What are the requirements to get a gf?

What are the requirements to get a gf?

Besides fitting in someones physical appearance preferences what do one needs on top of that? Own house, car, money, good job?

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  1. 1 month ago
    Mulligan

    I think the reason the eagles didn’t fly the ring is because they had agency

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Meaning the eagles would have desired the Ring? I'm okay with this theory.

    • 1 month ago
      MKG

      I never understood why this was ever a question.
      Sauron had maximum visiblity and air support. If the eagles flew in with the ring, the nazgul would have taken them down with their flying beasts and whatever else Sauron had stashed. And then Sauron has the ring.

      There was a *reason* Frodo went in sneaky like. The whole point was Sauron didn't have his defenses up. A few giant fricking eagles would not have escaped the watchful gaze of the all seeing eye.

      Once Sauron fell, yeah, frick it, send in the birbs. Why not?

  2. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >fitting in someones physical appearance preferences
    you don't need money, car, or a job if you also fit someone's "personality" requirements (e.g if you're trying to date an art hoe she will put you above the rest if you are artistic on top of fitting her appearance preference).

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This anon is right. You have to be someone's type and you need to ask them out. That's all.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >You have to be someone's type and you need to ask them out.
        How am i supposed to know if i am someones type?

  3. 1 month ago
    Anonymous
  4. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    The first step is talking to girls.

  5. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Own house, car, money, good job
    You could have all that and still not get a girlfriend if your personality is lacking. Work on being someone somebody else wants to actually be around for an extended period of time. That will get you a lot farther than checking off some imaginary list and saying "okay, I did it, where's my girlfriend now?"

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      having the right bones and owning those things you mentioned equal a personality
      it doesnt matter what kind of chad you are aslong as you are a chad

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Then explain how broke, jobless, ugly men on the brink of homelessness and rely on the bus get laid.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          theres a certain threshold of subhumanity, like methheads will get laid with methheads and just kind of exist in that world
          its a completely different universe when you're a 3/10 to 7/10, theres a reason those methheads dont get laid with average people.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        People who follow your advice stay virgin forever. People who follow advice like that your responding to reintegrate into society and get gfs.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          i regularly browse these "anti-incel" spaces where they give that exact advice constantly and all you see is incels in denial and nobody who ever gets results. the sexlessness and friendlessness stats only keep rising every year.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            It's not a coincidence that the black pill is becoming more popular while PUA is dead and the red pill is bleeding numbers.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This is a good response.

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Thanks. It seems so obvious to me and I hate that so many of today's young men are hung up on this idea that finding companionship has all of these arbitrary material prerequisites. I really think it has a lot to do with an unwillingness to come out of their comfort zone and use it as a convenient excuse instead to not even attempt approaching women.

        theres a certain threshold of subhumanity, like methheads will get laid with methheads and just kind of exist in that world
        its a completely different universe when you're a 3/10 to 7/10, theres a reason those methheads dont get laid with average people.

        This also ties in to what I'm saying above: if you see yourself as a 3/10, you'll only get 3/10 women. Why sell yourself so short? Become the best version of yourself possible and you'd be surprised at how much potential you have to unlock. But most men don't want to put in that work because it's easier to make a woe is me thread on /adv/ about their alleged shitty life and circumstances.

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          i don't sell myself short, i think im more like a 7/10 (atleast face-wise, im a manlet) but i'm extremely undersocialized and low status and haven't spoken to a woman for over 10 years (something i probably can't ever fix)
          but the things that actually matter for your attractiveness score are 90% set in stone, you can't change your height, face, race, or even the personality traits that women want
          you seem really out of touch, getting a better haircut and getting rid of your old sperg hoodies doesn't matter when you're 5'3, indian and chinlet.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            It's wild you say all that because there are over a billion Indians on the planet. Some Indians have to be fricking.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            i already explained this, idk why you cant wrap your head around, remember the meth-head junkies who frick eachother?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            So find someone in your lane. Why is that so hard for you to comprehend?
            >i'm extremely undersocialized and low status and haven't spoken to a woman for over 10 years (something i probably can't ever fix)
            This is exactly what I'm talking about. You've already accepted a defeatist attitude without even attempting to overcome your alleged shortcomings that really don't matter as much in the long run as you assume they do.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            i'm sure you're not a guy considering i'm re-iterating my point for the 3rd time to you now and how out of touch you seem, so its pointless talking to you, still for the last time

            there is no "in your lane" when you're not a 1/10 or 10/10, if you're average, then your looksmatch demands a 10/10, women who are 6/10 think they are 99/10 and think a 7/10 guy is ugly and undateable.

