This is now the 3th bf who leaves me after some months. Damned! Why are guys like this?

This is now the 3th bf who leaves me after some months. Damned! Why are guys like this? They tell me they love me, I feel happy ... and then they leave me for another girl before the year is over. I'm so tired of this. I would stay alone and say: ok, frick men, no one needs you ... but I feel so lonely then. It's really not fun to live like that, and I have a chronical depression too. I have to fight the urge to cut and such stuff again ...

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >ignore 90% of men who don't have as many options
    >only go for 10% who can pump and dump you
    >surprised when they do

  2. 4 weeks ago
    angry Nori

    Im trans by the way

    >muted

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Nori

    You should not tell a girl that you love her when you don't love her. The guys who told me were fricking liars. Real love doesn't just end after 6 months. "I don't love you any more" is bullshit, they never really loved me. That makes me so sad and angry.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Real love doesn't just end after 6 months

      How would you know?

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Stay strong, ignore those moronic trash and move on, you're batter than them.

    hopefully you'll find a guy who could love you the way you wish for

    • 4 weeks ago
      Nori

      Mh yeah, thanks.
      I will probably fall for the next liar anyway again.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Well, if you're gonna have this attitude then yeah.

        You need to understand that there are so many people nowadays who are truly lonely and in need for affection. Of course, you don't have to push and force yourself to find someone to love. But next time when you find someone you like, be more observant and careful. See if there's anything that could potentially be red flags etc. And if you both manage to make it together long enough for you to trust him, then you can try to be more comfortable around him.

        that could be a bad thing ofc, since he would see you as distant and untrusting. But when he will actually ask you abt it, tell him about the previous relationships you had with others. If he stays after that conversation,then you can be sure he'll stay for as long as you possibly can

        probably just rambled nonsense here since I never had relationships myself KEK, but still, take it as a note in your head if you'll ever find this jnfo useful

        • 4 weeks ago
          Nori

          I know that I'm emotional and irrational. INFP style. But if a guy who's kind of cool or cute tells me about his feelings for me and how much he's thinking about me every day ... I just believe it. I can't stop it. Men probably laugh about girls like me, who believe all the sweet lies, but that's just how I am.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Stop being a crazy b***h. I 100% guarantee you that you start throwing up your red flags later in the relationship and thats why they drop you.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

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            Well, if you're gonna have this attitude then yeah.

            You need to understand that there are so many people nowadays who are truly lonely and in need for affection. Of course, you don't have to push and force yourself to find someone to love. But next time when you find someone you like, be more observant and careful. See if there's anything that could potentially be red flags etc. And if you both manage to make it together long enough for you to trust him, then you can try to be more comfortable around him.

            that could be a bad thing ofc, since he would see you as distant and untrusting. But when he will actually ask you abt it, tell him about the previous relationships you had with others. If he stays after that conversation,then you can be sure he'll stay for as long as you possibly can

            probably just rambled nonsense here since I never had relationships myself KEK, but still, take it as a note in your head if you'll ever find this jnfo useful

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            Stop being a crazy b***h. I 100% guarantee you that you start throwing up your red flags later in the relationship and thats why they drop you.

            not me btw)

            Then try to improve on it, I know it may be hard, but I believe you can do it. I, for example, managed to completely reimagine my life by trying my best to improve my life by trying new things and not be afraid of making mistakes.

            All mistakes of life is a way to progress. And when it comes to relationships. Try to learn the backgrounds of how relationships function

            you're INFP right? Try finding people who are more down to earth and relaxed with the entire relationships. Those who would definitely settle down with people who are loyal to their partner, and not into some freaky shit.

            sometimes, less is more

          • 4 weeks ago
            Nori

            >Try finding people who are more down to earth and not into some freaky shit
            That's difficult. I always fall for the freaky guys. My recent ex is singer in a metalband, and likes some weird things. I just found him so cool ... but now he's with the next girl who finds him cool ...
            It's true, the bad boys are the hot ones. I know that's stupid, but emotions are kind of stupid in general.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >It's true, the bad boys are the hot ones
            kek. another painbawd that likes being tossed the curb; the crying and complaining being just a mating signal, not actual sadness, you're like a subhuman pantomiming emotions

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >emotions are kind of stupid in general.

            No, your exes had smart emotions when they fell out of love with you because of how difficult you are to put up with.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Nori

            We had good times and fun too, and I'm not saying no often. I think they just didn't really loved me. I was a girl to play with, for a while, and then they move on. Many men are like this, they're tomcats.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Cool, keep avoiding responsibility for the things that happen in your life. Just keep doing the same things and blaming others when it goes wrong (like it always does). Other women can find men that love them and commit to them for their whole lives, but the fact that you can't find that can't possibly have anything to do with you. Clearly this is everyone else's fault. Just like everything else.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >It's true, the bad boys are the hot ones
            you get what you deserve

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

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            from [...]
            ([...] not me btw)

            Then try to improve on it, I know it may be hard, but I believe you can do it. I, for example, managed to completely reimagine my life by trying my best to improve my life by trying new things and not be afraid of making mistakes.

