she keeps you as a friend you've lost already, just means she's not interested in you in a romantic way
    I swear some of you wouldn't get laid in a prostitute house

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >She's been a close friend for years
    Why do men keep doing this to themselves? Serious question.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Doing what to ourselves?

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Chill out in some b***h's friendzone for YEARS before finally going for it

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I had this and i just blocked her. Especially after she always crawled back to me after her dates failed. It's been 3,5 months now, I still think about her sometimes and miss her but the thought of just hearing about her talk about her crush and failed dates brings me back to reality and makes me realize that I made the right choice in the end.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Based, always remember if a girl keeps you as a friend you're just an orbiter who might be given a chance once every other option runs out

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >might be given a chance once every other option runs out
        I'll wait.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          Sad, just keep in mind that she's just settling for you and will cheat

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            That's fine. So long as I have a semblance of feeling loved

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    I don't understand how people are able to clearly turn others down. I don't have the heart. I either cave in and date the person or just avoid the question forever.

    • 1 month ago
      femanon Ash

      Date me please as long as you 119183713612619666

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Don't give up, OP. Confess your feelings a second time. You got this.

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Why are zoomers all into cuckoldry? seems weird

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You need to protect her anon some other man is manipulating her and you need to save her. Wait outside his house with brass knuckles. You'll get the girl.

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    PATHETIC, HOW DO MEN IN THE YEAR TWENTY TWENTY FOUR STILL FALL FOR THE SAME FRICKING "BE HER "FRIEND" FOR YEARS AND IN LOVE THE WHOLE TIME" BULL SHIT?? THIS WAS ALREADY moronic IN 2006 BUT YOU HAVE NO FRICKING EXCUSE. However,
    >Returned to smoking and drinking. Slacking off at my job. Grades are slipping.
    Women like all this stuff so you're on the right track. Just stop being so queer, take this L as a learning experience, and never do it again. If you're interested in a woman you need to let her know up front and immediately instead of being a fake-friend-simp for years on end.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >fake-friend
      Frick off back to Tumblr, SJW.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        I appreciate the old school formulation of this statement and I haven't heard anybody called a "SJW" in ages so thanks for that. He was never her friend though, he was always a fricking orbiter and embarrassing himself.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          The idea that being friends with someone you have feelings for is morally wrong and makes you some kind of deceptive snake is cringe feminist nonsense.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Me and the them have come to the same conclusion for very different reasons. They think it makes you some kind of deceptive snake, I think it makes you a sad son of a b***h with no self-respect.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Your take isn't necessarily wrong there, but still doesn't mean the friendship is fake. Seems like a conclusion that doesn't actually utilize any kind of logic, but I understand people prefer to have spicy hot takes rather than have balanced and reasonable opinions.

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Lol bud if your friends with a chick for over a year and did not notice anything romantic building up then I don't even know why you even bothered putting yourself in the official friend zoned . You were in it for years
    What to do? Just block the b***h and move on . You want to be friends with her and give her free attention and waste your time while you don't get a thing from it ? then that's up to you but it won't fix shit. Blocking and just moving on is literally the only thing you can do.
    Guys who cry about the friend zone honestly need some hair on your balls. If this b***h wasn't making any signs that she was actually interested then I don't even know why you even bothered asking her out . You should've saw it a mile away what her response is going to be.
    Either man up OP , improve yourself and find someone better which is the best option . Or be a pussy and just rot away all day because you're a grown man overreacting to being friendzoned

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