            also you make dumb assumptions about me, i've tried to socialize and find women to talk to for over 5 years with no result, people don't meet new people outside of college or dating apps (which don't work if you're not an instagram influencer with millions to his name)
            after a certain point with a certain start in life theres nothing you can do anymore

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Oh, it's schooler schizo. Hey, buddy. How's it going?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            i'm not that guy, there are legitimately no social spaces around anymore, the only places i go to (kickboxing gym) are very bad for socializing and have like 1 to 100 female:male ratio, its hard to even find people my age with these boomer demographics, let alone women, women don't do anything, they sit at home unless they are clubbing roasties or go to work, everybody dates online, people meet all their friends in college.
            i've looked for solutions for years, even if you could find some place (good luck with that), nobody actually wants to make a new friend and introduce them to their already established circle
            all the usual shit people say are a joke, like dead apps like meetup.com or doing tai chi or church with 80 year old corpses
            get real Black person

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            I just want to get this straight: you admit the only place you venture to outside of your own home is a kickboxing gym, where no shit there are no girls there, and you without even a hint or irony suggest I'm the one out of touch?? I can go to a bar down the street and meet new people, including women, right now. That's been a social space for literally thousands of years.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            its only old people and people who go with friends, not to meet new people, especially women don't look for guys anywhere and are with friends 24/7, you're a moronic oldhead if you talk about shit like bars, i live in a college town and not even students go to pubs and bars to socialize, they just stay in their dorms

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            If you don't want to try the bars, then go to church and join a youth bible study

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            was the last time you "chased some skirts" in 1920?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            No but if you want a "trad wife" like every anon on NSFFW memes on about, do you really think you're gonna find her at a bar?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            you wouldnt be more likely to find her at a church either, tradwife is a delusion at this point, what people really mean is a woman who atleast wont cheat within a month, but its shit advice regardless and you can instantly discard the advice by anyone saying this shit because
            1. churches are dead (especially in europe), the only few people who go are old as frick
            2. not everybody is a christcuck
            3. even if, going to church to pick up women is fricking moronic

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Well yeah if you're a Euro you're a lot more fricked if you're trying church, that's more American advice. But you're really telling me you can't find ANY activities in your town that have women? There's no dancing classes? Or maybe tennis, or some other sport that women like? There's more shit out there than kickboxing.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Women don't really have hobbies. Their hobby is social media now, texting, socializing online or talking on the phone.

            All the apps and technology the israelites created is catered to women. You don't really understand what is happening but I'll give you a hint:
            >Sun is afflicted in Aquarius, meaning that men, fathers and careers don't receive the respect they deserve."

            It's all about women now, refugees, browns, blacks, cripples, and uplifting the lower bottom of society.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >why dont you just hit the pub?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            not him but looking for women at a bar or place like that is brain dead fricking moronic

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            justify this

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Usually people go to bars to get drunk. If not, there's a lot of drunk people at the bar anyway so even if you don't drink you know what kind of people you can expect there. Men go to a bars in hopes of finding a drunk woman to frick. Who in the right mind is going to a bar to meet a potential romantic partner?

            There's a reason why saying like "don't look for a wife in a bar" exists.

          • 1 month ago
            MKG

            Holy frick, relax and go to a bar and socialize. Nobody is betrothing anyone. Go out to the bar and flirt. Git gud.

            Now use those skills everywhere in life, all without fricking a single barbawd.

            You are like a boxer whining about how he doesn't want to fight a bag.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            So find someone in your lane. Why is that so hard for you to comprehend?
            >i'm extremely undersocialized and low status and haven't spoken to a woman for over 10 years (something i probably can't ever fix)
            This is exactly what I'm talking about. You've already accepted a defeatist attitude without even attempting to overcome your alleged shortcomings that really don't matter as much in the long run as you assume they do.