            All mistakes of life is a way to progress. And when it comes to relationships. Try to learn the backgrounds of how relationships function

            you're INFP right? Try finding people who are more down to earth and relaxed with the entire relationships. Those who would definitely settle down with people who are loyal to their partner, and not into some freaky shit.

            sometimes, less is more

            there it is, DON'T interract with people who are into freaky shit. Your life will be 10x better and if you find it difficult. Focus on improving that.

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >Why are guys like this?
    how long did you know them for before you got in a relationship with them? how well did you know them, and how well did they know you?
    were you able to see each other's flaws or were you blinded by passion as 99% of couples are?

    if everywhere smells like shit, then it must be on your shoe

    • 4 weeks ago
      Nori

      So when a guy says he loves me ... how long should I wait before I get together with him? Do you think he will wait years until I really know him? Forgett it. If I want him I just have to say yes and go for it.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        there you have it, set yourself up for failure
        >how long should I wait before I get together with him?
        as long as it takes for you to actually trust him and him trust you, to at least diminish the chances of things going south like that
        jumping into relationships is like jumping down a waterfall, you never know how shallow the water is until you test it, and if you don't, you'll split your skull open in the rock, like you've been doing these few times

        but by all means, keep it up
        it's one way to learn it, and might be the only one, just don't try to push the blame onto others because of what you decided to do

        • 4 weeks ago
          Nori

          If I want a guy but not say it, it would be 1) dishonest, and 2) he finds another girl then. You have to get real with your advices. Romantic waiting is no more in the modern world.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            like i said, keep it up
            after the 10th ish time you get an emotional punch in the gut from a guy you barely even know, try giving it some thought
            there's nothing dishonest about wanting to know someone better before letting them close, and if he finds another girl that fast then he clearly isn't for you, he's just fricking around and would've left you sooner than later, at least he didn't do any harm that way
            >Romantic waiting is no more in the modern world.
            all i'm telling you is to get to know more about who the frick you're getting involved with
            build an actual bond with them instead of expecting them to go through hell and back just for you after not having known them long/well enough
            give yourself a valid reason to be disappointed

          • 4 weeks ago
            Nori

            Well, I'm not easy too, I know that. I have depression, some days I spend just crying, I have this stupid self harm habbit, I can get very angry when people hurt my feelings, I'm often irrational and stubborn ... but nobody is perfect. I'm loyal, I would never betray a bf, and I try to get myself together. When my ex bfs left me, they always said that it's too difficult to be with me. But all girls are difficult ... it's not only me.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I have depression, some days I spend just crying, I have this stupid self harm habbit, I can get very angry when people hurt my feelings, I'm often irrational and stubborn ...

            You sound like an absolute nightmare to be around. Are you at least trying to better yourself, break these habits, therapy/meds, growing/changing as we speak? Or are you wallowing in it doing nothing about it?

          • 4 weeks ago
            Nori

            I did years of psychotherapy and tried different meds. But this is no just-fix-you thing. Of course I try. With 15 I was terrible I guess, but now I'm 24 and much better. And I'm not a bad gf ... I know the bad girl, the borderline ones ... they are the nightmares.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Irrational and stubborn is just about the worst combo I can think of. It means not only are you thinking/feeling/behaving out of line with reality or your own good, but you are also resistant to any kind of advice or change that might correct that behavior. I cannot blame anyone for clocking out of that. Until you become more emotionally mature theres really no future relationship there that isnt a constant struggle.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            yeah i can definitely see how someone like that could be difficult to deal with...
            all the more reason why you should get to know the other guy better before jumping into a relationship with him, but at least you know these things about yourself
            try working on whatever you can, although you said you already do that so keep it up
            just don't expect the first rando who woos you to put up with you longer than he needs to, that's where the bond comes in
            the bond makes sure he won't leave you because of your flaws

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Not all girls have BPD like you.

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Why don't you just find some other depressive emo to frick?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Nori

      I don't want someone to frick me, I want someone to love me. Is this really so hard to understand for guys?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        I'm slightly drunk and sleep deprived so my language skills are kinda fricked, but that's what I really meant. Find some other depressive emo that's on your wavelength, so to speak.

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

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  8. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Have you tried not being an ESL c**t?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Nori

      We can talk german too. If you can.

  9. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It sounds to me like you're just not worth it

    • 4 weeks ago
      Nori

      yeah maybe you just go frick yourself.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Why? You start off with mutual love. Everything you've done has deterred the past 3 guys off so hard they stopped loving you. You probably have some really bad outbursts, the only time I lost love for a girl was when she yelled at me and thought that moving on from the topic meant I got over it. I never got over it. It permanently deters me from emotionally investing in you until I feel nothing for you.

  10. 4 weeks ago
    Nori

    I think I just drink a bottle of wine now ...

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      enjoy your wine, anon
      and best of luck next time, stay safe

  11. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Online relationships don't work for long, it needs to move to a real life relationship quickly for it to last.

  12. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    The fembot I'm currently seeing, hates herself right now and wants to isolate herself again. I fear that i might loose her

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