Weird dating experience

I'm a handsome guy. Have a nice car and my own nice place. Never had problems with the opposite sex. I have met this girl I like.

We dated for a few days. She was always funny and open with me. We even talked about our sex experiences in a funny way.

So after a few dates I asked if she would like to come over my place to have a couple beers and relax. She just replied with firm "no". After that she just kept chatting with me like nothing happened.

Did this happen to anybody else? What this mean? Is she fricking with me, or is she afraid of being with me alone?

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  1. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    That's odd. her social skills are either corrupt or she didnt feel the need to explain further. Maybe she didn't want to discuss it further.

  2. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >She just replied with firm "no"
    She is playing stupid games.
    Let her win stupid prizes.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Maybe she has mental problems. May she be dangerous? I know to not stick my dick in crazies.

  3. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    She was raised well.

    Go meet her parents.

    reconnoiter afterwards.

  4. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    She probably feels your being pushy about sex.
    Let's be honest, inviting a woman over for beers is synonymous to getting her wasted and fricking

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      She is not afraid talking about sex with me. This doesn't make sense.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous
  5. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    The same kind of guy who complains that all women are bawds complains when a woman is in no rush to jump into this bed.

  6. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Does she drink normally anywhere else ?

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Yes. She drinks wienertails, wine and beer.

  7. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Tell us what her sex experiences are like anon

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      She was in a relationship and had some promiscuous sex after.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >promiscuous sex
        That sounds bad. Did she do it with other girls?

        • 4 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Yes. She is bisexual.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Are you OP or another anon trolling?
            Either way should have said that immediately

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            Yes, I'm the OP. What's the difference if she is bisexual? She said she is bisexual, but is interested in traditional marriage.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            >She said she is bisexual, but is interested in traditional marriage.
            She is looking for a gay dude to be her beard.
            She probably thought you were not straight.

          • 4 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            She didn't. She knows I'm straight.

  8. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >What this mean?
    You got friend-zoned, dude. As far as she's concerned, you aren't dating, you're just two friends hanging out.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      OK. So why she doesn't want to hang on in my place? I never asked for sex.

      • 4 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Asking a girl to come over to your house 1 on 1 for 'beers' and 'relax' is synonymous with asking for sex. She said no because she probably isn't interested in sex. I don't really think there's an issue here it seems like she's a good, clear communicator which you'd think the people of NSFFW would be more enthusiastic about.

  9. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    How the frick are we supposed to know? Maybe ask her, moron.
    >why don't you want to come over?
    How hard is that?

  10. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    If you've been talking about sex already and you w want her to come over to get drunk there is very much the undertone sex in that activity.

    Instead of trying to guess her paradigm after only a few dates, why not ask her about the conversation?

    Example:
    "Hey, the other day I asked if you wanted to come over, you were pretty firm with your no; can you tell me about that?"

    Acknowledge and remember the answers she gives because they will be important if you care to grow this relationship, but maintain the sexual tension despite the answer... in a way that YOU feel comfortable delivering

    Example of how I might handle it:
    "Heh, so you thought I wanted to do something more, eh? interesting... *Pause and imagine* No no no no, you definitely aren't ready to handle me, but I am amused that you thought you could. ...So tell me more about <that thing she was talking about>"

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      >"Heh, so you thought I wanted to do something more, eh? interesting... *Pause and imagine* No no no no, you definitely aren't ready to handle me, but I am amused that you thought you could..."

      HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

  11. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Fricking autists are really annoying in comments.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Said the autist in the comments... of a comment only board full of autists.

      Let me ask you a question: are you always this fricking moronic or do you just pretend to be here?

  12. 4 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    This place is useless. Only autistic incels post here. Or teens with no experience.

    • 4 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Interesting. I just fricked my wife a couple of days ago, and we've been fricking for 20 years. Before her, I dated a couple of legit, models, and one psycho chick. But, of course, anyone can say anything on this board, so I'll shut up in a sec.

      OP, again, ask her where her head's at. And, since getting detailed makes me an autist, "if she starts to friendzone you, don't be a beta, bro" (whatever you can get out of that low IQ b.s.)

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