            i'm not that guy, there are legitimately no social spaces around anymore, the only places i go to (kickboxing gym) are very bad for socializing and have like 1 to 100 female:male ratio, its hard to even find people my age with these boomer demographics, let alone women, women don't do anything, they sit at home unless they are clubbing roasties or go to work, everybody dates online, people meet all their friends in college.
            i've looked for solutions for years, even if you could find some place (good luck with that), nobody actually wants to make a new friend and introduce them to their already established circle
            all the usual shit people say are a joke, like dead apps like meetup.com or doing tai chi or church with 80 year old corpses
            get real Black person

            i managed to get a gf/wife with only the physical appearance and knowing how to talk to people and be interesting (at least to her)
            that was as a student, and I think after that you will at least need a job

            I just want to get this straight: you admit the only place you venture to outside of your own home is a kickboxing gym, where no shit there are no girls there, and you without even a hint or irony suggest I'm the one out of touch?? I can go to a bar down the street and meet new people, including women, right now. That's been a social space for literally thousands of years.

            Requirements lol

            I see literal homeless vagrant crackheads with gfs, man there are no requirements

            There's got to be 100 males to 1 female ratio right now on dating apps.

            https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/women-are-not-dating-anymore-and-men-are-pissed-why/

            https://thekit.ca/living/living-relationships/women-are-quitting-dating-apps/

            >For as long as people have been promoting marriage, they have also been observing that a good man is hard to find. (See: William Julius Wilson or early Nora Ephron.) But what was once dismissed as the complaint of picky women is now supported by a raft of data. The same pundits plugging marriage also bemoan the crisis among men and boys, what has come to be known as male drift — men turning away from college, dropping out of the work force or failing to look after their health. Ms. Kearney, for example, acknowledges that improving the economic position of men, especially those without college degrees, is an important step toward making them more attractive partners.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >male drift

            is it really a surprise that no respectable woman would want to date someone who can't even put forth the effort to take care of themselves?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            men dropped out of society due to being incel and journalists turned it around saying men turned incel due to dropping out of society (for no reason whatsoever), its typical globohomosexual inversion of reality and just blames the victim to accelerate the problem even more

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            fascinating
            but why did you reply me? I didn't meet my wife on a dating app

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >There's got to be 100 males to 1 female ratio right now on dating apps.
            You've posted like 45 times in the last 3 days and it's not even true.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      /r/ that okcupid analysis where attractiveness and personality were so correlated so tightly they eliminated the separate personality rating

  6. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    be funny and likable ontop of having at least some kind of stable job or thing going for you (dont be broke)

  7. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    You have to make girls feel like you are:
    - fun to be around
    - safe to be around
    - not an embarrassment to be around (this is where looks, money, status, etc... come in).

  8. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    i managed to get a gf/wife with only the physical appearance and knowing how to talk to people and be interesting (at least to her)
    that was as a student, and I think after that you will at least need a job

  9. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    >Own house, car, money, good job
    kids in grade 8 or whatever don't have any of that shit when they first start dating

    You need to just not be a complete loner nofun weirdo. Have a few friends that you're not completely embarrassed by, have a thing that you go out to every weekend or once a week at least that has you touch grass, and some have online presence on social media & dating apps.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >dude the current dating market doesnt matter, because look at how children date
      new bluepill moronation just dropped

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        >the current dating market
        You moneycels are obsessed with careers and markets, even dating you need to look at through the lens of autistic graphs that aren't even true and calling it a market

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          just because i call it a market doesn't mean i like to do so, its a civilization ending nightmare and its the unavoidable result of even having the concept of "dating"
          getting together and loyally staying monogamous until death was simply something happened in the past without thinking or deliberate organizing, communities simply lived together and find partners just happened through communities getting together regularly in free time, dancing together and so on, none of what matters today mattered back then, only being human and existing without being a terror to other people for no reason.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >life was better 875 years ago
            okay

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            actually these things only ended about 100 years ago, but yeah, am i wrong?
            what a dumb reply, you must be a roastie.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            people dated in the 1910s actually
            you're thinking of like pre-industrial times where women were traded for 3 goats and 5 chickens.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            up until 1960s like half of the population was still rural even in western europe, i know what im talking about, the industrial revolution didn't happen overnight and neither did urbanization.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            if you think rural communities = morons that will let me bang their women without expectations, you're dead wrong lmao. the whole "free sex without expectations, easy to access for losers" was only maybe true for a brief period of time in the 60s/70s with the distribution of the birth control pill.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            you might wanna read more about the past than watch hollywood movies about them. "dancing together", what the actual frick? you prayed that this year's harvest was enough to not starve in winter.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            its genuinely depressing that you can't even fathom the existence of communities, did you know they still exist in other parts of the world? sometimes even in the west, muslims for example organize events all the time in their mosques, they don't really think about deliberately doing so because they have a social problem to solve, its just a way of life.
            have you ever heard of folk dance? did you know people in the past used to have very large families and constantly have gatherings when people would get married at an age before 35? did you know people would have young adults pair up naturally during these times? did you know people used to arrange marriages?

