To anyone who suggests hobbies as a way of meeting women, your advice is well-intentioned, but out of date.

To anyone who suggests hobbies as a way of meeting women, your advice is well-intentioned, but out of date.

Hobbies are exclusively for men who don't have a woman or family, you're not going to find a cute girl there.

All young women do is work, sit at home and swipe through Netflix and social media and go out on carefully curated "gals nights" or dates they've arranged through Instagram. Please get it into your head that young women don't participate in society, they've retreated into a soloistic greenhouse of glamour and "safety."

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    First point, you don't actually know or interact with any young women, so how would you know what they do or don't do? And the ones you have in mind are clearly just the airheads who surf insta and netflix all day but those aren't the only girls out there.
    Second point, no one says to get hobbies to get girls. At least, not directly. You might not meet single girls through a hobby (then again you might) but you will meet people in general. That means if you're some shut-in loser you might actually make some friends and get a life, thereby making you more likely to be in the proximity of women in the future. It's planting a seed, not a tree.
    Third point, the hope is also there that by you having a hobby you'll shut the frick up with the whining about women and find something else to do with your time.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >You might not meet single girls through a hobby (then again you might) but you will meet people in general.

      Not the people I want to meet, so it's a total waste of time.

      It only works if you have no standards or expectations and are desperate enough to accept just about anyone

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Well who is it exactly you want to meet? For a guy with no friends and no women, you sound awfully picky.
        >if you have no standards or expectations and are desperate enough to accept just about anyone
        Yes, now you're getting it...

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I'd rather have nothing than be around shitty people. You can be lonely without being desperate.

          I want to be around people who actually talk about shit beyond "muh job" and "muh sportsball". People who actually have interesting and meaningful things to talk about instead of workplace drama, gossip, and what media they consoomed.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >People who actually have interesting and meaningful things to talk about instead of workplace drama, gossip, and what media they consoomed.
            Oh, so you mean people who actually do have hobbies and interests then? And other things going on in their lives and in their heads?
            What exactly are you complaining about here then? That's who I'm telling you to meet and find.

            I HAD friends, but we all drifted apart. But it's not like we were ever that close in the first place. All we did was hang out in the woods, or play video games at each other's houses. Once that got boring, there was nothing keeping us together.

            I blame living in a suburb, if we lived in a more interesting place with more things to do, we'd still be friends today

            Kek, I know exactly which anon this is.
            But again...you complain about hanging out with lame boring people, while doing nothing to be less lame and boring yourself or meet anyone interesting.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I HAD friends, but we all drifted apart. But it's not like we were ever that close in the first place. All we did was hang out in the woods, or play video games at each other's houses. Once that got boring, there was nothing keeping us together.

          I blame living in a suburb, if we lived in a more interesting place with more things to do, we'd still be friends today

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Ladies and gentleman, the first change of the goalpost.

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >not being a desperate loser and having actual standards for the people you let into your life is changing the goalpost

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            You ARE a desperate loser though, so stop trying to have it both ways.
            Beggars can't be choosers.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I am neither, I just have zero tolerance for bullshit. I deal with enough bullshit in my personal life, I don't need more of it.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >I deal with enough bullshit in my personal life
            Like what? You don't have a personal life. That's why you're here asking how to meet women and resisting against the very concept of having friends or doing anything interesting with your time.
            You're just like the women you complain about, only instead of sitting around watching netflix you sit around on here trying (and failing) to come up with ways to get laid and with zero effort or engagement on your part. You're as much of a one-track mind as they are, only you're not even good at it.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            I already am doing interesting things with my time. I'm doing things I personally find fun and engaging.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        5'7 gets laid cuz of botanical hobbie
        >your move now
        and remember to

        First point, you don't actually know or interact with any young women, so how would you know what they do or don't do? And the ones you have in mind are clearly just the airheads who surf insta and netflix all day but those aren't the only girls out there.
        Second point, no one says to get hobbies to get girls. At least, not directly. You might not meet single girls through a hobby (then again you might) but you will meet people in general. That means if you're some shut-in loser you might actually make some friends and get a life, thereby making you more likely to be in the proximity of women in the future. It's planting a seed, not a tree.
        Third point, the hope is also there that by you having a hobby you'll shut the frick up with the whining about women and find something else to do with your time.

        >frick 'em n' leave 'em
        i garden at home how tf am i gonna meet w*men? a dumb submale would ask... here's your answer they shop, it's as simple as that. going to stores see if there's any w*men who are worth my time.
        >your time is valuable if you don't value your time nobody will especially w*men

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Nobody goes to shops to meet people, they just go in, buy what they need, and leave. Shops are not social environments

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >Nobody goes to shops to meet people, they just go in, buy what they need, and leave. Shops are not social environments
            if you're a nobody, if it fits the bill. there's alot of events where we sell and trade produce it's called a farmers market crazy concept to grasp right?!? but a shut in would never know of the things that brings a community closer
            >milfs 35-45 are king ever since i was 16

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            "Community" doesn't exist anymore, that is the problem. Nobody needs anyone for anything anymore, we just buy whatever we need with money

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >"Community" doesn't exist anymore, that is the problem. Nobody needs anyone for anything anymore, we just buy whatever we need with money
            npc logic, grow something homie then get your dick wet... there's communities fricking every where you have to actively go out of your way to not find shit.
            >tldr leave the house and get some soap

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >Not the people I want to meet, so it's a total waste of time.
        Tell me you're a virgin without telling me you're a virgin

        You don't get to "pick" you worthless cynic frick. Having friends is about accepting and getting to know people. Sure, a lot of them aren't gonna really be worth your time, but a lot of times it also doesn't really matter that much who youre hanging out with - youd know that if you left the house and knew people. Your real friends and partners appear after and with that

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >All young women do is work, sit at home and swipe through Netflix and social media and go out on carefully curated "gals nights" or dates they've arranged through Instagram.
    Whoa this is literally my sister... I always figured she's an uncommon case, though.

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous
  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    This wouldn't have been a problem in the past. Antisocial, socially awkward, or shut-in people used to meet and get together all the time.

    But in the modern world, for some reason, it's a lot harder for these people to find each other.

  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >All young women do is work, sit at home and swipe through Netflix and social media and go out on carefully curated "gals nights" or dates they've arranged through Instagram. Please get it into your head that young women don't participate in society, they've retreated into a soloistic greenhouse of glamour and "safety."
    Not interested in those women. I don't want to date losers, I want to date women who are physically fit and outgoing.

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >carefully curated "gals nights"
    lmao

    Plenty of women on gym. Choose some of those meme sports. They are fads but easy to follow. Pilates, yoga, whatever.
    The uglier ones will be easier to befriend, use it to practice small talk you socially challenged.
    You'll get some pussy at some point.
    Perseverance gets results here.

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Explain to me all the women I meet through my hobbies then.

    what am I doing wrong?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      You're not spending all day on NSFFW. You need to stop going outside and spend more time on here.

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