Threesome with bisexual gf

After watching some porn my gf came as bisexual. Shes been having thoughts about it and told me she would like a threesome with another girl if I wasnt jealous. I agreed and she said she still would feel insecure and jealous if I have sex with another woman.

How do I get her to be less insecure? I have already assured her that I only love her and she would never be left out.

Any advice?

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  1. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    maybe just dont have a threesome

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Well yeah, but come on dude, who wouldnt want one. She just realised she likes girls but we are together and are in a long, stable relationship. She is a really good woman, so if I dont fulfill her fantasy then wouldnt it be unfair to her? Also, thats a sexual fantasy of mine too, but I am a man and live my life without ever doing it. As I said, she is insecure about it and feels that I would like the other girl more. That is weird because we havent even looked for girls or anything.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        if she doesnt want to have a threesome she doesnt want to have a threesome. threesomes arent some goal to obtain and she isnt missing out on happiness by not having one. If she's insecure about it you're not going to help anything by pushing for involving another woman in your sex life.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Ok yeah, least I want to do is convince her and make her do stuff she doesnt want.

          Tell her you're not open to having that if you don't also get sex with another person out of it, since that's what she's getting.
          And that she shouldn't be jellous since the only reason you'd be agreeing to this is because it's for her.
          You didn't ask for it, she did... correct?
          Make it clear it's going to be a one time thing for both of you.

          Yeah, I only used to joke about it and she would get angry so I stopped. Then out of a sudden she tells me she is probably bisexual and that we could have a threesome if she was sure of herself and not jealous.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Tell her you're not open to having that if you don't also get sex with another person out of it, since that's what she's getting.
        And that she shouldn't be jellous since the only reason you'd be agreeing to this is because it's for her.
        You didn't ask for it, she did... correct?
        Make it clear it's going to be a one time thing for both of you.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        It's gonna be really funny if she dumps you for a girl anon, and you might kinda have it coming judging from some of these posts.

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          If my girl dumped me for another girl I wouldn't even be bothered. Because she's looking for something completely different than what I have to offer. It's not like the woman has a bigger wiener or is stronger or anything, I beat her in all masculine regards so it doesn't matter at all. I didn't lose to someone better, she's just lesbo.

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Best outcome honestly.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            if your girl dumps your ass for another woman you didn't beat her in anything frickboy lmao

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Trust me when I say it's overrated. It is laborious and not worth it. You don't get to enjoy it because you need to make sure two people are satisfied instead of just one. Have it, but don't be surprised if it's disappointing, for both of you. Fantasies are always better as fantasies. Also, threesomes are infamous for ruining relationships by introducing uncertainty. Tread carefully. Make sure your relationship is about more than just sex, otherwise it's destined to fail anyway due to the chase for new highs.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Also I'm NTA >

          not worth it.
          it ruins it. don't do it.
          anyone saying otherwise doesn't know what they're talking about. doesn't matter if it's a female or not. it ruins it. there is no un-turning that page. do not do it. for your sake, for your own mental state. do not do it.

          but interesting that the last post was similar advice
          Take this advice and don't do threesomes. They are not worth it. Take it from someone who knows. Your girl will just develop insecurities she never conceived of before. It'll change your relationship and all for an orgasm you won't even enjoy anyway. Threesomes are for sexual deviants, not insecure loving couples as you two seem to be.

  2. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    threesomes are the lite version of "open relationship"
    most likely it will ruin your relationship.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Yeah i also thought about that. But then, we have a lot of trust in each other and never cheated.

      sounds like she just wants to have sex with a girl

      Lol yeah, but she doesn't want to cheat. A threesome would be a solution.

      She wants it. She’s going to cheat on you eventually. Same thing when another person asks for a 3some of any sort. If you didn’t already know y’all would be cool with 3somes before this you aren’t in the 1% who can do it.

      Honestly yeah, Ive never been the kind of ladies' man who has threesome, nor shes been a wild girl having lots of sex. She is a shy girl who doesnt like partying.

      I guess this will not work. Honestly, now I feel insecure lol. We have great sex and have already done all fantasies of each other, except for this one.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        It will work. 50% of marriages fail. Trust the plan. Two more weeks

        • 3 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Women initiate 70% of divorces on average and over 90% if they have a college degree

          • 3 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            The problem here is that women never take initiative for anything. There is a 0% chance she will go through with it if you don't take the lead.

            The duality of women.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      The relationship is already dead if she is in question herself mode.
      She will seek the answers, realise it was a phase, get back to dick but not OP's one.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Stfu doomer homosexual

  3. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    sounds like she just wants to have sex with a girl

  4. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    She wants it. She’s going to cheat on you eventually. Same thing when another person asks for a 3some of any sort. If you didn’t already know y’all would be cool with 3somes before this you aren’t in the 1% who can do it.

  5. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    all women are bisexual.
    That being said, threesomes usually end relationships.

  6. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Just don't do it man

  7. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I've tried it twice and it ended badly both times. Women get jealous. If she sees you fricking another woman, that will stick in her mind forever and she will always question if you truly love her or the other girl.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Damn. I dont want her to nag me forever.

      It will work. 50% of marriages fail. Trust the plan. Two more weeks

      Thanks zigger/pigger.

      This is a shit test.
      I've never had this test before, but if I had to give an answer, it'd be to let her be proactive about it. Say some shit like "I'd be down for a threesome, pick out a chick and bring her over sometime"
      If she's really serious about it, she'll do it. If not, then you won't have to worry about her getting jealous.

      Sheit, this is the best answer so far. I will do this and see what happens.

      The problem here is that women never take initiative for anything. There is a 0% chance she will go through with it if you don't take the lead.

      Ok then I will tell her that but lead to it. If she is unsure about it then I will call it off.