            if you think rural communities = morons that will let me bang their women without expectations, you're dead wrong lmao. the whole "free sex without expectations, easy to access for losers" was only maybe true for a brief period of time in the 60s/70s with the distribution of the birth control pill.

            thats not even remotely close to what i said, you didnt even read my previous posts, i'm talking about how people didnt "date" in the past but simply got married naturally

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >people didnt "date" in the past but simply got married naturally
            What years precisely was this

            >arranged marriage
            >married naturally
            goodmorning sirs

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            this post is so ironic and dumb since you buy the idea that life before corn syrup was hell and civilization ending famine was around the corner every year, which you get from hollywood, ofcourse you ignore the actual point being made and just act like a c**t feeling challenged on something you clearly know nothing about
            its insane how different the world would be if dumbasses would have the slightest bit of knowledge of history.

            >people didnt "date" in the past but simply got married naturally
            What years precisely was this

            >arranged marriage
            >married naturally
            goodmorning sirs

            why do you even need a precise date thats not how culture works moron. dating is a post-industrial concept, also arranged marriages have existed in every single culture including the west, how do you fricks not know this?

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            welfare accessibility has fried your brain, buddy. food starts with agriculture, slaughtering animals for food was only done for celebrations and mostly a luxury only the rich could afford. a particularly dry year could mean mass starvation.

            pick up the book
            reject netflix

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >if i keep ignoring the actual subject and go on about some other shit i guess i wont look like the 80 iq moron that i am

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            shifting the goal posts doesn't work on me lmao. you try skipping between different eras of human social development to find a crumb of evidence for your whining, then jump onto the next when you fail.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            i'm not shifting the goalposts though, the timeperiod legit doesnt matter because dating only came into existence since like the 60s. before that it was all the same, communities organically socialized and people got together from a young age. thats my entire point, but you choose to ignore that because you are a moronic b***h and instead want to argue about mass famine being more common than you think it is.
            you are a stupid fricking Black person and probably a female aswell.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >organically socialized and people got together from a young age
            no. there was no highschool where kids socialized. social communities were very tightly-knit and nearly impossible to get into. social law was rigid. a random peasant won't marry the artisan's daughter etc.

            not bothering anymore with your poor shitposting, but once and for all:
            >QUIT THE HOLLYWOOD JUICE

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            you would be born into said "tightly-knit" social community, fricking dumbass

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >lso arranged marriages have existed in every single culture including the west, how do you fricks not know this?
            BECAUSE IT HASN'T BEEN A THING FOR OVER 700 YEARS YOU STONEHENGE WIZARD

            >300 years ago
            [...]
            >up until 1960s
            can we narrow this down a bit please?

            [...]
            >why do you even need a precise date thats not how culture works moron.
            because some people are saying 300 years ago something people are saying it was before Disco became popular.

            how do you think people got together before the industrial revolution?
            just answer the question.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            depends on the social standing of the people.
            >nobility: arranged marriage
            >peasants: partially arranged between families of good standing; bottom tier humans either just met up and decided to stick together or, more likely, there's +1 single mom in the world

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            actually you're wrong they all had tinder profiles 300 years ago because in the medieval 1920s they all had mass famines every year that killed millions of people

            >t. smartest troony on /adv/

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            People didn't hook up on tinder but there was still an element of courtship. Ironically more about charming a girl's dad than charming the girl herself.

            you would be born into said "tightly-knit" social community, fricking dumbass

            You would still be autistic.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >lso arranged marriages have existed in every single culture including the west, how do you fricks not know this?
            BECAUSE IT HASN'T BEEN A THING FOR OVER 700 YEARS YOU STONEHENGE WIZARD

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >people didnt "date" in the past but simply got married naturally
            What years precisely was this

            >arranged marriage
            >married naturally
            goodmorning sirs

            >these people think 300 years ago people went on "dates"

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            >300 years ago

            up until 1960s like half of the population was still rural even in western europe, i know what im talking about, the industrial revolution didn't happen overnight and neither did urbanization.

