Three years ago I was on holiday when I met a guy. I wanted good sex and he was very handsome, so we fricked.

Three years ago I was on holiday when I met a guy. I wanted good sex and he was very handsome, so we fricked. Turns out, he had heart made of gold, I never met such a genuinely nice, honest, and brave man. The sex was mind-blowing, literally best sex of my life.

I stayed in touch with him. Not gonna lie, I fell in love. There's one problem though - he's dumb as frick. Literally negative IQ. I'm a very successful woman, and the intelligence and social class gap was just too much, we couldn't make it work. I tried lowering my expectations, making it a FWB situation, but that didn't work either.

I completely ceased any contact.

But I can't stop feeling that something is very wrong.

He does his absolute best, it's just that life dealt him shit cards. He's an idiot, so he lives in a ghetto with other poor people who always take advantage of him. Insanely lonely because nobody with a functional brain wants to deal with someone borderline mentally impaired, even though he's a good guy. Meanwhile in my daily life I see countless mean c**ts who somehow fail upwards and get what they want despite being awful people.

I don't know. I feel completely powerless. I just... wish this story had a happy ending. I wish I could do something. I wish I could make his life better.

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    What do you need advice with, anon?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      How do I deal with this?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        With your white knight ego trip? I really don't care. Kys I guess.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Accept it and move on. You tried. So you did all you could. Process your emotions and move forward understanding that it was never in the cards in the first place.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Yeah that's my conclusion, just wondering if there were other options but I fricked up, or is it one of those "life is sad, deal with it" situations.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            NTA but the latter. Happens that I meet a person that's very intelligent but is an absolutely dull person, or an incredibly attractive person with room temp IQ. There will always be another:)

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Also wanna push back against the buttblasted anons ITT. Personal dating standards are fine. OP doesn't want a knuckle dragging bf. If you engage in something more serious with this person, despite personal misgivings, you're setting yourself up for misery, and you're setting him up for disappointment

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            > Personal dating standards are fine.
            Sure, also examining those dating standards is even more fine. You may have very unrealistic moronic expectations.
            In the OP her only gripe is that he's dumb - but she says:
            > heart made of gold, I never met such a genuinely nice, honest, and brave man. The sex was mind-blowing, literally best sex of my life.
            The choice is yours, but you may be making moronic choices.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          What a milquetoast shitty therapy-speak advice.
          Instead OP you deluded c**t, ask yourself why him as a person matters less than him as an IQ.
          You're clearly a lonely below average female - since you're posting here, and have a savior complex.
          Work more on yourself and maybe one day YOU'll be worthy of a nice, honest, brave man who can frick your brains out but can't do the NYT crossword.
          What are YOU offering him, except being a condescending judgy c**ty rollercoaster?

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Enjoy your cats. Nobody wants to be with a woman smarter than they are and no woman wants a man dumber than she is.

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Why does it matter of he's dumb? If you're so smart do the thinking for both of you. Have you never seen that dynamic before?

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >fat desperate woman fricks bro with downs
    Hilarious. He dodged a bullet. Leave the poor guy alone.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >fat desperate woman fricks bro with downs
      Sounds funny when you put it that way lol

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    What is your question, c**t?

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I am sure you aren't one of those awful people who fail upwards.

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Ages of both and race/nationality of both?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      69, native Rapa Nui

      What a milquetoast shitty therapy-speak advice.
      Instead OP you deluded c**t, ask yourself why him as a person matters less than him as an IQ.
      You're clearly a lonely below average female - since you're posting here, and have a savior complex.
      Work more on yourself and maybe one day YOU'll be worthy of a nice, honest, brave man who can frick your brains out but can't do the NYT crossword.
      What are YOU offering him, except being a condescending judgy c**ty rollercoaster?

      >What are YOU offering him, except being a condescending judgy c**ty rollercoaster?
      Yeah so that's why I backed off. Neither of us was actually happy there.

      For a period of time I called him on regular basis and I just listened to his rambling, and he always picked up because he was happy to have someone listen to him, but as some point I just couldn't bear talking to him, so I stopped.

      I gave him some money once in a while, but this only enabled his irresponsible spending habits.

      > Personal dating standards are fine.
      Sure, also examining those dating standards is even more fine. You may have very unrealistic moronic expectations.
      In the OP her only gripe is that he's dumb - but she says:
      > heart made of gold, I never met such a genuinely nice, honest, and brave man. The sex was mind-blowing, literally best sex of my life.
      The choice is yours, but you may be making moronic choices.

      >In the OP her only gripe is that he's dumb
      Yes, but that wasn't the casual "ah yeah so my husband needs to have things explained more clearly btw I'm the brains here while he's muscles so we kinda complete one another" because I know guys who are less intelligent than me but could potentially be good partners. He's truly advanced dumb. My motherly instinct activated, and once I started treating him as an autistic 10-year-old, things became much clearer. I didn't want that dynamic though.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        have a nice day, you arrogant stupid prostitute.

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Why would a very successful woman come here to ask moronic neckbeards for advice. Seems fishy to me. I love dumb women. Theyre so much more tolerable than pseudo intelligent ones. As per being dealt bad cards. Most guys around here would disagree with you. He's handsome so he has success with women and he can skate by on looks. It doesnt matter that he lives in the ghetto. He'll have babies with multiiple women and never feel loneliness. You can make his life better by not being in it, so thats an easy fix.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >Why would a very successful woman come here to ask moronic neckbeards for advice.
      Because it's one skillset to perform well educationally and professionally, and a completely different skillset to perform well socially. I am very moronic socially, it's just that this never stopped me from being otherwise successful.

      >He'll have babies with multiiple women and never feel loneliness
      Trust me, no.

      >You can make his life better by not being in it, so thats an easy fix.
      Haha thanks

  8. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Leave him to die. You clearly don't care about him enough to help him out. There'll be more dignity in a sooner death.

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