  8. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    This is a shit test.
    I've never had this test before, but if I had to give an answer, it'd be to let her be proactive about it. Say some shit like "I'd be down for a threesome, pick out a chick and bring her over sometime"
    If she's really serious about it, she'll do it. If not, then you won't have to worry about her getting jealous.

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      The problem here is that women never take initiative for anything. There is a 0% chance she will go through with it if you don't take the lead.

      • 3 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Exactly

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        this isnt true in the least. many of my gfs have approached other girls day and night. talking petite young girls that wear bows. girls are not afraid to take iniative if they like that lifestyle

    • 3 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      It's either a shit-test or she wants to experience being with a woman, but have it not be cheating. In either case, your relationship is on life-support.
      pretty much nailed it.

      "Well, it's not something that's important to me, because you're all that I need, but if it's important for you, you can decide on your boundaries, and you can decide on the woman."

      If you want to take the high road even higher, during the 3some, focus entirely on your GF. Just having another naked woman in the room will be hot as frick. If your GF insists that you penetrate the other woman, make sure you're kissing your GF passionately the entire time, and focus entirely on her pleasure. Make sure there's nothing she can throw in your face afterwards.

      Your relationship IS over, might as well get a 3way out of it. Follow my advice, and when she breaks up with you, you will be guilt-free.

  9. 3 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I say OP should do it but also dump her after since she's basically admitting you aren't good enough

  10. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Just do it. Relationships with 'bisexual' women are doomed to fail anyways. You should take advantage while you can and just enjoy having the upper hand

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      She's offering him an olive branch before she dumps him and homie won't take it out of pride

  11. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Well anons, thanks for the advice for real. I will report to you if I ever do a threesome or not, or if Im still with my gf. Probably she wont break up with me since she isnt a crazy b***h nor immature. We have been together for many years and I feel this is true love. Maybe she just wanted to make me feel better, maybe not, who knows lol.

    After some months or maybe a year I will make another thread. If she breaks up with me then you incels win. If not, then love wins. Anyway, thanks. If it wasnt for NSFFW I wouldnt even have a gf. Dont let your dreams be dreams. My past self wouldnt even believe that I would be discussing having a threesome with a hot girl.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >If it wasnt for NSFFW I wouldnt even have a gf.
      quick rundown please

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Go to NSFFW to lift despite the stupid memea.
        Go to NSFFW to pretend to read and eventy you will actually read.
        Go to /misc/ to engage in moronic discussions to become unapologetic and therefore not a wimp. Self confidence, even in having moronic ideologies, gets women wet. You wont believe me but I got pussy thanks to quoting the Unabombers Manifesto and Mein Kampf.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          did you ever drop the israelite pill on a girl?

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Literally all the time lol. However, im not an idiot who denies the Holocaust based on pics edited by literal stormgays. You need actual arguments and evidence, and of course, word it in a sound, non incelly way.

            Don’t do it if you care about this girl. It might be fun but will not end well. This is degen behavior.

            Yeah, i guess i wont do it anyways. Still, will make a thread. Wait for maximum a year.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Bloody hell.
          Screencapped

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Cringe

  12. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Don’t do it if you care about this girl. It might be fun but will not end well. This is degen behavior.

  13. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    my gf is bi and sleeps with other girls and often has them have sex with me too if they’re willing. we’ve been together 2 years and it’s never caused issues with us (one of the girls she found tried to cause drama when we ghosted her). im a bit sociopathic about girls so i dont really care what happens as long as im getting new pussy out of it. girls annoy the frick out of me so her basically hunting new vag for me is a win win my eyes. but in general i think the probability a girl leaves her man over some other girl is near zero. if you’re low value, you’ll lose her anyway, and it doesn’t matter just gotta improve yourself

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      So your relationship is open but just for girls?

      this isnt true in the least. many of my gfs have approached other girls day and night. talking petite young girls that wear bows. girls are not afraid to take iniative if they like that lifestyle

      Gf's really shy and normally doesnt take the initiative.

      >after
      she's been bi, only now just telling you.
      >opening the relationship
      potential world of trouble

      Yeah, ur right but I only want threesome, not an open relationship. She said that as well, not open relationship, always both of us. Like, she wont frick girls separatedly.

      I don't get it, so she brought up a threesome, asked if that would make you jealous, you said no, then she said nevermind because she would be jealous? Kek. Sounds like a woman moment to me. They just say stupid shit all the time without thinking it through.

      Kek

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >but I only want threesome
        >I just want it to happen once
        yeah no. the point is to never open the door period.

  14. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >after
    she's been bi, only now just telling you.
    >opening the relationship
    potential world of trouble

  15. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Yikes. That relationship is over, dude. The countdown has begun. She will betray you if she hasn't already.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      And don't let this bother you. Just accept it and move on. Pleny of fish in the sea. If you can pull a girl once, you can pull a girl always.

  16. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    I don't get it, so she brought up a threesome, asked if that would make you jealous, you said no, then she said nevermind because she would be jealous? Kek. Sounds like a woman moment to me. They just say stupid shit all the time without thinking it through.

  17. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    As long as you’ve already fricked her it doesn’t matter. You sexually “conquered” her.
    But the romantic relationship is over. She doesn’t see you as a long term relationship and eventually will start sleeping around/cheat. Could be using your resources in order to fulfill her social status quota and sexual fantasies

  18. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    not worth it.
    it ruins it. don't do it.
    anyone saying otherwise doesn't know what they're talking about. doesn't matter if it's a female or not. it ruins it. there is no un-turning that page. do not do it. for your sake, for your own mental state. do not do it.

  19. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Your relationship is basically over. Have sex with her or do whatever threesomes you want and dump her or you will end up being cucked

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