            >up until 1960s
            can we narrow this down a bit please?

            this post is so ironic and dumb since you buy the idea that life before corn syrup was hell and civilization ending famine was around the corner every year, which you get from hollywood, ofcourse you ignore the actual point being made and just act like a c**t feeling challenged on something you clearly know nothing about
            its insane how different the world would be if dumbasses would have the slightest bit of knowledge of history.
            [...]
            why do you even need a precise date thats not how culture works moron. dating is a post-industrial concept, also arranged marriages have existed in every single culture including the west, how do you fricks not know this?

            >why do you even need a precise date thats not how culture works moron.
            because some people are saying 300 years ago something people are saying it was before Disco became popular.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            what the frick does it matter?
            see

            [...]
            [...]
            how do you think people got together before the industrial revolution?
            just answer the question.

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            you can blame hollywood dramas set in the middle ages for that. nobody would buy tickets to see a lad grow up into finally being a respectable person of his community, i. e. a craftsman of some sort, until he's finally able to get matched up with a woman of suitable standing due to her family. too complicated and lacking in romance for the masses, ya know.

  10. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Requirements lol

    I see literal homeless vagrant crackheads with gfs, man there are no requirements

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >WHY DONT YOU JUST BECOME A HOMELESS CRACKHEAD? THEY GET LAID?!

      • 1 month ago
        Anonymous

        Why dont you adjust your expectations like a homeless crackhead and take what you can get instead of worrying about having the right requirements like you're going on an mmo raid

        • 1 month ago
          Anonymous

          your argument is literally if you're an average guy "then why don't you just settle for a homeless crackhead"?
          the "just lower your standards bro" is so out of touch and dead its not even funny, there is even a scientific study on this showing self-proclaimed incels have lower standards than average

          • 1 month ago
            Anonymous

            Yes you should settle for a crackhead

  11. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    so fricking adapt

    There are plenty of guys who use instagram as a dating app. I know a guy who's in a 3 year relationship because he added every catholic girl in his hometown and dm'd them until he found a date.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      This anon is right. You have to be someone's type and you need to ask them out. That's all.

      No but if you want a "trad wife" like every anon on NSFFW memes on about, do you really think you're gonna find her at a bar?

      I'm 40 now and don't match with young girls anymore, but the truth is there aren't any in the 18-22 range, which is college age. They are on facebook, instagram, etc.

      Most women on dating apps are now those getting desperate approaching their 30's and those already in their 30's who are approaching 40. It's really ogre out there.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      I think that's the crux of the issue: they don't want to adapt. They're content with b***hing and moaning in communities like this one because it's a hell of a lot easier to them than coming out of their comfort zone to make an effort to compete. And heaven forbid they actually get rejected even once: they go in to full shutdown mode and get completely discouraged at the slightest setback. Young men today are totally happy with making excuses and citing muh data about how hard they have it when in reality woman are giving away pussy at a higher rate than ever.

  12. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    [...]

    The fact you prioritize good looks at all is 100% your own fault

  13. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    Life isn't a videogame with prerequisite stats like "you must have xx strength to equip."

    There's material value and immaterial value. A house, car, income, sure that helps, but you also have to be someone who makes her feel emotions, someone who makes her feel safe, someone who makes her have fun. If you can get a girl to feel like her life is more enjoyable when you're in it, it doesn't matter if you take the city bus.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      >you also have to be someone who makes her feel emotions, someone who makes her feel safe, someone who makes her have fun. If you can get a girl to feel like her life is more enjoyable when you're in it, it doesn't matter if you take the city bus.
      That sounds like friend-zone city. I know hundreds of guys who were like this to a girls and never got anything back from them.

  14. 1 month ago
    Anonymous

    It literelly comes down to just verbal communication in school setting or through mutual friends (at parties and such)

    everything else is complete lie. that's all it takes and all that matters.

  15. 1 month ago
    Seanonymous

    Emotional intelligence or dumb luck and meeting someone in the right phase of their life. Grooming and hygiene. The ability to show interest but not too much, and to tease.

    • 1 month ago
      Anonymous

      Don't forget you must actually choose and ask if a gf too.

  16. 1 month ago
    MKG

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